The man or the cock? [Archive]

Bibabyblues

Dec 17, 2014, 1:25 PM

altimer23

Dec 17, 2014, 2:12 PM

while i don't want to meet shrek, for me its all about the cock. pretty new so its been limited, but so far so good.

Realist

Dec 17, 2014, 3:17 PM

JackTexas94

Dec 17, 2014, 4:22 PM

If this wasn't a popular feeling, glory holes wouldn't exist. The older I get, the more I need to like the guy too but most of my bi life, it's just been about the dick, and cum.

I agree

dick_pumper

Dec 17, 2014, 10:32 PM

I definitely have more attraction to cock then the guy in most cases but he at least has to appeal to me in some fashion. I've had a few hit me up for BJ's that I thought were crazy or ugly or to hairy etc. and I turned them down.

sysper

Dec 17, 2014, 11:24 PM

i'm attracted to the guy but it's sexual attraction not emotional, with women it's both. although i have never been with a guy so i don't know from experiance.

lonewolf2914

Dec 18, 2014, 12:08 AM

I'm attracted to both. I like a handsome that i can get aroused by.I'm also attracted to a beautiful shemale and hoping she has a big thick cock.

mikeyd270

Dec 18, 2014, 12:26 AM

All my bi years with men my interest has only been waist down. I want that cock.

TXLonestarTX69

Dec 18, 2014, 5:22 AM

Agree with most of the other posts...it's 100% sexual and only really interested in the cock, especially if it's nicely shaped and well groomed.

Grub Worm

Dec 18, 2014, 6:26 AM

all about the dick, sex here but not the lover, cum is my reward.

CurEUs_Male

Dec 18, 2014, 6:44 AM

When I first discovered my interest, absolutely all about the cock. That has shifted (without a lot of experience) to a desire for a friends-first attitude. I want a buddy I can hang out with, get together with for drinks, an occasional night out, as well as some cock play too....

naztypanty

Dec 18, 2014, 9:30 AM

Men don't turn me on, but the cock does. I like feminine body shapes but want to reach up a girl's skirt and find a boy's package.

BiCuriousVAN

Dec 18, 2014, 9:19 PM

For me, it is probably 90% cock. I don't look at men and think they are hot, but I am a bit selective about whose cock I suck. I communicate first and we exchange a few photos first. That being said, once we get together and we start taking each others clothes off, the body doesn't matter much anymore, as it is all cock and ass.

cbj4162

Dec 18, 2014, 10:47 PM

It is both for me but, lean more toward it being about the dick. I love it!!

cbj4162

Dec 18, 2014, 10:48 PM

Agree with most of the other posts...it's 100% sexual and only really interested in the cock, especially if it's nicely shaped and well groomed.

yeah, i agree with you bro. I like thick with a big head. :)

doorman2107

Dec 18, 2014, 11:21 PM

The Cock as long as it's shaved and "cut" for me

firebird19

Dec 19, 2014, 2:52 AM

Its not the man,I see the cock and I want it in my mouth!!!

julyguybill

Dec 19, 2014, 10:23 AM

to me it is both if I don't like the guy that's it I keep going but if I like the man I will suck him off but I do enjoy giving oral sex

nomorenomore

Dec 19, 2014, 1:07 PM

I am with Realist. I have to like the person. Not into one-offs. I do find that when watching porn, I get attracted to the cock, but if I were to "be" with someone, I would have to like them.

bikink

Dec 19, 2014, 2:57 PM

I am interested in the cock. I am not attracted to men like I am with women. I don't want to kiss a man, or cuddle, or be passionate with him. I want to suck his dick and if it works out, put it in my ass after a nice rimming. I don't play much at all, maybe once every other year, but I can tell you, I have a lot of issues with guys when I tell them I only want the cock. Some get quite pissed and offended.

newporter4u

Dec 19, 2014, 5:55 PM

For me it is the cock, not into kissing but love sucking on that cock. Be nice to find the right sized top to play with....

Cuiriousmark

Dec 19, 2014, 6:03 PM

definitely the trumpet and dare I say the bells as well... staying in the X-mas spirit!

cuttin2dachase

Dec 19, 2014, 7:00 PM

I have to say the main reason I seek other men is to play with and suck their cocks and have them return the favor. Being naked in bed with a man is as fun and pleasurable to me as being naked in bed with a woman. I get a very different erotic feeling with men than I do with women, but both feelings equally excite me sexually. Meeting a hot and willing sexual partner is my primary aim. His/her looks are secondary, but like most other people, I am turned off by obese, ugly or unhygienic women or men. If a man or a woman is average to good looking to me, even with a few extra pounds, I am good to go if he/she is sincere and serious about exploring each other sexually. To me it is just icing on the cake if a sexual partner is particularly physically attractive and/or finds me physically attractive. After 1st meeting with either a man or woman, I will either want to see them again or not want to see them again. They will either want to see me again or not, as well. It's only after mutual chemistry/good vibes are established that I might become more attracted to the person inside the naked body.

TXLonestarTX69

Dec 20, 2014, 7:26 AM

I like it! Ho Ho Ho.

definitely the trumpet and dare I say the bells as well... staying in the X-mas spirit!

dutchmale

Dec 20, 2014, 8:08 AM

Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. If I'd never found myself in a MFM threesome, I never would tried oral sex on a man. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.

in a way i feel the same ... but i have had a few times i really thought a guy was hot and got a hard one just looking at him .. but those moments are very rare .. (only happened 2 times)
in general i dont "see" men that way .. i like looking at womans way better ...
but sexually its like i just get so hot from guys ... cock drives me wild .....

trumpet2012

Dec 20, 2014, 11:56 AM

I feel the same way I love to watch guys jacking off, being sucked, sucking, cumming so for me also bring out the cock I'm ready.

MdTony

Dec 20, 2014, 1:25 PM

Definitely the cock is the star of the show! If the guy happens to be good looking, great but not necessary. He has to be clean and willing. Lots of guys are jerks but the cock potential might make me overlook it.
I would so love to find a shemale to play with Sexy lingerie also ads bonus points! Want her/him to be sensitive and gentle. Leave the macho outside the bedroom!

melbcuteboi

Dec 20, 2014, 8:32 PM

Im definitely all for the cock and the pleasures that are to be had sexually with it, while I don't find guys attractive nor wouldn't even give one a second look down the street as they don't interest me in anyway, I do admit that it doesn't matter what the guy looks like as long as he has a nice looking cock to play with!! Seeing another guys cock is such a turn on and although im not emotionally or physically attracted to men, I do however enjoy the pleasures that only a cock can bring sexually!! As I became more comfortable with my sexuality I found myself trying more and more new things, now I enjoy cock in ways I never dared to think of before..

