HOW TO PROCEED ON MY FIRST GAY EXPERIENCE

[malleable]

I am a bi curious guy,42 years old and am looking for my first gay experience.I found a guy matching my interests(of soft sex and cock sucking) and he wants his whole body licked.As the time nears i am developing cold feet.I do not know if i can meet him this sunday. Should i proceed or no?If yes how should i prepare myself.I would be greatful to the people who can advice me.

[BIGUY123456]

Take a hot shower to smell nice, watch some porn to get you all horned up then meet him. Tell him your boundaries, play safe

[Dunmor]

Prepare yourself, as in hygiene, when you meet, discuss any boundaries, then go for it. Remember safety first!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Get all gussied up, then go meet the man. Explain what you are looking for, expecting, wanting. Even just talking about it can get you aroused and excited. Take protection with you. Dont be afraid. You'll never know if this is for you unless you try it on first.
Good luck, be safe, and play safe ALWAYS..:} Then come back and tell us how it turned out..:}
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[lookin2tryit]

I am a bi curious guy,42 years old and am looking for my first gay experience.I found a guy matching my interests(of soft sex and cock sucking) and he wants his whole body licked.As the time nears i am developing cold feet.I do not know if i can meet him this sunday. Should i proceed or no?If yes how should i prepare myself.I would be greatful to the people who can advice me.


share your concerns and reservations with him....he may be feeling the same way....share what your initial limits and expectations may be

[lookn4fun64]

I agree with looking. Develop a common understanding of what you both are interested in.

I would also suggest meeting first in a coffee show or diner. Have a discussion on what you both are interested in before heading home or wherever for party time. If you don't agree in that environment, say thanks but I don't think this is going to work out. The coffee was good, sex just isn't in the picture in such a case.

[tenni]

The advice above is good and especially about your boundaries. The problem is not knowing where your boundary is if you haven't been with a guy before.

What do you think about a meeting just to chat with no sex? Would that calm you a bit?

If it is your first time, do not promise much. Maybe just jerking off together. If you are comfortable,you could get into stroking each other then oral.

Denitely let him know that you are nervous. If he begins to pressure you for more, leave.

[jem_is_bi]

Don't get nervous, the first time will unlikely be absolutely perfect. You only get perfect with practice. Just try to have fun together. The second time will be even better. Play safe? Perfect safe is no sex. Me, I am not going to suck on a condom. But, that may not be a problem for you.

[malleable]

what protection can i take.is it condoms?

[lookn4fun64]

definitely with someone you don't really know or trust yet. First question many I have met here for playtime is "when were you last tested for AIDS and STD's. Condoms until you are comfortable if it's internal. External - your judgment. Looks the looks of the merchandise? Answer to the questions positive? Have at it.

There is a god deal of trust in the words above between both parties involved.

[billblueeyes]

For the first meeting, keep it low key and develop a friendship first... The sex can come later if you both are comfortable..

[jem_is_bi]

Condoms are good (not perfect) protection. But, if you eventually find a real friend, that is just as good protection.

[malleable]

I met him at last in a restaurant.we discussed about ourselves and when the topic steered towards sex he wasnt for building a relationship;he wanted it in the afternoon itself.he said he was happy he has got a slave to satisfy his carnal needs and he said by licking his whole body he meant rimming, which i feel disgusting and i told him we will meet a few more times till i feel comfortable before we proceed and i left.

[mcliff128]

I am a bi curious guy,42 years old and am looking for my first gay experience.I found a guy matching my interests(of soft sex and cock sucking) and he wants his whole body licked.As the time nears i am developing cold feet.I do not know if i can meet him this sunday. Should i proceed or no?If yes how should i prepare myself.I would be greatful to the people who can advice me.

I had cold feet my firs time as 'm re just about everyone here has. I met him and we only di oral the first time but the experience was so worth it. You'll never know how much fun you can have unless you go for it. Be safe and enjoy.

[Realist]

Malleable, I'm with you, here!

"by licking his whole body he meant rimming, which i feel disgusting"

I had a lover, who begged me to allow him to rim me. I could never get clean enough (in my mind) to be comfortable with him doing that!

[foreverbi]

i am a 66 y/o man, but I still want to suck a dick (hey somethings you never get to old for). My question is How do I drop to my knees & wrap my lips around his dick until he emitted some kind liquid (hell any kin of liquid). I am serious about this subject. As I don't want some redneck to beat the shit of me.