View Full Version : Anyone else bi-oral only?
biking11997744
Jun 4, 2014, 8:35 PM
New here - wondering if anyone else is in the same boat as me. I'm not attracted to men in general but I do crave giving oral now and then. I love the curves on a woman's body but when it comes to oral I'd rather give it to a guy than a woman. I guess that's not really always true either. Nothing else about men is attractive to me. To each there own, I know there are no hard and fast rules to sexuality. Or are there? Curious as to what thoughts you have. Thanks!
tenni
Jun 4, 2014, 9:00 PM
Hi biking
What do you really mean when you write bi oral?
Bi or bisexual is a physical and or emotional attraction to both gender. There are no degrees of attraction that you must have to consider yourself bisexual. That may be due to fluidity. Fluidity can increase or decrease your attraction to one gender or the other. That could be over a lifetime. It could be that you remain with no fluid change to oral sex and you will always be more attracted to sucking cock than pussy.
Don't you really mean that you are attracted to same sex oral more than opposite gender attracted to oral?
jem_is_bi
Jun 4, 2014, 9:47 PM
I definitely, find women to be VERY MUCH more attractive than men. For oral sex, I am exclusively attracted to men. Otherwise, I am willing to top a man or woman but not the other way around. For a relationship, I am good with either. But, did I mention how much I crave oral sex with men. I am not very sexually fluid. I have had the same orientation all my life.
justorallybi
Jun 4, 2014, 10:07 PM
Well actually I would have to say Very much so !
Hypersexual11
Jun 5, 2014, 11:03 AM
That pretty much describes me as well. I love anal sex, just not with men. My wife is a master pegger lol. But the thought of a man being at the helm of the dick is not at all attractive to me. I have done it, I did not like it.
I have a feeling that this desire for giving oral sex to men, but not being attracted to men, is the reason glory holes are so popular among us. Gives separation.
Waylon
Jun 5, 2014, 11:08 AM
I enjoy giving head to certain men and will enjoy getting a bj from a man every now and then. That is the extent of my bisexuality. Pleasing a woman orally, intercourse and getting sucked still rank high.
cuttin2dachase
Jun 5, 2014, 12:48 PM
I am orally bi and also enjoy kissing, licking, body contact and other intimate (even romantic) foreplay activities with men, but I have never desired anal sex with men. I was hetero until age 32 when I was introduced to oral sex with men. I love sucking a man's cock with the express purpose of making him cum and I enjoy having my cock sucked and pleased by another eager, cockloving man. My bi thrill is visually and sensually geared to oral sex and it always will be. I've had men beg me to fuck them or let them fuck me, but topping or bottoming just does not appeal to me. I make this clear upfront before I meet men. It really limits the pool of bi or gay men I can meet for mutual oral sex because most of them are not interested in me if I don't and won't "go all the way". I do manage to meet bi men who, like me, enjoy only the sensual and oral mm arts, but not nearly as often as I'd like. Contrary to what many men have told me ie. "you don't know what you're missing" or "you're not truly bi if you don't get into fucking men", being orally bi fully satisfies my bi desires and my manlust and cocklust.
justmelonely
Jun 5, 2014, 12:56 PM
I like to just suck a guys cock only and I am not attracted to men at all, its just sucking a cock that is wonderful to me. I love woman more and enjoy taking care of them every way I can, never had anal done to me But with the right guy I would be willing to let a guy do anal to me thats the most I would do with a guy other then sucking his cock, and from reading this post I see that there are a lot of us that feel the same way.
sterculius
Jun 5, 2014, 4:18 PM
Giving blowjobs is the only sexual activity I engage in with other men. I love sucking cock! With this sole exception, women have always been my primary and consuming sexual interest. But even more than my love of performing the act itself, it excites me simply to admit to myself and to others that I am, in fact, a "Cocksucker"!!!. I love "being" a cocksucker! For this reason I won't accept a blowjob in return from any of the men whose cocks I suck because this would ruin for me the intense pleasure I get from being their slutty, subservient cocksucker. I get such a thrill each time I go down on my knees to take their cocks deep into my mouth and suck their cocks until they explode in my mouth and I have to swallow all their delicious cum! I love the deliciously humiliating and intoxicating sense of objectification that being a cocksucker provides me. I like surrendering control and allowing men to very roughly "use" my mouth and throat to achieve their erotic gratification and sexual release while satisfying my intense craving for oral subjugation. I'm a cocksucker! It's who and it's what I am.