Cutiliae

Dec 27, 2014, 7:41 PM

I'm only interested in the cock.

onesucker4u

Dec 27, 2014, 9:19 PM

I has always been just the cock, until recently. I had the pleasure of a visit from a 19 yo that was smooth and skinny. He had a pretty face too. So, I went up close to him, and would have kissed his lips but I sensed he had no interest. So, I kissed his neck and worked my way down kissing and likking all over his body. I loved avery inch of his body, exept for legs, cuz of the hair. His beautifull 7" dick was fully erect by the time I got down to it and sucked him to completion. I know now I am very attracted to young , slightly feminine men and would probably go all gay for one that stuck around.

michael51

Dec 27, 2014, 9:49 PM

the cock,bigger would be better

jackofbothtrades

Dec 28, 2014, 9:25 AM

I know now I am very attracted to young , slightly feminine men and would probably go all gay for one that stuck around.
Me too. Met a very good looking 23 year old at a Christmas party and was immediately very attracted to him. I would have been willing to do just about anything with him sexually. Alas, he wasn't bi.

whistle1

Dec 29, 2014, 1:37 PM

I have never had any interaction with another man, so I can only provide the point of view of a curious guy. I am constantly checking out women wherever I go, but I don't pay attention to men at all.

I don't watch much porn, but I find myself looking at the women (face & body) and the cocks. Certainly, it's nicer to see a cock on a guy who is in shape and doesn't look like a troll.

If i ever did act on my curiosity, I would not want to be with just any random cock. I would need to feel comfortable with the person first - not in an emotional sense, but more that the guy is discreet, clean and not a psycho.

void()

Dec 31, 2014, 8:24 AM

Nope, for me it's the person, compatibility, mutual interests, trust. I have to care about anyone, or preferably love them, before I can feel arousal and the desire to share intimacy with anyone....male, or female. Always been that way, always will.

In much the same boat. That noted, I do at times simply desire the cock. I have to honestly say I'm attracted to both, the person and the packaging. That I think is fairly human. For the most though I agree with you, need the person as a whole. Bah, I'm so wiffle waffle, make up my mind honey, tell me which side I choose. *lol*

Oh wait, I'm not meant to choose. I'm bisexual, in the middle always. *grin*

goodsonformom

Dec 31, 2014, 11:12 AM

In my earlier days of Bisexual relations, I was far more all about the "cock" and being told what to do. I was 18+ and submissive. I was shared with older mature males, who's desires were mostly about getting their cock sucked by a younger male. Decades later I am no longer that submissive boy. I no longer would drop to my knees to suck any cock. I need intimacy. It took a long time for me to recognize, or acknowledge that......And to me intimacy is not simply sexual and maybe not at all really.....maybe it's shared secrets or an amazing connection....but of course in many ways it's still about the cock....the taste and the look....but in the end it's still more about what that cock is connected to....the person.....his heart and mind.....

NEBiGuy

Jan 4, 2015, 12:03 PM

All about the cock. I describe myself as bi-sexual and hetero-romantic. The caveat is that I have to know and trust the guy well enough to feel comfortable going for said cock (and his hygeine has to be impeccable "Smell, bro? Hell no!") But I never look at a guy and think "he's hot", or cute, or anything really. What I find is that keeps me open to a wide variety of male body types, as long as the cock is of sufficient length for me to get a vigorous pounding in my ass.

Women however, I feel romantically attracted to. Cuddle, snuggle kind of stuff in addition to sex. Women I'll kiss. Men... I have to be so damn lost in erotic bliss before I can get to the point where that sounds hot.

Dunmor

Jan 4, 2015, 12:36 PM

I think it's both, the man and the cock. Pleasing the man is first and it is via his cock that makes it possible. Some men are A holes and for me it's a lost cause, others are great and the experience is wonderful...

PeninAZ

Jan 6, 2015, 12:25 PM

Personally the guy has to by SUPER CUTE to get my attention in public, as I'm more into cock than man. If a guy is unattractive, however, I may not be willing to play, unless of course his dick is THAT good. I like seeing guys suck cock, but love more women sucking, still focusing on the cock. I can't see myself in a serious relationship with a man, unless maybe 'we' had 'a' girlfriend too, but I'm game to play. I honestly can't tell for sure whether it's merely a cock fetish or not, but whatever you know?

like2bepegged

Jan 6, 2015, 6:30 PM

you know im all about the dick bout the dick, no guy

cbb83

Jan 8, 2015, 2:52 PM

Sounds more like a penis fixation than an actual sexual orientation for some peeps.

NEBiGuy

Jan 8, 2015, 6:16 PM

Sounds more like a penis fixation than an actual sexual orientation for some peeps.

If the penis is fixated in my ass, you may be right! :)

Bear816

Jan 8, 2015, 7:06 PM

Yep...........for me it's all about the cock. Licking the cock, sucking the cock, etc. Although, I prefer that the guy be close to my age, slightly more aggressive (sexually). And the last thing......the cock MUST be cut. It's just a quirk with me........uncut just doesn't look right to me.

charles-smythe

Feb 24, 2015, 9:32 PM

Hi all
Im writing this to see if other bi guys are like me. Are u attracted to the guy or his dick? I will be honest... I love hard dick, i love licking, sucking, rubbing it. I love cum too. There are men that im attracted to and i love shemales, buts the dick im most in love with.. Mmmm i can feel the til on lips now.... You?
.
...his dick...definitely...that's why I like glory holes so much...don't even have to see the guy...just suck his dick...

homem4il21

May 29, 2015, 1:55 AM

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charles-smythe

May 29, 2015, 4:16 AM

Hi all
Im writing this to see if other bi guys are like me. Are u attracted to the guy or his dick? I will be honest... I love hard dick, i love licking, sucking, rubbing it. I love cum too. There are men that im attracted to and i love shemales, buts the dick im most in love with.. Mmmm i can feel the til on lips now.... You?
…it’s definitely the dick that I’m interested in…that’s what I like about glory holes…the dick is all you see…

Masterslave

May 29, 2015, 5:28 AM

Definitely the dick and as many as possible...oh yeah and the cum!

