ANAL

[Greywolf269]

Just want everyones thoughts about anal. Like it or not? What are your thoughts on it? Me personally, Haven't tried it wit the real thing, but, I can hardly wait to try! :male:

[The gentle one]

It varies to what gives pleasure. Whether it be oral play or intercourse. Each person have their favourite sexual pleasures. I think if you liked anal whether a female or a male you would be offering all of yourself that you possibly can to be explored. Not everyone is able to do that. Not everyone would like that. There is a somewhat taboo about anal and I don't think there should be, I think everyone is a sexual being with the opportunity to explore themselves if they wished. To say you do not like something that you have never tried is a nieve approach on sex. I think it should be explored and then judged.

[Greywolf269]

ty for getting back and responding to me thread.

[zarine]

i've tried it quite a few times, to make sure that maybe it gets better with each time, but honestly, so far it has only been worse and worse every time! i absolutely hate it. it's painful and at the same time it feels like i'm taking a shit after eating a super-spicy dinner.

maybe i should start another thread about this, but i'll ask anyway... what are some health risks of anal sex (besides getting HIV)? i heard that you can get sick if the poo gets shoved back up into your intestines. and, of course, once your butt loosens up, you have to go poop a lot more often. none of these sound like things i'd really want to deal with, especially since the anal sex experience isn't even rewarding at all for me. lately i've been starting to feel like the only person on the planet who hates anal sex! everyone seems obsessed with it, and it practically seems to be the "cool" thing to do. man, i'm always such a misfit!

[citystyleguy]

a lot depends on what anal action youre talking about; the best comes from stimulation, like a finger, a probe, a dildo. anal intercourse is a whole other thing, and not for what that area was meant. it is not a vagina nor intended to be used as one; it does however lend itself to some fine action with the right partner.

one of the best is a dildo on a women who knows how to use one; in my experience, a woman utilizes a dildo far differently than a man uses his dick, a women grinds up against the dildo and doesnt need the thrust a man needs for his dick, thus less rough action.

best of luck in search; just use common sense and play it safe!

[mistymockingbird]

A good partner can make all the difference. (and by good I mean patient, communicative, open, and willing to abandon the exercise if it just isn't working) If its working, bring it on. Love all variations of anal play, rimming to intercourse and everything in between, with a partner, with a toy, giving and receiving. I actually prefer anal to "regular" intercourse.

[Polybear]

I have been mostly a top over the last 20+ years but have had some wonderful experiences as a bottom. I have learned that patience, to use a cliche, is indeed a virtue for me, especially when I have bottomed. I'm not into the vision of 'get it hard and shove it in' in not even a minute. For me, it's now become one of many things that I love to explore, but best when both are feeling totally fine in the appropriate places and the moment feels right.

In regards to troubles, I have permanently decided to never bottom for men again due to an accident over six years ago. Too much lube made a good experience turn bad as I was informed "uh, it slipped off" and it scared me. It was the one time when I felt my HIV status was in question (I was still negative though). Since then, a harness, a dildo, and a woman who knows how to thrust it in does it for me. :-)

If some time is taken to play with the anal opening, to perhaps lube up a finger or a toy, to rim around (preferably of course, with cleaning beforehand), then it will be easier and much more pleasurable for my partner's dildo to enter me and vice versa if I'm topping my partner. It's the difference, when I bottom, between pain and intense pleasure.

[bigregory]

anal is awsome.
Very intimate.
:)

[zarine]

a lot depends on what anal action youre talking about; the best comes from stimulation, like a finger, a probe, a dildo. anal intercourse is a whole other thing, and not for what that area was meant. it is not a vagina nor intended to be used as one; it does however lend itself to some fine action with the right partner.

one of the best is a dildo on a women who knows how to use one; in my experience, a woman utilizes a dildo far differently than a man uses his dick, a women grinds up against the dildo and doesnt need the thrust a man needs for his dick, thus less rough action.

best of luck in search; just use common sense and play it safe!

so actually anal is supposed to be done with hardly any thrusting? perhaps that's what has been going wrong? when i let my boyfriend do it, he just thrusts away despite my shrieks and protests and weeping. then, when i used a dildo on him and had it way up in there, he told me to not move it around and said he doesn't like movement when something is that far in! jesus, if he doesn't even like someone to thrust and move around, what the hell makes him think i should enjoy it? ok, now i'm kinda mad....

[innaminka]

lately i've been starting to feel like the only person on the planet who hates anal sex! everyone seems obsessed with it, and it practically seems to be the "cool" thing to do.

You are not alone. You are certainly no misfit.
OK, I'll state straight out that yes, I have anal sex with my husband, I enjoy it, I have minimal or no discomfort and we both feel good after. But isn't all lovemaking like that. Oh, I will add, that deep thrusting IS an integral part ofanal lovemaking for me.

That said:

Amongst my group of friends & acquaintences, once the champers gets pured and tongues loosen, I would say I am in the slight minority when it caome to botty-sex. Most gals seem to have tried it, but Zarine, a lot are like you. Genuine discomfort. Simple: off the menu.
Its your body - you only do what you enjoy. :smirlove2

[Haemoglobin]

Your boyfriend seems to be a bit mean or what ? :eek: youre screeching and protesting against it and he still likes doing it ? ouch.. :mad: what a man really.
My guy already stops moving when we have normal sex and im not lookin soo much like i like it.. even then he can stop and be like .. what is it babe,you dont like it? .. while it can be only that i looked wierd.. :bigrin: thats how a mans supposed to handle it ..

and about the anal sex thing.. my man doesnt like to give me analsex therefore we dont have and honestly his cock is really quite big so in my ass?? no no :eek: better not .. with smaller cocks , its ok for me to do it . :tongue:

[neveen]

<birds chirpings, streams flowing, john denver music>

where to begin my love of anal...of all things anal [when done correctly]...
i used to feel bad about myself, and kinda ashamed when i was younger because i was really intrigued and enjoyed ass play, it's not until maybe the last 5 yrs that i've made peace w/ it and explored what it means to me. first off, lube, lube, lube. maybe some analeze thrown in. second, gotta start slow & gentle and communicate w/ ur partner. third, if ur a gal, it really makes all the difference if u can get a hand free to bring urself to orgasm while it's being done (that's when i like the thrusting). i agree u gotta warm up to it, and nothing like tongue play and a lubed finger to bring u to a highly aroused state to enjoy anal sex. and anal beads r exhilirating hello! seeing a guy have the most intense orgasm of his life w/ anal beads while i'm blowing him, after he swore he'd never let me put anything back there, and knowing just how good it must have felt...hell, i didn't need anything more, just watching that was enough for me :tong: i love the feeling of being overpowed, and surrendering to my partner during anal sex, i love the feeling of taboo, i love it all. ya for anal!

...ok, i don't love that i feel like i'm gonna have the runs right afterward, that is the only downside to the backside ridin' for me. :(

[smokey]

I throughly enjoy it, with both men and women and both giving and recieving...the amount of foreplay before hand counts alot as does lubirciant and you just can'r go humping an ass like you can a pussy, a more measured stroke is required, rough and anal at least for me on the recieving end is a big no. AND cleanileness is an absolute.

[dtindh]

I have had two good experiences and a couple bad ones. The good ones took a long time of playing before insertion, rubbing the cock up and down my butt and around my anus, and some finger play. When he entered my ass, there was no pain and it felt great. On the other hand, without the long foreplay, there was some pain, I felt like I had to take a shit, and it hurt afterwards. The more foreply the better and stopping when asked is a definite!

[the sacred night]

Hm. I have often wondered whether anal would do anything for me seeing as I don't have a prostate... but you guys are making it sound worth a try. Funny, my fiancee is a little uncomfortable with the thought of penetrating me anally but turns to butter at the mere mention of me using a strapon on him... which I have to admit sounds damn appealing to me too.

[Herbwoman39]

Honestly it depends on my mood. Sometimes I just LOVE anal and can't get enough of it. Other times if he even LOOKS that direction my cheeks slam shut.

There are things you've got to do to prepare though.

First, make sure your partner is cleaned out as it were. Maybe do an enema beforehand.

Second, loosen your partner up a little bit with some finger play moving from one to two to three as they become more comfortable.

Third, LUBE! Lots and LOTS of lube. Lube is your buddy and bestest friend during this experience.

Fourth, always go slow. Go too fast and you can cause tears in the delicate lining. Imagine an infection there because you went too fast, caused a tear and fecal matter got in the tear.

Always use a condom for this even if you are in a commited relationship. That way you won't be so surprised by the tightness and get overly enthusiastic.

If you follow those rules, it will be a MUCH more pleasant experience for the both of you. Remember, patience and communication above all.

[Driver 8]

i heard that you can get sick if the poo gets shoved back up into your intestines. and, of course, once your butt loosens up, you have to go poop a lot more often.
"Of course?" I've never heard of this risk, and it's not covered in Anal Pleasure and Health (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0940208202/sr=8-2/qid=1155059528/ref=sr_1_2/102-8220490-5029720?ie=UTF8), so I suspect it's one of those scare stories that goes around. (I have heard about people with continence problems after repeated anal rape, but that's different.)

The main health risks from cleanliness are if germs get transferred into someone's mouth - by having oral sex immediately after and not using/removing condoms, careless cleaning of toys, et cetera. If there aren't feces in your rectum when you have anal intercourse, they can't get pushed back anywhere. There's also the non-germ risk of tearing sensitive tissues, especially if you use force.

[zarine]

"Of course?" I've never heard of this risk, and it's not covered in Anal Pleasure and Health (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0940208202/sr=8-2/qid=1155059528/ref=sr_1_2/102-8220490-5029720?ie=UTF8), so I suspect it's one of those scare stories that goes around. (I have heard about people with continence problems after repeated anal rape, but that's different.)

