View Full Version : do less standard body types attract you too?
Meliss
Jun 2, 2014, 8:21 AM
I was dancing with a very tall woman yesterday and found that I think I may have a thing for tall ladies.
I have noticed that older women turn me on as well. Even some as much as 20 years older. I have to admit to mentally undressing a few of these ladies when dancing with them.
Yes even larger girth ladies have an appeal. Especially dancing with those light on their feet.
I know some of this may just be the closeness and touching of dancing but it is so pleasant to really like and be attracted to body types I just did not appreciate before.
: )
fredtyg
Jun 2, 2014, 10:37 AM
Not particularly enamored of women taller than me. Don't mind guys a bit taller, but not too much. Don't like guys too much shorter than me. Don't mind women shorter than me. Overweight guys are yucko. Don't mind overweight women so long as they're not super fat.
Almost forgot. Lean and skinny guys are ok. I'm not so hot on skinny women.
jamieknyc
Jun 2, 2014, 10:51 AM
I am 6'0, so I rarely meet women who are taller than I am! But I do like older women.
Neonaught
Jun 3, 2014, 9:53 AM
While there are certain body types I find especially attractive it's the person that really seals the deal with me. You can be gorgeous as all get out but that and that still won't matter f you're an asshole.
Realist
Jun 3, 2014, 12:36 PM
I agree with Neonaught. I never understood those who would suffer assholes, just for the sex!
Maybe, since my very first sexual encounter at an early age, was with a chubby girl and boy my age, I have always been drawn to those with fuller figures. Regardless of how I feel about a person's looks, my priorities have always been personality, mutual interests, and compatibility, with psychical attributes being a close second.
To expand on Neonaught's statement, I've seen new acquaintances grow from plain, to beautiful, because of their stellar characteristics. On the other hand, I've come to find an initially beautiful person, can often become undesirable, because of attributes that illustrate their disrespect and selfishness.
Everyone has their own attractions and motivations and those are mine!
WildColonial
Jun 3, 2014, 7:25 PM
While there are certain body types I find especially attractive it's the person that really seals the deal with me.
Quoted for emphasis.
I'm a 5'10" BBW and generally attracted to men my height or taller, preferably with a large build. With women, I'm not as particular about height, but I generally prefer bigger girls. Race doesn't matter, although I do have a penchant for black men and women of any ethnicity with gorgeous accents.
That said, it really is the person who attracts me. As long as he/she is gorgeous to me and thinks I'm gorgeous, externals don't matter.
lookn4fun64
Jun 4, 2014, 8:27 AM
Nicely stated Wild. hat really matters is I you are attracted to the person.
innaminka
Jun 5, 2014, 5:00 AM
i am unabashedly attracted to girls with nice, big bottoms.
The one that wobble just a bit.
I'm not into obese, but a nice botty ..........:love::love:
monaohio
Jun 5, 2014, 7:59 AM
if he is good in bed and last a long time before he cums in my mouth or in me I do not care what body type he is
newlynymphos
Jun 5, 2014, 9:06 AM
Stamina, mutual interest, and common ground are all what makes a person attractive :) It seems that that trifecta doesn't occur too often in the classicly modern beautiful. It does, but it is rare!
Meliss
Jun 5, 2014, 9:19 AM
While there are a number of very good looking people who are self centered, I believe there are a number that are good hearted as well. My comment about being attracted to others I was not before was more about escaping TV's idea of beauty and setting my own standards. Not sure but think it was possibly suggested that I was an asshole for not seeing it before.
Regarding what my appearance is, am told that viewing my face is pleasant. Have had no one drop anything and notice them drooling yet though. : )
WildColonial
Jun 5, 2014, 3:16 PM
Stamina, mutual interest, and common ground are all what makes a person attractive :)
Word.
Long Duck Dong
Jun 6, 2014, 2:00 AM
most of the happiest times with partners have been the BBW and older men.... I appreciate the look of a nice, athletic person but in a lot of cases, I am been unable to connect with them on a emotional and mental level....
michael clark duncan is attractive to me, specially in the green mile movie......there is a feeling of gentleness around him in that movie, combined with the strength, that is very alluring..... and I have noticed the same type of energy in older men and BBW, is very alluring ......
that is different to the way I feel about sean connery and george clooney whom I also find very attractive, I simply can not imagine a romp in the hay with them.....
so for me, its older men, the age is less of a deal with the women..... bigger women of any height tho slimmer women that are shorter, can be appealing... and people with a aspect such as race, looks, accent and voice, that interests me and draws me to them...... are more likely to stand out to me than other people...... and in the case of my partner, a person that makes me want to say * mine * will get me every time as its a case of I want to belong to them as somebody they can trust, rely on and know I would go to hell and back for them, just because it feels right for me to do so