TerrorTwilight
Jun 5, 2014, 4:52 PM
I agree with OP, I only like to give oral to guys, nothing else.
erosbydesign
Jun 5, 2014, 6:24 PM
Good topic! I'm in the same boat- really attracted to women but love to give oral from time to time.
karma803
Jun 5, 2014, 9:22 PM
My husband is also strictly "bi-oral" for want of a better label. He has no attraction to men at all and no desire for kissing, fondling, or anal with men. He says the only one he wants playing with his ass is me! LOL Although he enjoys giving oral to a guy, he says the ultimate has been the times I joined in and we shared a cock together. His mouth on one side, mine on the other, working our way up and sharing a long deep kiss when we reach the tip. Yummy!!!
havefun529
Jul 14, 2014, 2:02 PM
I am only interested in bi-oral.
Jim West
Jul 14, 2014, 6:09 PM
Same here, I'm only interested in oral sex. It's always been that way, male or female. Think it has something to do with the the more personal connection of fluids, cum and a very juicy, wet pussy. I'd have intercourse with gals when I was younger and it was good, but not as good as going back down and getting them off again and enjoying the taste of our love juices. As far as guys, never had any interest in bottoming, topping, rimming or kissing. Just wanted to suck their cocks.
jackbirdjay
Jul 26, 2014, 10:43 AM
Years ago in the late 70's when I first had sex with guys I only gave head. Latter on I became more in to more than just his cock. Now I enjoy being topped and enjoy kissing to.
mas8092
Jul 26, 2014, 3:25 PM
I am 50 and started with men about 4 years ago. I love sucking a cock. Bottomed a few times. But, I have no interest in kissing men or topping them.
Visexual
Jul 27, 2014, 2:30 AM
My first male sex, as an adult, was giving a blowjob and I knew it was something that I’d always enjoy doing.
Now it feels good to be sucked, by a man or a woman, but I much prefer doing the sucking.
I find it interesting that, of the many, many girls and women I’ve been with, only a very few enjoyed sucking cock. In fact, most just did it to get me to fuck do them. But men seem to mostly want to be the one sucking or the one getting fucked. There are just a lot more bottoms than tops. Go figure?
notmacbi
Jul 27, 2014, 7:38 AM
Count me in this category as well. Love my wife insatiably and she can do anything she wants to me. It's just when I see a nice cock I crave to get on my knees and suck it off like a good little slut.
tonedbiman
Jul 27, 2014, 10:00 AM
Yes I am. I love women but love sucking cock. I love seeing my woman get fucked by a huge cock too.
jamie63
Jul 28, 2014, 9:56 AM
....bi oral only for me too
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Geogar250
Jul 28, 2014, 9:49 PM
I agree with cuttin2dachase. I would consider myself bi-oral only, including the activities described above by cuttin2dachase. I was hetero until age 13 or 14, when I began to notice I was not as attracted to women as to men, but it has only been since about age 25 that I've accepted myself as "bi" (and still haven't told my parents; I don't know how they'd react). However, I'm a complete sexual novice, so I have no idea how fluid my sexuality may be. I could try sucking once, dislike it, and never do it again. Or, I could try it, like it, and end up "going all the way" with someone someday. I won't know until I try, and for one I think I'll always be somewhat attracted to women.
Yman67
Jul 30, 2014, 12:50 PM
I've enjoyed sucking cock for 8 years. My biggest turn on is sucking a man to completion while his wife is sucking me. I was raped as a child and have no desire for anal.
suckemall
Jul 30, 2014, 9:47 PM
Started out at a very young age sucking and being sucked. Had much older men suck me and me suck them to the point of wanting more, but they were much to large for my young virgin ass. Married and still married with kids and love my wife who sucked me only 3 times during our 40+ years of marriage, so now back to sucking and being sucked by men...so basically, I am bi-oral for the time being.
ieatyu
Jul 31, 2014, 11:35 AM
I am strictly orally bi..... I love to suck cock
whispering
Aug 1, 2014, 6:35 PM
I love to make love with women in most any way imaginable; when it comes to men, I'm a cocksucker, pure and simple. :tongue:
Oldroughrider
Aug 2, 2014, 6:07 PM
Very bi oral and love sucking cock and getting mine sucked by a guy or gal. I will say that the guys that have sucked my cock have far exceeded many of the women I have had suck my cock. However I have thought about receiving anal penetration and with the right guy might try it.
mikeyd270
Aug 5, 2014, 1:45 PM
I went bi late in life, around 40. May have been along but just never acted on it. I would only perform or allow oral. Love sucking cock but started fantasizing and wanting it in the ass. I bottomed not long ago and look forward to the next time.
jammgb944
Aug 6, 2014, 9:18 AM
I consider myself bi-oral only. I've only had one guy, and only had it twice. Both tines I've swallowed, it seemed natural for me. I'm 36, I guess I've been missing out for many years.
I'm up for trying it again with another guy or better yet, guys at the same time! Just can't help myself now that I e tried it. But that's the only thing I'm attracted to with guys, is a cock. I guess all that gabgbang porn I love wasn't always about the woman.