The main health risks from cleanliness are if germs get transferred into someone's mouth - by having oral sex immediately after and not using/removing condoms, careless cleaning of toys, et cetera. If there aren't feces in your rectum when you have anal intercourse, they can't get pushed back anywhere. There's also the non-germ risk of tearing sensitive tissues, especially if you use force.

so it's not possible to get too loose that you end up not able to hold your poop? someone was telling me that porn stars have that problem, and really promiscuous gay men, but maybe it's just 'cause they are so extreme about it. so just normal activity won't mess you up at all? i've always wanted to ask about this stuff but finding info on the internet is impossible because all the search results just turn up tons of porn sites or other weird stuff when all i want is some straight forward objective info on this subject.

[Driver 8]

i've always wanted to ask about this stuff but finding info on the internet is impossible
The link in the message you quoted goes to the Amazon listing for a book by a doctor who specializes in the subject.

[zarine]

The link in the message you quoted goes to the Amazon listing for a book by a doctor who specializes in the subject.

yeah i saw that... guess i'll see if i can get it from the library because i really don't feel like buying anything... i am just too poor right now, and i really don't want to spend any money on something that i'd be otherwise indifferent to if it weren't for my anal-loving boyfriend. :tong:

[Greywolf269]

Thanks all 4 answering, loving all the feed back, and helpful tips.

[larupin]

I have never had anal with the real thing but i have a nice dildo that i just love. So if the real thing is as good or better then i plan on doing it the first chance i get.

[Haemoglobin]

I mentioned above already that my guy doesnt even want to try having anal sex with me :eek:

I always thought for a guy it is "normal" to like it . Hes straight and never had performed it on anyone before me , he likes only the normal sex-penis into pussy...and normally i wont have a problem with that since his cock normally would not be one which i like really in my a** because of the big size..ouch.. :(
But i still would like to know if he doesnt do it out of respect for me , out of fear it is wierd , out of what he learned from at home or whatever .. he wont tell me , he only says - nah , i dont like that.. :rolleyes:

Sounds all stupid since i wouldnt wanna do it everyday anyways.. but id still like to know if its normal that a guy doesnt like to perform anal sex on his woman..?

[neveen]

I mentioned above already that my guy doesnt even want to try having anal sex with me :eek:


Sounds all stupid since i wouldnt wanna do it everyday anyways.. but id still like to know if its normal that a guy doesnt like to perform anal sex on his woman..?
to a lot of men, and gals, it's very taboo and considered icky...i was w/ a guy for 6 months before i could coax him into trying it, and it wasn't long before he was initiating it, and wanting me to touch his anus in ways he would previously shudder at...so, it may take time and a lot of talking about openly, and letting him know u r interested before he allows himself to find out if he likes it, but them there are guys who try it and just don't like the feeling, miss the wetness of a pussy. but i think the vast majority of men who say they don't like it, don't like it due to their feelings about it, and not the actual experience.

[guyfromdenver]

Some don't like it, but nost that try it love it. I have been giving and getting anal for over 20 years, and frankly if the girl I am with doesn't like it I move on. It's part of a more global sexuallity to me. I love girls that like using their toys on me, and better yet when they like watching men butt fuck me. It's all good fun. If you don't like it don't do it. If you are currious try it. Be sure your lover is experienced tho. If he knows what he is doing then he will make it good for you. If he doesn't it could be ugly!

[sennex]

Anal is great, magnificent, superb, I love it! I am a confirmed sausage jockey.

[Hearts of Clear Lake]

I tried it for the first time recently and it was good.

I mean, at start it was a little painful, but after that it was awesome. It was like "ooh".

But, I have some recomendations: a lubricant and a condom makes things easier; hygiene is a must; that is not a vagina [it is not a self-lubricated hole], so don't do it like a vagina that can be hurtful.

But, overall, enjoy!

[Azrael]

Much fun. I love to give or recieve. It can be a rude awakening if you're not used to it, especially if you're first boy is on the large side, as mine was. Eventually I got really into it but the first thrust felt like it was splitting me in half.

[Greywolf269]

Again thanks to all who replied, this is great. Myself am still waiting for my first real, live cock to enter me. Have had plugs and dildoes in ther, but, I am sure it is not the same. I guess I will keep waiting ang waitng.

[eods79]

Im the same...I use mostly toys and stuff but I think its a great time! I know that when I use a vibrator or dildo, I cum so much harder and it really makes it that much better! I love it!

[iloveanal.girl]

As you can see by my name I LOVE ANAL! But as others have said before me it really depends on who you are with and how caring they are. I never enjoyed it before my husband. He is bisexual so he has been on the receiving end and knows how it can hurt. Me personally unless I am really aroused and completely relaxed it will hurt. You have to be in a comfortable position and I personally love to have my vibe on hand...it ends in an amazing orgasm for both of us. I only like it fast and hard once we have gone slow and really gotten into it. After that, I beg for it harder...okay enough getting all excited just thinking about it.

Anyway, not everyone likes it and that is okay too. Sex is about doing what feels good for all involved, and anal can be a scary thing to someone who has never tried it or has had a bad experience with it. :bigrin:

[allbimyself]

A funny clip of married couple talking about anal... no nudity but graphic language.. ur warned.

http://www.kontraband.com/show/show.asp?ID=4340&nsfwfs=yes

[Greywolf269]

Gret Clip All, That is great!!!!!, laughed my ass off!

[AndrogynousLuv]

aahhh yessss...anal. There was once a time I thought it repulsive. That's now ancient history. Anal is a most rewarding and erotic experience to me. I can't say I prefer it over any thing else and for one who loves oral so much as I do (giving and receiving), it doesn't come into play as often. But when it does, it's a most exquisite experience. It's again all a matter of patience and timing. Some of my best orgasms have been with anal. It's so hard for me to believe that at one time, I considered never experimenting with it again. Anal is an integral part of the erotic experience; do experience with the right lover and you'll remember it always. I also love to use dildos and butt plugs when masturbating; it adds dimensions to that experience as well.

[timharrogate]

You are not alone. You are certainly no misfit.
OK, I'll state straight out that yes, I have anal sex with my husband, I enjoy it, I have minimal or no discomfort and we both feel good after. But isn't all lovemaking like that. Oh, I will add, that deep thrusting IS an integral part ofanal lovemaking for me.

That said:

Amongst my group of friends & acquaintences, once the champers gets pured and tongues loosen, I would say I am in the slight minority when it caome to botty-sex. Most gals seem to have tried it, but Zarine, a lot are like you. Genuine discomfort. Simple: off the menu.
Its your body - you only do what you enjoy. :smirlove2
the arse is for shitting and that is the way we should all view anal sex a real no no especailly because of the HIV risk

[DiamondDog]

the arse is for shitting and that is the way we should all view anal sex a real no no especailly because of the HIV risk

HIV doesn't care what sex acts you do or don't do, your orientation, or your gender.

[Sparks]

Do I like it? Very much so! Although I prefer it from another man, I'm not opposed to sharing this side of me with a woman. It is quit pleasuable. :2cents:

[willbeyours2]

I love anal sex... I can be top or bottom love both. Like to bottom with men more although my wife is perfecting her skills with a stap on quite well. Practice ,practice, practice makes for a perfect expierence. Well got to run.... Practice time.


Bill

[Greywolf269]

My wife is still practicing as well...( inches long and 2 1/2 inches round) she is getting there. But I am sure it doesn't feel like the real thing 4 sure. : ;)

[Greywolf269]

So let me know as well, is it different, toy versus the real thing.

[citystyleguy]

so actually anal is supposed to be done with hardly any thrusting? perhaps that's what has been going wrong? when i let my boyfriend do it, he just thrusts away despite my shrieks and protests and weeping. then, when i used a dildo on him and had it way up in there, he told me to not move it around and said he doesn't like movement when something is that far in! jesus, if he doesn't even like someone to thrust and move around, what the hell makes him think i should enjoy it? ok, now i'm kinda mad....

oh, my zarine, if your shrieks, protests, weeping does not make him stop THEN AND THERE, hold you in his arms, and talk with you until you are calm, then RUN FOR THE NEXT EXIT, DO NOT LOOK BACK, AND IF HE FOLLOWS, SLAM-DUNK HIM!!! HE IS ONE SELFISH BASTARD!!!

now that i've spouted off, my original statements still hold without hesitation; as far as i'm concerned, the pumping is for the cock, the sensations for which the man lives. the anal area is for stimulating the prostrate, and when you've got someone who knows what to do down there, the man is quivering jelly, nothing but putty, and when the orgasim hits, he will scream! that's why the ribbed kind of dildo/strap-on are the best! way best!

i know some women seem to like it; to each their own! but any women in my life has said no thanks just the same! but if i'm in the need, they'd be happy to accommadate!

never, ever do something that causes you pain! :2cents:

[wtp09]

hmmmmmm.... i can't wait for another cock in my ass....

there is something about the size and the pumping action.... i have enjoyed being fucked, since my last post. i have endured the biggest cock i have ever seen... my gurl too.... we were fucked that night so hard... we were both in heaven. take it you will love it. ass play is where it is at... if you think you are a bottom, you will dig it so much!!!!!!

[wtp09]

ass play should never be painful.... it should be enjoyable. if you are tense about it... it will hurt you. you must relax. you have to relax. there is nothing normal about having something thrust in your ass. learn to relax... you will love it.....

[Avocado]

I mentioned above already that my guy doesnt even want to try having anal sex with me :eek:

I always thought for a guy it is "normal" to like it . Hes straight and never had performed it on anyone before me , he likes only the normal sex-penis into pussy...and normally i wont have a problem with that since his cock normally would not be one which i like really in my a** because of the big size..ouch.. :(
But i still would like to know if he doesnt do it out of respect for me , out of fear it is wierd , out of what he learned from at home or whatever .. he wont tell me , he only says - nah , i dont like that.. :rolleyes:

Sounds all stupid since i wouldnt wanna do it everyday anyways.. but id still like to know if its normal that a guy doesnt like to perform anal sex on his woman..?