DownBoy

May 29, 2015, 12:38 PM

The man first since I have a specific type when I'm craving cock. I like older silver-daddy/stocky men, so if I see one that I like and he's also interested in me, I'll bottom for him.

charles-smythe

May 29, 2015, 1:35 PM

Hi all
Im writing this to see if other bi guys are like me. Are u attracted to the guy or his dick? I will be honest... I love hard dick, i love licking, sucking, rubbing it. I love cum too. There are men that im attracted to and i love shemales, buts the dick im most in love with.. Mmmm i can feel the til on lips now.... You?
…personal opinion…one of the differences between gay & bi…is gay is interested in the guy…bi is interested in the dick…gay guys want to make a connection & bi guys just want to suck dick…

The Galion

May 29, 2015, 9:40 PM

If it's a good lookin' cock then the cock! Nice guy that one can trust is a benefactor!

Hoosier

May 30, 2015, 1:48 AM

…personal opinion…one of the differences between gay & bi…is gay is interested in the guy…bi is interested in the dick…gay guys want to make a connection & bi guys just want to suck dick…
Interested in the guy romantically,dosen't hurt to be friends with the guy...

cheil77

May 30, 2015, 2:22 AM

I am more interested in the dick because I look to women for the intimacy and men sex

pole_smoker

May 30, 2015, 2:49 AM

…personal opinion…one of the differences between gay & bi…is gay is interested in the guy…bi is interested in the dick…gay guys want to make a connection & bi guys just want to suck dick…

That's not true at all. There are lots of bisexual men like myself and my husband who do have actual partnerships/relationships with men, and even marry men.

1strider

May 30, 2015, 6:58 AM

Nope, for me it's the person, compatibility, mutual interests, trust. I have to care about anyone, or preferably love them, before I can feel arousal and the desire to share intimacy with anyone....male, or female. Always been that way, always will.

I feel exactly like Realist. I've lived long enough to have my share of sex (M & F) and the most satisfying is with a personal connection.

Franz007

May 30, 2015, 9:10 AM

I never ever have been attracted to a man. It's just the cock. And only in some occasions, for example if i become horny after having watched a porno. I'm 42 years old and since 20 years like that...i remember some men having chated with me and told me i would become attracted to men later and even fall in love..but in 20 years it did not changed at all :-)

Cum1st

May 30, 2015, 11:58 AM

What's in the shorts and everything in the shorts is what gets me going. I really liked glory holing and probably would still be doing it if it wasn't so unsafe.

On the other hand after the cock came and left there was the thought that the guy was going to get horny again and I wouldn't get to be there for a better second round, or more.

Of all the cocks I sucked from the other side of the wall only one owner accepted contact info. We were able to take the sex farther in a more relaxed situation. Our relationship centered on sex, but we were friends to an extent that we enjoyed getting together once a week. Trust and personality are much more important than looks to me.

Oztrich

Jun 5, 2015, 12:18 PM

It depends... I love the cock, but if the guy is compatible, then a good friendship that includes sex is really great. I think I am split on this.

charles-smythe

Jun 5, 2015, 1:22 PM

Interested in the guy romantically,dosen't hurt to be friends with the guy...
…a feeder generally doesn’t want friendly…he just wants his cock sucked…if the guy wants you to be friendly…then there’sv a good chance that you’re both gay…& before you flame me theres nothing wrong with being gay…or a lesbian…or bisexual…one is no better than the other…they’re just different…

Melody Dean

Jun 5, 2015, 2:29 PM

…a feeder generally doesn’t want friendly…he just wants his cock sucked…if the guy wants you to be friendly…then there’sv a good chance that you’re both gay…& before you flame me theres nothing wrong with being gay…or a lesbian…or bisexual…one is no better than the other…they’re just different…

I disagree. Being romantically attracted to both genders is still bisexual. Being friendly doesn't even go that far.

bi_bottom1969

Jun 29, 2015, 3:11 PM

pole_smoker

Jun 29, 2015, 4:27 PM

I disagree. Being romantically attracted to both genders is still bisexual. Being friendly doesn't even go that far.

Exactly. But then again someone having a fuck buddy and hooking up with people are not romantic attraction either, even if some people here think it is.

man4girlgirl4man

Jun 30, 2015, 4:29 PM

Both - but the dick matters much more to me. I want and also need a guy with at least 9 inches of dick. The cutest hottest sexiest man doesn't do it for me if he's packing anything less. And 10 inches is my personal sweet spot....

lotuw

Jun 30, 2015, 5:30 PM

Oh just the cock. I don't ever "see" men as attractive. More often than not the "hot" guys according to females are pretty much not very cool in my opinion. On a man scale, they don't rank very high to me. But I am so drawn by a hard cock. Mmmmm. One belonging to a guy who will not shy from fucking me like the dirty little whore I am. Then lets me suck him off over and over again, filling my belly with his sweet sperm. God I need it now.

Biboz49

Jul 1, 2015, 10:37 AM

Great thread. I can relate to so many posts here.

Nope, for me it's the person, compatibility, mutual interests, trust. I have to care about anyone, or preferably love them, before I can feel arousal and the desire to share intimacy with anyone....male, or female. Always been that way, always will.

Same here, it's the guy. But once we connect and both feel comfortable and gain more experience together then I lust for the cock. It's so much better after we learn each other's likes and dislikes.

I has always been just the cock, until recently. I had the pleasure of a visit from a 19 yo that was smooth and skinny. He had a pretty face too. So, I went up close to him, and would have kissed his lips but I sensed he had no interest. So, I kissed his neck and worked my way down kissing and likking all over his body. I loved avery inch of his body, exept for legs, cuz of the hair. His beautifull 7" dick was fully erect by the time I got down to it and sucked him to completion. I know now I am very attracted to young , slightly feminine men and would probably go all gay for one that stuck around.

I can really relate to this feeling (not the experience) because the initial sexual attraction doesn't happen with men as easily as it does with women. I'm really turned on by feminine qualities and emotional connections with women come so much easier. An emotional and sexual relationship with a feminine guy earlier in life would have been very fulfilling. Unfortunately I didn't recognize the my sexual desires until later. And at this age I have difficulty thinking about this with someone much younger.

