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JackTexas94
Jan 13, 2015, 9:28 PM
One said, "I want to have a good relationship with guys, kinda best friends, but my friends have to be bisexual because if we have the same situation, we can relate to each other. If a bisexual man loves his wife but craves the touch and physical intimacy of a man -- and doesn't get the same feeling from his wife - who can he talk to about it?" He elaborated further, "Having a relationship with a gay guy is hard because the gay guy might spread the secret. You don't fit in with gay men because of fear (http://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/fear) that your conflict will be exposed and you'll be labeled gay. The only people you can talk with are other married bisexual men. The bi-guys really keep the secret to themselves." In many places under-ground networks of married MSM exist; in most cases their wives are unaware.

JackTexas94
Jan 13, 2015, 9:34 PM
I can dig it as I do t consider myself "gay" per se...although I do have a sexual attraction to other men.