Sexual addiction

[tenni]

Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.
For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape.
.................................................. .................................................. .................................................. ..............................

At what point would you designate that a person is a compulsive masturbator or extensive use of pornography, phone or computer sex services?

Some of the behaviour may last for weeks. Some may last months.

Have you become aware of a bisexual friend that transitioned from what you would consider acceptable self sexual interest to a compulsion?

Did the person focus on one gender or both to excess?

When for you is porn too much? Did porn ever interfere with your day to day life?

[pole_smoker]

Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.
For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape.
.................................................. .................................................. .................................................. ..............................

At what point would you designate that a person is a compulsive masturbator or extensive use of pornography, phone or computer sex services?

Some of the behaviour may last for weeks. Some may last months.

Have you become aware of a bisexual friend that transitioned from what you would consider acceptable self sexual interest to a compulsion?

Did the person focus on one gender or both to excess?

When for you is porn too much? Did porn ever interfere with your day to day life?
Since you did ask...I find porn to be boring and don't masturbate to it, never really got into phone sex, and while I have a high sex drive and so does my partner we just have sex with each other or masturbate both together and alone.

I do know a bisexual man who got addicted to paying for sex with female strippers who are whores, and spending money on whores while drunk, bored, horny, or on drugs and he's married.

I haven't had contact with him for decades...so I have no idea if he ever got help for his addictions or not?

[Melody Dean]

I am a sex addict.

I wondered for a while if I was a sex addict, a nymphomaniac, something else, or if they were different things at all. I've heard different definitions, opposite definitions. Some say that one or the other means they no longer enjoy sex, and that is definitely NOT the case with me.

I think the addiction is multifaceted though, not just one thing. When it comes to sex, I like the endorphin rush. In some situations, there's also an adrenaline rush that intensifies the feeling. Also, having an orgasm is pleasurable. On top of all of this is a need to feel desired, and perhaps a bit of wanting the attention.



At what point would you designate that a person is a compulsive masturbator or extensive use of pornography, phone or computer sex services?

When it interferes in day to day life. For example, masturbating at work or a public place. Or masturbating to the point to cause personal bodily harm (for example, chafing or muscle soreness).



Have you become aware of a bisexual friend that transitioned from what you would consider acceptable self sexual interest to a compulsion?

I am the type of bisexual that gives others a bad name. I am attracted to the sex more than the gender. When some people think of bisexuals who are hypersexed, I unfortunately fit into that stereotype.



Did the person focus on one gender or both to excess?

To be crude... While I prefer men, I do not need a cock to get off. I also find many women to be beautiful.



When for you is porn too much? Did porn ever interfere with your day to day life?
I look at porn at work. I have Tumblr installed on my phone and have a Tumblr account dedicated to porn. I sometimes browse it when in a public place. I have looked at porn while sitting next to someone who I would not want them to know that I am looking at porn.

While I'm pretty open in general, this is pretty out there, even for me. Please be nice.

[BiFiHotspot]

There are far wprse things to be addicted to in this world than a intense craving for sexual attention and contact.I think everyone of us has some measure of addiction in our lives if we care to admit it or not.

[pole_smoker]

Melody Dean-Were you diagnosed by a professional as being addicted to sex, or is this a self diagnosis?

[Melody Dean]

There are far wprse things to be addicted to in this world than a intense craving for sexual attention and contact.I think everyone of us has some measure of addiction in our lives if we care to admit it or not.

I do think you're right there. There are addictive and compulsive tendencies to everyone to some degree, but some of those things are socially acceptable, while others aren't.

[Melody Dean]

Melody Dean-Were you diagnosed by a professional as being addicted to sex, or is this a self diagnosis?

Self diagnosis. Professionals disagree on whether sex addiction is a real thing. Many think an intense craving for sex is just a symptom of an underlying issue, and I don't disagree with that. It's not officially listed in the book on mental disorders.