I'd be scared of the tightness. I find it too tight up the fanny when I'm not wearing a condom.

[hedonic]

I suppose it helps to know your body. the anatomy is a truly amazing thing. Anal, well for me, I either go to hell or heaven. It depends on the person your with. I workd in pathology, have a bs in anatomy etc... and so I suppose it helps to know your anatomy inorder to give good anatomy. Am I making any sense? hope so. From there I went onto massage, then to massages with happy endings or beginnings or somewhere in between. I feel as though Im a bit of a sexpert and take pride in it. To truly give of yourself in love making opens you up in more ways than anyone can realise. The kundalini experience is lying dormant in all of us. When we finally experience it we realise that we have mastered the art of letting go. Im going to stop here.

[Greywolf269]

Myself am waiting 4 Mr. Right, as we all are...lol, but can hardly wait!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Greywolf269]

So, is the real thing better? Let me know.

[Tocowboycub]

I LIVE FOR ANAL..... Giving and Recieving !

To me, and remember, this is my opinion; Toys are a cheap substitute for the real thing. Toys are sufficient when I'm alone, or simply a 'quick fix' when I'm short on time.

Nothing beats a nice warm cock sliding in and out of you, at whatever pace he receiver is comfy with (fast, slow, or anywhere in between). In the 30 -odd years (OH, that makes me sound old) I been sexually active with men, I've learned a few things that remain important:

1. Every one is different, and every time will be different.

2. NEVER EVER EVER is there such a thing as too much lube (Sorry for your scary 'condom-slipped-off-experience', Polybear. Not quite sure how that could have happened)

3. Relax. Relax. Relax. (After all, the anus is just another set of muscles, you can learn to control it like any other muscle in the body)

4. Communication. Start very slow: rimming, fingering, more rimming. Make sure that the penis is also getting some attention too. Talk to our partner, ask the bottom is he/she is enjoying that rimming/finguring, the reciever also has to let the giver know what hurts and feels good.

5. Find that man's prostate.... and WORK IT. Lay him down on his back, and with your palm up, use your finger next to your thumb (easiest one to use,I've found) raise yor fingure u towards his stomache and gesture like you are asking someone to follow you.... the prostate is up there, and usually feels like a marble..... you will know when you find is, because the reciever will jump and maon with pleasure.... almost guarenteed.

6. Time of enter..... As Sue Johansson (a semi-famous sex teacher with TV and Radio shows) used to say "GENTLY BENTLY". Start of slow. Ease it in very gently, and watch the bottoms face for a reaction. Any sign of wincing: ease off. In my case, when I bottom (and that's as often as I can get it), I will most likely let the guy all the way in and then ask him not to move for a minute, so I can adjust.... then GO, MAN, GO. Other times I'll need it tken right out for a minute or 2, then back in and I will be just fine (that is very common, BTW, for some reason I don't understand, I've found hat works with a lot of me)

7. CONDOM, CONDOM, CONDOM. Every time. (That shouldn't have to be said, but <sigh> there are still a lot of fools out thier that bare back)

8. Read 1 through 7 again and again.

9. Any questons, ASK. (Only dmb question is one that wasn't asked, I was once told by a wise older gentleman)

10. Most important one......... ENJOY !!!! (and if at first you don't succeed, try again and again. Practice not only makes perfect, but is a whole lot of fun :bigrin:)

I apoligize if I've bored you with my ramblings here, and for any typos (crappy laptop here, and I just can't re-read this again) but few topics com along that I know so much about. LOL I have repeated a few things that have alreaady been said, but some do bare repeating. Anal can be the best feeling ever, and an earth shattering orgasm for a man.....

Greywolf...... I'm about a 1/2 hour from you, in Brampton, if you ever want to do coffee, or a bear, shoot me a message.

Cheers
S
:2cents:

PS...... My profile WILL be updated very soon. I LOVE THIS SITE ! :tongue:

[Greywolf269]

I love all the feedback, Keep it cumming! This is some good stuff!

[ibipantyhose]

I LOVE anal too!
It perked my interest years ago when I read a book that had a scene in it where a man was tied to a pool table (bent over). He owed some rich guy a lot of money and couldn't pay it back, so at a party he was tied to this pool table. Two good looking gals came in and got his pants down and lubes his ass. Then a muscular black man came in wearing only a loin cloth. The gals took it off of him, revealing his impressive member, and he moved around behind the man with cat-like moves. The guy tied up started begging and pleading, saying he would pay the money back but the black man ended up having his way with him. Even though it said it left the man sobbing, I was strangely turned on by it. I was young enough then that I didn't consider myself bi, but I yearned to try a vibrator or butt plug to explore the 'itch' I now had for anal stimulation. I didn't have a dildo that looked like the real thing for some time until I couldn't fight the urge to try it. Now I LOVE using a 12-inch replica on myself and have used a replica as long as 18"! I haven't bottomed for a man yet, but I'm curious about that now. I know having the real thing in my mouth IS more pleasurable than going down on on a plastic/rubber one, and that probably holds true for anal. The sore ass and the frequent trips to the bathroom ARE worth it in my opinion. :)
I just ADORE women with strap-ons and DREAM about having a wife that wants to do me with one! You guys that have a woman like that now are SOOO lucky!!!
I haven't done it TO a woman either. If I can pleasure her that way, I WOULD! I think it would be rather erotic :)
Since I'm new here, I should ask if there's BEEN a thread on 'What got you into anal?'

I LOVE the blogs here and I LOVE YOU GUYS (AND GALS)!

Edward

[Greywolf269]

Love u too Edward! thanks for the great story, and I am one of those lucky guys, whose wife does it 4 him. Cum on all u ppl who view, respond to it!

[BiPsych]

1. Lots and lots of lube.
2. Start slow. If you aretight start with a small butt plug, not a dildo. Butt plugs a designed for the butt. Then work up in size. This requires a patient partner. Some guys and f=gals who do anal regularly do not need to warm up, but most of us do, including porn stars.
3. It is not for everybody. If you experiment and discover you just do not like it, then do not. Do not let anyone force you into it. But there are many who love it. In fact there are more bottoms around than tops.

[Greywolf269]

I want to try and be a bottom and a top as well, which is better?

[timepga50]

I like to get it anally,I have used dildos in the past and enjoyed very much.I don't have a male friend right now,but he will defintiely like to fuck me. I had given anall before and it's cool .I just like to recieve a lot better, :bigrin:

[wss30152]

LOVE IT. I love to top but by far the best for my is to bottom for nice hard cock. Most of the time i cum like crazy just by having my ass pumped.

[woolleycouple]

;) hmmmm
I love Anal my hubby calls me his anal slut cause I cum better that way for him.
When you find the right spot use it and abuse it. :bigrin:
Theresa

[bruce]

Over the past 10 yrs I've learned that if I have a choice between having a man take me anally or me taking a female vaginally I would prefer the man inside me any time. When done right it is very pleasurable. Since me first encounter with anal sex I've found that I can't get enough of it. Its like I go into another zone when a man is inside me, I've now got to the point where anal sex is the only sex that brings me satisfaction, sometimes I don't even come but when my partner is finished I'm totally satisfied. It just feels natural and I feel like anal sex is the way I was naturally meant to have sex. I went from thinking I was straight to wondering if I was bi to knowing that I am gay in a matter of 10 yrs, a large part of that was becasue of anal sex.

[david_artoro]

Anal is cool

and i like it my self by making my girl do me with a strapon or other stuff;)

you all women & "MEN" have to try it

[Greywolf269]

All these ppl viewing, but not responding! Come on if u read it, respond to it!

[DiamondDog]

All these ppl viewing, but not responding! Come on if u read it, respond to it!

I have a fair ammount of gay friends and they tell me how, Anal sex is when the anus gets involved in sexual pleasure by direct stimulation whether it's from a dick, a toy, a finger, a tongue, a fist/forearm, or even water.

[hairless]

I've fingered my ass and used my wfe's viberator (which she does'nt know)in my ass. I liked the way it felt and can'nt wait too have another man slide his cock balls deep into my ass. The thought of another man fucking me in the as makes me real horny. HELP!!!!!

[Greywolf269]

I really am looking forward to my first time with a real cock in my ass!

[chubbyaz54]

Just want everyones thoughts about anal. Like it or not? What are your thoughts on it? Me personally, Haven't tried it wit the real thing, but, I can hardly wait to try! :male:
me chubbyaz54, i have try it and love recieving if the man is not to big

[bisubbie]

It's been a long time, but I love getting a hard dick up my ass. It was before aids, and he first used one finger for a while, then two, then three fingers. When I was ready I felt his shaft slide up inside me. I felt no pain at all. The thrusting was great, but the hot flood deep inside was so wonderful. I absolutely LOVED getting fucked in my ass. After that whenever he screwed me again he didn't have to go to such great lengths, I was always ready for him. Never any pain at all. I never did poke him, I'm strictly on the receiving end with a guy.

I have given anal to a woman a few times, but I'm not as into it.

Bisubbie

[Reprob8]

so actually anal is supposed to be done with hardly any thrusting? perhaps that's what has been going wrong? when i let my boyfriend do it, he just thrusts away despite my shrieks and protests and weeping. then, when i used a dildo on him and had it way up in there, he told me to not move it around and said he doesn't like movement when something is that far in! jesus, if he doesn't even like someone to thrust and move around, what the hell makes him think i should enjoy it? ok, now i'm kinda mad....


