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cozyandcalm1
Mar 5, 2015, 3:48 PM
I am bi-cur and my wife loves it:)
She wants to watch me suck a cock, but I have never tried it, just fantasized with her about it. Any suggestions...should I try bi first without her being there, or should I do it only while she is a part of the scene? Any and all advice is welcome.

6mike1
Mar 5, 2015, 4:31 PM
WOW! You are one lucky guy. I wish my wife had that reaction as I would love for her to watch me suck cock. Given your situation I would have her along even if it was your first time. If she loves the idea let her part of it. I think that would work out best for you. Just my .02. :) Have fun with it...

2bi2Bboring
Mar 5, 2015, 4:58 PM
By all means let her watch you, she'll encourage you and probably get off while you do it. Go with the flow and let happen what may!

Gumby12
Mar 5, 2015, 5:48 PM
WOW! You are one lucky guy. I wish my wife had that reaction as I would love for her to watch me suck cock. Given your situation I would have her along even if it was your first time. If she loves the idea let her part of it. I think that would work out best for you. Just my .02. :) Have fun with it...
I agree, let her watch and look her eyes as you're doing it. You'll know for sure if she's getting into it.

sysper
Mar 5, 2015, 6:20 PM
i think it depends on u. if u actually want ur wife to be watching let her watch. but it might be too much for u, for her to be there. u should really think if u want some1 else there for a personal event like this even if it's ur wife. i';m not saying u should just be 1 on 1 with another guy ur 1st time, i don't know u. just consider it & make a good decision based on u. but if u decide to have ur wife watch either 1st time or netime, consider how much u would like her involved. even if u all talk about it before things could wind up happening. i'm talking about contact between ur wife & the other guy. not saying it's wrong but consider there will be alot of hormones raging in that room & that could lead to action that is based on lust not reason. if ur ok with that play on but if not make sure every1 involved knows what to expect & do ur best to be prepared with a plan.

abstractreality2
Mar 5, 2015, 6:55 PM
Dude, bask in the glory of how freakin' lucky you are! DEFINITELY include her on that initial voyage...

robert4friends
Mar 5, 2015, 7:38 PM
I think it would be a big mistake to do it without her there. It is her who loves you, not the fellow you will play with. You don't need to impress the guy. You will do just fine once you get started. Just remember what feels good to you and don't try too hard. Savor it, don't gobble it. Your wife may be into it at the moment but through the whole experience she will need reassurance of your love for her and that she can't be replaced in your life. That's just how women are. It sounds to me you have a woman the rest of us wish we had. Keep it that way. Keep her involved as much as she wants. Maybe she would help you pick someone to have your first time with. If she is into the guy also she is going to enjoy the experience also. Make it wonderful for her and she will want you to do it again.

bi_hungry_m
Mar 5, 2015, 9:41 PM
My wife loves the thought of me sucking a guy off and wants me to come home and tell her about it when it happens. She has face timed me at work and had me watch her playing with herself while fantasizing about me sucking cock. She swears she wants to be with me and share a cock, but she is incredibly self limiting in the situation / place she will go to. She wants it to happen at the club in New Orleans, but as is usually the case women eating pussy is acceptable; guys sucking cock is frowned upon.

Not trying to hi-jack the post, but I'm open to suggestions.

GettingThere
Mar 5, 2015, 10:51 PM
I went on a business trip to Mexico recently and added a few days for my own vacation. Wife was cool with that as I said I was going diving. While there I kinda got my freak on and played with a bunch of locals, including some ladies, some hot guys and a real cute tv named Pearla.

When I got back, my wife and I were in bed and she asked, " so, did you explore a bit?" I told her, yes I played with some boys and she said, "great, I was hoping you would"
So, yes, I am a very lucky dude; and now we're looking for friends to share times with.

pole_smoker
Mar 6, 2015, 1:18 AM
If you're really actually bisexual you'll be able to suck a man off without a woman or your wife there. Do it without her since you have an open relationship/open marriage and she wants you to have sex with a man.

charles-smythe
Mar 6, 2015, 4:33 AM
I am bi-cur and my wife loves it:)
She wants to watch me suck a cock, but I have never tried it, just fantasized with her about it. Any suggestions...should I try bi first without her being there, or should I do it only while she is a part of the scene? Any and all advice is welcome.
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...big mistake...she may think she wants to watch...but when she actually sees you it may be a different story...giving dick sucking a try is great but don't let her watch...the of you can watch a lot of gay porn for a while...then once she's use to seeing a guy with a dick in his mouth it might be a different story...

Realist
Mar 6, 2015, 8:49 AM
I disagree, Charles. It doesn't look like Cozy's getting mixed signals, here. She seems to be specific in her interests and those desires haven't gone away...like a whim may have.

I agree she may change her mind, after the fact, but until they experiment, neither of them will know how they will feel, afterwards.

