Approaching a married with proposition to suck.

[Str8guy]

or ideas on finding safe Bj recipient

[newlynymphos]

Attend a bi orgy :)

[itsnormy]

I had a co worker whom I found made my mouth water every time I looked at him...his wife basically banned him from anything sexual on the computer, but he loves lesbian pictures. I took a disk and put about 20, very graphic lesbo pics on it, but in the middle a picture of a gal giving a guy head in a locker room. We sat and watched together, and when the locker room scene came up, I pointed to the guy being sucked, and said, " You know what would be fun ? IF that was you," and pointed to the gal, and said, " and this was me." He got all flustered and said he couldn't do that...but before I left that day, I gave him a hand job behind the open door of the car.....next trip up, he opened the door, fresh out of the shower, wearing only a robe, and a hardon........we meet now and then when he has the chance...truly wish it were an everyday thing...but alas, the problem with a married man, they cannot just drop by out of the blue....

[Str8guy]

Wow! Your 80? When did you first start sucking cock?

[Gearbox]

You can't fault Itsnormy's tactic there: get a sexually deprived married bloke horny, then come straight out with it.:bowdown:
It's perfect IMO.

[itsnormy]

Wow! Your 80? When did you first start sucking cock?

with a big grin...my first cock was at 5, second at 8, and so did his 8 year old sister and gave her a first orgasm...she caught us sucking and wanted to play too...LOL back in 1937....yeah they had invented cock sucking by then...LOL

[itsnormy]

Attend a bi orgy :)

Would that I could....the tragedy of age....you tend to become somewhat more invisible to many....

[cuttin2dachase]

As a now single closeted bi swinger, twice married, who prefers bi married men for mm makeout and oral fun, I would never approach a man unless I know he's bi and actively & seriously looking for cock too. I only approach bi married men online based on whether their stated mm desires are compatible with mine. There are hundreds of them in my area, most of whom don't interest me. But as another poster stated, meeting the ones I'd like to meet is difficult because of their family/work constraints. Still, if you are patient enough to chat with other bi married men long enough to develop mutual interest and desire, you will meet your share of them ! Where there's a will (and cocklust), there's usually a way....

[fredtyg]

Online is the only way for most people. As far as friends, or people you're just acquainted with, I still say the best approach is to let them know you're bisexual in a non- threatening way. By non- threatening I mean in a way that they won't feel you're hitting on them or putting them on the spot. If they feel pressured, at best they'll back away and it would be too awkward for them to be around you. At worst, they could react very negatively, outing you or even get physical- and that's even if the guy is bi.

Just mention it in passing during an appropriate conversation when you're alone or in the right company where he feels at ease and in a way that he feels he can ignore it or pursue it without it seeming awkward.