..... I need intimacy. It took a long time for me to recognize, or acknowledge that......And to me intimacy is not simply sexual and maybe not at all really.....maybe it's shared secrets or an amazing connection....but of course in many ways it's still about the cock....the taste and the look....but in the end it's still more about what that cock is connected to....the person.....his heart and mind.....

Very well said.

ohbimale

Jul 3, 2015, 2:55 AM

I have been with guys who turned me on because I enjoyed being with them both dressed and naked. Then there have been a few guys who I only wanted to suck their cock and get their load of cum and get out because their cock was the only redeeming feature.

skykingtalks

Jul 3, 2015, 7:01 AM

me too! are you in the Cypress area?

billie43

Jul 3, 2015, 9:30 AM

Cock for sure..But...i did kiss a guy a cpl weeks ago for the first time. As soon as i stuck my toung in his mouth, my old cock got hard as a brick. As it is now thinking about it..he was not good looking at all but when you shut your eyes and feel the passion, it makes absolutely no differance..but cock is the main attraction. I like them clean about 6 or 7 inches with mushroom head..perfect fit in my mouth...

Brokentoe

Jul 3, 2015, 1:09 PM

for me it's Confusing and I've fought with myself for years over it, I actually don't find guys to be very attractive and I can't and I've tried to get emotionally attractive to a guy but my mind won't let me plus I absolutely hate body hair. I find women's body and minds to be so sexy and can easily fall for a woman. But I love to feel, suck, and ride a nice real natural cock so for me it's all about the cock. hell if trees started to grow cocks I'd live in the woods.

mickitv

Jul 3, 2015, 9:56 PM

I have been with unattractive men who have had the most delicious cock and I loved every minute of it.

daddio3311

Jul 7, 2015, 9:05 AM

Most of the time I'm just interested in the cock and don't care what the guy looks like. But if they're ethnic looking and decent looking, I get really turned on by them. Especially black, latino, asian and middle eastern.

Sigstache

Jul 7, 2015, 3:11 PM

Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.
This is me exactly. I've tried to find men attractive and it just doesn't work. The wiring isn't there. I can notice a guy is good looking, but I'm not attracted or turned on by it.
But watching a guy getting sucked off by another guy and all of a sudden I can fantasize myself in either roll. Cant watch buttsecks though, mm or fm, it grosses me out.

alcor

Jul 8, 2015, 6:56 AM

Foe me it is MOSTLY about the cock, but I cannot be with a guy that has poor hygiene, way over weight, or just plain ugly. There has to be some form of attraction.

SuckerMC

Aug 9, 2015, 3:33 AM

For me the cock is the attraction.

BriBi

Aug 18, 2015, 5:59 AM

For me, the cock comes first. If anything else develops then that's all to the good.

ohbimale

Aug 18, 2015, 3:33 PM

It really depends on whom I am with and the mood I am in. There are times when I people watch and fantasize about people I see in public. Other times it is about both the man and his cock. And then there are times when it is just about the cock and getting a mouthful of cum.

spunksacktight

Aug 18, 2015, 9:31 PM

Defiantly the cock, can count on one hand the guys I've actually fancied after all these years and they weren't very desirable to me in any way where as its in the thousands with women, just don't find guys attractive but many-a cock is soooo sexy.
Think thats why i like shemales so much too, in fact spend to much time looking at shemale porn, perfect combination beautiful curvy feminine girl with a sexy cock..recon i could fall for a shemale quite easily, of course the reality of dating a transexual on hormone therapy is an altogether different thing!

GuyPal

Aug 19, 2015, 12:13 PM

I need to feel friendship or more with a person, man or woman, before anything else happens. If I'm with someone I hardly know or who doesn't care about anything except sex, then I cannot feel safe enough to get aroused. I need to feel some kind of emotional depth or warmth. I realize that I'm odd in that way, since most men can become aroused just being around an attractive man or woman, without knowing much of anything about them. I guess that I'm wired differently, and this makes it much more difficult to meet people, especially men. :(

lv69cpl69

Aug 19, 2015, 2:29 PM

I never "see" men as attractive. I do with females (almost all) only "turned by a man when we are planning to have sex. I do need to know him and the plan.

loftycraig

Oct 9, 2015, 7:43 PM

how cute is the guy, if t how passable, cock 6" or more, and a kisser

dbishop

Nov 6, 2015, 9:32 AM

Definitely the cock. No real attraction to men. But I absolutely love sucking a hard cock.

DMercator

Nov 6, 2015, 10:20 AM

Bimmga

Nov 6, 2015, 3:30 PM

pole_smoker

Nov 6, 2015, 4:13 PM

Like many others on here, for me it's more about the cock than the man. I wonder if that's part of the difference between being bi / bi-curious rather than gay. If so, I'm certainly getting more "gay" as I get older. Last year a gentleman friend introduced me to anal. Since then I've found myself not only thinking of his cock and the experience, but wishing we were free to hang out and get to know each other better than circumstances would allow. I don't think I'll every feel that wave of lust that I feel at just seeing some women, but suddenly the idea of making out with a guy (at least this guy) doesn't seem so bad.
:rolleyes: Do you even know anything about human sexuality? Men who are gay/homosexual are only sexually attracted to the same gender, and yes some gay men are mainly into men only for their cocks, and do not like kissing.

People who are bisexual are sexually attracted to both genders even if it's just a sexual attraction such as, "being into men only for their cock" or on the flip side "being into women only for their cunt".

"bi curious" is just another term for being bisexual since if the person was really gay, or if they were heterosexual they would not have sexual attraction/sex fantasies about both genders.

CuriousHusband269

Nov 6, 2015, 4:16 PM

while i don't want to meet shrek, for me its all about the cock. pretty new so its been limited, but so far so good.

Ditto for me too..

pole_smoker

Nov 6, 2015, 4:20 PM

Uh, guys, if you aren't attracted to men, but only to their penises, you are not bisexual. You have what is known as a cock fetish. You abstract the penis from the man it is attached to, but have no other real sexual attraction to the man himself. There is nothing with this, of course, but it isn't a bisexual trait. We have known for a long time that straight men can - and very often do - pleasure one another, but want nothing more than this release. Bisexuals are sexually attracted to men, not just the penis.
There is some truth in this in that if you're actually really truely bisexual or a real actual Kinsey 3 you will want a man for more than just his cock, and you can fall in love and have relationships with men as both myself and my husband have done as we're bisexual.

