any married guys think this?...

[bictguy14]

So my wife and I have had great sex lately, as if we were back on our honeymoon. However its making me super horny to be with a guy. Usally I have thoughts about being with a guy, when we go through a dry spell, but lately no matter what we are doing, i want those things with a guy as well. Anyone else go through that?

[Plumhead2]

Yes, it seems the more sex I get, the more easily aroused I get and the more I get to thinking about other "options" that might be pleasurable. I love tits and pussy and absolutely would never give them up, but sometimes when I am getting some great sex, I find myself afterwards wanting something different.

[BiPantylover]

I too have had serious man sex thoughts when having sex with my wife, especially MMF thoughts. I can't seem to just enjoy the sex but am thinking what else could we do with another man or just me and a man. I'm not disturbed by this mind wandering but I have been curious if other men have had the same thoughts.

[bictguy14]

Yes, I've had the MMF thoughts when with my wife, espically if I a doing her from behind, wishing another guy was there. Too bad that will never happen!!

[DMercator]

The more sex I get, the hornier I get. First I'm in heaven just to have some pussy. Then I think, "wouldn't it be hot to see her sucking a cock, while I'm fucking her." Then I think, "Wouldn't it be nice to suck his cock while I was fucking her." Then I think, "Wouldn't it be hot if he was fucking me and she was sucking my cock." Then I think...

Weil you get the idea.

M

[biguyrsm]

I would love to watch my wife get pounded. I think about it all the time. She would never go for it. Ultra conservative. Still hot to think about though

[bikurinpa]

Me too, I always have thoughts of wanting a man, but in this area here I can forget finding someone, for any locals here just want to b/s, play games and collect pics

[sysper]

let me guess.......the next step involves a strapon? :rotate:

[centillini]

Same here. Also noticed the longer together, the need for a little something different

[wildnorthman]

I echo the sentiments already given. With my first wife, sex was super hot but that led to think during our lovemaking, "This is great, but add a cock and Wow!" When I mentioned it to her, she was at first receptive, then she turned on me and accused me of being gay, which in her church was in league with the devil and me the lonely pervert. So she divorced me, and quickly found someone else. My second wife is a real woman, though, she lets me be me. She understands my need for being with a guy now and then, and even helps me with my crossdressing when the urge hits me. By letting me be me, and allowing me the flexibility to explore, experiment and grow, we enjoy our time together so much more and so much more often.

[Eagleman]

Yes. I think about it all the time. That's the only thing that gets me hard. I'm with the wife and I think of sucking cock just to get hard with her.

[void()]

So my wife and I have had great sex lately, as if we were back on our honeymoon. However its making me super horny to be with a guy. Usally I have thoughts about being with a guy, when we go through a dry spell, but lately no matter what we are doing, i want those things with a guy as well. Anyone else go through that?

Ayup. Not to be flip but uh, ... it happens. Have a lot of time I snuggle up to wife thinking and feeling that if she had a double ended dildo, a harness, all would be bliss. :) Then, a lot of times I rather have my guy really visiting. Have times I want the wife for all the woman she is as well. Also get spells where I could tell them both to go piss up a rope, just want to be alone with me. *shrugs* All in, these differing times/urges seem to equal out, at least for me. I do not get overly concerned over it. Simply is what it is in being bisexual, again, at least for me.

[viothe]

It can become a reality,married couple could find single bisexual or bi-curious on bisexualsmeet.com (http://bisexualsmeet.com) to play mmf/mff . That will be horrific and comfortable.

[pole_smoker]

It can become a reality,married couple could find single bisexual or bi-curious on to play mmf/mff . That will be horrific and comfortable.
LOL do the spam bots even know what they are writing? I picture someone far away in China writing these scripts and they don't have access to a Mandarin/Cantonese to English dictionary, or a translation program that's accurate.

[Melody Dean]

It can become a reality,married couple could find single bisexual or bi-curious on bisexualsmeet.com (http://bisexualsmeet.com/) to play mmf/mff . That will be horrific and comfortable.LOL do the spam bots even know what they are writing? I picture someone far away in China writing these scripts and they don't have access to a Mandarin/Cantonese to English dictionary, or a translation program that's accurate.

