Bisexual status update

[dseven]

Hi everyone, dseven here...
So, I broke up with my girlfriend, after three years...
On the other hand, I started seeing my ex boyfriend again, the one that was my boyfriend whilst I had a girlfriend, both of them knew each other and they are actually good friends.

The thing is that, after everything, after finding this beautiful girl that understands me, and loves me unconditionally and this boy that sees me as noone has ever seen me before. This people that make me feel so special, and yet I can't feel..
I feel numb, I feel like I can't be with anyone, I still have sexual desires and I miss them, but not as I used to.

Why is it so hard being bisexual? I hate being in the middle of everything...
I feel like everyone loves in a different way than I do, and that I won't ever be able to actually settle on anyone or anytwo for that matter.

Sorry about this post, I'm kinda drunk and I just needed to let things out...
Anything that anybody can say will be helpful.

Thanks.
Hugs,
Dseven

[pole_smoker]

Your now ex GF posted on here that she cares about you, loves you, and did not like sharing you with your gay male fuck buddy.

IMO you should have stayed with your GF as your relationship with your gay male fuckbuddy is not going to last.

[dseven]

It didn't. We still see each other, but we are not boyfriends, and the same applies to my now ex gf...

[pole_smoker]

It didn't. We still see each other, but we are not boyfriends, and the same applies to my now ex gf...
OK.

Why did you break up with your GF then???

Or was it because she did she not want you to be in an open relationship?

You didn't write in your original post that you broke up with your gay male fuck buddy; but just that you had broken up with the GF; but you did post how you're drunk. Just enjoy being single now.

[dseven]

OK.

Why did you break up with your GF then???

Or was it because she did she not want you to be in an open relationship?

You didn't write in your original post that you broke up with your gay male fuck buddy; but just that you had broken up with the GF; but you did post how you're drunk. Just enjoy being single now.

Hi, sober now...
I broke up with my girlfriend because I felt like I couldn't be in a relationship, I feel emotionally numb, I cannot connect with the other person and some things that shouldn't bother me annoy me to no end. I'm currently going to a shrink because of this and other things that fuck with my mind and I'm also taking anti depressants, fluoxetine to be precise.

Dunno, I just hope that with time I get my marbles in order...

Thanks
Hugs,
Dseven

[charles-smythe]

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...good luck...
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[dseven]

Thanks,
I just hope I can figure this out and that it won't be too late when I do...

[AGuyIKnow]

Clearly you're still in love with your GF. Stop being a jerk and go talk to her. Eat crow and apologize for being an ass and get it over with. It's not going to be easy but if you still want her, do it now and not later.

[tenni]

Hi Dseven
Sorry to read about your g/f separating from you. She certainly tried. I know that you have posted for a couple of years and have been getting some counselling support. Your g/f is a special woman. The internal conflict is strong and you have shared it with the site for a few years. At this point, I don't have much to offer as advice. AGuy has made a valid point but I don't think that your sexuality is that simple for you. You are still young and hopefully work something out. I think you g/f has gone for good though. I may be wrong. I suspect that pushing the open threesome aspect was too much for her. Sad.

[pole_smoker]

I suspect that pushing the open threesome aspect was too much for her. Sad.
Typical trolling Tenni, blaming the hetero woman for not wanting an open relationship with a bisexual man and for ending a relationship. :rolleyes:

[tenni]

Nonsense.
I was PM with her. I'm not blaming anyone. It has been a struggle for both of them. They are the sweetest couple on this site. She was one of the most open and caring women to post on this site. It is sad.

[charles-smythe]

Hi everyone, dseven here...
So, I broke up with my girlfriend, after three years...
On the other hand, I started seeing my ex boyfriend again, the one that was my boyfriend whilst I had a girlfriend, both of them knew each other and they are actually good friends.

The thing is that, after everything, after finding this beautiful girl that understands me, and loves me unconditionally and this boy that sees me as noone has ever seen me before. This people that make me feel so special, and yet I can't feel..
I feel numb, I feel like I can't be with anyone, I still have sexual desires and I miss them, but not as I used to.

Why is it so hard being bisexual? I hate being in the middle of everything...
I feel like everyone loves in a different way than I do, and that I won't ever be able to actually settle on anyone or anytwo for that matter.

Sorry about this post, I'm kinda drunk and I just needed to let things out...
Anything that anybody can say will be helpful.

Thanks.
Hugs,
Dseven
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...being bi sexual isn't hard...you're just making it hard by over thinking it...relax and have a little fun...suck a dick or two...and remember that just because you suck a guy's doesn't mean that you're in a relationship with him...it just means that you're having a little fun...

[tenni]

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...being bi sexual isn't hard...you're just making it hard by over thinking it...relax and have a little fun...suck a dick or two...and remember that just because you suck a guy's doesn't mean that you're in a relationship with him...it just means that you're having a little fun...

Based on what dsev posted over the past few years, he is not looking for what you are looking for. He was in two relationships with an emotional love base at nearly the same time. He has been torn by being in love with both a woman and a man.

Have you been in a relationship with a man and woman at the same time charles? You seem to be looking at a bisexual issue from a dismissive monosexual same sex or gay perspective?

[pole_smoker]

Based on what dsev posted over the past few years, he is not looking for what you are looking for. He was in two relationships with an emotional love base at nearly the same time. He has been torn by being in love with both a woman and a man.

