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Alex2200
Aug 23, 2014, 3:14 AM
porn addicts? plz explain why better than real ppl.
dm330
Aug 23, 2014, 12:11 PM
I have a few reasons why I watch it. I love watching hot people have sex, I love watching people do some of the things that I wouldn't do (gangbang, multiple guys giving creampies, anal sex, etc.). I love playing with real people and really get into what I do and love those who also get into it good and heavy, but at the same time I want to keep my playmates to a minimum of 1 or 2. I use porn as an outlet to keep from looking for more oral sex or full blown sex buddies and it works. I watch, I beat off lol, I blow how ever many loads I need to blow before I lose interest and that's it. I guess I would say it's not better than real people on one hand, but on the other hand it is better because I do get turned on watching a dude or a chick take it up the ass, but it's something I'm not willing to do.
northdallasguy
Aug 23, 2014, 12:28 PM
Its not better. In fact, I feel that too much of it dulls our senses. My opinion is subjective, but I feel that "hard core" porn is too much.
Soft core can arouse and get the juices flowing... It leaves you wanting more. The "more" after a short dose of soft core porn is achievable within a normal healthy relationship.
Hard core porn also arouses and leaves you wanting the same or more... and this is not achievable in most relationships.
Even it we can achieve hard core porn situations... we will always want more. ts a never ending cycle.... insert taboo porn here.
Now, I understand that my view is a bit hypocritical because I do watch porn and my view of "soft core" might be "hard core" so someone else. however, I try to show some restraint and keep it in small doses.
nomorenomore
Aug 23, 2014, 10:15 PM
It's all I have left. Since my wife's sex drive went to zero, she green lighted me to watch porn. Though, lately even that has not helped. Too much stress lately, long hours working. Too tired. I also miss that other body. I am beginning to think it is just going to atrophy and fall off.
EmailOnly
Aug 23, 2014, 11:10 PM
I don't watch porn very often since I've joined up here.. plug for you guys who run this site.
I have used porn many times to seduce boy/girl man/woman into having some kind of sex together. I have found that straight m or f give into temptation when they see erotica. After a ball game I invited my neighbor over for a beer. (just one).. Next to my TV I had a porn disc. He saw it and picked it up. "What's this?" I told him it spiced up our marriage. We watch it sometimes as foreplay. He smiled and put it down and we went on talking about the game.
Suddenly I said.. "You wanna watch it?" "I don't know, my wife would never go for it." I handed it to him and he looked at the cover..
"No, I mean just you and me." He said it sounded freaky..
"Come on, it will be fun." and I stood up and inserted the disc.. It had a slow start but eventually a cock was pulled out and a women sucked on it..
I ask him if wife ever did that to him.. He chuckled and told me it had to dark with the covers pull up before she let me do anything. "Good, then this is your chance to see something you've missed out on."
I stretched my legs out and pulled my trousers down a few inches.. just enough to give my cock room to expand and we sat there watching porn.. I noticed he stretched his legs out also..
You know the rest... He saw my hard cock.. his was also hard.. I put my hand on his leg.. just rested it there and then stroked his leg moving to his inner thigh.. He moved his legs apart and I cupped his balls and slowly massaged his equipment.. Not a word was spoken when I reached over and undid his fly and reached in under his underwear.. It was hard and wet... so I moved and knelt down between his legs and put my mouth over him..
He gave a few sighs.. and then Aaaaah.. and a few minutes later he shot off into my hungry mouth..
He said he never was with a man before.. I told him he should try it.. I asked if he enjoyed it and he said he wasn't sure, but when I pulled my sticky cock out into the open his hand grasped it tightly and he began stroking me. I moved into position.. my cock near his mouth. He looked into my pee-hole and watched my pre-cum drool.. and then his mouth closed down over the knob and I shot a load into his mouth..
The point is.. Even straight guys suck cock in the proper setting.
Visexual
Aug 24, 2014, 3:27 AM
Like so many here, my wife doesn’t want intercourse anymore. The only source for any satisfaction in my hetero world is porn.
I do have a source for male/male satisfaction so I don’t really watch much of that.
Hypersexual11
Aug 24, 2014, 9:19 AM
I'm obsessed with sex. I watch too much porn. Sex with my wife is usually very porn like. Sex with her and another man is very porn like. We have been the craziest fuck for several of the men we have screwed. Porn is better almost never. It does fuel the imagination. There are very few bloopers, unlike in the bedroom where group sex is almost comical sometimes. But it fills the gap between events and does allow an outlet that helps keep me from straying.
Meliss
Oct 3, 2014, 8:40 AM
The appeal of porn (especially owned like on DVD) is that it is predictable and available at your whim.