What, you don't want sex described as "horrific and comfortable"? LOL! I agree, that one made me literally laugh.

[Disport]

Yes I have been thinking about it all the time. Wishing there was another man in bed with us. Oh the fun that could be had.

[lizard-lix]

Like so many have said above, me too!

I love my wife and we have good to great sex reasonably often, but my dreams are usually about sex with guys, or a guy with a girl there too.

[zigzig]

I guess that for bisexual females its the same.

[NjbiGuy01]

I'm sorta the opposite: When sex is hot and good at home I seem to think less of bi play or fooling around outside the relationship. We do use toys. I enjoy a vibrating butt plug or a strap on or we suck a fake rubber cock together. Sometimes we 69 and I fuck her with a toy as I eat her and she blows me...but when I get horny and we can't get together or i am away on a business trip without her, I do get frisky for MFM or MM play....

[Christopher South]

I agree with NjbiGuy01. When sex is good between my wife and I (good as in frequent and fulfilling), I think less about guys. I admit that I may imagine her as a guy during sex but my bi urges decrease when sex is good. However when it isn't the urge is almost uncontrollable.

[altimer23]

been married twice, divorced now, but both fucked around, mostly i knew but sometimes they knew i knew. there is nothing like going down on your wife after shes been fucked by another guy. took, me lot of yra before i actually had it straight from the tap, and i will do it again, still love pussy but some cocks just make my mouth water.

[dick_pumper]

My wife decided she no longer had any interest in sex so I was jacking to porn a lot and I thought back to High School where a few guys made passes at me but I was to chicken shit to do anything about it. After an unsuccessful affair with another woman I thought maybe a guy would be easier to find. A Fuck bud, and I started thinking of sex with guys more and more. Now that I've drank from the pipe and rode a stallion, I still look at a fine woman but I really want to suck cock and get fucked more.

[charles-smythe]

Yes, it seems the more sex I get, the more easily aroused I get and the more I get to thinking about other "options" that might be pleasurable. I love tits and pussy and absolutely would never give them up, but sometimes when I am getting some great sex, I find myself afterwards wanting something different.

.
...I agree...the more sex you get...the more you want...my ex use to stop by and fuck her boyfriend every night on her way home from work...she would be so horny when she got home that she would fuck my brains out...she knew that I like to always start by eating her pussy so soon he'd cum she'd quickly put on her panties so his cum would stay in her pussy...then she'd jump in bed and sit on my face so Id eat his cum out of her pussy...she didn't know that I was bi so thought that she was putting something over on me...lol...the last year we were married I must have eaten a gallon of her boyfriend's cum out of her pussy...

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

Part of being a guy:
The more sex you get, the more sex you want.

The less sex you get, the more sex you want.

[sysper]

Part of being a guy:
The more sex you get, the more sex you want.

The less sex you get, the more sex you want.
funny but so profound

[naztypanty]

Sometimes when I have sex with my girl I wish i was in her place. I would love to be the "fem" and be the one to be penetrated. To be the receiver of a cock.

[LuvM/Fs]

Sara 2nd wife, wanted MMF & would do what I wanted before wedding vows. The 2nd woman's pussy(Sara's friend) and thighs were sopping wet and her juices were all over my face. Sara fought hard as I went to kiss her, I got my tongue in her mouth & when she got a taste of Hales pussy both of us went wild. Which is why I wanted a FFM I had no idea my buddy with an 11" BBC was Bi until Sara pushed my mouth on it as he fucked my mouth a couple times and started cumming in my mouth, we went wild, she wanted to watch him fuck me, he was way too big. Her friend's brother came over a couple days before our wedding and as his sister, Sara's (FF) friend was there I thought nothing of it till he walked in the shower erect with the sexiest cock I ever seen. I didn't realize they were watching us until Sara stopped me as he was just about to cum in my mouth and had me get on my hands and knees as she slide under me and took me in her mouth as I was tonguing her clitoris Hale came over naked and helped me eat Sara. As she guided his well lubed stiff cock into me, as soon as she seen the head of his cock penetrate me she grabbed his ass with both hands and pulled him all the way in till our balls touched and then told him to pound my ass good as he was fucking me. Sara and Hale got so horny watching two guys moaning and fucking Hale got between my legs sucking my balls and cock while Sara was fingering fucking Hales brothers. We both came twice as much cum as normal, when Hale couldn't swallow fast enough I shoot more than a full load on her neck tits, and pussy while her brother had shoot a full load in my ass and as it started drip on Hale he pulled out and shoot more than another full load of cum all over her. When Hale seen me licking mine and her brothers cum off of her body she went wild. Sara and I found out we were both bi and led an exciting sex life and after thirty years we still got wild and horny when I watched her eat another women or she watched me sucking another mans cock, fucking or being fucked.