Have you been in a relationship with a man and woman at the same time charles? You seem to be looking at a bisexual issue from a dismissive monosexual same sex or gay perspective?
Dsev had a girlfriend, and his fuck buddy/side piece was a gay man.

Charles isn't doing anything about looking at anything from LMAO a "dismissive monosexual same sex or gay perspective" or whatever professional victim nonsense you love to troll on about.

[tenni]

Pole Sweet Richard Cranium ..;) :love87:
You joined the site in August 2014. Dseven has been sharing his struggle three years before you even joined.

Are you admitting that you are a troll who has been invading this site for years..of course you will not. Reading the site for three years before you actually joined? Ya that will work for Obi wan....

For others Alex will clarify but I think that he had emotional attachment to this guy or another guy maybe even before he met his g/f. Obi wan ..Richard Cranium's rants have little to do with Dseven's delimna.

[pole_smoker]

Pole Sweet Richard Cranium ..;) :love87:
You joined the site in August 2014. Dseven has been sharing his struggle three years before you even joined.

Are you admitting that you are a troll who has been invading this site for years..of course you will not. Reading the site for three years before you actually joined? Ya that will work for Obi wan....

For others Alex will clarify but I think that he had emotional attachment to this guy or another guy maybe even before he met his g/f. Obi wan ..Richard Cranium's rants have little to do with Dseven's delimna.
There's something called the "search function" that's very easy to use that allows you to read all the posts someone here has posted. :rolleyes:

Way to be a total queen as you usually are.

[charles-smythe]

Based on what dsev posted over the past few years, he is not looking for what you are looking for. He was in two relationships with an emotional love base at nearly the same time. He has been torn by being in love with both a woman and a man.

Have you been in a relationship with a man and woman at the same time charles? You seem to be looking at a bisexual issue from a dismissive monosexual same sex or gay perspective?...yes...I'm 70 years old...there is very little I have done or see...

[charles-smythe]

...tenni...why are you so disrespectful to the other members?...even if you didn't like my advice...that's what it was my advice based on years of experience at this stuff...

[pole_smoker]

Pole Sweet Richard Cranium ..;) :love87:
You joined the site in August 2014. Dseven has been sharing his struggle three years before you even joined.

Are you admitting that you are a troll who has been invading this site for years..of course you will not. Reading the site for three years before you actually joined? Ya that will work for Obi wan....

For others Alex will clarify but I think that he had emotional attachment to this guy or another guy maybe even before he met his g/f. Obi wan ..Richard Cranium's rants have little to do with Dseven's delimna.
As usual you're just being a drama queen, and a troll. The ignore feature works best on people like you.

[tenni]

No disrespect intended Charles. You are not Dseven. He is something like 24. Dseven has not seen what you have seen and he is struggling emotionally. He doesn't need to be encouraged to act like you. Actually, Charles you are coming across as radical same sex sexually .. kinda perverted imo. That is fine for you but ridiculous advice for a young sweet man who is looking for emotional support.

[charles-smythe]

No disrespect intended Charles. You are not Dseven. He is something like 24. Dseven has not seen what you have seen and he is struggling emotionally. He doesn't need to be encouraged to act like you. Actually, Charles you are coming across as radical same sex sexually .. kinda perverted imo. That is fine for you but ridiculous advice for a young sweet man who is looking for emotional support....actually I've had twice as many girlfriends as guys...of course the guys were never more than suck buddies...if I never saw them again it was no lose...there were always married guys out there at wanted their dick sucked...I lived with one bi sexual girl that was homophobic...I use to delight in stopping at the bookstore and sucking several dicks and then going home and giving her a big open mouthed kiss...I always wondered if he could smell and taste their cum in my mouth...lol...

[pole_smoker]

...actually I've had twice as many girlfriends as guys...of course the guys were never more than suck buddies...if I never saw them again it was no lose...there were always married guys out there at wanted their dick sucked...I lived with one bi sexual girl that was homophobic...I use to delight in stopping at the bookstore and sucking several dicks and then going home and giving her a big open mouthed kiss...I always wondered if he could smell and taste their cum in my mouth...lol...
How was that woman homophobic? It's entirely possible for someone to be bisexual and yet still be homophobic as that's what Tenni is, as he frequently posts BS about how much he does not like gay men or lesbians, or even will claim that bisexual people he doesn't like must be actually gay men, or lesbian women claiming they're the "enemy" of bisexuals or other nonsense, but all this means is that he doesn't understand bisexuality, and is a bigoted troll. He also hates women and especially heterosexual women.

[charles-smythe]

How was that woman homophobic? It's entirely possible for someone to be bisexual and yet still be homophobic as that's what Tenni is, as he frequently posts BS about how much he does not like gay men or lesbians, or even will claim that bisexual people he doesn't like must be actually gay men, or lesbian women claiming they're the "enemy" of bisexuals or other nonsense, but all this means is that he doesn't understand bisexuality, and is a bigoted troll. He also hates women and especially heterosexual women....she'd eat a pussy in a new York minute...but to quote her..."guys sucking dick and swallowing cum was a abomination t go"...
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[tenni]

Trolls like to talk to themselves it seems.

[charles-smythe]

Trolls like to talk to themselves it seems....who's talking to themselves?...

[pole_smoker]

...who's talking to themselves?...
Only Tenni as that's what he frequently does. ;)