But being obsessed with dick, ass, or cunt is not a sexual fetish as a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual turns you on like how some people have a foot fetish, get sexually aroused by seeing people smoke, or get sexually aroused by seeing people wear certain types of shoes or gloves on their hands those are actual fetishes.

I know of no actual heterosexual man who has ever had sex with a man, except for men in prison but they get raped and forced to have sex with men as a prison bitch.

Bimmga

Nov 6, 2015, 5:18 PM

There is some truth in this in that if you're actually really truely bisexual or a real actual Kinsey 3 you will want a man for more than just his cock, and you can fall in love and have relationships with men as both myself and my husband have done as we're bisexual.

But being obsessed with dick, ass, or cunt is not a sexual fetish as a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual turns you on like how some people have a foot fetish, get sexually aroused by seeing people smoke, or get sexually aroused by seeing people wear certain types of shoes or gloves on their hands those are actual fetishes.

I know of no actual heterosexual man who has ever had sex with a man, except for men in prison but they get raped and forced to have sex with men as a prison bitch.
I agree to an extent. I'm not the biggest fan of the Kinsey scale, since it is outdated and somewhat limited. Yet I am the equivalent of a Kinsey 2. I've never "fallen in love" with a man, though I have developed a deep and meaningful regard for my male lover. If I don't have this, the sex is empty and really only slightly more satisfying than masturbation. So I need the emotional connection.

a fetish is, by definition, the objectifying an object or an act to the extent that the object or act is more sexually satisfying than is usual. It is different from an obsession. So if you focus on just the pussy, just the breast, just the cock, or whatever, and don't care about the rest of the person, it's a fetish.

mrcumsalot

Nov 7, 2015, 3:26 AM

I find the dick much more attractive than the man. I will suck a cock regardless of what I may think of the man.

hornyspouse

Nov 7, 2015, 8:18 AM

I have an obsession with the cock; I want the cock more than the man; getting to know the man after using his cock might lead to the reversal.

hornyspouse

Nov 7, 2015, 8:19 AM

my sort of person; move to Australia and see how we go.

pole_smoker

Nov 7, 2015, 3:51 PM

I agree to an extent. I'm not the biggest fan of the Kinsey scale, since it is outdated and somewhat limited. Yet I am the equivalent of a Kinsey 2. I've never "fallen in love" with a man, though I have developed a deep and meaningful regard for my male lover. If I don't have this, the sex is empty and really only slightly more satisfying than masturbation. So I need the emotional connection.

a fetish is, by definition, the objectifying an object or an act to the extent that the object or act is more sexually satisfying than is usual. It is different from an obsession. So if you focus on just the pussy, just the breast, just the cock, or whatever, and don't care about the rest of the person, it's a fetish.
If you just only have or want a man as a fuck buddy like you do, then these men certainly are not 'lovers' as having a lover means you have an actual partnership or real relationship and having a person as a fuck buddy/FWB is not any sort of actual relationship or partnership.

You clearly do not know what an actual fetish is.

Fetishism is characterized as a disorder when there is a pathological assignment of sexual fixation, fantasies or behaviors toward an inanimate object -- frequently an item of clothing -- such as underclothing or a high-heeled shoe -- or to nongenital body parts -- such as the foot. Only through use of this object can the individual obtain sexual gratification. The fetishist usually holds, rubs or smells the fetish object for sexual gratification or asks their partner to wear the object during sexual encounters. Fetishism is a more common occurrence in males, and the causes are not clearly known. Fetishism falls under the general category of paraphilias, abnormal or unnatural sexual attractions.

Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is a sexual focus on a nonliving object or nongenital body part.

Bimmga

Nov 7, 2015, 5:10 PM

If you just only have or want a man as a fuck buddy like you do, then these men certainly are not 'lovers' as having a lover means you have an actual partnership or real relationship and having a person as a fuck buddy/FWB is not any sort of actual relationship or partnership.

You clearly do not know what an actual fetish is.

Fetishism is characterized as a disorder when there is a pathological assignment of sexual fixation, fantasies or behaviors toward an inanimate object -- frequently an item of clothing -- such as underclothing or a high-heeled shoe -- or to nongenital body parts -- such as the foot. Only through use of this object can the individual obtain sexual gratification. The fetishist usually holds, rubs or smells the fetish object for sexual gratification or asks their partner to wear the object during sexual encounters. Fetishism is a more common occurrence in males, and the causes are not clearly known. Fetishism falls under the general category of paraphilias, abnormal or unnatural sexual attractions.

Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is a sexual focus on a nonliving object or nongenital body part.
Since when did a friendship cease to be a relationship? Not all sexual relationships, heterosexual or homo, are romantic in nature. Some people insist that if they don't have romantic feelongs for a sex partner, they don't have a relationship. others, like some here, are fixated only on the penis and are not actually sexually attracted to men. They have a fetish (and, yes, I know all about them). Your cut-and-pasted definition is antiquated and no longer accepted by the APA. Most fetishes have been removed from DSM-5. Only fetishes that cause psychological distress Or cause harm to oneself or others are considered pathological. Homosexuality was once considered pathological and was classified as a fetish at one point. The fetish DOES NOT have to be an inanimate object. Some people cannot be sexually aroused unless they fantasize about having sex with a specific individual or type of person. People are certainly not inanimate objects.

pole_smoker

Nov 7, 2015, 8:47 PM

Since when did a friendship cease to be a relationship? Not all sexual relationships, heterosexual or homo, are romantic in nature. Some people insist that if they don't have romantic feelongs for a sex partner, they don't have a relationship. others, like some here, are fixated only on the penis and are not actually sexually attracted to men. They have a fetish (and, yes, I know all about them). Your cut-and-pasted definition is antiquated and no longer accepted by the APA. Most fetishes have been removed from DSM-5. Only fetishes that cause psychological distress Or cause harm to oneself or others are considered pathological. Homosexuality was once considered pathological and was classified as a fetish at one point. The fetish DOES NOT have to be an inanimate object. Some people cannot be sexually aroused unless they fantasize about having sex with a specific individual or type of person. People are certainly not inanimate objects.
A friendship is not an actual partnership, or relationship like how you have a relationship with someone who you love and live with.

