NICEST THING A LOVER HAS DONE FOR YOU

[tenni]

What is the nicest non sex based thing that a lover (male or female) has done for you?

Did you let them know how you felt about it?

Did you reciprocate in some manner?

[pole_smoker]

This thread has already been made.

Next time UTFSE.

http://www.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?16661-Hottest-thing-you-ve-ever-had-done-to-you-during-sex-or-done-to-someone&highlight=hottest

[tenni]

Reading skills are in need of improvement by one poster.

"Hottest thing you've ever had done to you during sex or done to someone?" is far from "the Nicest non sexual based thing that a lover(male or female) has done for you?

Nice is not a synonym for "hottest".

[Bellonya]

Can I say the nicest thing I've did? Or it doesn't count? :P
If the answer is yes, I guess it would've been talking with my ex-bf parents, and making them realize that him being bi didn't change who he was... Basically I just went and told his dad "he just want to be accepted and loved, is that so wrong?".
And nicest thing... supporting me while I was struggling with life, and with an ed, staying by my side and just... lendind his hand when I needed it. And yeah, I always tell him how much I appreciate it <3

[Gearbox]

One day when I got back from the shop, my partner organised my sock draw.:love:
He's done loads of other things, but that stuck out as something which was a real trivial pain to do (for me) and not in the slightest bit like a romantic gesture. That made it all the more 'NICE'. Nobody in the world would ever think of doing that for me, not even me. But he did.:bowdown:

Yes I did tell him how that made me feel, not that I could do a good job of it. So YES, I returned the favour with passion, before finding other non-sexual ways to return it.YAY!

[darkeyes]

Forgave me for being a right cow..

[Gearbox]

Forgave me for being a right cow..
We all forgive you that every day.:bigrin:

[darkeyes]

We all forgive you that every day.:bigrin:
Aaaaawwwwwww... u r luffly... cheeky bugger..:tongue::love87:

[charles-smythe]

What is the nicest non sex based thing that a lover (male or female) has done for you?

Did you let them know how you felt about it?

Did you reciprocate in some manner?...squirted all over my face when I ate her pussy...I've been fortunate to have 3 squirters in my lf..

[pole_smoker]

...squirted all over my face when I ate her pussy...I've been fortunate to have 3 squirters in my lf..
Are you sure it wasn't piss? Have you ever had a woman piss on you?

I've eaten women's cunts and loved it but I never had a squirter.

Can you please post some pics here, of women pissing v.s. squirting?

[charles-smythe]

Are you sure it wasn't piss? Have you ever had a woman piss on you?

I've eaten women's cunts and loved it but I never had a squirter.

Can you please post some pics here, of women pissing v.s. squirting?...there was a world of difference between the taste of the squirt fluid & piss...1 of the girls knew she was a squirter...the other 2 didn't...my pussy eating caused them both for the first time...it scared them until I calmed them down & explained what it was...after that they wanted me to keep my face between their legs 24/7...its like when a guy has his first orgasm...he wants a million more & can't keep his hand out of his pants...

[pole_smoker]

...there was a world of difference between the taste of the squirt fluid & piss...1 of the girls knew she was a squirter...the other 2 didn't...my pussy eating caused them both for the first time...it scared them until I calmed them down & explained what it was...after that they wanted me to keep my face between their legs 24/7...its like when a guy has his first orgasm...he wants a million more & can't keep his hand out of his pants...
Are these women pissing? Or squirting?

http://img.anyporn.com/videos_screenshots/0/553/preview.mp4.jpg

https://smutty.com/media_smutty/p/r/e/t/b/pretyboi254-srvdw-fa84aa.jpg

http://e3.tns4.com/3d/33/3d337b05.jpg

http://fap.to/images/41/2132193157/fetish-porn/Women-pissing-on-themselves-2.jpg

http://p.im9.eu/trio-3-women-pissing-12-fully-dressed-and-in-lingerie.jpg

[charles-smythe]

Are these women pissing? Or squirting?

http://img.anyporn.com/videos_screenshots/0/553/preview.mp4.jpg

https://smutty.com/media_smutty/p/r/e/t/b/pretyboi254-srvdw-fa84aa.jpg

http://e3.tns4.com/3d/33/3d337b05.jpg

http://fap.to/images/41/2132193157/fetish-porn/Women-pissing-on-themselves-2.jpg

http://p.im9.eu/trio-3-women-pissing-12-fully-dressed-and-in-lingerie.jpg...pissing...

[pole_smoker]

...pissing...
OK thanks can you find some images of women actually squirting and post them here? I did a search on google for "women squirting" and those pics came up.

[tenni]

Lovely stories Belonia, Gear and dark eyes!