[niceguy4160]

Great story

[hermanmorales]

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[donttellnehismy]

Yes sometimes when my wife gives me head I think about guys.

[charles-smythe]

So my wife and I have had great sex lately, as if we were back on our honeymoon. However its making me super horny to be with a guy. Usally I have thoughts about being with a guy, when we go through a dry spell, but lately no matter what we are doing, i want those things with a guy as well. Anyone else go through that?
…you didn’t mention your age…but I’d guess 40s…this is the time these thoughts normally crop up…once these feelings start they don’t go away… (pole & I will differ here)…but my advice is DO NOT TELL your wife but find some way be it a glory hole or spa or whatever to satisfy your craving for dick…once you try it you’ll love it….HAPPY SWALLOWING…

[tristancir]

women tend not to react well if their man says he's interested in men.

[a2smith09]

women tend not to react well if their man says he's interested in men.

This is very true for most women of my experience. Personally I'm bi and I love having sex with both sexes. If it's been a while since I've had sex with a man my hunger and fantasies grow until I satisfy them. Then the clock resets so to speak. With my travel schedule and proclivities when I reset I've usually more than satisfied the itch.

[semibi]

All in, these differing times/urges seem to equal out, at least for me. I do not get overly concerned over it. Simply is what it is in being bisexual, again, at least for me.

I am learning to deal with bisexuality with that approach much better, finally. I have no m-m experience, because I am not comfortable with taking the risk, considering my marital status and my wife's unlikely support for such exploration. But, in the past, even the desire frustrated me. Now, I see that it is what it is. Reaching that point is a huge relief. Unfortunately, it took me too long to get to it. But, better late than never.

[ncbymail]

The few times I fuck the wife now I'm thinking about cock. Our routine for a long time has been I talk about sucking cock and swallowing cum while I fuck her and she pretends not to know I love cock.

[Coast bi racer]

I may be an odd ball but when Im having sex with my wife I don't think about cock at all. I primarily focus all my love and energy on her. My wife knows I'm Bi, told her a couple of months after being married and while she was a bit shocked she was willing to work with me. Didn't take it like I thought she would (I was half convinced divorce papers were in my future). She understands that my "cock" urges are purely sexual and that I have zero emotion or love towards a man. Even if our sex life is frequent and hot I don't think about cock more or less then I normally do.

[charles-smythe]

I may be an odd ball but when Im having sex with my wife I don't think about cock at all. I primarily focus all my love and energy on her. My wife knows I'm Bi, told her a couple of months after being married and while she was a bit shocked she was willing to work with me. Didn't take it like I thought she would (I was half convinced divorce papers were in my future). She understands that my "cock" urges are purely sexual and that I have zero emotion or love towards a man. Even if our sex life is frequent and hot I don't think about cock more or less then I normally do. …I agree…I love sucking dick…but I don’t let that intrude on good sex with a woman…I may have sucked a dick @ the bookstore on the way over & I may stop & suck one on the way home…but when I’m naked with a hot female I don’t think about dick…

[Oztrich]

I have watched my ex-wife have sex with other men, and it turned me on like crazy. I frequently want another man in our bed. In fact, most of the time I wish there were three of us sleeping together. Me, my wife, and another man. We have talked about it, but she always backs out.

[suktoy4u]

hasnt happened to me like that but some times I do want to play with and stroke a guys cock when my wife is sucking me

[charles-smythe]

women tend not to react well if their man says he's interested in men. …amen…

[Bottomhubby]

I get to thinking about watching my wife being fisted by some hottie while her husband is fucking my ass he keeps telling me that when the weekend is up that my wife will be a lesbian slut toy and I will be a limp docked sissy faggot.

