What should I do to prepare for having cock in my ass for the first time?

[Blowjob Boy]

I keep thinking about having a guy slide his cock in my ass, the thought of him holding my hips as he pushes into me makes me horny. And looking between my legs to see his balls swinging and touching mine. I haven't done it before, so how should I prepare my ass?

[void()]

RELAX

I know this may seem a bit subtly put, it is quite helpful though and worth recalling. :oh:

You need to eliminate stress, anxiety even in positive form, prior to enjoying yourself with a cock up the bum. Some, self inclusive, have difficulty in loosening up. And yes, your state of mind or emotions can help or hinder the effing you might otherwise fully enjoy.

Serenity of an evening with a lover is attained in many ways. I find a need in having trust with the lover. Nice mellow music is helpful, maybe a nice warm shower where you clean up well. May even combine all three, put on some music and have a lover help shower you. ;)

Me & Elian once enjoyed a nice bubble bath, despite being a wee cramped in the tub. After the bath we enjoyed a bit of odd ball telly with construction guys, gentle conversation, then of course love making and gradual full on plain old fun effing. We both enjoyed ourselves even in spite of ourselves, we're both introverted types who take a bit to warm up.

So yes, relaxing is by far the best advice I may offer. :)

[manhatten]

I went thru the exact same thrill and wonderment about that, so I researched some things first and here's what I came up with.
The main thing is, as weird as it sounds, is buy a douche bag if you want to keep things looking like they do in the "movies". It may leave you with an odd empty feeling for a bit after using it, so do it a few hours before the act. I would do it twice, first as I sat on the throne and again in an empty bathtub for which you then shower afterwards.

I was def. curious about pain too. There wasn't. In fact, it wasn't a concern at all. But then again, I had searched(posted on Craigs) for someone who was small just for that reason. I would suggest if your first time, to post an ad for a smaller cock and not just go by a personal connection made in a club and not knowing what's down there. That I would rec'mnd you do after the initial experience.

I also was curious to know if I would feel him cumming in me. Online opinions vary, but indeed I did, and it was really nice. I made sure and asked him to bring proof of testing for STD's so I could feel it all natural inside of me, and was glad I did. Be cautious and careful in that area tho. There may be no turning back later for those few moments of bliss then.

No need to go into talk of relaxing and stuff before hand. That would hopefully already be obvious to you. Experiment and fantasize with a dildo a few times if not already doing that, as that helped me with the feeling of something going in and out repeatedly down there, so I could concentrate more on the feelings of the moment when it happened rather than those of suddenly being hit with the realization of the initial insertion and tightening up.
Best wishes and may all your fantasies come true!

[void()]

I went thru the exact same thrill and wonderment about that, so I researched some things first and here's what I came up with.
The main thing is, as weird as it sounds, is buy a douche bag if you want to keep things looking like they do in the "movies". It may leave you with an odd empty feeling for a bit after using it, so do it a few hours before the act. I would do it twice, first as I sat on the throne and again in an empty bathtub for which you then shower afterwards.

I was def. curious about pain too. There wasn't. In fact, it wasn't a concern at all. But then again, I had searched(posted on Craigs) for someone who was small just for that reason. I would suggest if your first time, to post an ad for a smaller cock and not just go by a personal connection made in a club and not knowing what's down there. That I would rec'mnd you do after the initial experience.

I also was curious to know if I would feel him cumming in me. Online opinions vary, but indeed I did, and it was really nice. I made sure and asked him to bring proof of testing for STD's so I could feel it all natural inside of me, and was glad I did. Be cautious and careful in that area tho. There may be no turning back later for those few moments of bliss then.

No need to go into talk of relaxing and stuff before hand. That would hopefully already be obvious to you. Experiment and fantasize with a dildo a few times if not already doing that, as that helped me with the feeling of something going in and out repeatedly down there, so I could concentrate more on the feelings of the moment when it happened rather than those of suddenly being hit with the realization of the initial insertion and tightening up.
Best wishes and may all your fantasies come true!

Nice, excellent advice as well. Thank you. :)

[Ilikeit69]

I have to go with the Relax answer. If you are tense, your ass will tighten up and it will be harder for your partner to enter you. The more he has to push, the more it hurts. If you have time to prepare before you do it the first time, then I would start out with your own finger, and move up to a small dildo if you like it.
My first time, my friend and I were in a 69 and I got up, climbed on, and sat down on it. It was a bit uncomfortable at first, but it felt better as I went along. When he came in my ass, I loved it.