I love the taste!
jammgb944
Aug 6, 2014, 9:19 AM
I consider myself bi-oral only. I've only had one guy, and only had it twice. Both tines I've swallowed, it seemed natural for me. I'm 36, I guess I've been missing out for many years.
I'm up for trying it again with another guy or better yet, guys at the same time! Just can't help myself now that I e tried it. But that's the only thing I'm attracted to with guys, is a cock. I guess all that gabgbang porn I love wasn't always about the woman.
I love the taste!
Mike2922
Aug 6, 2014, 10:39 AM
Good topic! I'm in the same boat- really attracted to women but love to give oral from time to time.
same here!
cardone
Aug 9, 2014, 1:09 AM
I'm not attracted to men in general but I do crave giving oral now and then. I love the curves on a woman's body but when it comes to oral I'd rather give it to a guy than a woman. I guess that's not really always true either. Nothing else about men is attractive to me. To each there own, I know there are no hard and fast rules to sexuality. Or are there? Curious as to what thoughts you have. Thanks!
Same here. I'm very drawn to oral play but that's all.
keith1560
Aug 9, 2014, 10:17 AM
That's the way I am.
sudsy_0550
Aug 9, 2014, 10:26 AM
hello from nebr same here
jem_is_bi
Aug 9, 2014, 11:50 PM
It seems a little strange that so many of those interested in only oral play have no other interest in a prospective male partner. That's definitely OK and may define a lifelong sexuality. However, I suspect that some are likely to have more than the oral sex act become important about those they have sex with. So, do not be surprised if it happens to you.
chisucker
Aug 10, 2014, 11:39 AM
I fit this category. I have no desire to date men or go any farther sexually.
'BlowJob'
Aug 11, 2014, 7:22 AM
I have been married 35 years and a Cocksucker 55. I don't consider myself Bi or Gay. A Cocksucker is who I am. Sucking dick is something that once you do, you will repeat. It becomes part of your life.
Petersharing4us
Aug 11, 2014, 9:05 PM
Yep, I have tried cock several times (not many) and I specifically want to share sucking cock with a woman present....passing it back and forth while kissing, watching and talking erotically while taking turns till the cock leaks and we finish him spraying hot white all over both of us. Im brand new just today and I hope to meet mutually similar friends to share this kind of hot play.
Cloudchaser66
Sep 3, 2014, 1:58 PM
I completely understand , I'm turned on by a mans cock and balls but not interested in hugging kissing or the rest . Just being sexually submissive to a man I guess
BiPaoulo69
Sep 10, 2014, 5:44 PM
I was bi-oral only, and was determined that I could never kiss a guy.. Until I met that special guy. He was so hot and passionate lover I completely surrendered myself to him. I returned his passionate kisses with more passionate kisses. And when he went for my ass I did not resist at all. His rimming drove e crazy. It took us 3 sessions from him to really go inside of my version ass. But from then on I wanted to fucked by him all the time. The best sex ever.
massbear
Jun 1, 2019, 3:31 PM
Oral only. I like having my asshole played with (fingered, rimmed) but I tried to bottom once and couldn't relax enough for him to get it in. I suppose under the right circumstances I might try it again but oral is good enough, so I don't see anal as a neccesity. Definitely not into anything romantic: No hugging/kissing/cuddling/ dating etc. The same guy that tried to fuck me kissed me and I did not like it at all.
Grant_Norman
Jun 1, 2019, 5:27 PM
I'm primarily oral...the few times I've been fucked in ass have been nice, but need PLENTY of lube and a stiff cock. Also need to stretch and prep some...but once it all comes together, unbelievable...still, love the feel of cock in mouth and swallowing a nice load the most
Flypaper
Jun 1, 2019, 10:43 PM
Oral only. I like having my asshole played with (fingered, rimmed) but I tried to bottom once and couldn't relax enough for him to get it in. I suppose under the right circumstances I might try it again but oral is good enough, so I don't see anal as a neccesity. Definitely not into anything romantic: No hugging/kissing/cuddling/ dating etc. The same guy that tried to fuck me kissed me and I did not like it at all.
Same here. Oral fixation, but including rimming.
Robocock
Jun 2, 2019, 2:31 AM
I say I'm bisexual but really I have a cock and cum fetish lol.. If I see a big thick smooth shaved uncut cock with shaved low hanging balls I feel like I'm in heaven lol.. but I love all cocks what ever there shape or size.. cut or uncut.. just has long as it gets hard and it shoots a big thick load I'm a happy man..
I love women, the way they look and smell.. I would do anything to a beautiful women.. but men I will not top and definitely no rimming.. If I met the right guy I might try bottoming.. I have kissed a couple of guys but it doesn't turn me on like when I kiss a girl.. I don't like guys feet but I have a bit of a fetish with women's small feet.. The truth is I love turning a guy on by playing with his cock giving him a hand job or blow job, I love frottage... I also love thick creamy cum.. I love the taste and the feel of it.. I love it in my mouth or all over my body..
