My friend said he wanted to give me a bj. Am I supposed to do something in return?

[groove311]

I was scared to say yes because I thought he'd ask for something in return like banging him or something for him.

I only like getting BJ and no other sexual stuff. I don't understand why he wants to suck cock
cos I would think he doesn't get anything out of it.

Is he likely faking it or doing it cos he wants something from me?

[tenni]

Try to be up front honest with him.
Tell him that a bj from him would be good but that you are not comfortable reciprocating. See what he says?

[JackTexas94]

I've given a blow job to a friend who didn't reciprocate and it didn't bother me.

[AGuyIKnow]

Be honest with him and see how he responds. Just tell him that right now, your not comfortable with anything else. You may change your mind at a later date but not right now. You could always just jerk him off too.

[TXLonestarTX69]

That happened to me back in my teens. My buddy sucked me off one day and did not want anything in return (of course, I'm sure he would not have turned it down). After about the 15th time he sucked me off, he was definitely wanting me to reciprocate. Regrettably, I never did and he stopped sucking me off. Had I just done it, I think we could have had a long sucking relationship. He was really good at it too and had no issues swallowing my cum. At any rate, I digress. I think if it's a one-time deal, no reciprocation is okay, but if it happens a few times, I'm sure your friend will want something in return and if I were you, I would do it.

[Realist]

Groove, There are those who aren't interested in reciprocation. They get all they need from giving others pleasure. I've had two friends over the years, who were like that.

Being a versatile bisexual myself, at first it was awkward for me to understand why they didn't want, or need, for me to reciprocate. They were both very talented at what they did, so I learned to accept and enjoy them.

You can easily find out how your friend feels, by communicating your thoughts and asking for his.

Since you feel the way you do, this might turn out to be a real stress-reliever, for you!

Grin!

[PeninAZ]

Some people are just cocksuckers, no insult intended, the act alone is gratifying enough. He may want no reciprocity in return, but it couldn't hurt in asking. If price in return is too big for you, you have every right to say no. It's possible too, however, that your friend likes you, maybe not in that ♥romantic♥ way, but just wants to make you feel good. Just talk to him, he didn't ask you for anything else did he? Didn't ask you on a date? Just ask what his intentions are, I'm sure he'll understand.

[atxbi]

I'm a cocksucker who gets a big thrill out of milking a cock dry. I never want anything in return. Just a nice warm load for a job well done is what I'm in it for.

[fredtyg]

I'm a cocksucker who gets a big thrill out of milking a cock dry. I never want anything in return. Just a nice warm load for a job well done is what I'm in it for.

Yep, me too, and I notice the vast majority of guys in my local Craigslist m4m ads are guys that want to either suck cock or receive anal intercourse. I would think your friend isn't that interested in you doing him, but wouldn't mind if you did.

[void()]

Groove, There are those who aren't interested in reciprocation. They get all they need from giving others pleasure. I've had two friends over the years, who were like that.

Being a versatile bisexual myself, at first it was awkward for me to understand why they didn't want, or need, for me to reciprocate. They were both very talented at what they did, so I learned to accept and enjoy them.

You can easily find out how your friend feels, by communicating your thoughts and asking for his.

Since you feel the way you do, this might turn out to be a real stress-reliever, for you!

Grin!

*nodding and grinning in agreement* Sometimes people do simply want to help or give gifts to other people.

I used to run as a volunteer E.M.T., simply because I felt a need to help others. Still do at times, feel a need
to help others. Someone once suggest I try going on as a paid E.M.T.. That was not why I did it and I never
did go that route, never will. Better to simply help because you want to help and it is right to help, at least
in my :2cents:.

Agree with Realist too, communicate. Communication is a wonderful means to create ease, peace. :)

[pole_smoker]

Talk to your friend.


Do you actually even want to have sex with him? When my husband and I were single neither one of us was into having sex with friends or fuck buddies, as it does ruin friendships, and it makes things really awkward when one of your supposed "friends" propositions you sexually especially if they can't take no for an answer.

[rodman2005]

I used to only get my cock sucked at gloryholes and bar restrooms, then at local baths. I did 69ing and enjoyed it. I like sucking cock now as much as getting mine sucked. In fact I like sucking cock while I play with mine, jerking and wanking it off with a cock in my mouth. Outdoor cock suckin is fine too. At the beach and in the bushes is awesome as well. Nude beach cocksucking happens.

[Coastocoast]

IF it were a woman and she went down on you would you expect to return the favor? I have always determined in my mind I would not allow someone to do to me what I was unwilling to do for them in return. You stated he was a friend. Have the discussion with him and decide after talking with him what happens next if anything. I have had two guys go down on me who would not allow me to reciprocate and I felt weird about not talking about it first. I will have an upfront discussion before anything happens again to make sure everyone in comfortable before anything happens.

[groove311]

I'm starting to think he wants something from me in return.

[AGuyIKnow]

Maybe he does. You don't have to give it to him. Just try talking to him. Find out what he wants. Maybe he's not expecting anything.

[cuttin2dachase]

You didn't say if your friend has sucked cock before or if you would be the first guy he's sucked. If your friend came out to you and offered you a bj, perhaps it's because he wants to suck cock for the 1st time with someone he trusts to not tell on him. If he's experienced at it, it could still mean the same thing or it could mean he's just cockhungry and wants your cock. Either way, I'd tell him up front you'll let him suck you but that you have no desire to return the favor and see what he says.