If it was my situation, I'd find someone safe and sane, then explore this thing, together.

If they both find they enjoy it, fine...if not, just mark it up to a learning experience!

cbj4162
Mar 6, 2015, 10:25 AM
Oh yeah ....... Go for it!! and let her watch/join, definitely with her. :)

Oscarmeyer
Mar 29, 2015, 4:13 PM
Damn that sounds hot. I am a bi-curious single man in Dayton, oh. I have not had a chance to try a cock but I think it would be awesome to get encouragement from a woman and help to follow through. The idea of a woman smiling and gently pushing me head to a hard cock gets me hard as hell. Her encouraging me to take the load of cum in my mouth . . .sublime.

pole_smoker
Mar 29, 2015, 4:23 PM
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...big mistake...she may think she wants to watch...but when she actually sees you it may be a different story...giving dick sucking a try is great but don't let her watch...the of you can watch a lot of gay porn for a while...then once she's use to seeing a guy with a dick in his mouth it might be a different story...
Exactly. Do it without her the first time, and if you're actually bisexual you should be comfortable enough to suck a dick or have sex with a man without a woman there.

charles-smythe
Mar 29, 2015, 8:11 PM
I am bi-cur and my wife loves it:)
She wants to watch me suck a cock, but I have never tried it, just fantasized with her about it. Any suggestions...should I try bi first without her being there, or should I do it only while she is a part of the scene? Any and all advice is welcome....so let her...

Garvin Gray
Mar 30, 2015, 1:33 AM
I'm no longer married, but I would have loved to have my wife watch me suck a cock, or get fucked in my ass. The closest thing we ever came to was me describing (at the time) the only time I sucked a cock and was fucked. And we would fantasize whuile having sex that I was sucking or being fucked by a big hard cock. She would describe the cock in great detail.

Garvin

ohbimale
Mar 30, 2015, 2:17 AM
Do what your wife wants and have a happy marriage.

Grub Worm
Mar 30, 2015, 6:35 AM
my wife asked if i would suck a dick in front of her, we were 22 at the time. about a year later it happened, it was the start of many blow jobs and then having great sex with her after.

bi4asplay
Mar 30, 2015, 9:33 AM
I am bi-cur and my wife loves it:)
She wants to watch me suck a cock, but I have never tried it, just fantasized with her about it. Any suggestions...should I try bi first without her being there, or should I do it only while she is a part of the scene? Any and all advice is welcome.


You are a lucky man. I have been BI for a lot of years. My late wife got it started and we found that we loved it. Do go for it, but never without her a part of your play. A good way to build a wall and turn her against it. You are a couple. Play only that way and stay a couple. No reason for hard feelings when you play together. The best of luck to you. Have fun.

Biintraining
Mar 30, 2015, 9:41 AM
I would say that it is your two's fantasy not just yours. If it is going to be enjoyed you should include her in everything. You were open enough to let your wife on your desire to suck a cock. She also was open enough to let you openly talk abut it and she returned that with her own open fantasy. Why would you want to bring distrust to such an open and trusting. I would have her help find the guy she is comfortable with as well. If it is no fun for both of you it is not worth the risk to the love already in your life.

cfr50s
Mar 30, 2015, 2:31 PM
If I was in your shoes I would ask her if she wanted to be there. Years ago I went through this exact same thing with my wife. My wife had watched guys suck each other off and was naked with them but not actually involved. That did nothing for her at all. She asked me if I would suck another guy while she watched and her have the option of joining in if she wanted to. It took a few months but it finally happened. She has no problem with me blowing a friend whether she is there or not, but the first time she wanted to be there. We seldom play alone as we enjoy watching each other with men or women as we are both bisexual and playing together as a team. We feel that a couple who plays together stays together. We also see sex as an extension of friendship. Friends go bowling or to a movie or out to eat etc. why not enjoy sex together?

like2bepegged
Mar 30, 2015, 6:48 PM
My wife wants to watch me as well. We are both lucky men. I would have her there when u do it, otherwise she could have a problem with it. Hope u have a great experience.

Outofthis99999
May 16, 2016, 11:43 AM
Damn that sounds hot. I am a bi-curious single man in Dayton, oh. I have not had a chance to try a cock but I think it would be awesome to get encouragement from a woman and help to follow through. The idea of a woman smiling and gently pushing me head to a hard cock gets me hard as hell. Her encouraging me to take the load of cum in my mouth . . .sublime.
im from Dayton too... Hmmm

OlderBC1
May 16, 2016, 12:29 PM
We had a threesome back in our twenties with a neighbor, who wound up my close buddy. He'd asked my wife when we were all in bed if she thought I'd suck his cock, & she said she'd like to see that! so I sucked him hard, he fucked her pussy while I fucked him in the ass. She made me lick & suck his cum out of her pussy. Damn, that was hot! He reciprocated by sucking me off. He really could suck a cock hard! He sucked my cock head so hard, it sprang up hard in a second! We kept getting each other really hard by sucking each other's cocks to give my little love a proper fucking! So yes, you're better off including her & making it a positive experience!