Although most women I've known could have sex with strangers pretty much any day or time they want I've never felt that the average man had the same opportunity to find a willing woman at the drop of a hat. If an average man could walk into any bar and walk out with a woman in an hour I think porn would be just a filler for when partners traveled or were too sick or tired to play.
I have yet to go into a gay bar but I assume the ability to find a willing now partner might be better.
I realize people significantly younger than myself use hook up now sites. My belief is people about my age especially females use such sites seldom.
I get touching and social strokes from dancing and a bit of sexual release from porn. A bit too inhibited or shy to ask for sex from all the people who arouse me in real life. ; )
Cutiliae
Oct 3, 2014, 10:15 AM
I have been watching porn since I was about 16. I still watch it and operate two porn blogs....a day without porn is a day without sunshine.
nomorenomore
Oct 3, 2014, 10:26 AM
I found porn to be a way to explore my likes and dislikes. I always had a question of my sexuality. I had been exploring all kinds of porn from interracial to dwarf to red heads. I decided to see if I would be put off by guy on guy, but found that rather than put off, I had a rock hard and blew a load like i never had before. So that is now in the mix too. So it is a way to explore other "options" without having to experience it in RL. Why venture down a road if you would be put off?
Alex2200
Dec 28, 2014, 12:40 AM
porn releases so much for many. doubt u not be sexually with porn, yet sounds like u enjoy a warm body to embrace, nothing wrong with that!
Alex2200
Dec 28, 2014, 1:11 AM
good story how porn helps
HappyHedonic
Dec 28, 2014, 1:45 AM
In my opinion, it's not better than doing the real thing with a real person(s), it is a form of entertainment as opposed to a form of engagement. As a form of entertainment, I find it fun, beautiful, arousing, an art form unto itself. Some may scoff at that statement, but consider how films that depict war and violence are considered "art" and then inspect your values. I'd rather watch people giving each other pleasure and joy than hurting each other any day.
Lov2look
Dec 28, 2014, 3:27 AM
Love to know what site your running.
Lov2look
Dec 28, 2014, 3:31 AM
Beem watching porn from age 20 ,then it stated to get boring so I turned to bi ,heshe,gay twinkles ,and it was a whole new experience.32145
dm330
Dec 28, 2014, 7:13 AM
I'm a porn addict, not because I think it's better than the real deal, but because I love watching others fuck.
dm330
Dec 28, 2014, 7:16 AM
Ha, just read the comments and forgot I replied to this once already lol!
julyguybill
Dec 28, 2014, 7:55 AM
I do really enjoy gay sex porn mostly oral sex with cum shots makes me hot
JackTexas94
Dec 28, 2014, 9:36 AM
I can watch a little of it (gay porn is all I ever watch anymore when I do) but to be honest it gets boring really quick. I prefer to just look at still pics
Gumby12
Dec 28, 2014, 10:01 AM
I get bored with Porn at times. There are times when I just love it. I have to be in the mood though. I love jacking to a Porn.. It would be nice to have somebody around, but Porn is the ole' backup.
Angus41J
Jan 1, 2015, 2:06 PM
been into porn since age 14 when I found the old man's Swedish porn mags. internet has taken it to new levels. love to watch it with others but fondly remember those old days jacking off to those mags.
Cutiliae
Jan 2, 2015, 1:18 PM
I started watching porn at 16 (1976) by going into porn theaters and still watch it. That is where I fell in love with the sight of a nice looking cock I guess....and I love the hot girls too, that's why I still just stick with straight porn, especially the vintage stuff. Watching porn and jerking off was better than dating for me when I was younger.
goodsonformom
Jan 2, 2015, 4:06 PM
I watch porn occasionally. I typically watch gay porn, or some more taboo stuff when I need a little extra. I love to read erotica and am far more addicted to that than watching a video. I hate contrived scenes with no emotion or plat.....I love real or amateur porn.....when I read it becomes real to me.....my own desires feeding onto it and the orgasms are so much better.
I do love watching porn with someone more though.....always leading to something hot and satisfying....
ErosUrge
Jan 3, 2015, 3:41 PM
For me, never better than the actual experience...I use it for an appetizer sometimes before play or jacking off. In the past when I was single, I would watch prior to going out when I had a hookup date and when nothing was happening, it was great as the main course to jack my cock and use dildos in my ass to fuel the experience when I hit my orgasm. Now sometimes my girlfriend and I will watch prior to playing.
pole_smoker
Jan 3, 2015, 7:22 PM
Porn is boring to me as it's all scripted/planned out-even the so called "amateur" stuff that gets released by studios or put online, and it's not as good as actual real sex with a person.