When involved in any type of anal play it is important to listen but even more important to tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't. Next time tell him to take it very slow, Anal sex should be tender and almost never rough unless the recipient requests it. Just remind him of the fact that that is how he seems to like it.

[BiPlanoGuy]

Has anyone taken a butt plug inside for an extended period? I was thinking of wearing one to work and staying excited for a long while.... :bibounce:

I enjoy strap-ons and have not had the pleasure a a cock inside of me yet :bigrin:

[Mo bimale]

Have had strap on fun with the wife, have not exp the real thing though.

[felbuga]

Hi i also had strap on fun with my exwife but beleive me its not like the real thing very hard to explain but much more pleasurable with the real thing but BE CAREFUL. Cheers.

[Doggie_Wood]

I have tried it on several occassions. Not having the propper foreplay early on can and usually does make the initial penitration painfull. On the same hand, with foreplay using lubrication, inserting one, then two, then multiple fingers, or using a vibrator to loosen up the spincter muscle, to me makes the insertion and anal stimulation more arrousing. I think the best anal intercourse I've ever had was when a flovored lube was used initially then I was rimmed. After that I was as loose as a goose so to speak.
All I can advise is, go slow, experiment, and enjoy. :male: :)

[Outbound]

I am very new to all this and quite frankly very pleased to see this topic. I have thought about it and desired to both give and receive anal for some time. Last month I met a man and asked him to perform anal sex on me.
After reading several reply's it just confirmed to me how important lubrication and going slow is.
He first lubricated me and then slowly used his fingers to probe me and excite me. Once I relaxed and he was using 3 fingers, I began to really enjoy the arousal and excitement. He then explained he was putting on a rubber and wanted to rub his cock up against my aroused hole. He then very gently, slowly and quite sexually put his 7 inches in me. With each inch slowly going deep in me my arousal began to intensify. This arousal was like nothing I've ever felt before. Once all the way in he began to slowly slide almost all the way out and then push himself deeply inside me. Each push make me more and more excited. Since I was a virgin at this and so tight, he couldn't hold back for very long and screamed out he was cuming. I could feel his load even through the rubber and if he could have waited another minute I believe I would have cum myself.
So far in my short bisexual life this has been the most sexually satisfying event. Thanks to a good teacher I'm ready to pass on my experience and hopefully satisfy my friend in the same way. Anal, done right is very good.

[Mystery123]

hey I like it sometimes but sometimes I cant Like when you know your a little iratated down there. But recently I found out by watching guy guys for a streight guy that they make a cream for that to help desenatize your rectum on the out side where it hurts the most called anal eaze. I am going to buy some It is made out of the same stuff that teething med. is made out of. I read you could use that in a pinch. It is only for exturnal remember.

[loki.27]

oh, i think the idea of anal is awesome. I love using dildos. it feels awesome.

[Tynary]

um I haven't tried with another person cas that would be too nerve wracking but I tried out the sensation of it and I don't like anal. I find it painful and uncomfortable and it makes me panic I wish I could feel pleasure from it but no. perhaps I will try it with another person at some point and then pass judgement but it really hurts.

[Greywolf269]

sry, but the first time I tried itI loved it, "all"

[DiamondDog]

sry, but the first time I tried itI loved it, "all"
so how did it go?

[mistressnataku]

i know i luv anal more than vaginal sex, i guess thats mostly cause i hang with alot of gay an bi guys. im like one of them and their plaything. he he. i guess u cant expect everyone to like it. i kinda keep it as a secret cause i dont know if my boyfriends will like it too.

[spoiledangel860505]

I haven't ever tried anal with a hard cock, I would really love to try it. I have fingered myself in the ass, and used a couple of toys. I really think I would like it alot

[miamiuu]

The only problem with anal is I would be way self conscious if I was bottoming. It can be a pain in the butt to make sure you are clean up there.

[Avocado]

The only problem with anal is I would be way self conscious if I was bottoming. It can be a pain in the butt to make sure you are clean up there.

I know what you mean, I rim my fiancee but would feel uncomfortable her rimming me because of how she feels. Personally I think if someone's that worried about the part being clean, maybe the part isn't really for them :2cents:

[deepbluejamie]

As you can see by my name I LOVE ANAL! But as others have said before me it really depends on who you are with and how caring they are. I never enjoyed it before my husband. He is bisexual so he has been on the receiving end and knows how it can hurt. Me personally unless I am really aroused and completely relaxed it will hurt. You have to be in a comfortable position and I personally love to have my vibe on hand...it ends in an amazing orgasm for both of us. I only like it fast and hard once we have gone slow and really gotten into it. After that, I beg for it harder...okay enough getting all excited just thinking about it.

Anyway, not everyone likes it and that is okay too. Sex is about doing what feels good for all involved, and anal can be a scary thing to someone who has never tried it or has had a bad experience with it. :bigrin:

I think this says it all, Anal is just not for everyone. For me, it all depends on the person and what is being used. My girlfriend and I have learned from years of spending time with all sorts of lovers what works for us and what doesn't. Now we have enough and experence and tools to keep us happy for days. However, since we have gotten together, I have swore off anal with anyone else. She just got me too damn spoiled to let anyone else try to please me that way, ((((((((((BLUSH)))))))))))

[3ofcups]

I've enjoyed anal sex over the years tho mostly with toys. This is an area where size counts! Too large is too large for some folks and no amount of time or lube will help. My wife mostly does me with a variety of toys which she loves to do. She enjoys anal as well but only with fingers (it'll make her cum immediately!). My current boy is well-hung and I've tried it once and loved it tho the next day was a bit sore - probably didn't take the time to loosen up. If safe sex is not an issue (all of us committed and tested) then the oil=based lubes are much much much better!! We use a variety of lubes each time and that brings out the pleasure with no pain. Gosh, we're having a 3some next week, hummmm...

[Slick Jackson]

Has anyone taken a butt plug inside for an extended period? I was thinking of wearing one to work and staying excited for a long while.... :bibounce:

I enjoy strap-ons and have not had the pleasure a a cock inside of me yet :bigrin:

I have kept a butt plug in my ass for an entire evening, because it felt so damn good...I can do it around the house and my wife has no idea why I am smiling...also I like to use nipple clamps....put on a sweat shirt and no one can tell..

[Reprob8]

Got a new toy yesterday and I really like it, however it is much easier if the wife uses it on me and I can concentrate on masterbating, Wow what a combination. Can't wait to return the favor for her. The one thing I noticed about anal is that if it feels good it continues to feel good for a while after words, love walking around with that sensation.

[Greywolf269]

Keep the replies coming in, I love hearing it.

[allbimyself]

Keep the replies coming in, I love hearing it.
Hey, I enjoy anal as much as anybody, both giving and receiving, but you seem to be obsessing a bit, greywolf. :tong:

[Greywolf269]

Hey, I enjoy anal as much as anybody, both giving and receiving, but you seem to be obsessing a bit, greywolf. :tong:
I may b obsessing, but, when u haven't had the real thing, I think u would as well!

[stanjkl]

I am a 75 year old, sexually active male. I am bi, and, at the moment, in a relationship with another 75 year old widower who, at the time of meeting, was into anal. All through my life's sexual experiences, I jokingly prided myself on trying everything there is in the book. But when it came to anal sex, there seemed to be no GO. In the one or two instances in my lifetime that I tried to experience it, it hurt and hurt badly, and, before penetration could ever occur, I cried out: Stop! So, at age 69, I finally concluded to myself that I would probably die, never experiencing anal sex. Then came the encounter with my present mate. I knew he loved anal and I, once more renewed my interest in anal. We corresponded for several months, he in Montana, I in Ohio. And it was during this time that I began to prepare myself for anal sex: using dildoes, first small, then larger, then even larger. Over time, I came to accept penetration with a dildo calmly and with anticipation. When we finally met, we made love, and, amazingly, anal sex was almost a spiritual experience. 8 years into our relationship now, I look forward to our daily lovemaking which involves several hour long lovemaking interludes, all involving a variety of techniques of which anal is central. The transition from being a virgin at age 69 to a vigorous proponent of anal sex still astounds me. There are caveats: the anal passage should be clear and clean and the abundant use of oil, helps. However, even here, my sphincter is now so relaxed that the overuse of oil is no longer required. Hope this adds something to the discussion.

[lovesmmf]

I love both giving and receiving, but a nice hard cock or a nice stra gives me chills...so receiving for me is #1 it is all about foreplay, willingness, cleanliness, and above all, TRUST

[NJpantyboy69]

The greatest thing as a man getting anal is being soft while you are getting the insertions back and forth across your prostate, and then realizing you are cumming while soft!!! Oh what a neat experiance - better even than the first time you made love to a woman.

The downside is getting a partner that just wants to jab it in and not work with you. What a pain in the ass - literally.

Until I tried anal, I was always worried in my love making sessions that I wouldn't get my turn to give. Now my only worry is after I suck a big cock to full cum, will he be able to get hard again, have enough left to give me a ride. If I need to do something erect, I can always JO later.

This whole experiance is even better while wearing some panties, and cumming in them.

To properly enjoy anal, you have to get ready before hand - clean up good in the shower, including a douche with Summers Eve. This is a turn-on itself. You can get these at the local drug store, and it only costs about one dollar for each ride - when you slide it up, shoot and recover three or four times. The water will be brown, just dump it down the toliet. What fun just getting ready.

Anybody near central NJ shoot me a message, perhaps we can arrange private lessons, and you can see my latest panties.

NJ Panty Boy 69


:tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

[Greywolf269]

Wow, lots of great stories, and alot of good helpful insight! I love hearing about it, just wish I could find someone to enjoy it with!
Grey ;)

[Tx Bi guy]

I have and do play with toys often, but it usually takes a pretty big one to make me happy. I have a few of them, and I always use anal eze and lots of lube. I haven't been with another guy YET :( but that is one of the reasons I joined this site. I love the way it feels, and love it when my wife uses a strapon. I want to feel the real thing cause I know that no toy can feel 100 % real. I want the whole experience with it. My wife doesn't think I could go through with it, but I would definately love to have nice hard cock inside me. I can't wait!!!