[chances]

sharing themselves with me and myself return

[OlderBC1]

My wife squirted when I was eating her pussy a couple times. Squirting doesn't have much volume. Since a girl's clit is like a little cock, it's sortya like us cuming, just different...a little. I bent my wife over the edge of the bed when we were young & fucked her in the ass for the first time. My buddy laid there naked watching us, so I had him kneel on the edge of the bed so I could suck his big headed cock hard. I then had him fuck me in the ass the first time while my wife got her first time from me. I couldn't stop from moaning as my ass loosened up for him to fuck me harder like I was doing to her. Just in a rhythm. He shot his cum up my virgin ass & I came soon after in her pretty ass. Feklt great feeling his big throbbing cock cuming in my ass. Last time I saw him he admitted he stilll has to gwet naked in the bathroom to jack off thinking about use sucking each others cocks & fucking. Gotta look him up & do it again soon...

[pole_smoker]

My wife squirted when I was eating her pussy a couple times. Squirting doesn't have much volume. Since a girl's clit is like a little cock, it's sortya like us cuming, just different...a little. I bent my wife over the edge of the bed when we were young & fucked her in the ass for the first time. My buddy laid there naked watching us, so I had him kneel on the edge of the bed so I could suck his big headed cock hard. I then had him fuck me in the ass the first time while my wife got her first time from me. I couldn't stop from moaning as my ass loosened up for him to fuck me harder like I was doing to her. Just in a rhythm. He shot his cum up my virgin ass & I came soon after in her pretty ass. Feklt great feeling his big throbbing cock cuming in my ass. Last time I saw him he admitted he stilll has to gwet naked in the bathroom to jack off thinking about use sucking each others cocks & fucking. Gotta look him up & do it again soon...
Did he fuck you up the ass recently? Was it gross when he ejaculated in your ass?

[liberlib]

What is the nicest non sex based thing that a lover (male or female) has done for you?

Did you let them know how you felt about it?

Did you reciprocate in some manner?

I hadn't seen this string before and it is a challenging question (Tenni's original question and not the later perversions).

When I tried to list them, the one that kept coming up to the top of the list was:

Cuddling up to me, head on my shoulder, and thanking me for something I did for her.

-It doesn't always lead to sex and it doesn't need to for it to be enjoyable.
-It involves a shared consideration for each other
-It involves a simple, but shared appreciation for the other
-When it does lead to making love, the best times are not 'hot' or intense but are deeply satisfying and make a later, more intense lovemaking exercise more complete.

As a bi-male, I have not found that in male lovers. We don't seem to be able to show that level of tenderness. But I realized that is something that I am looking for a LTR.

Have you said thank you and showed you meant it recently to your lover?

[tenni]

I hadn't seen this string before and it is a challenging question (Tenni's original question and not the later perversions).

When I tried to list them, the one that kept coming up to the top of the list was:

Cuddling up to me, head on my shoulder, and thanking me for something I did for her.

-It doesn't always lead to sex and it doesn't need to for it to be enjoyable.
-It involves a shared consideration for each other
-It involves a simple, but shared appreciation for the other
-When it does lead to making love, the best times are not 'hot' or intense but are deeply satisfying and make a later, more intense lovemaking exercise more complete.

As a bi-male, I have not found that in male lovers. We don't seem to be able to show that level of tenderness. But I realized that is something that I am looking for a LTR.

Have you said thank you and showed you meant it recently to your lover?


Great insight liberto.
Sharing yourself intimately with another person is a nice thing to give to your lover and receive these indication of caring.

Your other point about finding male lovers who are into more intimate times with each other is an interesting reality for some bisexual men. The reasons may vary but for bisexuals who are attracted emotionally as well as sexually the difference becomes more obvious as we mature.

[tenni]

OlderBC1

I think that your post 17 is off topic of this thread. The trolls have confused you.


It was to be non sexual nice things that you lover has don let alone non kink. I agree that the intimacy aspect can be seen as nice and tenderness give or received may be seen as non sexual as in lust, kink or perversion.

I agree with the inference by liberto that bisexuals are not limited to perversion . We look for relating and doing nice things for each other and our partners regardless of gender.

[pole_smoker]

OlderBC1

I think that your post 17 is off topic of this thread. The trolls have confused you.


It was to be non sexual nice things that you lover has don let alone non kink. I agree that the intimacy aspect can be seen as nice and tenderness give or received may be seen as non sexual as in lust, kink or perversion.

I agree with the inference by liberto that bisexuals are not limited to perversion . We look for relating and doing nice things for each other and our partners regardless of gender.
Charles and myself are not "trolls".

If you however want to see a troll in every sense of the word look in a mirror.

My post about squirting is not off topic at all.