Yes a lot of gay and even some bi men do get into pretend "relationships" where they're really just fuck buddies and do not really love each other. My husband and I are not like this as we love each other, and are married to each other and we know quite a few bisexual men who also have married other men who they love or who are in a live in partnership/relationship with a man and not a woman but they're bisexual.

I did not even go into the APA or psychological classifications of fetishes or sexual fetishes that can disrupt a person's life; but you did for some strange reason.

As I posted before a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual as in something besides someone's genitals turns them on and arouses them.

No people are not inanimate objects but I have seen people do kink/consensual role play where they become inatimate objects such as decoration, a foot rest, ash-tray, table, or even a urinal. ;)

Masterslave

Nov 9, 2015, 4:51 PM

Definitely the cocks..love cocks and cum!

strghtshootr

Nov 10, 2015, 12:24 AM

I am with Realist. I have to like the person. Not into one-offs. I do find that when watching porn, I get attracted to the cock, but if I were to "be" with someone, I would have to like them.

I've found that I can emotionally relate to women more than men. I love women but I like men. I'm turned on by cock and balls. I share that with my wife and we both enjoy it. I have had few encounters that were anonymous and those were all when I was younger and less sure of what makes me happy and felling fulfilled. I have to feel a connection to a man to really be interested. She has to feel that as well. I guess that makes us kind of particular. So three ways are not as frequent as we might like but it's quality over quantity.

Outofthis99999

Nov 10, 2015, 10:58 AM

newly found

Nov 10, 2015, 12:23 PM

Im more into the cock more so than the man. I love to be fucked either by strap on or a cock so who's behind it isnt totally irrelevant id say some level of attraction is required.

mjohn

Nov 11, 2015, 12:29 AM

I am very much attracted to the whole man physically more so the females but it is the reverse for emotional attraction.

James1A1

May 8, 2016, 10:44 PM

I feel a primal instict for me to compete with other guys (sports and women are examples).

I don't ever recall these feelings for girls.

groove311

May 9, 2016, 5:36 AM

Women tell me they give blowjobs to a guy they have feelings for and they care for the guy.
The guy only wants my dick plus I don't have to spend any money dating them.

I prefer to give my dick to the guy. I don't feel like dating and spending time and money and effort wooing women to get a blowjob and even then it's not 100% certain

If any girl shows interest to go on a date with me, I auto-reject them. I hate dating and specially kissing and cuddling and that intimacy stuff girls want from a guy.
Specially spending $400 a month going out together. I'd rather do that with my friends anyways...
I'd rather spend on things like $5000 a guitar rather than on a girl for just a blowjob.

Thank society these days women are needed less and less.

Green Domains

May 9, 2016, 1:32 PM

Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. If I'd never found myself in a MFM threesome, I never would tried oral sex on a man. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.

I agree, I am not attracted to men in public at all. However, in private I would pick cock over pussy any day. Well, almost any day... depends on the person. Lol. So, for me too, its the cock.

Fox Emerson

May 12, 2016, 12:21 AM

The person, not the physical appendage. That's secondary.

Tonguelicious

May 13, 2016, 10:27 AM

The cock and it has to be thick. I am very attracted to a man's body but biggest cock always gets my mouth and attention, regardless of how attractive. I sucked a 50 year old's cock when I was 9. He was overweight, unattractive but with the fattest most beautiful cock. It has always been my trigger since. Old men with hung thick cocks.

SilkyHoseLover

May 13, 2016, 11:06 AM

I sucked a 50 year old's cock when I was 9.

Pole_smoker to the white criticism phone, please... :yikes2:

Tonguelicious

May 13, 2016, 12:23 PM

I can't resist a 50-plus man whose girth and length are like a forearm. I find myself very attracted to kinky old men who have no inhibition. My particular favourites are German men. I have had the pleasure of sucking the thickest most beautiful hung old German men and those who I have enjoyed (and there have been many) are also the most amazing kissers. Long studded tongues!

jimisbi

May 13, 2016, 4:54 PM

I have no romantic feelings to men. My attraction to men is solely sexual.

Godownonit

May 14, 2016, 12:52 AM

His DICK, no doubt. Truthfully, I am not really into guys.....but their dicks (and the yummy cum they produce).....YUM !

Strange, but thinking about loving a guy in the sense of a gay man actually turns me off a bit. But, the dick always brings me back. Obviously, you can't separate the two - so I deal with it.

Highzenborg

May 14, 2016, 1:11 AM

I'm all about the cock ;)

Highzenborg

May 14, 2016, 1:13 AM

Although a nice ass and hot chest will also get my interested....

hankerxxx

May 14, 2016, 10:21 AM

Actually, for me, it's the cock I'm attracted to. I love a cut nicely shaped head. I want it medium to small so it will fit in my mouth. I love to feel a nice cock swell in my mouth as I lick and suck it. Nothing like it for me; but I'm particular on shape/size so it's definitely the Cock for me. Lets face it, most of us just want to cum and go. It would be great to find a local 'regular' guy but mostly for short regular hookups to enjoy each other!

Clancy

Mar 19, 2017, 10:31 PM

I will agree.. I am interested in just the cock. But only certain types of cocks. I'm not into hairy ones or ones that are really veiny or curve one way or the other. I also like to watch them cum. Besides I don't get off on watching two guys kissing it don't turn me on at all...

csreef

Mar 20, 2017, 12:08 PM

For me I am attracted to the Energy of that person, either if they are male or female...

As for penis size, sorry I'm a Top , so you can take that out of the equation for me...

Kylookin4fun

Mar 20, 2017, 8:21 PM

Even if I like the guy ultimately it comes down to his cock if its nice great if its small and just a little cum doubt if I'd do him again

foundpuppy

Mar 20, 2017, 9:58 PM

First the man, then the cock.

mr bill

Mar 20, 2017, 10:53 PM

it the dick and I aam a cd

cocktamer

Mar 25, 2017, 5:35 AM

It is all about that rock hard and throbbing cock. I become mesmerized and transfixed on the hard cock demanding attention.

mravg

Mar 25, 2017, 2:52 PM

It has been a combination of both factors for me. I like sucking and perhaps anal.
Sucking has always been the most fun, but I have to ensure the guy is safe and some what like me.
I had a FWB which was best of all options, both married and we both enjoyed sex, we did a lot of experiences when we met for afternoon suck sessions.
Once we got comfortable we tried anal, both were new to adult male sex and learned alot during the 2 years together.
One guy I met after my friend moved loved anal and I was not sure, but after a few times be fucked me and it was like nothing before, felt great.
So in short I have to like the guy to like the penis.