[OlderBC1]

We did threesomes a long time ago, but we never came in each other's mouths or fucked. Just sucked each other & fucked her, licking our cum outta her. I miss sucking his big headed cock, & he mine, as we got really hard very quickly to give my little love plenty of hard, wet dick. I wanna do it again, but she's no longer interested after menopause. Dammit. I really need some hard cock in my ass & mouth...to sort of complete the experiences that felt so darn good. I like the taste of man cum, but lady cum is good too. She used to beg me to fuck her in her tight, pretty ass. She thought it would've been hot, as I fucked her in the ass the first time, if he'd have let me suck him hard to fuck me in the ass the first time at that same time. Still want that level of sharing with her...

[stonebow]

Yes, the more pussy I get the more I think of cock.....actually the LESS pussy I get the more I think of cock...lol. But seriously, maybe it's because, living with a woman and sharing a bed, the potential for sex is always there whether or not she's in the mood....which lately she rarely is. That's OK as I have a FWB of whom the wife is fully aware and does not mind my seeing. My other lady is hot for it most anytime and I love our time together but even if I had two more like her....and time enough to fuck each of them....I feel certain I'd still find my mind wandering to thoughts of having cock(s) in my mouth/ass. I'm bi...it's part of who I am. Once you come to the realization that you enjoy cock there's no pretending you don't want it.

[Biappeal]

My wife and I have sex a couple times per week. At this point every time I only fantasize about having a sex with a guy (or two) before and sometimes during intercourse. I love my wife very much but it is men I desire.

[void()]

I am a bisexual married man visiting a web site for bisexual human beings. Yes, I think about being with men as well as thinking being with my wife. So what? Does it mean I win some grand prize of one trillion dollars? Do I get my own reality show about how thinking is a bad thing for human beings to do?

You're not really engaging anyone in any meaningful dialogue asking such an obviously rhetorical question. I am kind of doubting engaging others in meaningful discussion was intended. Think you might be some form of automation, either of the programmed variety, or the variety needing an affiliate programming.

Thank you for the other web site recommendation. I might venture to visit it, or I might not. Either way, you probably did all you intended by mentioning it in the post. You're free to dismiss my thoughts, expressions of them. I'm not gifting you any abuse or maliciousness. I'm merely stating what seems obvious to me. Hope the best for you in any case. Be well, be safe. :)

[Korin Brown]

Yes. I think about it all the time. That's the only thing that gets me hard. I'm with the wife and I think of sucking cock just to get hard with her.hei guy,do you want date a bisexual online?http://bisexualoffish.com/ the world biggest bisexual dating site help for you.

[OlderBC1]

If all you're going to do is promote your website, that's considered spamming...

[bimwm46]

I'm sure I'm not the only one who goes through cycles--I've heard it referred to as the bi-cycle (why didn't I think of that?), with desires for men ebbing and flowing. When they're flowing, I can hardly think about anything else, and I have absolutely been in bed with my wife imagining it's a man's mouth sucking me. We've talked about it, and she's expressed a willingness to bring another bi couple to bed, which would be great if it happens. But--and I would like to know if other men share this--I want M2M play outside of our marriage as well. I want to be able to really connect sexually with other guys, and I wouldn't feel like I could without making her feel marginalized. It is a totally different dynamic between men when women are involved.

[NjbiGuy01]

See, now in my case: When sex gets boring or not happening often enough at home, I start thinking about playing with a dude or two, or a couple...my sex life with my wife has been "okay" although I have had hotter and more passionate sex with others I've dated or slept with. I love her, my kids, our life together, but our boring sex life is what made me feel (at this later point in my life) that I deserve to feel good, feel good about myself, and have whatever kind of fun that makes me feel good.

Am I selfish ? Perhaps. I play safe, discrete, and don't plan to change my life from any of this. It's one of the reasons I won't have a traditional "affair" anymore. The one time I did that with an EX (and the sex was amazing !) we both felt strong emotions and it hurt us because we would not and could not change our lives...and could not continue playing without the pain of not being totally happy in our "real" lives.

[Salt&pepper]

You are one very lucky man!