[jazz5]

Had done once to me by the couple I was intimate with. Because we were close friends and knew each other a long time we did not practise safe sex as we trusted each other. The experience was glorius.

She liked to suck and lubed me up for a prostrate massage (she just didn't say with what :eek: ) to make me cum harder for her. Just glad he was thin, but it felt good.

[Greywolf269]

With Tx Guy, Can hardly wait 4 the real thing!!

[Wayne12345]

I `ve been a bottom since I was too young to mention on here and have enjoyed it with great pleasure. It`s not for everyone and there is a saying the more lube the better. I`ve become so used to receiving it now that I can relax and not need lube. And when I first started it was a very large penis 10.5" everyday after school for about 7 yrs. The first time I did it orally(anal) I didn`t enjoy it. But last yr. I met someone who I really enjoyed it with.

Doing it bareback nowdays is very very unsafe. Not like when I first began and there was no HIV.

[m.doggg]

I havn't done it yet with the real thing but so far I LOVE it with everything that my wife has used on me. At first it was kinda painfull but after a few times of learning how to do it it feels fanominal. I havn't used anything to large yet but don't worry I'm working on it! ;)

[atopia]

This is a good discussion. The right kinds of advice for beginners and interesting stories from the experienced. I've loved anal eroticism as long as I can remember. I say eroticism because, like sex in general, it isn't just about fucking. Rimming, for example, is something I love to do. Fortunately, most people love having it done to them even if they aren't into being fucked. I've done oral-anal for decades with no health problems. Lucky I guess, who knows? In any case, it makes me very hot to bury my face between my lover's cheeks and work my tongue around and into his or her tight hole for a long time. It's a different kind of oral satisfaction. And when he/she arches his/her butt up and moans that deep moan, well, it's very fulfilling. Another anal pleasure I like a lot is having my prostate massaged. There is nothing more powerful than a prostate orgasm that goes on and on and on without ejaculation. It puts me in an altered state, so high. Most of the women I've been with have enjoyed doing it to me, have been excited by my ecstatic moaning and writhing. One of the most erotic experiences of my life was when two women massaged my prostate at the same time. One of them was my wife Nancy. She had done it so often that she knew exactly how deep to go and where to touch. So she went in first, found the spot, and then the other woman, Sonja, slid in slowly and put her fingertip next to my wife's. My wife said to her, "follow me," and they began circling slowly. It was incredible! I felt so spread open, and the longer it went on the more I opened myself to them. It was unbelievably voluptuous. I was lying face down, so I couldn't see them, but I visualized the scene, and when they stopped talking I knew they were kissing. They began pumping faster, really milking me. Seminal fluid was pouring from my cock and the electrical charge in my prostate built up and up until I started coming nonstop for what seemed like ten minutes. I was completely out of my mind. Then I suddenly needed to be inside Nancy immediately. It always happens like that when someone is doing my prostate. I suddenly have to have them, to be inside them. The women withdrew their fingers very slowly, leaving my prostate throbbing. I raised my hips as they pulled out, as if to keep them in as long as I could. We rolled over quickly and I got between Nancy's legs. She gazed into my eyes with a wild expression and said fuck me hard. I entered her urgently. I couldn't control myself. Sonja lay next to her, teased her nipples and kissed her. Their darting tongues pushed me over the edge and I came screaming, squirting actual sperm this time, into my darling wife. I collapsed, and the women satisfied themselves together as I lay beside them for a long time, gloriously exhausted, with the feeling of their phantom fingers still inside me. This is a true story. I have another one about prostate pleasure with a man, but that will have to wait until later.

[chook]

I reckon...........no matter which way you look at it anal is and allways will be a pain in the arse. :eek:



Cheers Chook :bigrin:

[ready4change0307]

I have tried anal several times..but I have to be very horny and play with my clit in order to really enjoy it!!

I REALLY want to fuck my bf in the ass with a strap-on..but he is against it..although I'm slowly working him!! I've used a finger so far....I think I will blow him using anal beads tomorrow.....

I would also really like to see him give/receive oral or anal with a man..that would really turn me on!!!

Damn..I just wish he would be a little more freaky..he tries, but if the personality doesnt go with the actions....it sucks!!

[Greywolf269]

I really want to be fucked by a guy in the ass in front of my wife, she enjoys watching vids, of guys getting it in the ass, so, I want to take one for her, I hope she will enjoy it!

[Sparks]

As a bottom I can tell you that with the right partner it is very enjoyable. Go for it dude. You won't regret it. PS: Ready, you can bone me with your stapon anytime :2cents:

[Bum_Ditty]

Gawd, I love anal! I have not yet had it with a partner, but have been doing it with various toys for over two years now. I'll probably be an ardent bottom if it ever happens with a male.

I wasn't horny before, but now...

Love all of you folks.

Bum Ditty
:bounce:

[titeabs]

I have tried anal several times..but I have to be very horny and play with my clit in order to really enjoy it!!

I REALLY want to fuck my bf in the ass with a strap-on..but he is against it..although I'm slowly working him!! I've used a finger so far....I think I will blow him using anal beads tomorrow.....

I would also really like to see him give/receive oral or anal with a man..that would really turn me on!!!

Damn..I just wish he would be a little more freaky..he tries, but if the personality doesnt go with the actions....it sucks!!

Just in case your BF denies this fantasy, I would also like to volunteer my tight ass for you . Pretty, pretty, pretty, please? ;)

[wantus269]

Ive buried dildos in my ass all the way to the base of the shaft. Now....i want to feel the real thing. I want to feel the motion. I want to feel him inside me and feel him easing in and out and in and out and as i loosen up a little deeper and a little harder and a little deeper and a little harder. I want to do the same to him. I want to ease my cock into his ass and a little further and a little further. My dildos still somewhat fulfill my last minute craving but the real thing is what I am after, with someone who is patient.

[Greywolf269]

I can't agree with u more want!

[pasco_lol_cpl]

Gotta say that we both love anal, both giving and receiving.

[Greywolf269]

Anal I am hoping is "the bomb"!

[charmed_goddess87]

Hmmm Im not sure if I like it. I actually just tried it like last week with my husband. Hes been wanting it so badly and I gave in. It wasnt that bad. As long as you relax your ok. After I got use to the feeling I really did enjoy it. To bad its gonna be awhile b4 it happens again. ;)

[FerociousFeline]

Oh boy. Well? <looking around>
I guess you'd have to say that I'm MUCH more of an expert here than I'd actually care to admit to. Normally I wouldn't own up to that, however, after having read all of these posts I figure I have some information which might enhance you or your loved ones experience. This is going to be long, might want to get that cup of coffee or have that smoke or something.

Ok. When I was younger, I was struck that both males and females share basically the same genetic code. I believed that most of the attributes that differ between the sexes were actually the result of environment rather than that of innate design. I was absolutely in LOVE with women, and never so much so than watching a woman come to orgasm. I watched as their abdomen rippled and moved in waves of pleasure seemingly sucking the penis in. I envied the longevity of a woman's sexual response cycle, and wanted it for myself. I could go on and on here about the details, but suffice to say that's what led me to discover what I know now, and what I'm about to pass on to yall.

Anal sex is a very dangerous thing. Now before you freak out about that statement, let me tell you, it's like pandora's box. Once you open that door, you will be a slave FOREVER <lol> or, until you can not have it for whatever reason. Seriously. You must be very careful or you can injure yourself or your partner.

Anal intercourse can really spin your head. This is because of several things. One, there are over twice as many nerve endings in your tail than a woman has in her vagina. Two, depending on the preparation, pace, size and depth of the toy or cock, the behavior will release endorphins in your brain putting you into an almost altered state of conciousness. Three, (for those of you metaphysically minded) you can access the energy field which some {including myself} believe to be the location of your soul. This territory is about two to three inches below your navel, and when tapped, can reveal to you feelings of full-fillment <cackle> and contentment like you may have never known.

My most pleasurable experiences have usually been during solitary sex with a toy. To do this right, you need to be very body concious. You need to have a good understanding of the geometry of your body, because being able to visualize what the correct angle of penetration is key to everything. I've found the best position to be hands and knees with tail strait in the air. It's much easier and much more rewarding if you have good abdominal muscle tone. I've noticed before everyone always say's LOTS of lube. They aren't kidding. I will go a little further and tell you that it really depends on the size of your toy, the condition of your tail and the TYPE of lube, but generally I would say you need about at LEAST 3-4oz of either forplay or ID glide administered before you ever start. Put that in, and let it run deep inside. Next make sure your toy has a fresh condom on it. Toys can be deceptively rough. What might feel pretty smooth to your hand can be horrible to your tail. Condoms ensure that the surface will be both sterile and smooth. If you really get into this, remember to CHANGE the condom after about 40 minutes to ensure you protect your tail from a rough surface.
Yep, this is getting pretty long. Let me shorten it a bit by getting to the main point here. (anyone interested in more info can always email me later)
The main point here is that when you are having receptive sex it's just that:
Receptive. You don't thrust, you don't use any force whatsoever. It's very time-consuming because basically, you just tilt up and let your BODY gulp it in AT IT"S OWN PACE. If you have a partner, they can allow you to put both hands down and straighten your lower back. Their job isn't to push in, but rather just to simply hold it up....at the correct angle. When the muscles are ready, they will open. When they do, your eyebrows will move to your hairline as you will be completely stupified by the pleasure.