[cuttin2dachase]

Having breakfast in bed served by female lovers after a night of hot sex stands out as quite special. As for male lovers, it was an unexpected, but pleasant surprise when a guy brought a nice bottle of wine or a 12 pack of my favorite beer when they came to my place. One married boyfriend worked for a public relations firm. He would give me a handful of free passes to various movies, concerts, athletic events, etc. as well as complementary cash vouchers for area restaurants. They really appreciated my being able and eager to host them fairly regularly, so I suppose my "hospitality" was my gift to them LOL.

[tenni]

cuttin2dachase
Lucky you with a guy lover who can lay tickets, passes on you. :) I had a guy lover who would bring special booze to my place. It was the thought that counted as my tastes in booze did not always match his.

[OlderBC1]

Did he fuck you up the ass recently? Was it gross when he ejaculated in your ass?
Not recently & no.

OlderBC1

I think that your post 17 is off topic of this thread. The trolls have confused you.
Excuse me...I mighta been off a little in what I thought to add to the conversation. My bad everybody. but hell, it is my birthday today...so let's all drink to the death of a clown...


It was to be non sexual nice things that you lover has don let alone non kink. I agree that the intimacy aspect can be seen as nice and tenderness give or received may be seen as non sexual as in lust, kink or perversion.

I agree with the inference by liberto that bisexuals are not limited to perversion . We look for relating and doing nice things for each other and our partners regardless of gender.
My bad...I guess I was off a little in what I figured the full scope of the thread would be. But hell, it is my birthday today. Kinda tough when old friends are scattered to the 4 winds, parents & home gone, etc. Then people who made light of you in high school get all lovey-dovey nowadays. Especially when 40th reunion is near.

[pole_smoker]

Not recently & no.
Are you craving his cock and cum up your ass? Did that hurt you?

[OlderBC1]

Sometimes, yeah. I wonder if sometimes it's just thinking back to what if, not enough, whatever? These involvees, as it were, were close friends.

[pole_smoker]

Sometimes, yeah. I wonder if sometimes it's just thinking back to what if, not enough, whatever? These involvees, as it were, were close friends.
Maybe instead you should just find a random guy? I'm not a bottom and I've never bottomed and don't want to.

[tenni]

Happy Birthday Olderbc!!!!!!

[Michellem4il219]

This is sexually related, but not sexual per se. My lover took me to hdporn-sites.org (http://hdporn-sites.org) and let me pick 3 sites that she then paid the membership fees for. Now that was nice!

[Melody Dean]

I am so spoiled, my husband does so many nice things for me, I have a hard time picking a "nicest." It just lots of little things, like picking me wildflowers when he takes a walk. Or picking up a bottle of wine for me when he goes to the store. Or surprising me with a made from scratch supper waiting for me when I get home from work. Or making me jewelry. Or drawing me cards for special occasions, or love notes for no occasion at all. I really am a lucky woman.

[OlderBC1]

Did he fuck you up the ass recently? Was it gross when he ejaculated in your ass?
By the way, when I used the term, " squirting", I meant that stuff called, " lady cum"...kinda slightly milky colored & sweet.

[DrBimind]

I am so spoiled, my husband does so many nice things for me, I have a hard time picking a "nicest." It just lots of little things, like picking me wildflowers when he takes a walk. Or picking up a bottle of wine for me when he goes to the store. Or surprising me with a made from scratch supper waiting for me when I get home from work. Or making me jewelry. Or drawing me cards for special occasions, or love notes for no occasion at all. I really am a lucky woman.

am I'm sure he feels like the lucky his is as well...

[OlderBC1]

To answer the question more directly, My wife & I used to out-do each other on Valentine's, Sweetest day, Christmas & the like. But the two lover's holidays most of all. she bought me a Palmer Stratocaster once, black with bwb pickguard. It is now my Bastardized Frankenstein, with Sperzel tuners, Seymour Duncan hot rails, I frets filed down like Hendrix did his. I then bought her a Ford Probe 5-speed in cardinal red another time. We used to do that kinda stuff when we were both working. I loved it, it was fun. Then, I found this cool ring wrap for her diamond solitaire that looked like emerald leaves with diamond buds, the whole looking like a white rose!

[softheart]

My "on the road" boyfriend did something special for me. We usually play it pretty straight out in the world, keeping our gay relationship quiet.

I was really bummed out about an encounter with a customer.

So I was sulking about waiting for him - we get adjoining rooms - he finally comes home and rather than do reports for an hour, he came into my room and asked me "What's the matter? You know I still love you, honey!" I melted. I smiled. I needed that.

He told me to put my panties on under my slacks and we went to dinner in a gay friendly restaurant. We weren't kissing or holding hands or anything, just being "out" together made it all good. Later that night he asked me to wear the nighty he bought me last trip to bed. We took our time, he sucked me for a bit but I really wanted him inside me. In a very short time he was fucking me six ways to Christmas, and we were in a passionate kiss as he came. That night, we slept in the same bed rather than in our separate rooms as we usually do.

That was really sweet of him.