[j4u42]

And some wonderful thoughts you have there. You are a great thinker. You think with both heads. 😜

[ncbymail]

Sex with other men is such a craving desire of mine now that I never think of anything else the few times I do fuck my wife. She is ok with me being verbal and even adds to it. Either she knows and doesn't care or thinks it's a fantasy. I believe she knows and is just accommodating me..which I appreciate.
However if I could find a regular suck/fuck buddy I'd probably not fuck her at all. I'm sure she'd be ok with that since she's not much into sex at all anyway.

[foundpuppy]

I thought I was different because of going thru the “bi-cycle”.

[delpark]

Back when my wife and I had sex I would often think of wanting a cock to pleasure. My wife was not receptive to the idea of having a man join us. When she did suck my cock, I would have get an overwhelming desire to be sucking cock. There were times I'd look at her bare ass and think how nice it would be to see that on a guy. If her finger got near my ass hole, I would relax and wish for a hard cock to fuck me.

[playful808]

If I don’t have a woman in my life, I crave it.
If I don’t have a guy in my life, I crave that.
These days, I have both and it is satisfying.

2 wheels on a bi-cycle. 3 on a trike. : )

[Blkgymrat]

Part of being a guy:
The more sex you get, the more sex you want.

The less sex you get, the more sex you want.

So true!

S

[KDaddy23]

I don't think there's ever a time when I'm not thinking about cock and I've been like so long that it's something I don't pay much attention to but as my wife keeps telling me, I have a very bad case of sex on the brain and it doesn't make a difference if it's pussy or cock, whether I'm getting laid or not. I know it's not unusual for some guys to crave cock when they're not getting pussy and when they do get some coochie, their craving for cock vanishes until the pussy gets scarce again.

I've just never been one of those guys.

[eager4cum]

for me, it really does not matter what kind of sex I have, when I get horny, I just want more so even masturbation is hotter. Everything (masturbation, pussy and cock) feels hotter and I just want more of it.

When I am not horny, then any sex is enough to satisfy me for a day or two. After a couple days, I want more and I have not noticed a specific preference for one or the other. In other words, if I had pussy, I am not biased toward cock for the next or the reverse. However, it seems that no matter what , I always want oral with either gender.

[NjbiGuy01]

My wife is very tight, so I do sometimes fantasize that I'm fucking a dudes butt when I'm fucking her. We do share a rubber cock which we "suck" while we fuck. It's a mixed blessing, as she feels like she's "keeping me away from that stuff" by fucking me with a strap-on or feeding me that rubber cock, but I sometimes I really feel like it actually makes me want the real thing even more....

[Joboo]

Years ago my wife and I had a 3some with a guy. I had experienced oral with a friend over a few years prior to our marriage, when he was fucking my wife at one point she was on top and he spun her around into a reverse CG. Having such a great view of her riding his bigger cock made me want to dive in head first and go down on her and suck on him. I was very close as I started playing with her clit with my hand, my face only a foot from her pussy and his cock. When she and I made eye contact I think she knew what I was going to do next, she slowly shook her head and mouthed “ don’t do that.” So I stopped.

[LovingJacking]

for me, it really does not matter what kind of sex I have, when I get horny, I just want more so even masturbation is hotter. Everything (masturbation, pussy and cock) feels hotter and I just want more of it.

When I am not horny, then any sex is enough to satisfy me for a day or two. After a couple days, I want more and I have not noticed a specific preference for one or the other. In other words, if I had pussy, I am not biased toward cock for the next or the reverse. However, it seems that no matter what , I always want oral with either gender.

You and me both buddy ... the best of all worlds I'd say!

[ncbymail]

Yes. I think about it all the time. That's the only thing that gets me hard. I'm with the wife and I think of sucking cock just to get hard with her.

That's me...always thinking of cock and cum. Even though we rarely fuck, it's hard to get hard without thinking or talking about cock. She's not into sex anymore anyway so she's just accommodating me ( which I do appreciate) but cock & cum are what I need.
So it's a fantasy, I make up a scene where some guy is fucking her and he pulls out and lets me have the load or her fuck buddy comes over finds she's out and I suck him off or sometimes he fucks me. One way or the other I'm getting a load and that's the way I get hard enough to fuck her. I wish we could dispense with all the fantasy and I'd just become the full-time cocksucker I want to be.