[chances]

just ask him if he expects you to do him, he will give you a straight answer, its that simple. if you dont want to tell him, im sre he would beo.k with that, as long as it is upfont.

[Dog62]

I'm a cocksucker who gets a big thrill out of milking a cock dry. I never want anything in return. Just a nice warm load for a job well done is what I'm in it for.I have a friend that stops by about twice a month. He has a wife that won't suck and I have a craving. He gets a mouth to cum in and I get a mouthful of cum to satisfy my craving.

[Realist]

Coasttocoast, You wrote......"I have had two guys go down on me who would not allow me to reciprocate and I felt weird about not talking about it first."

These things must happen in two's! I've also had two friends who were like that.

It felt odd for me, too, but I learned that some people have that idiosyncrasy. They are fully sated knowing they've created an orgasm for you. One of the guys, claimed he could not get erect unless I came in his mouth, or anus. He did not, in fact, attain an erection until after I had an orgasm. When I was sated, he then would masturbate and claimed complete satisfaction!

I have a friend who's wife is similar; she lost interest in sex several years ago, after some sort of female operation. Still, she is always eager to fill his sexual needs. She claims to feel great pleasure from his reactions and has become very innovative, too.

Those of us who relish giving our partners pleasure, may find it hard to understand.......but, if they get what they need from their actions, why not allow them their own form of release?

Different strokes................

[BiJoe696]

Most of the oral I have gotten from lots of men over the years has been from guys that want nothing more than to suck my cock. Just relax and enjoy. If he wants more just say you are not into it now. Have fun, you both will enjoy it I am sure.

[shybutfreaky]

say yes and enjoy it haha

[Jimbo712]

All I can say is that I wish I had a friend like that! Lol

[groove311]

All I can say is that I wish I had a friend like that! Lol
yes. I'm happy there are guys who enjoy my cock. I can't believe it! It turns me on when a guy says
it feels so good to have a cock in his mouth! total turn on!

[AGuyIKnow]

I recently started slowly sucking again after one guy came and was just babbling on about something (no idea what he said). His cock got hard, he finally stopped talking and came a second time. Blew out a load, almost as big as the first.

We were texting a few days later and I asked him how many times he thougth he could cum. He didn't know, so I asked him if he wanted to find out. We're going to find out tomorrow.

Even if he only cums twice, its still double the amount that I used to get out of him.

BTW, I also like getting sucked. There are some guy's that are really good at it too. Being held right on the edge of cumming for over a hour is an amazing feeling. Your Orgasm's feel so intense, that your head feels like its going to explode.

[charles-smythe]

Try to be up front honest with him.
Tell him that a bj from him would be good but that you are not comfortable reciprocating. See what he says?

...what he said...tell him how you feel..

[mas8092]

I'm a cocksucker who gets a big thrill out of milking a cock dry. I never want anything in return. Just a nice warm load for a job well done is what I'm in it for.

I concur. I love sucking cock. Have been a bottom a few times. Have no interest in being a top and love men ejaculating in my mouth or on my face. I know I want to try bottoming more. However, I have no interest in having my cock sucked.

[pole_smoker]

I was scared to say yes because I thought he'd ask for something in return like banging him or something for him.

I only like getting BJ and no other sexual stuff. I don't understand why he wants to suck cock
cos I would think he doesn't get anything out of it.

Is he likely faking it or doing it cos he wants something from me?

Next time you get together with a guy to have sex suck his dick.

[friendslick]

I could suck cocks all day long without reciprocation. I just love giving pleasure, the taste and feel of a hard cock in my mouth, the thrill of teasing and edging and licking and sucking balls. I really love the taste of cum - the bigger the load, the better. You will be giving your friend exactly what he wants - the Joy of Penis!

[DP1953]

Look,,, let him suck your dick, if he asked you for it then believe me he will get a lot out of it! all you have to do is enjoy it.
Maybe Just maybe, you'll get all hot and bothered and want to try it yourself, its just two guys helping one another out, not a big deal.

Just remember though once you suck a dick you will be hooked and you will want more. Why I don't know but you will!

[jackroger4]

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[Cum1st]

If he just wants to suck your cock, don't wait too long. His urge to give a blowjob may pass. If he asked to suck you off, that is likely what he wants.

On the other hand if you don't want to get him off before, you most certainly won't want to after you cum.

Just curious:

Would it be OK with you if he had his cock out while he was doing you?

Would you let him unzip you and take it out?

Would you be comfortable with your pants all the way down giving him better access?

Would you like him to lick your asshole?

A man with a dripping cock wants to know.

[Cum1st]

Just noticed the date of your question. How did it go??

[charles-smythe]

I was scared to say yes because I thought he'd ask for something in return like banging him or something for him.

I only like getting BJ and no other sexual stuff. I don't understand why he wants to suck cock
cos I would think he doesn't get anything out of it.

Is he likely faking it or doing it cos he wants something from me?

…your friend is a cocksucker…I’m sure all he wants is to suck your dick…as to what he gets out of it…he gets to you’re your dick and swallow your cum……..if it will make you feel better before you let him suck it…make it clear that he’ll get nothing in return…

[charles-smythe]

I'm a cocksucker who gets a big thrill out of milking a cock dry. I never want anything in return. Just a nice warm load for a job well done is what I'm in it for. …my feelings exactly…if I want a blowjob I get from my girlfriend…all I’m interested in with a guy is sucking his dick…