Janis
Jun 3, 2016, 5:12 PM
That is exactly what is the great fear we have. We really don't know how our wives will react after actually seeing their husband become a cocksucker. We've seen own wives in so many different situations and have experienced their so many different reactions to things that it could alter the relationship. I would be afraid of losing her respect.

apantysnatcher
Jun 4, 2016, 12:49 PM
Yes certainly!!! First let her lead have her pick out the cock the place the time. Let her be in control. Her dream you curious. So yes both there u suck him hard with know she can join in at any time. Offer to suck hard know she will be fingering her pussy horny. Pull off and ask if she would like to enjoy that hard cock of his. She wants it lead his cock into her pussy. If not then suck him dry drinking it all down. At this point do not do it without her there. She trusts you so do not break tat trust. Go with the flow se what happens. Enjoy both your sexuality.

Waylon
Jun 5, 2016, 11:21 AM
My wife no longer plays but I have two girlfriends on the side, both of which tell me how much they get turned on watching 2 men blow each other. I have shown one of them with a guy I befriended on Craigs list and while I was blowing him, she took off her top and started playing with her pussy. When he knelt down and started sucking me off she went wild. When he took a break she was on my dick in a heartbeat while he stood by. I had her stop and turn her head so she could suck him which she did so greedily. Just before he was about to cum she fed me his cock and I took his load, opened my mouth to show her his cum and swallowed it down. She said next time, she wants me to snowball her with the load.

nafiens
Jun 5, 2016, 11:32 AM
That is so fucking hot. Makes my cock hard.

mr.beaver
Jun 7, 2016, 11:43 PM
I want my girlfriend to hold a hard black cock, while I suck on it. I want her to push my head down on it. Making me take more of it.

indenver_indenver
Jun 11, 2016, 4:09 PM
My wife let me know she wanted to see me suck a cock. So I found a guy we both thought was nice - tall, fit, clean and good natured. He had a wonderful long thick cock. She held his while I sucked it and when he got ready to cum she jerked him off into my mouth. Wow! It was so sexy to have my wife pumping the guy's sperm into my mouth. He visited us once for a long weekend and she jerked him off into my mouth several more times. Then, when he was gone away, I found another guy who was my regular for 5 years and she jerked him off as I sucked his cock. He liked to pull out of my mouth as he was cumming so she could see his cock shoot into my mouth. Yet another guy who had a real nice cock was about to cum when my wife got so hot she kissed his thigh and shouted, "Shoot it down his throat!" Then, one last time, I had a partner who would visit and stay all day so I could suck him off several times. She loved stroking his long cock as I sucked him off.

jokersmile
Jun 11, 2016, 5:51 PM
Do it you won't regret it have been doing it for years she just loves it

Mail4u
Jun 11, 2016, 10:34 PM
My wife has watched me sucking cock for several years and she loves it. She has also watched as a nice hard cock slide deep into my ass and fills me with warm, sweet cum. She has even brought a few of her work friends home for me to suck. I know just how lucky I am extremely happy she made the decision to watch - not me!:impleased

biNshy
Jun 12, 2016, 12:00 AM
I would love for one of my gfs to ask that

man4girlgirl4man
Jun 12, 2016, 12:30 AM
Yes you are a lucky man. My advice is do it the way she wants - ask if you and her should suck a dick together or if she thinks you should do it on your own first. This is my top unfulfilled sex fantasy. Have fun!

mr.beaver
Jun 12, 2016, 12:52 AM
Do while she is there,ask to help you,show what to do. She can call the shots telling you what to do directing you

OlderBC1
Jun 24, 2016, 7:53 AM
She used to love watching me suck him big & hard, then fuck him while she sucked my cock. As we get older, she's sort of lost that, or so she acts like? I'd love to get back to that. Some smooth, handsome cocks on here I'd like to share with her. It'd be hot to suck cock together, & me fucking her in her cute ass while he fucks me at the same time. She used to think that'd be so hot!

greg66
Jun 24, 2016, 6:21 PM
Hopefully by now you got to do it :) . I have done with a couple few months ago , she loved watching the boys together :) So love to do again soon

al_atlanta
Jul 7, 2016, 9:11 PM
Nice. Had a few threesomes with couples like you and would love to again.

