Ever have sex like this?

[pole_smoker]

I saw a gay porn video clip online tonight.

Two men were having sex and the one guy got sucked off and then fucked the other guy fast and rough, came, said "I'm done!", quickly pulled out of the other man's ass, and then left.

The guy who got fucked said, "What about me?" never ejaculated, and the scene ended.

The porn was supposed to be in a locker room or bath house so I guess that's what happens in reality in those places? It was an actual porn it wasn't two men having sex filming themselves in a men's locker room or bath house with a camera phone.

I've heard that some bi men and even gay men get that way after they cum and want to leave even if it's in a bath house or sex club.

Have you ever had sex like that? Or been in either position as either of the two men in the porn?

If so what was it like for you?

I have not as I like to see another man cum. I like sex to last for long periods of time. I'm comfortable having sex or being intimate with a man, and I am happy and not ashamed to be bisexual. I have never had public sex in a locker room, sauna, or bath house since if I were going to hook up with someone I'd meet them in a gay bar or go online to any number of sites.

[Gearbox]

It doesn't matter where you meet them, or how comfy with their sexuality they are: Some men just go completely off sex when they cum. Some of those men just don't have the decency or gratitude to continue when they are not in the mood.
They get what they want, then they're off!

My first bloke was like that. We'd meet every Sunday for just oral, and if I didn't cum.....tough shit!:eek2:
It wasn't until I met another bloke who although cum in 5mins with my first experience of topping and wouldn't leave until I was 'done', that I realized what a selfish twat the first was.
I soon got shot of him when I realized that not all are like him.

[darkeyes]

Trust me... it isn' t only gay and bi men who have ther wicked way an' leave ther partner hanging in air... how often girls, have we had finish ourselves off wiv our fingies? Walking away as the OP describes is just a slightly more extreme form of luffer boy cumming, turning ova and dropping off 2 sleep.. wham bam ty ma'am.. a long known phenomenon in human relations... and the subject of many many jests both professional and amateur.. and the cause of not a few divorces and relationship break ups...

[Hypersexual11]

My suck bud is like this. if I get him off first, he becomes very uncomfortable and wants the leave. Fortunately, I have no problem finishing him off after I come. My period of being uncomfortable only lasts, maybe 30 seconds before I'm ready to dive back in. Fortunately, once I get started on him, he doesn't last more than a minute or 2. Years ago, I would get this feeling even after the guy I was sucking came. I would sort of experience his orgasm as he was having it and I had the same after effect. Both of us heading for the door. I wouldn't even feel the need to come, I felt like I already had.

[newlynymphos]

Yeah, I hate sex like that. I love having a partner that'll stay a bit after! If it's a booty call quicky, that's different, as expectations are fast and quick for both involved. Otherwise, please hold me!

[Realist]

This subject is a big issue with me.

My first sexual partner was an older, very caring, and a considerate, fellow. I learned from him that pleasing your lover was as intoxicating as my own carnal, or emotional, goals.

My first sexual involvement with a female was also an older person. She was much different. She was the one to leave, immediately after she was sated. Being so young and inexperienced, I returned over and over, thinking things would improve. They didn't.

If I came first, as young boys are prone to doing, she would want me to continue to do anything she asked me to, to please her. I eagerly complied! However, if she came first, she had little consideration for me. She'd leave me in the lurch, extremely aroused and needy. Left to my own devices, she'd be heading out the door!

It's a wonder that I didn't become completely gay, then! Luckily, next M/F adventure, at16, was much more rewarding. After that, I had little tolerance for inattentive lovers.

It was all part of my learning process and some lessons were more difficult than others.....but we grow, or die, don't we?

I have no patience for an inconsiderate lover, or FWB. I do my best to be polite, appreciative, and give as good as I get.

One experience like the video illustrated, or like Gear had with his first partner, and that's the end of it, for me!

This is the reason, I have never had a one-night stand with a stranger, or anyone I didn't know well and trust, first. I've always gotten to know any male I expected to be intimate with, before we consummated the relationship. I did have one one-night stand, with a woman in Germany, but she's the only person, ever!

[monaohio]

i cum a few times before he does in me then when he blows is load i cum same time as he does and get one hell of an orgasm

[Neonaught]

This is referred to as "Panda sex". The Panda eats, shoots and leaves.

[stonebow]

This is referred to as "Panda sex". The Panda eats, shoots and leaves.
LMAO.....but oh so true. I can relate to a guy who's not fully at ease with his sexuality being uncomfortable sticking around to attend to his partner after he's cum....was much the same myself early on. Nowadays I'm of the opinion it is better to give than to receive and that's why I prefer to bottom. If I'm with a switch who wants me to top I will...again to please HIM.