Now. A few words of warning. If you wind up becoming a slut for it, (meow?)
remember to take breaks. (not just during, but between sessions too. Once a day is probably too often) If your taste runs more to the larger side, remember that for anything over six inches you must move SLOWLY, if at all, when penetrated. Reapply lube to both your tail and the toy OFTEN, and don't worry about wasting the lube. When the orgasm starts, your body will contract hard....ALLOW the toy to leave slowly. This will prevent any damage to your tail.

I hope this will help all of you enjoy safe sane concentual sex. And for those who haven't tried this, well, remember about what they say about a black cat crossing your path ^..^~

FF

[stnorm8]

I am not that experienced in every way but what I have enjoyed was good. I did play with toys of my ex to start with and liked it. When she split I did experience it once with a guy but my only complaint he was way to fast thankfully he was not very big. I did enjoy it but want to enjoy it in a longer lasting setting. Someday when the right situation arises I will not be afraid to enjoy it again.

[Rickh611]

I was both scared and excited at the same time the first time a guy did anal on me. I was in my late teens and the guy was older than me and above average in size. I first did oral on him and then he told me to lie on my stomach not realizing what was about to happen I was laying on the bed facing away from and the next thing I knew he started to spread this cold gel in the crack of my ass. I asked what he was doing and he told me just to relax that I was going to enjoy it.

He was drowning my ass in lube and sticking his finger in my anus to lubricate it and the he smeared it all over his erect cock and washed his hands of the lube came over to the bed and took 2 pillows and he told me to lift up and stuck the pillows underneath me. bringing my ass in the air and then he brought his body over mine holding himself up with his arms he then started to run the tip of his cock up and down my crack and then he placed it at my opening he brought his mouth to my ear and told me again just relax and don't tense I nodded in agreement and he started to push the head in and tightened up in natural fear of being entered anally.


He told me to just relax and let him in I did and the tip of his cock started to enter me and I would be lying if I did not say it hurt and it was because I was tight and he was big which is why he lubricated me so well and I cant stress enough to first timers especially use a lot of lubricant it helps in a big way. once he got the head of his cock inside me the pain wasn't that bad at all and he held himself up and whispered words of encouragement into my ear to help ease my pain but I relaxed like he told me to do and once he got the head in he slowly started putting more of his cock into it felt so intense having and pleasurable having him inside me.

He got about half of his cock into me and he had hit that point and I told him please no more and he stooped and slowly started fucking me with what he had inside me. the feeling was incredible and I immediately blew my load and he then moaned that he was going to cum and he pulled out of me and shot his load all over my ass. my first time was good for me because it was with someone older and very experienced and it can be for you also just tell your partner to take it slow and not to rush into it and by all means load up on the lube it helps a lot and unless you really know the person your with is clean and safe I don't suggest going bareback. have him wear a condom so your both protected.

I hope this helps.......................Rick

[69Steve]

That brings back pleasant exciting memories Ricky…………

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[shewolf]

[QUOTE=zarine]when i let my boyfriend do it, he just thrusts away despite my shrieks and protests and weeping.[QUOTE]


Hmmmm.....reading this makes me kinda mad too.....wouldn't that be classified as RAPE!

[69Steve]

[QUOTE=zarine]when i let my boyfriend do it, he just thrusts away despite my shrieks and protests and weeping.[QUOTE]


Hmmmm.....reading this makes me kinda mad too.....wouldn't that be classified as RAPE!

Yeah, not too pleasant either…….& it is

[upones]

i do enjoy all forms of anal. i enjoy receiving more than giving and find while a toy is fine the real thing is better mostly because of the total body contact of my partner.

[To_by]

:(
: and anal beads r exhilirating hello! seeing a guy have the most intense orgasm of his life w/ anal beads while i'm blowing him, after he swore he'd never let me put anything back there, and knowing just how good it must have felt...hell, i didn't need anything more, just watching that was enough for me :tong: :(:

For some reason this description seems funnier than hell ! Thanks for the laugh. I see I'm gonna have to get into anal beads... :rolleyes:

[izzfan]

Well, I have tried it both giving and recieving (anal) in one night a few months back and neither seemed particularly good/comfortable....I prefer oral any day.

Izzfan :flag2:

[AngelOfTheMystic]

I personally have never tried anal...I don't think that I would like it though. I don't know...I guess one of these days I may get up the courage to try it. The god ole' fashion way is fine by me though!

[writersblock]

Have given anal but never received which is something I'd like to chnage soon. Guys have told me lots about the intensity of an orgasm when a guy is having you and I'd certainly like some of that!

[Hector]

I love anal penetration. Is that the main reason I have sex with guys. If I meet someone for sex and he doesn’t like anal sex I never go out with him. It is a very special feeling to be penetrated by a guy.
Of course, I like other thing to do as longer is clean and without pain. :)

[genera101.2]

i've acutally received it more than i have given it, at least when we are talking about guys and the last was in 2004. i received it a couple times before i got married and loved it. my ex-wife and i had a strap-on and she did me several times. i did my ex-wife and several girlfriends in the arse. my first guy was great too, which happened in 2003. love it and love giving it. :flag3: :male: :male: :female: :male: :female: :female:

[bi-in-wausau2]

As the many other posts have said, take it slow and easy, lots of lube. I introduced a girl to anal and took her virgin ass. I was slow and gentle, and picked up the pace a little once she got used to it and all went well. a few days later, she asked me to do her up the butt again, so i guess I did ok !

that said, I do beleave that some people may be sensitive in that part of their body and just no enjoy it unless the man is small. what can hurt it really long dicks. When I've taken a dick in my ass what can hurt is too deep if they are long, or the wrong angle. a pillow or two under you butt when facing up can really help. doggie style also works well.

I just want to find a guy to fuck me more often though.... and would love to find a girl to do me, something I have not had yet.

[mcliff128]

At first, I only used toys. But after having the real thing I find it even more enjoyable. The best is having your lover explode deep inside you, for me nothing beats that feeling.

[biuser]

did the toys had the real thing a few times, prefer the real thing,,, it gives more. lol as for the person cumming inside me, a few times i have allowed it to see what it feels like, truthfully i don't feel the load or it being shot up my ass... any others have the same of not feeling the hot load?

[biuser]

At first, I only used toys. But after having the real thing I find it even more enjoyable. The best is having your lover explode deep inside you, for me nothing beats that feeling.
shame i never felt that explosion inside can you really feel the fluid or the penis swelling?

[jamiehue]

don't stop!!!!!!

[joxbear69]

I prefer to top; but I have bottomed a couple of times. I had a good time, just enjoyed being top--could be that I have a fuck-buddy that really goes wild while getting fucked (hard, gentle, fast, slow, any position, etc). Another part of anal play I enjoy, both giving and receiving, is rimming. Nothing gets me going more than a hot tongue --- the anal/perianal area is full of nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated. Try it; you may really enjoy it. Just remember to be safe; prep yourself ahead of time with plenty of self stim/stretching &/or toy fun; and be sure to clean yourself out ahead of time with a simple enema/water bottle.

[tommyswing]

I perfer the bottom, it's not only the pleasure it gives me during the act, but I have a nice warm sensation for hours after.

[berryhard]

only trid it with toys but loved it! can't help but wonder if haveing a cock that is hot and hard slide deep into my ass is a better feeling ???

[biwillem]

I love anal sex and I love to see that I am not the only one

[cdyum]

I love being seduced and feeling my man going deep inside of me and the feel of his massive cockhead as it pushes its was deep in my fanny

[carlb]

did the toys had the real thing a few times, prefer the real thing,,, it gives more. lol as for the person cumming inside me, a few times i have allowed it to see what it feels like, truthfully i don't feel the load or it being shot up my ass... any others have the same of not feeling the hot load?
The anus and rectum are very sensitive (maybe even too sensitive) near the end, with plenty of nerve endings, but I think this becomes far less true further inward. You feel him becoming excited then tensing up, you know what you've done to him, and you can feel that you've left him somewhat, er, drained at the end of all this but actually feeling the ejaculation itself directly? Far less likely.

[carlb]

Not having the proper foreplay early on can and usually does make the initial penetration painful. On the same hand, with foreplay using lubrication, inserting one, then two, then multiple fingers, or using a vibrator to loosen up the spincter muscle, to me makes the insertion and anal stimulation more arrousing.

The risk with using fingers to loosen up initially is that often fingernails are too long for this sort of thing. When they scratch, they can hurt.

Easiest usually is to start off by using a toy (such as a buttplug, something with no sharp edges and that can't get lost inside) on yourself. That way, you control the insertion - if it feels uncomfortable you know to slow down or remove it and add more lube. After less than a minute, typically it is in-place, pain-free, so that the muscles in that area can then get accustomed to something being inside and finally relax.

There are two sets of muscles that hold the anus shut; the outer ones are under voluntary control, the inner ones are not. Normally, both are pulling closed at almost full-force. To get both sets relaxed, if you're not doing this often, does mean some level of advance preparation - and for that the toys work well.

With no advance preparation, on a first attempt? He's not going in there, quite simply. Haven't had it work yet. With all the muscles pulled shut - their normal resting state - either it isn't going to fit in at all or it's going to rapidly become more of a PITA than it's worth.

[carlb]

I've fingered my ass and used my wife's vibrator (which she doesn't know)in my ass. I liked the way it felt and can't wait to have another man slide his cock balls deep into my ass.
Usually not a good idea to use vaginal toys anally - taking anything from the anus back to the vagina can take a lot of bacteria with it, causing vaginal infections. Best to have your own toys instead of expecting to share.

[carlb]

The only problem with anal is I would be way self conscious if I was bottoming. It can be a pain in the butt to make sure you are clean up there.

Not that difficult to avoid. Enema or douche had already been mentioned, but all you need is something like the "rectal syringe" ("poire rectale") - a plain handheld rubber squeeze-bulb designed to be filled with ordinary water. A little over $5 in drugstores (if you can find one). Looks similar in shape (and operation) to the ones used to wash out the ears but much larger in size. Two bulbfuls of water inside is enough, then drain into the toilet and repeat. Done.