BiGuyInHouston

Mar 25, 2017, 3:09 PM

Sub,

It is some the man but 90% the hard precum leaking cock of a man. That sweet taste, the jerking pump of cuming, the seed I will take down.

monaohio

Mar 26, 2017, 10:15 AM

for me its a man's cock I love big thick ones doing me cause I love how he feels going in me and pumping me with his cum

aLABiM75 & StrF51

Mar 27, 2017, 11:27 AM

The Guy

tr1024

Mar 29, 2017, 12:21 AM

First the man, then the package.

bw299

Mar 29, 2017, 12:36 AM

I'm not attracted to men. I am attracted to cock and cum. Not interested in kissing at all. I do enjoy body contact and foreplay. But I am there to suck his cock and taste his sweet cum.

LitEandEz4U

Mar 30, 2017, 8:46 AM

Both....Appearance and looks create the interest. The closer look brings the package into view.

69plus1

Mar 30, 2017, 6:34 PM

I'd say 99% the cock, but every now and then i see some dude and something clicks and i think "I would love to suck his cock. I want to make his toes curl."

eager4cum

Mar 31, 2017, 3:50 PM

for me, I need to be attracted to the guy 1st, not romantically at all, but he needs to be pleasant to be around and in decent shape. He would also need to be about my size within a couple inches of my height (5'9") more or less. Once this is taken care of, then the pubes needs to be either trimmed very short or shaved. Then, I am all for the pleasure of sucking, no anal. Finally, absolutely no STD's because I want that cum and no condoms.

Yes, I know, it is a little more picky (maybe a lot by some standards) than your average desire but, I'm sorry, this is what turns me on, can't help it.

ml830

Mar 31, 2017, 7:54 PM

I agree with your assessment. It may be a cliche, but I feel if don't get good vibes from the person, I won't want to engage in any sexual acts.

BisexualPisces3192

Apr 17, 2017, 3:23 PM

The Man, & His Cock.

jared37

Apr 24, 2017, 6:45 PM

i am not attracted to guys at all.. lol i never look at them and think they are hot. i only love dicks.. i love seeing them get hard and feeling them in my mouth. thats all. its all about dicks to me. not men.. men just happen to have those dicks attached. lol i do however like older men hitting on me. it gets me really hard..

rajones

Apr 24, 2017, 10:45 PM

I am a bottom so I am attracted to the dick. Now that man must be clean and present himself properly. I have been attracted to certain men all my life. Those men are manly men who at first glance you know are straight. As a BI who is not out, I have never been attracted to the flaming gay guy who wants everybody he is gay. The older I get the more I am open about life, and I would not be ashamed to be seen with an open gay man.

eager4cum

Apr 25, 2017, 8:39 AM

for me, it is a package deal, need both to to feel the heat.

AmbiguousDude

Apr 25, 2017, 10:43 AM

Well, speaking for myself, I must have attraction to the guy first before I want to go down on his member. The same holds true for me if it was a woman, attraction before anything. I actually identify more as pansexual because I have no preference on what's between the legs but attraction to the gender is a key component for me for anything further like sexual activity.

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George51

Apr 27, 2017, 8:31 AM

Definitely the cock. I don't care what a guy looks like. I just want a nice, hard cock.

OlderBC1

Apr 27, 2017, 9:27 AM

I'd have to say at this point, I like some feeling of attraction. Even if, or especially if, it's an old friend that finally got the nerve to discuss it privately. I think it makes it better if you're attracted to the man...plus he also happens to have a handsome cock and balls. Likes to share and share alike...

69luvr

Apr 28, 2017, 8:31 AM

I pick the cock every time!

snowcrazee

Jun 11, 2017, 4:09 AM

I have contemplated this myself a few times, and I always end up with the same conclusion. I am not attracted to the guy. I just want the dick. The easiest way for me to conclude this is that I do not want to make out, cuddle, or any other pre/post activity that most attracted couples might want. I simply want to enjoy the items between his legs, in many various ways, and then do regular guy stuff til next time he brings his package over to play.

BisexualPisces3192

Dec 9, 2017, 1:32 PM

Both The Man, & His Cock.

sisboy

Dec 9, 2017, 1:56 PM

I have had both where I had his cock first and then got to be attracted to him because of his cock.I have also had experiences where we started out cool and all hell broke loose after I got his cock.You have many one night stands and you can buld friendships and erealionships.It all works as long as there is no physical harm brought to us.

Shelby57

Dec 10, 2017, 1:40 PM

Primarily the cock.
I enjoy trading oral and love getting fucked and while I am not really attracted to men other than what I can do to and what they can do with their cocks, I do find that if the guy I'm with is attractive or there is some chemistry, I am more willing to do things like kiss and cuddle.

hairgone

Dec 13, 2017, 12:12 AM

All my bi years with men my interest has only been waist down. I want that cock.

I totally agree

curioustradesman

Dec 13, 2017, 10:02 AM

This is post that really hits close to home for me. It’s good to know others feel like I do. For me it’s “mostly” waist down. I’m not attracted to men on the street as I see them. Yet seeing a mans package is very arousing. I enjoy all shapes and sizes. That being said though i do like a mental connection. I need to have some level of trust, conversations, cleanliness with it. I guess it’s complex. I too have no interest in kissing or hugging. Just good solid man to man cock play.

BiBombshell

Dec 13, 2017, 10:46 AM

Agree with most of the other posts...it's 100% sexual and only really interested in the cock, especially if it's nicely shaped and well groomed.

I'd say yours is texas! Thats a nice one!