[fpb09]

I've been lucky so far, me if I get off first I'm there until they get off ! I hope they would do the same!

[Jorja]

What Darkeyes said, exactly!! :P Woot!!

[tsac2k3]

if i'm getting fucked, then i'd prefer them to get off cuz i enjoy that better. i can always get off by myself BUT i do have a feeling of if i get off first, then i'm done. This is why i'd rather have them get off first.

[Bottomup]

Yes this is what is also called NSA sex Meet get Fucked or Sucked then they go it is also know as Discrete Sex
I am a Bottom I expect that I get what I want and so does he And every one should Practice Safe Sex I Do

[bi4asplay]

It has happened to me one time. A GF of mine and I where playing with a guy we had known a while. He was fucking me while I was licking her. He came safely in my ass, pulled out and left. Though he asked for another go he never got it.

[mas8092]

Trust me... it isn' t only gay and bi men who have ther wicked way an' leave ther partner hanging in air... how often girls, have we had finish ourselves off wiv our fingies? Walking away as the OP describes is just a slightly more extreme form of luffer boy cumming, turning ova and dropping off 2 sleep.. wham bam ty ma'am.. a long known phenomenon in human relations... and the subject of many many jests both professional and amateur.. and the cause of not a few divorces and relationship break ups...

I must be a heartless slut. My goal is to get my partner off. Making a man or woman cum makes me happy. I can take care of myself.

[pole_smoker]

Trust me... it isn' t only gay and bi men who have ther wicked way an' leave ther partner hanging in air... how often girls, have we had finish ourselves off wiv our fingies? Walking away as the OP describes is just a slightly more extreme form of luffer boy cumming, turning ova and dropping off 2 sleep.. wham bam ty ma'am.. a long known phenomenon in human relations... and the subject of many many jests both professional and amateur.. and the cause of not a few divorces and relationship break ups...

Do women do this to other women?

[capecod]

I like it sometimes. When I feel like slutting around it is part of the role I play. Fuck me and leave me.

[liberlib]

I have had a couple of potential FWB who I ended up dropping for this reason. One of my main fantasies is to bring the guy (or gal) off in a full orgasm, clean them orally, and then slowly cuddle, caress and bring them back for some more mutual enjoyment. But the behavior described in this thread makes it impossible to realize the fantasy.

However, I hadn't considered the role play capecod suggested and it actually may have some potential--as long as it is known it is a role play and later opportunity has a chance to show it as a role play.

[bi4asplay]

I saw a gay porn video clip online tonight.

Two men were having sex and the one guy got sucked off and then fucked the other guy fast and rough, came, said "I'm done!", quickly pulled out of the other man's ass, and then left.

The guy who got fucked said, "What about me?" never ejaculated, and the scene ended.

The porn was supposed to be in a locker room or bath house so I guess that's what happens in reality in those places? It was an actual porn it wasn't two men having sex filming themselves in a men's locker room or bath house with a camera phone.

I've heard that some bi men and even gay men get that way after they cum and want to leave even if it's in a bath house or sex club.

Have you ever had sex like that? Or been in either position as either of the two men in the porn?

If so what was it like for you?

I have not as I like to see another man cum. I like sex to last for long periods of time. I'm comfortable having sex or being intimate with a man, and I am happy and not ashamed to be bisexual. I have never had public sex in a locker room, sauna, or bath house since if I were going to hook up with someone I'd meet them in a gay bar or go online to any number of sites.


I have had it happen. There was one guy that my ex Gf and I had over to play. While we were talking h wanted to taste my cum so bad. We were 69in she was urging us on. He blew a pretty large load in my mouth, got up, put on his pants, and walked out of the door, without another word. A week later he called and asked my GF is we would like to have him back over. I seldom heard her laugh so hard.

[monaohio]

I hate quickies I love when it last a couple hours or all day or night long

[Ilikeit69]

Yes. I had friend that I used to get together with on a usual basis and we would have some "fun" together. However that meant that I would have to let him iniate. If I went first, he usually lost the urge, and nothing else would happen. I was cool with that, because I'm a guy and understand how your desire can change after you get off, so I never took offense.
I've always tried to make sure my partner, male or female, gets off. I know I want to get off, so I try to make sure they get the same chance.
ALL FOR CUM, AND CUM FOR ALL!

[void()]

I like it sometimes. When I feel like slutting around it is part of the role I play. Fuck me and leave me.

*nods* i sometimes have such urges. Just go out and see a cute guy, duck off into a secluded area for a quick romp, f**k and leave him wet, me wet and go on with the day. Or maybe even do clean up on one another, then leave.