[afterdark75]

I love being versitle it helps and is awesome. Nothing better than feeling it up in you.

[DiamondDog]

I find anal sex to be the most overrated sex act EVER!, and I don't get the obsession about it.

Or as I've heard it put so eloquently before by others: "That shit hurts!"

[Azrael]

So fine the line between pleasure and "Jesus, man you tryin to break me in half?"

[damit1963]

Usually not a good idea to use vaginal toys anally - taking anything from the anus back to the vagina can take a lot of bacteria with it, causing vaginal infections. Best to have your own toys instead of expecting to share.

I also used my wife's toys for my first and only time. I read that it can be bad for infection and washed as best I could (the toy afterwards). The part for me was that I used her silver bullet and was afraid the wires would break off when I pulled it out. I need to go buy my own toys because I loved the feeling I had.

[rissababynta]

short and simple. we love anal :bigrin:

[wss30152]

Ass Sex Rules!!!

[H2OBoy]

The lube can make all the diff.As was said it's not a virgina.Most of my action has been with my "dilly",and the orgasims are big,but it is mostly an end to a means,ie helps you cum when masturbating,or ''single sex'' as i like to call it.
Have had two live experiences,didn't result in cumming,but I rode that guy into tomorrow. Would love an all-niter with a over 7"er.. ..Anal is Nice...!!

[nnjbicoupleforplay]

Both Love it with a capital L!!

nnjbicouple4play

[SexyTanBiBoy]

Not the real thing, but during a FFM encounter I got drilled with a vibrating dildo while getting sucked off... talk about incredible!

[nedward]

being a bottom is great but definately need lots of lube. Condom is a must. Potential complication is proctitis which can be treated with Cipro for 3 days. The only drawback is a partner with little or no experience.

[Fizban]

I am anxiously awaiting my first anal experience with a man. My wife has used dildos on me and I loved it. I am ready now for the real thing!

[elian]

Toys are fun - learning sexual responses is fun - I've *almost* got the multiple orgasm thing down, but I'm still a "virgin" as far as actual experience with a real partner.

I would imagine the correct amount of lube, etc. is important, as is relaxation level and cleanliness. It might be pleasurable - if the passion is there. Otherwise, if it amounts to a bunch of vikings on a conquest type of thing I'm not so sure.

[mark123]

I've not had a "real" cock inside my ass yet but I really want to experience it. My wife and I have a male friend who she has sex with and I suck off sometimes and he mentioned that he'd like to pound my a-hole sometime while she watches. I can't wait!

[hornyashell]

I LOVE IT BUT EXPERIENCE IS A MUST

[Bihornyguy]

I haven't had a real one yet either but I HAVE had years of fun with anal play, working up from finger to bullet vibes to realistic dildos. I just got 2 new dildos this week. A nice 6" cyberskin and a 8" Jelly. The 6 incher is perfect.
The 8" is a TINY bit too wide but in time it'll be great as well.

[taldor2]

did the toys had the real thing a few times, prefer the real thing,,, it gives more. lol as for the person cumming inside me, a few times i have allowed it to see what it feels like, truthfully i don't feel the load or it being shot up my ass... any others have the same of not feeling the hot load?

I have had the real thing two times. Once with a condom, once without. I didn't feel the cum either time, but it still was a turn on for me when they came. I just liked the feeling of them getting off by fucking me.

[guydvd]

Like it

[truckr221]

I love it. With either sex, I prefer top, but will bttm. also.:tongue:

[Bihornyguy]

I love it. With either sex, I prefer top, but will bttm. also.:tongue:


Give and take! Sounds fair to me!

[anteak]

I'm male and anal started for me in HS. I had two friends that I played with. mutual JO usualy till we discovered anal. I spent most PMs with Bob G. his parents had a porn collection that we read and played with our cocks till we shot our loads. Bob G tried sucking my cock once but I couldn't cum. He said he had fucked the girl that cleaned their house and I was curious as to how it felt to have your cock inside someone. Our solution to the ? was for him to stick his cock in my ass and make a comparison. he fucked me and shot his load. He said it felt good and almost like a pussy so I fucked him and had my first experience of cumming inside another person. It became something we did often using his mothers wave set as a lube. I told Bob H what I was doing with Bob G. and he wanted to try it. Occaisionaly I slept over at his place. We slept on the roof of their Apt. building. It was a great opportunity to have sex so we would fuck each other, never did oral with Bob H. This went on till I entered the service. Got married, had 3 kids, M2M sex didn't even occur to me. In my 40s I met Ray, turned out Ray was "Bi" and gave me my first M2M blow job. I would stop by his place Mon. AMs (he was off work Mons.) and get sucked. once he had a guy staying with him and Ray suggested he fuck my ass. I remembered how good it felt in HS and agreed. This turned out to be a regular Mon. morning thing. I would show up, whomever was there would fuck me then Ray would suck me off. Ray told me about "Gay Baths" I eventually visited one and got fucked. I traveled a lot in those days and visited them on weekends in whatever city I was in. Got fucked many many times, eventually sucked a cock to get him hard so he could fuck me. I loved having a hard cock shoved up my ass. This was all B4 aids. When that happened I stopped getting fucked except by people I knew well. I'm now 85 D free, had prostate sugery and no longer ejaculate. Still get hard and JO almost daily. Had a suck buddy til he moved away. (Damn) so havent had sex w/anyone since he moved and My wonderful GF Died. Would love to get fucked again, suck a cock, eat a creampie. Anything sexual with other people. :-)

[Mr. Magick]

i've tried it quite a few times, to make sure that maybe it gets better with each time, but honestly, so far it has only been worse and worse every time! i absolutely hate it. it's painful and at the same time it feels like i'm taking a shit after eating a super-spicy dinner.

maybe i should start another thread about this, but i'll ask anyway... what are some health risks of anal sex (besides getting HIV)? i heard that you can get sick if the poo gets shoved back up into your intestines. and, of course, once your butt loosens up, you have to go poop a lot more often. none of these sound like things i'd really want to deal with, especially since the anal sex experience isn't even rewarding at all for me. lately i've been starting to feel like the only person on the planet who hates anal sex! everyone seems obsessed with it, and it practically seems to be the "cool" thing to do. man, i'm always such a misfit!

My gay friends tells me that they use a baking soda and water duche or an enima to clean out first. This make a lot of sense to me. I mean I love Anal But I don't like wiping poop off my dick.

[Mr. Magick]

My experience so far has been as a top. I've always wanted to try Btm and have been doing it to myself since I was a teenager, I love the feeling. My problem has always been finding a Top to do it with. I think this town is Top starved or something!

[dick8823]

Anal is fun when done correctly. I have had both good and bad experiences. First of all make sure your bowels are cleaned out then use plenty of lube. When you think you have enough, add more. Relax, when you tense up it will hurt when the head pops in. Until your fully open, make sure your partner goes slow. In the case of anal, width can hurt and length can feel real good. Make sure you choose a partner that is not too thick for you. Otherwise, relax and enjoy.

[mark123]

I had my first anal experience a couple of weeks ago! I was definitely topped by a very dominant guy!
OMG! After I sucked him, he lubed up bent me over my sofa and slammed his cock inside me! He didn't give me time to get use to it. I couldn't believe how sharp the intense pain felt at first but the pain dissipated and started feeling good while he was fucking me.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol For me personally, Hon...thats an exit not an entrance thank you Very much! lol I have tried and I am so tight that its Extremely painful. No amount of lube was able to fullfill my partners horny fantasy..lol
Different strokes for different folks. (No pun intended) ;)
Cat

[jamieknyc]

So far, I have only had it from toys, and although that was hot (and I had a nice orgasm from it), it also felt like a foreign object. I haven't had the real thing yet.

[bioralbottom]

As for me, I love anal. I'm a bi male and that is the one thing that gets me hot and very horny thinking that I'm going to get it in my ass. I love a big hard cock entering my ass and having the feeling that your completely stuffed. I have had three guys that rammed my ass and only one of them really did it for me. He had an 8" cock and he was very thick, I thought at first my god, I don't think I'm going to be able to take him. I wanted to back out of it, but I just wanted to see what it felt like and when he stuffed it all the way in. I was so glad that, I did go thru with it. Here's a pic of me taking it:tongue:3075

[Ascorpionrose]

As a female, I can love it or leave it. Anal is a very intimate act for me that I only share with my closest lovers. It is an act of submission for me and being that I am not that submissive during sex, this is a big deal.

I can enjoy it immensely with the right partner, even if he is larger than most. Anal requires mental preparation and trust.

Other stimuli, like masturbating and talking dirty adds to the excitement of the event.

Yes, I often introduce anal to my male partners, but without too much persistance so they can learn trust and relax into the idea and experience.

[guycurious]

I'd love to try and fit two guys inside me at the same time. The more I'm stretched the better it feels!!!

[HappyWithAll]

I've had anal sex with my wife on many occasions. Some she hasn't been so fond of and others she has played with her clit while I did it and had earthshattering orgasms. It depends on her mood I suppose.

She has one of those vibrators that has the clit extension on it and one time she used it on my ass, the clit extension part of it vibrated against my balls while she blew me and OMG I nearly blew her head off when I came. She normally swallows every drop, but that time she had a hard time keeping up and there was some that ended up running down her chin.

I was absolutely breathless afterwards. She very much enjoys it when I cum inside her and we've managed to find a way to have this vibrator inside me like this when I'm inside her. Having this explosive orgasm inside her made her cum so incredibly hard I thought she was going to pinch me off. Absolutely amazing.