The other thing I like about a guy is you can chat about man things.. but at the end of the day I love women but guys it is just cock..
KDaddy23
Jun 2, 2019, 2:29 PM
If two (or more) men can do it, I've probably done it... and more than "a few times..." but my all-time favorite thing to do is suck dick and I consider myself more "oral only" these days.
nu2curious
Jun 3, 2019, 2:57 PM
I'm with you guys love the male anatomy . There's something about a guy legs spread and standing at full mast that is a turn on. I love it, everything about it, it 's all good but not into kissing , cuddling, anal etc.
iwantmore
Jun 3, 2019, 8:42 PM
It would seem most bi/gay guys include some form of anal play. Makes it real difficult to find a man or a couple who truly abstain from any form of anal play. Open to oral, hj, mild cd play, mmf etc....maybe kissing in the heat of the moment with the right guy.
Edit....throw in finding a married guy who isn't cheating on his wife, well now you know I'm looking for a needle in the haystack.
nuttybuddys69
Jun 3, 2019, 11:09 PM
I'm not attracted to a man's body like I am with women I enjoy a woman soft skin curves tits but getting naked with men excites me like a woman never has I sucked my first mans dick 14yrs now way he took me into his mouth without asking something had never felt 9yrs ago I posted online looking men who would getting naked with me just to receive I had a man that stayed Friday night I sucked his dick slowly all swallowing couple times I'm no sissy but I love being feminine totally opposite when I'm with a woman I like to be taken by men I get turned out getting on my knees between his legs playing with his dick put my mouth all over his balls I enjoy being a man's queer bitch I try using my hands little as possible especially when he's close to climax when I feel he's filling my mouth with sperm I'm sensitive to I just hold him between my tight soft lips guessing that would be physical but I get pleasure from giving pleasure I don't know tried years myself why sex with men seems more erotic best ive come the excitement of wanting his dick as much as he wants me to have it not all most women especially 2 I married always made me feel better be your getting pussy at all usually don't have to look very far for a man can't get his pants down fast enough
sysper
Jun 3, 2019, 11:34 PM
u got the right to be with whoever u decide is right for u. honestly i wouldn't feel comfortable with anyone who was going behind the back of a spouse/bf/gf. i'm not judging but i don't wanna be a part of that situation.
It would seem most bi/gay guys include some form of anal play. Makes it real difficult to find a man or a couple who truly abstain from any form of anal play. Open to oral, hj, mild cd play, mmf etc....maybe kissing in the heat of the moment with the right guy.
Edit....throw in finding a married guy who isn't cheating on his wife, well now you know I'm looking for a needle in the haystack.
SilkyHoseLover
Jun 4, 2019, 8:26 AM
I'm not attracted to a man's body like I am with women I enjoy a woman soft skin curves tits but getting naked with men excites me like a woman never has I sucked my first mans dick 14yrs now way he took me into his mouth without asking something had never felt 9yrs ago I posted online looking men who would getting naked with me just to receive I had a man that stayed Friday night I sucked his dick slowly all swallowing couple times I'm no sissy but I love being feminine totally opposite when I'm with a woman I like to be taken by men I get turned out getting on my knees between his legs playing with his dick put my mouth all over his balls I enjoy being a man's queer bitch I try using my hands little as possible especially when he's close to climax when I feel he's filling my mouth with sperm I'm sensitive to I just hold him between my tight soft lips guessing that would be physical but I get pleasure from giving pleasure I don't know tried years myself why sex with men seems more erotic best ive come the excitement of wanting his dick as much as he wants me to have it not all most women especially 2 I married always made me feel better be your getting pussy at all usually don't have to look very far for a man can't get his pants down fast enough
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eager4cum
Jun 4, 2019, 8:55 AM
based on where this thread is headed (pun intended) yes is the short answer.
I love sucking cock, especially if it is smooth. not fond of hairy cocks. the pubes need to be at least trimmed. And of course, I love the cum once that reward has been earned. I also love playing with the cum and snowballing is probably the one act that gets my cock to drip some pre cum.
Anal (giving or receiving) does nothing for me, does not get me hard at all, not even a little. I don't even like seeing an ass. I have no romantic feelings for men in general. I do for my best friend from school but he is an exception.
bluepinerider
Jun 7, 2019, 1:36 PM
It interests me to mainly suck cock. Although using a plug has certainly changed my feelings of anal with the right friend.
Bicycle69
Jun 7, 2019, 2:34 PM
It's all about the cock for me, I like ones that look like mine. However nothing gets more turned on than the thought of sharing a nice cock with a women, both of us licking, sucking and kissing. Another huge turn on is the thought of eating my own cum from a women's pussy and then snowballing with her. I'm hard as hell just writing this.
I am jealous of those who have done this, I'm still waiting for my day.