MissRina
Jul 8, 2016, 6:34 PM
Speaking as a wife who loves watching her man suck a nice cock, don't do it alone, do it with her there. That way she can share with you the glory of the cock and cum too if shes into that.

swiingonby
Jul 10, 2016, 5:09 PM
Oh man, I wish I lived near you. My wife is way to uptight to even imagine me sucking cock, much less watching me as I sucked cock. It is a fantasy of mine to have a Woman watch I suck the cum from a nice hard cock.

swiingonby
Jul 10, 2016, 5:12 PM
IF you and your wife are ever in SF Bay Area let me know. I would love to have her watch as I give you a blow job.

dzamzi
Aug 7, 2016, 1:17 PM
You are the luckiest guy ever. I would kill to be in your position. I told my wife about my bisexuality and she doesn't want to hear it.

Outofthis99999
Aug 7, 2016, 1:37 PM
You are the luckiest guy ever. I would kill to be in your position. I told my wife about my bisexuality and she doesn't want to hear it.
My gf said the same thing. How often do you have urges?

bw299
Aug 9, 2016, 4:36 PM
You are so lucky! My 1st wife loved to watch and help me suck cock. This one wouldn't dream of it:(

nudist_60187
Aug 9, 2016, 5:39 PM
My ex-girlfriend Shirley wanted to watch me suck a cock so bad. It started when a male friend was over who was a nudist had us kiss but it never went anywhere further than that. Panda nudist resort she came back to the room with the young man and try to talk him into allowing me to give him head he refused but she did it. So it's never happened yet and she's gone.

OlderBC1
Aug 13, 2016, 12:39 AM
Hopefully by now you got to do it :) . I have done with a couple few months ago , she loved watching the boys together :) So love to do again soon
No, never got to do that one. I still think that would've been one of those moments that would've kept her interested in such things.

elian
Aug 13, 2016, 7:44 AM
There certainly are women who enjoy watching two guys the same way some guys enjoy watching two ladies... You won't really know until you try - it could be fun, and at least for now you have her approval, what a nice lady.

play times
Aug 13, 2016, 11:30 AM
I love sucking a cock, but when my wife is part of it, it is that much more of a turn on, but when she's not present, I tell her all the juicy details when we make love, and it's always explosive... Yeah!! let her be there, after all, she wants to be there...

mikeyd270
Aug 13, 2016, 3:51 PM
How about the first time just let your wife watch me suck your cock.

OlderBC1
Aug 13, 2016, 4:57 PM
I'd eventually like to film it, as we now both have DSLR's that shoot HD video. But nooo! Something tells me I should retain a detective...somebody stole my baby...dang.

zmarc60
Aug 13, 2016, 9:10 PM
my friend told me his wife wants to watch us 69.i have been very bi for 2 yrs and am widower and they know it.i agreed only if i could fuck her in the ass as i suck his cock all agreed and turned out to be a fantastic long eve.everyone did everything to everyone. its been several months now and no one regrets it and has blossomed to quite a good pastime..So yes include her.doing it alone could be seen as cheating and major problems.

j4u42
Aug 14, 2016, 1:56 PM
Why not have get pick the guy for you? Both can be part of the process. Haven't find a guy , without approval, that she finds acceptable to suck. Maybe she can start as you watch her suck and then she can guide you into it and coach you.

j4u42
Aug 14, 2016, 1:58 PM
Messed up the writing there "have her find a guy with your approval ". Sorry about the error

csreef
Sep 22, 2016, 9:22 PM
Once I was contacted by a woman who lived in Brooklyn, asking if I had a boyfriend, and I replied why are you contacting me, out of the blue? She replied "Oh I just love Bisexual men, and to see them make love, "gets me off". She said would you drive down to Brooklyn so I could see you and your FWB make love to each other. I asked if she would be involved and she replied no . I said that I'm not going to drive anywhere just to fulfill your fantasy.

Go fore it
Sep 22, 2016, 9:48 PM
Let her... get her to join in & both of you suck it @ the sametime, one on one side & the other on the other side. your lips & tongues meet @ the top of the head & lick your way back down & back up. when its time for it to cum meet @ the top & let it cummm between your lips & tongues, She,ll luv it !!!. PS, she,ll be hooked on ya,ll shareing a cock from then on !!!.

greg66
Nov 26, 2016, 1:59 AM
So keen to do this again , so sexy with her there watching then helping :)

csreef
Nov 26, 2016, 1:44 PM
One reason why your wife is going to let you have sex with another guy and watch is that now she can have another sex partner without having to cheat on you behind your back...

Three in a relationship is an Odd Number that may not work...

I'm not trying to "Rain on your Parade" , I'm just telling you the reality of what happened with me when I dated a married couple, years ago...

sammyazza
Nov 26, 2016, 6:47 PM
Never had a wife/gf watch, but had a female friend with benefits watch and she loved it.

lv69cpl69
Nov 29, 2016, 1:35 AM
My wife brought a guy home and we sucked him then they sucked me. We did this 3 or 4 times he and I hooked up one time when she couldn't make it. LOVED IT