does your wife think like mine

[marine20]

I came out to my wife a couple of months ago, after hiding it from her for decades. she took it very well , much to my relief. now , she has said that it turns her on very much to think of me with a man , and sucking his cock. I was quite surprised to here her say that. are there many of you guys out there that have a wife with the same reaction as mine?

[jem_is_bi]

Probably not. However, I am not married, so my opinion is not what you need. Others on this site need to respond and help you with your present situation so that it gets better for both you and your wife rather than worse.

[bithesea]

Good question. A few months ago I felt that I should share my feelings with my long-time GF. After talking to some gay and bi friends, they've encouraged me by saying that I might be surprised how the news is received. I think that if I had told her in the beginning of our time together, it would have been better, but I didn't because I was still successfully suppressing my attraction for men.
At some level, I view coming out to her as selfish on my part, and it might ruin the very sweet thing we have together.
Still, she drops hints that she knows, but purposely doesn't ask me.
It will come out eventually, but I'm not going to force it at this time.
You are a lucky man, marine20!

[Melody Dean]

I am a wife that thinks like yours! I would love to see my husband with another man. Unfortunately, so far, he is still adamant that he's straight. I suspect he's been curious before, but he won't admit it, so I just try to show him that I'll be accepting no matter what.

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

Wife knows
Turns her on greatly

Seriously: If you can't be honest & open with your spouse, without condition....
What's the point?

[nomorenomore]

I tried to talk it out with her, but am always met with silence. Oh, she still gives me tight hugs and hard kisses, no tongue or anything. She tells me how much she deeply loves me. We have not had sex in over five years. She is totally disinterested. I try to talk about being bi and just blank stare. No discussion. So frustrating.

[wondering56231]

Guess I am one of the lucky ones. I told my wife right upfront when we first got together. Totally accepting of it, loves to see it and even came out to me that she was bi.

[captain1stmate2]

after the wife and i had our first MMF threesome, which included her getting DP'ed, she wanted to see me take it up the ass
tim was cool with it, as he was the first to top me several years before
i was on my knees doggy style and she was under me watching and giving me head
dayum i miss those days :tongue:

[sterculius]

I'm a cocksucker. I've been an avid and insatiable cocksucker ever since I began blowing my best friend Larry when we were in high school. I've always been very cautious and selective of who I blow. I'm also married and my wife has no idea of my oral obsession. Although I have confessed to her regarding my initial episodes as a teenager, she's unaware I'm still a cocksucker. I'm afraid what might happen if she found out.

[cuttin2dachase]

Do ex-wives count? LOL I was totally hetero until age 32. After my 1st wife and I had been swinging for a short while, she began telling me her fantasies of seeing me have oral sex with other men. I had never thought about men sexually before, but the idea did intrigue me because of my adventurous nature and my desire to indulge her every sexual desire. When I tried it my first time during a 4some with a bi couple, it was liberating and very exciting. I loved sucking cock from the get-go as well as having a hot guy suck me. She loved watching and helping me and our partner suck each other ! That was on top of the thrill and excitement I got from just watching her suck and fuck other men. I guess my 'coming out' to her happened the next day when I told her I couldn't wait until we met and shared another man's cock. She was very happy and said she was glad it turned me on like it turned her on. Our 1st mfm bi 3some happened 2 weeks later and many more were to come (no pun intended).

[like2bepegged]

My wife pryed my bisexuality out of me first by introducing me to her strapon. And now we are looking for a man for me to play with so she can watch.

[BootyBuffet]

She loves it . . . Turns her on just thinking about it! I am happy to oblige, LOL!

[cdncurious]

I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. Was mildly curious before Mrs and I started swinging. Then she started reading these borderline porno romance novels including man on man ones. She got talking with me about it and how hot she finds it and would love to see it. Well that got me into it.......and...... We've had a couple oral mmf threesomes since then but not yet to topping or bottoming, who knows if that will happen. She loves the thought of it though. Since then we've had a couple of mffm swaps where she's played with the other wife and she's pretty much total bi now.

[BiEd9]

both the wife and I are bi and had same sex relationships before we met, so.........no problems.I have a male friend that I see every now and then.

[clyde]

I came out to my wife a couple of months ago, after hiding it from her for decades. she took it very well , much to my relief. now , she has said that it turns her on very much to think of me with a man , and sucking his cock. I was quite surprised to here her say that. are there many of you guys out there that have a wife with the same reaction as mine?
You are not alone! My wife too has expressed her desire to see me the very same thing and more!

[JaredT77]

Yeah my girlfriend thinks like your wife, but I have told her from the beginning that I was bisexual. Now a year later, she is finally wanting me to see other guys for them to fuck me.

[iwantmore]

Still working on the courage to come out and tell her. My title "iwantmore" pretty much sums it up for me. I'm sure she has noticed the computers browser history, but has kept it to herself.
We have a solid 21yr marriage and I don't want to throw that away.
Ideally I'm hoping to find another couple where the m's can have a open relationship.....am I dreaming

[nutothis972]

I told my partner that I was bi very soon after the day we met (and first fucked). She has always been fine with it. Shortly thereafter we began our swinging experiences with a threesome with a good friend of mine. After Phil and I both fucked Lorene, she watched as he sucked me. She found it so exciting that she had an orgasm just watching without touching herself. She loves to watch me and another man suck each other and fuck each other.

[BiBedBud]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYHxGBH6o4M
^^^^^^^
Ladies, I think most bisexual men *WOULD* take kinky girls "home to mother", so don't be shy!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dNIQVYGXbM
^^^^^^^
Love this song too; though I'd probably shoot the vid a little differently!
There'd def be a clip with her in a harness with a strap-on strapped-on! LOL!