Blowjob & Billie

Dec 14, 2017, 5:16 AM

Simply put, the Dick and the Cum.

singlebimale41

Dec 14, 2017, 10:47 AM

Its the man the cock is attached to for me

kerisanders3

Dec 14, 2017, 1:26 PM

It was the cock at first. As I get older now I'm finding I want a connection higher than that more interpersonal. It makes into a sea well, more intimate and sensual. I want to feel that connection when a man pushes inside me. There's nothing harder then I mean pushing his cock in you, then leaning down to give you a long slow kiss I'll hit against the make love to you

Poppi999

Dec 17, 2017, 5:06 PM

The cock. I don't care what a guy looks like as long as he is clean and has a nice hard cock. I had a suck buddy who was quite obese. He would lay on his back and I would stroke and suck him until he came. He was alway clean and very appreciative. He could reciprocate but it didn't matter. He had a nice big fat cock and I loved sucking it.

kerisanders3

Jan 1, 2018, 9:58 AM

I love cock but i want a connection. Conversation & physical attraction since i like intimate kissing. Something so erotic about kissing a man and feeling so sub-fem inside, knowing he is the man and its my job to totally please his cock.

kerisanders3

Jan 1, 2018, 10:32 AM

So hot. I loooooove older, thick cock men who like to kiss. I just melt into this sub-sissy.

Sundazzled

Jan 2, 2018, 7:37 PM

I have to be attracted to the guy -- and his cock.

chiefconsultant63

Jan 3, 2018, 8:03 AM

cock for me...like soft as well as hard

Cocksuckerjim

Jan 4, 2018, 12:39 AM

THe Cock

hello2you2018

Jan 4, 2018, 5:09 AM

The cock

rascal2014

Jan 4, 2018, 11:02 AM

The cock. I'm not much into kissing and stuff but I do enjoy sucking cock.

NakedFun38

Jan 4, 2018, 4:33 PM

The cock is what turns me on.

Sundazzled

Jan 5, 2018, 7:07 AM

BiNylonFred

Jan 5, 2018, 5:53 PM

Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. If I'd never found myself in a MFM threesome, I never would tried oral sex on a man. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.

Me too. I crave cock when behind closed doors, especially if I am wearing hose as your username suggests also. Be nice to connect...mmmm

thickneasy

Jan 7, 2018, 3:35 AM

The cock is what I’m after

Waylon

Jan 12, 2018, 11:20 AM

I'm normally attracted to both, smooth, muscular nicely manscaped men and clean hard cut cocks but I recently hooked up with a much younger friend who isnt much to look at but he packed a delicious 8incher that I had to suck and swallow. So I guess the tie will go to the dick.

Birob67

Dec 29, 2019, 4:32 PM

I am with Realist. I have to like the person. Not into one-offs. I do find that when watching porn, I get attracted to the cock, but if I were to "be" with someone, I would have to like them.

Me too

playful808

Dec 29, 2019, 4:46 PM

I am picky and shallow, only attracted guys that are healthy, fit and smooth-ish, like myself.

dinatagail

Dec 29, 2019, 5:52 PM

Give me the cock, and make it feel good. Then, give me cum for my hard efforts.

Zeeke

Dec 29, 2019, 8:53 PM

That would be cool as hell

querty

Dec 30, 2019, 7:38 AM

I am picky and shallow, only attracted guys that are healthy, fit and smooth-ish, like myself.

Yup, same

tryinbi

Dec 30, 2019, 7:46 AM

It's for sure the cock, however they need to be at least a thin to average to slightly chubby build, a totally obese guy wouldn't work for me. When I'm out and about I look at women the only time I notice a guy is if I catch an outline or a bulge and even then I'm looking below the belt lol

Biwolf

Dec 30, 2019, 8:24 AM

As much as I like the cock (favourite part of guys for me) I still have to like the guy.

SlowNEZ

Dec 30, 2019, 10:52 AM

Since I plan to interact with the guy before I unwrap his cock (glory holes are not part of my repertoire), I will need to be attracted to the guy’s visible attributes before I consider devouring his package. i.e. Man first ... then cock.

eager4cum

Dec 30, 2019, 1:03 PM

I am picky and shallow, only attracted guys that are healthy, fit and smooth-ish, like myself.

Give me the cock, and make it feel good. Then, give me cum for my hard efforts.

can't make up my mind which one of these two fit me best, really both fit me, I like a smooth cock, healthy (no std) and the cum prize.

zbi73

Dec 30, 2019, 1:37 PM

In porn it's both, he has to be good looking but I'll focus on the cock but I reckon in practise it would be the man before the cock. No attraction, no monkey business.

Roxxi

Dec 30, 2019, 3:44 PM

I am definitely attracted to the man's cock...once he pulls it out, my focus is totally on his cock, and how he's wishes for me to pleasure him. I love to let a man have his way with me however he chooses then let him cum wherever he wants to unload...I love it all :)~

Grant_Norman

Dec 30, 2019, 4:08 PM

A nice, clean, cock that shoots a great load.....oh, is there a man attached to it?

NJwood

Dec 30, 2019, 4:58 PM

The cock first. If the guy is fit that’s a bonus.

Suckit69

Dec 30, 2019, 11:09 PM

Cock is good

Suckit69

Dec 30, 2019, 11:16 PM

cleves

Jan 2, 2020, 6:07 AM

It's all about the cock for me, can he get it up and get off. I like a cock that I can get off quick and leave.

bbginva

Jan 2, 2020, 6:53 AM

I am not into kissing a man so I guess it is the cock. Still I appreciate seeing a good looking guy, and I am attracted to men wearing just underpants as well as nude.

loftycraig

Jan 2, 2020, 6:02 PM

1s the man, have to luv him 1st.

curious64

Jan 2, 2020, 6:49 PM

The cock. But even better if I am attracted to the guy somewhat.

jamie63

Jan 3, 2020, 7:07 AM

Is it the man or the cock? Well, that's kind of a hard question to answer. Generally speaking, I guess it has to be a little of both.

I have to be attracted to the guy, and feel comfortable around him before I'll service his cock. But then, I would be disinclined to service an attractive guy with a small, or otherwise undesirable cock. Conversely, I can say from experience that I'd find it difficult to service a beautiful cock belonging to a guy I didn't find attractive.

....i'm the same. A guy can have a beautiful cock, but if he isn't all that attractive, i wouldn't be interested. Skinny/thin is a turn off, fat/obese is a turn off, facial hair if unkempt is a turn off. I don't find fat/obese girls attractive, nor skinny thin ones