Skatt92
Dec 27, 2014, 3:27 PM
Hi all,
I have just discovered this site and it has already been a great help in coming to terms with being bi so first, thanks for being a great community!
I am a slim, average 22 year old man from Warwickshire, England and I have been bi curious for about 10 years. I think I am finally ready to act on it and I'm looking for my first sexual experience with another man.
I have just come out of a 5 year relationship with a girl where I was never truly happy but enjoyed the safety and comfort of a girlfriend. We had an okay sex life, nothing amazing, we both didn’t have much experience with other sexual partners and were not very exploratory – leading to me never being truly satisfied. We had some great times having sex but it was never enough.
I find myself attracted to women and the female form and get easily aroused by women but when it comes down to it, I exclusively watch gay porn and find myself so much more aroused and urging for sex with another man. I would prefer to being watching gay porn than having sex with my ex-girlfriend.
I am not sure where I fall on the bisexual spectrum. I have seen others post this and agree ‘I wouldn’t walk down the street and see a man and picture myself in a relationship with them as I would a women’ but this may just be down to the social conformities I have grew up around! I also experience slight guilt after masturbating over gay men but I have read this can be common?
I have not yet had any sexual experiences with a man so that is another reason I am not sure where I am. The closest experience being dancing/grinding with a few men in a gay club in Berlin.
I am not out at all and could not come out. I have a close group of masculine mates would realistically wouldn’t feel comfortable with a bi friend in the group although none of them are homophobic. I also could not let my family find out.
What I am looking for now is to really discover ‘how’ bisexual I am and which way I truly lean. I am looking to hook up and have sex with another man but would like a proper email exchange and arrange a discreet meet. It would be my first time and I consider myself fairly submissive and looking for someone else to take the reigns.
Can you help me!? Where do I start to find the experience I’m looking for!?
Thanks,
Skatt
I have just discovered this site and it has already been a great help in coming to terms with being bi so first, thanks for being a great community!
I am a slim, average 22 year old man from Warwickshire, England and I have been bi curious for about 10 years. I think I am finally ready to act on it and I'm looking for my first sexual experience with another man.
I have just come out of a 5 year relationship with a girl where I was never truly happy but enjoyed the safety and comfort of a girlfriend. We had an okay sex life, nothing amazing, we both didn’t have much experience with other sexual partners and were not very exploratory – leading to me never being truly satisfied. We had some great times having sex but it was never enough.
I find myself attracted to women and the female form and get easily aroused by women but when it comes down to it, I exclusively watch gay porn and find myself so much more aroused and urging for sex with another man. I would prefer to being watching gay porn than having sex with my ex-girlfriend.
I am not sure where I fall on the bisexual spectrum. I have seen others post this and agree ‘I wouldn’t walk down the street and see a man and picture myself in a relationship with them as I would a women’ but this may just be down to the social conformities I have grew up around! I also experience slight guilt after masturbating over gay men but I have read this can be common?
I have not yet had any sexual experiences with a man so that is another reason I am not sure where I am. The closest experience being dancing/grinding with a few men in a gay club in Berlin.
I am not out at all and could not come out. I have a close group of masculine mates would realistically wouldn’t feel comfortable with a bi friend in the group although none of them are homophobic. I also could not let my family find out.
What I am looking for now is to really discover ‘how’ bisexual I am and which way I truly lean. I am looking to hook up and have sex with another man but would like a proper email exchange and arrange a discreet meet. It would be my first time and I consider myself fairly submissive and looking for someone else to take the reigns.
Can you help me!? Where do I start to find the experience I’m looking for!?
Thanks,
Skatt