[Hulk805]

It's weird but sometimes I dont even think about guys and then all of a sudden it's back and it's all I think about. Taking it, giving it. Sucking it.

[querty]

Sara 2nd wife, wanted MMF & would do what I wanted before wedding vows. The 2nd woman's pussy(Sara's friend) and thighs were sopping wet and her juices were all over my face. Sara fought hard as I went to kiss her, I got my tongue in her mouth & when she got a taste of Hales pussy both of us went wild. Which is why I wanted a FFM I had no idea my buddy with an 11" BBC was Bi until Sara pushed my mouth on it as he fucked my mouth a couple times and started cumming in my mouth, we went wild, she wanted to watch him fuck me, he was way too big. Her friend's brother came over a couple days before our wedding and as his sister, Sara's (FF) friend was there I thought nothing of it till he walked in the shower erect with the sexiest cock I ever seen. I didn't realize they were watching us until Sara stopped me as he was just about to cum in my mouth and had me get on my hands and knees as she slide under me and took me in her mouth as I was tonguing her clitoris Hale came over naked and helped me eat Sara. As she guided his well lubed stiff cock into me, as soon as she seen the head of his cock penetrate me she grabbed his ass with both hands and pulled him all the way in till our balls touched and then told him to pound my ass good as he was fucking me. Sara and Hale got so horny watching two guys moaning and fucking Hale got between my legs sucking my balls and cock while Sara was fingering fucking Hales brothers. We both came twice as much cum as normal, when Hale couldn't swallow fast enough I shoot more than a full load on her neck tits, and pussy while her brother had shoot a full load in my ass and as it started drip on Hale he pulled out and shoot more than another full load of cum all over her. When Hale seen me licking mine and her brothers cum off of her body she went wild. Sara and I found out we were both bi and led an exciting sex life and after thirty years we still got wild and horny when I watched her eat another women or she watched me sucking another mans cock, fucking or being fucked.

I think the hottest part of this story is that Hale and her brother we part of it all, in such close proximity of each other having sex. Especially how it all ends!

[ymmv1]

My wife loves to watch gay porn to get herself nice and wet before I fuck her. She knows I'm bisexual. In the heat of our passion, usually with my cock buried in her wonderfully tight tiny asshole, I start telling her that I dream of having a man fuck me! I tell her that she has to suck his cock and get it all slippery with juice from her wet cunt, and then feed it into my ass and to keep her hand around him while he starts plundering me! At that point she goes off on a string of orgasms that make me crazy because her little asshole is clenching and squeezing my cock so much it can hurt a little.

Sorry, rambling. The point was that I'd love to fuck a guy in real life, or let him into my asshole, but I know it's not going to happen. My consolation is to be able to tell my wife my fantasies in a way that makes it fun for both of us. Honestly, I have to admit that I'm hoping that she'll become more receptive to playing around with others. I'd have no trouble with that!

[john1644]

I'll drink to that..................

[Neonaught]

My wife loves to watch gay porn to get herself nice and wet before I fuck her. She knows I'm bisexual. In the heat of our passion, usually with my cock buried in her wonderfully tight tiny asshole, I start telling her that I dream of having a man fuck me! I tell her that she has to suck his cock and get it all slippery with juice from her wet cunt, and then feed it into my ass and to keep her hand around him while he starts plundering me! At that point she goes off on a string of orgasms that make me crazy because her little asshole is clenching and squeezing my cock so much it can hurt a little.

Sorry, rambling. The point was that I'd love to fuck a guy in real life, or let him into my asshole, but I know it's not going to happen. My consolation is to be able to tell my wife my fantasies in a way that makes it fun for both of us. Honestly, I have to admit that I'm hoping that she'll become more receptive to playing around with others. I'd have no trouble with that!

NEVER say "never". My wife and I didn't come out to each other as bi until 15 years into the marriage. Oh to think of all the time that was wasted!

[midwaymike]

I'd love it if my wife brought a guy home without telling me and made me suck him while she watches.

[Mmpmm]

It's weird but sometimes I dont even think about guys and then all of a sudden it's back and it's all I think about. Taking it, giving it. Sucking it.

That has been my experience as well. However, the older I get the more I desire and fantasize about mm sex. Yes I think about men when I'm with my wife. I imagine she thinks about women when I am giving her oral.