[shortandsassy]

I am quite fond of it Grey, "try it you'll like it"!! Heehehehehehe

[Bunni23]

I enjoy anal sex on occasion. It's something I never thought I would like or even want to try despite being a pretty experiemental person.

But the a couple years ago my curiosity began to grow into the idea of trying some anal stuff, so I tried some stuff on my own with toys/fingers. It was basic and not a huge turnoff. So then that combined with my boyfriend's interest of trying it (he had never done it to anyone), I decided to give it a go.

The first couple of times we took it real slow and gentle and it really didn't do anything for me. So while it wasn't something all that pleasurable to me, it wasn't as bad as I used to think it might be when I was younger.

After the first few times, we both became much more comfortable with it and it was easier to do. As that happened it became much more enjoyable for me and really became a turn on. I always just get this extra wave of sexual desire when I have anal sex now. It's definitely a different kind of horniness and "getting fucked" feeling than from regular sex, and it can really drive me wild.

With that said, we don't do it very often -- maybe just a couple times a month. But, it's something we enjoy doing to mix things up and I'm glad I decided to try it because it really isn't what it seems like before you do it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol For me, I'd have to state that that's an exit, not an entrance, thank you Very much!"
I've tried it in the past, and I am just so tight that its extremely painful for me, no matter How much foreplay and lube that has been used. (guess this makes me a Literal tight ass...lol)

I've had it done perhaps three times in my life, and it was just terrible each time. :( But, I had to give it a shot and see.
The Ex-husband wasnt gentle or easy and just carred about "Getting His"
I tried with a different lover and it was the same, extremely painful for me, and I was so tight that the third time I tried, he lasted about thirty seconds..lol.
So my loves, to you that love it I say more power to ya! :}
Have fun, Darlings.
Your tight assed Cat :cool:

[jfra18]

loved it

[bisexvabeach]

LOVE ANAL EVERY WAY SHAPE AND FORM

[evilpanda]

Just want everyones thoughts about anal. Like it or not? What are your thoughts on it? Me personally, Haven't tried it wit the real thing, but, I can hardly wait to try! :male:

I'm not ready to do it. I would like to, but don't mind waiting or doing other things, even though I know a guy who wants to do me real bad. He's a friend and I trust him with most other things but...

... anal sex - let's be honest - is risky and requires more trust than I am willing to give. There isn't a condom invented that is unbreakable and the rectum, without lubrication, will likely cause it to break. Also, I have tried giving anal sex with a condom on and it doesn't work. I know it's possible, but just too risky for my tastes.

Honestly, though, it's not something I'm going to lose any sleep over. I've played with my own ass and didn't get much out of it. Plus, some guys have hemorroid problems and that can't be good for it. I love oral sex much much more and am happy pleasuring a guy that way.

[robbie09]

Your anus is such an erogenous zone, when stimulated in the right way it feels great. This combined with the the associated taboo makes it double enjoyable. My favourite position is with my tounge thrust deep into my wife's ass. I know this is so wrong, but it does it for me.

[lv69cpl69]

My wife loves it!! and when she uses a finger or toy on me I cum so hard you would think I am going to blow the head off! someday I will get to feel "the real thing" as my wife puts it. I never had anything in there until her finger now I want MORE!!!!!!:male::bigrin:

[bityme]

Anal is Great! There is only one time when it is no longer enjoyable.

When they stop!!!!!!!!!!!

[Alice Green]

I have to say the feeling is great, I started experimenting with a butt plug and the feeling just felt so good.

[alegrias]

For physiological reasons, I don't personally want anal on me. It would hurt too much, even with lotsa lube.

On the other hand, the idea of watching my man get anal is a real turn-on for me.

[justbime]

A plug or small vibrator is nice when applied nice and slow. Trust with your partner is a big deal. I like to cum but not through pain.

[Realist]

I lived with a bi-married couple several years ago and the husband was endowed with a massive penis. Neither his wife, nor I, could accept him, but he enjoyed being on the receiving end of anal sex.

His wife also was delighted to watch us and one of her favorite things was to be in the missionary position with him, then have me enter him on top. She was very visual and liked watching us three interacting in her dresser mirror. It took some doing to get our moves coordinated, but once established, it was a kick for all three.

Being curious, she decided to try anal with me. We used a lot of lube and took our time, letting her be the judge to continue, or stop. My much smaller member ( mine being a bout 6" and his being a chubby 9) was able to enter her without much pain and she wanted it to end in an orgasm for me, which it did.

Although, it wasn't that arousing for her, she wasn't hurt and was OK for the experience. Later, a few times, with both her husband and me in her (Him vaginally and me anally) she liked that a little better, but it was not something we did often. She did it mostly because her husband loved doing it and I wasn't hurting her.

I, too, am not a big fan of being on the receiving end of anal sex. My girlfriend has no desire for it, either.

[Fred_Brice]

As a young boy growing up, I had discovered my passion for self pleasures, my quest for new experiences of my exploration of my own body I had a desire for me to experience Anal penetration. I do not recall all or the number and types of objects I have used to penetrate myself. I was able to find my prostate and learned how to reach orgasm by stimulating and massaging it from inside. I had often wondered if this was first stage of becoming “'gay” (if can you “become gay”) by becoming Anally responsive. To me, I learning about my body and I found that I was often exploring and enjoyed the many moments of pleasures and the experiences that it could provided me.

I often, wondered what it would be like to have a real cock inside me, and the thought was somewhat arousing, many times as a much young person, I tried to insert my own cock inside me and was able to get the head all the way in. As far as other anal pleasures, I found that I would have to rely on various toys and other items. I have a small collection of sex toys I have used for anal penetration over the years, including various types of anal probes, a firm silicone penis, and a few different types of butt plugs.

My favorite item by far is a nine inch curved tip battery powered vibrating dildo. It is a unique sensations as I experience the stretching my Anus progressively as I work it deeper inside myself, until it slides past my Anus and slips silently deep into my manhole. It is then time to lay back, relax, and enjoy the sensations of being, filled to capacity with a solid vibrating object. I love the large curved end for the 'filled-up' sensation and the stretching, and vibration for probing and thrusting. The tip is so smooth, it often does not need a lot of lubrication, a little bit of water at most will allow it to effortlessly glide into me. I have reached several orgasms without ever having to touch my own cock, and the orgasms are awesome! I learned to enjoy Anal penetration and inner massage as a young teenager.

Anal masturbation is an awesome experience, and can be, safely performed, if you are very careful at first until you get to know yourself. Make sure you have lots of lubrication for those times when you lose control and wear yourself raw. Times like that are when you can become careless and injure yourself. Take it slow and learn yourself, and enjoy it. You should not have any guilt or doubts about your sexuality. Massaging your prostate and liking it does not mean you are gay. I would also recommend evacuating the area beforehand, I use an improvised douche/enema find that it works nicely.

Once you grown tired of toys and butt plugs maybe, you are ready for a real cock. I often think back at my 1st real cock inside of me and every since that 1st time, I have been hooked and I now love Anal Penetration!

[bi guy]

First time I got anal the guy was pretty thick....it hurt....a LOT. I had decided that anal wasn't for me, but when I felt him cum in my ass...WOW!!..what a great feeling. After that I didn't care how much it hurt I couldn't wait to get more.

I have to admit that it took me a long time to get to where I could take a cock without it hurting, but once I got there I loved it.

[boca.openminded]

I have to say the feeling is great, I started experimenting with a butt plug and the feeling just felt so good.

Thats exactly where I am. I tried a med size plug and upgraded to a larger size one. So far thats all of my experience but so far so good but would prefer the real thing..

[ishouldtryit]

At one time in my life the entire idea disgusted me. But then something in my head changed and suddenly I found myself craving it. I haven't done it yet, but I really want to. Just have to find the right person.

[handpuppetboy]

I love all things anal, especially getting fisted.

[AlternatingRed]

I have only ever tried it once with another girl. :bibounce: Well, course it was a toy, but I have to say it was nice. I kinda considered it to be like a g-spot. It intensifies things but I needed more than just that going on. Buuut I think I need more practice to kinda get the hang of it. I am also very nervous of a guy doing it to me, I mean in case he gets a bit rough. I am still at the "nervous stage" about it I suppose; but wanting to try more....!

[JP1986UM]

Love love love it.

Its the best thing for a gay or bi male to do or get done to them.

My wife was an anal virgin until after I came out of the closet.

No longer.

I was more active bisexually when I was younger, but after marriage, well you know how that goes.

Now I am just looking for Mr. Right to restart my sex life as a bimale.

You have to be careful, be safer, use lots of lube, and go slowly.

Its wonderful bottom or top.

[grxclaus]

I haven't tried it either but I think it should happen after two guys have been doing oral for sometime and are ready to move to the next level. It should be intercourse only.

That's just my opinion. :tongue:

[Riles_Mac8]

I like receiving better than giving, but I do like to give also.

[Rudy75]

I haven't tried it either but I think it should happen after two guys have been doing oral for sometime and are ready to move to the next level. It should be intercourse only.

That's just my opinion. :tongue:

I'm not sure what that means.

My bf and I enjoy 69 very much, and that's great. I used to hate the idea of anal, but now I find the idea appealing. I'm just not ready yet.

:male::male:

[BiWayfarer]

All bottom here at this relatively late point in life, more as a matter of circumstance than choice. God knows I'd like to be top sometime, but it would require a very favorable situation given the reality that my erections tend to be insufficiently firm and enduring to get the job done. Thank GOD I've learned that being on the receiving end can be quite pleasurable, given that he's not very thick and into giving good foreplay. Hope to enjoy more than what little I have thusfar had.

[Agoofball]

As for me, I love anal. I'm a bi male and that is the one thing that gets me hot and very horny thinking that I'm going to get it in my ass. I cant take thick though and about 7 is the best length for me..... still though not everytime do I loosen up enough to "get laid"