Help!?

[SpiritDragon88]

Howdy. I already posted an introduction so I will forgo that. Just for the thread though... We are two same sex partnered males seeking girlfriend(s). See profile and introduction for more info.

Does anybody have a working MMF relationship? How does it work? How did it begin? How do you feel being in this type of relationship? What are some of the challenges and resolutions that you have experienced?

The big one! If you are MM, how do you get past the hurdles and meet a female lover? How does this process work? I've been with women (so has my partner) yet they seem, in my experience, turned off to the idea of dating or being in a relationship with two men.

Any and all input will be appreciated. Thank you.

[Newly_Bi]

ooh I am going to like this thread. I am married and am looking for a BF or ongoing FWB right now so it'll be good to read other peoples' experiences with this.

[Fzmr9t]

How does anyone meet? Luck. On-line chats. And the dreaded "craigslist". Is there a fool-proof method, other than being rich and or VGL and single?

[lookn4fun64]

Find someone you 'think' you may be comfortable with at the site. Send them a private message suggesting a meeting. The individual will read your post, review your advertising for commonality and interest. They will, or will NOT, make communication back. Agree to meet at an acceptable place (usually a cafe or diner for a cup of coffee - and discussion, comfort level, see where this all might go for each party. Be honest in your discussion - lay it all out there, fears, desires, motives. If you are both are happy - GO FOR IT!

It works pretty well. I'm pleased so far. I have met someone and we enjoyed each others company conversationally and sexually.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Yeah, what lookin4 said..lol. You might also wish to check out FetLife.com. There is a site spacificlly for what you are looking for, Hon. Good luck. :}
Cat

[SpiritDragon88]

Find someone you 'think' you may be comfortable with at the site. Send them a private message suggesting a meeting. The individual will read your post, review your advertising for commonality and interest. They will, or will NOT, make communication back. Agree to meet at an acceptable place (usually a cafe or diner for a cup of coffee - and discussion, comfort level, see where this all might go for each party. Be honest in your discussion - lay it all out there, fears, desires, motives. If you are both are happy - GO FOR IT!

It works pretty well. I'm pleased so far. I have met someone and we enjoyed each others company conversationally and sexually.

Thank you for the suggestion, Lookn4! Time to get back out there. Best way is to join the community and speak to like minds, right?

[SpiritDragon88]

Yeah, what lookin4 said..lol. You might also wish to check out FetLife.com. There is a site spacificlly for what you are looking for, Hon. Good luck. :}
Cat

Also thank you, CherokeeCat! I shall indubitably check this site out. Anything that helps see opportunities.

[lookn4fun64]

[QUOTE=SpiritDragon88;265206]Thank you for the suggestion.

Your welcome. Learning is part of the fun!

[cannibal4]

Hey, me and my friend posted on craigslist for a mature, lady who would enjoy being with us. We got several replys and picked a woman, who has now been joining us once or twice a week for some daytime fun. She's 50, married, clean, shaved, loves sucking cock and will even do anal. We lucked out! Been doing it now with her for almost 3 years.

[onewhocares]

Gentlemen,

It is possible to find a woman who would like to develop a friendship which might develop into an intimate physical relationship with two men. I know that I would. I have been in threesomes where one of the men was my husband. I would be intrigued to be involved with a couple which consists of two men.

I would add that you could search for a lady on Plenty of Fish. I have also had good luck on Craig's List but I am very discriminating. Take time and get to know the person and the future is limitless.

Best of Luck in finding the Lucky Lady.

Belle in Boston