[Ajhawk]

Marine20- I told my wife (we were still dating) and she found it very hot watching me play with another man. She has even tried to find guys for me to play with and she has even watched me at with a guy. We have even had a MMF threesome with the same guy a few times.

[longtimemarried]

I told my wife that I had received a great bj from a friend of ours a few years ago. She was very understanding and accepted the fact well since he was a very good friend of ours for over 30 years. Since then I have enjoyed similar pleasures on rare occasions. She also knows that I have returned the favour in recent years.

[Lizardking]

Man I wish. My wife accepts me and all, but as far as any real life occurence, with or without her, it's total shut down

[Christopher South]

My wife knows I'm bi, but it came out only after years of marriage (and my affair with a guy). She had a very liberal upbringing so she's OK with the LGBT scene, but wishes I wasn't bi. One guy I met was in my same situation and his wife was a lot less understanding, constantly calling him a fag. Not sure why he stays married to her (they've been married a long time).

But my wife has absolutely no inclination to see me with another guy and has basically buried her head in the sand regarding my bisexuality and interest in being with a guy.

[Hunt74]

After telling my wife she's asking if she can be with me while I'm with another man. It turns her on a lot she said if I was with her and another guy .

[stonebow]

After telling my wife she's asking if she can be with me while I'm with another man. It turns her on a lot she said if I was with her and another guy .

Perhaps she's looking at your orientation as a way to broaden her own sexual activity? Maybe she secretly wants to have more than one man in her bed and views a threesome with a lover of your choice as her best bet for realizing her fantasy? Were I in your situation I'd talk to her at length about what she really wants and.....if I decided I was cool with it, make BOTH our fantasies come true. Tread lightly friend...and good luck!

[w.bicrswa]

My wife knows. I officially came out to her a couple of years ago. When I told her she said she had figured it out anyway because of the porn we watched, even though it wasn't bi or gay. She loves talking about it during our sex, and brings it up. We haven't gone further yet, but we are both looking forward to it.

[Christine76]

Not yet, but with some hope..... looks good

[mooon]

I'm out to my wife, several years now.

She was not enthusiastic at first, but after awhile accepted it with grace and love.
She is not interested in participating in any threesomes:(
I now have CLR sort of thing with a friend. She knows, and she likes him.

It works for us.

[DMercator]

after the wife and i had our first MMF threesome, which included her getting DP'ed, she wanted to see me take it up the ass
tim was cool with it, as he was the first to top me several years before
i was on my knees doggy style and she was under me watching and giving me head
dayum i miss those days :tongue:

They need to add a "Like" button to this forum. You're a lucky man.

[DMercator]

I told my wife when we were dating that I was bi curious and about my experiences as a teen. In year two of our marriage we had a bi threesome with a male friend of mine. She sure seemed to enjoy it at the time, but that was many years ago and she hasn't played with others since. While she was accepting and supportive in the early years, in our later years she came to think of it as a threat and didn't want to know about it. She even went so far as to use it against me in marriage counselling, even though I hadn't been with anyone else but her, she used the fact that I even had those feelings like an accusation of wrong doing.

Things are better between us now and we love each other very much, but as others have commented about their wives, my wife has no interest in my sexuality (bi or otherwise). Any attempt at discussion is met with silence or a change of subject. Haven't had sex in over two years and it seems likely we never will again. :-(

[Luvthewater]

My off and on girlfriend of 4 years (likely the one I will marry if I ever do marry again) knows I have given oral to a couple other guys. She found out through a girl I dated during some we spent apart. She has let me know she knows and initially said she would like to discuss which I replied I will tell you anything you want to know. She has been with girls in the past, long ago. She finds women beautiful and has kissed some in front of me during our first time together. She has not brought the conversation of my experiences back up but while talking to a male friend of mine (who seems very homophobic) he mentioned something about guys sucking cock and she gave a gesture as if she found the idea hot.

My relationship with her is different from any other as I have thought about mmf with others I have dated, and even gave my first few blow jobs in front of a previous girlfriend, but with this one I don't like the thought of her and another guy together, even with me participating. I would however love for us to meet a couple where the women could play, if she were so inclined, and I could play with the man. Or if she did like the idea of seeing me with another man would be fun as long as she had no contact with him.

[femtech]

I'm a fem bottom and I told my wife last year. She took it very well but was upset that I didn't tell her sooner. It has changed everything our sex life and we go shopping for outfits and our toys together. If I had only known

[loftycraig]

I came out to my wife a couple of months ago, after hiding it from her for decades. she took it very well , much to my relief. now , she has said that it turns her on very much to think of me with a man , and sucking his cock. I was quite surprised to here her say that. are there many of you guys out there that have a wife with the same reaction as mine?

i wish she did, shes a homophobe.

[married2bif]

I am a wife that thinks like yours! I would love to see my husband with another man. Unfortunately, so far, he is still adamant that he's straight. I suspect he's been curious before, but he won't admit it, so I just try to show him that I'll be accepting no matter what.

My wife is bisexual as is our former girlfriend. Both wanted to see me go down on a guy but as much as I like new sexual experiences, I have zero interest in doing that. My wife is mostly interested in women these days but last month she repeated that she would like to see me perform oral on a guy as long as she did not have to participate. I told her that if I drank enough and the mood was right, I might do it just to please her. I really do not have an aversion to doing it. More like it does not sexually excite me at all so it would not be fun to watch or receive.