so I've finally tried it

[jbrink]

So I've finally tried my 1st bi experience as my girlfriends bday present to her, only problem was I wasn't fully into it.

Now with that being said doesn't mean there weren't aspects of the situation I didn't enjoy. We went out for drinks and after a few rounds I asked her want she wanted for her bday, she leaned over and said "i want you to suck a cock for me". As shock as I was I was kinda turned on by it. Sense I never done it before I didn't really know where to go or how to make this happen. So we ended up going to a xxx theater to in a viewing room. We started watching a movie and no more than 5min of getting comfortable a guy walked into the booth and asked If he could watch us. Without hesitation my gf tells him "I want my bf to suck your cock". So he whips it out and I reluctantly get on my knees hoping I don't freak out. When I put it mouth I had no idea wtf I was doing so I jus did what I saw women do in porn. Apparently I was doing it right cuz he kinda got weak knee a couple of times. After bout 10min go by my gf gets undressed n tells me to sit down n pull my cock out so they can suck me off. As things are moving along I'm not really turned on by the guy sucking my so I pull it away from them and pull my gf up so she can ride me. As she's riding me the guy starts to rub his fingers in my ass and the inserts 2 of em which I completely loved. My gf got off me and positioned herself to get fuck from behind, so as I'm fucking her from behind I can feel him rubbing his cock up n down between my cheeks as if he was having problems finding the virgin hole of mine. Once he found it I was shocked that I was letting him do it, but not telling him to stop was the biggest surprise to me and her. So he fucked me for a few mins then started to go limp. Mood killer!!! So he ended up backing away from us to watch as we finished. As I getting close to Cumming my gf said she wanted him to take my load in his mouth which I wasn't really to excited bout cuz I really wasn't turned on by him to begin with so it kinda killed the mood even more. So I pulled out jerked my cock 5 or 6 times n came all over his face. We didn't say anything as we got dressed to leave, but I was replaying everything that jus happened in my head and I've come to the conclusion that I don't really get turned on by giving or receiving oral from guys for some reason. Now granted I wasnt really attracted to the guy or guys in general for that matter. But the biggest turn on was when they both were sucking my cock. Idk I might have enjoyed it more if the guy was better looking but it was one of those its now or never moments so I guess I can't say I'm not eager to try again with somebody more appealing to me
Thanks for letting me get that out into the open
J

[centillini]

WEll, you are not alone, I have expericanced this as well. It makes a differance when the guy is little more into it and/or better looking, and keeps his cock hard. Might want to give it another try with someone you build and email relationship with then meet, getting to know someone then doing it makes it hotter.

[Wombatso]

Yep, someone who you are attracted too. It's a must.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Darlin, given the circumstances, it could have been the aspect of because you didnt know the guy. Playing cold like that is un-nerving, plus the fact of not knowing someone can be Very disturbing. With some folks (Most) there HAs to be that familiar feel, the bit of security as well. Its really hard to get turned on over someone you dont know of trust. Its kind of a mood ruin'er for sure.
If ya'll had found someone to talk with, get a feel of, (So to speak) and find out if he/she was going to have an attractant, then the scene could have been vastly different..
I hope the next time goes a lot better..:} Dont give up, just go a little slower next time..:}
Cat.

[onewhocares]

I don't mean to be a party pooper....but in the course of the events of the night.... ever give ANY thought to using protection of any kind? Why risk your health and that of your girlfriend. I am not preaching but just suggesting that you think a bit more next time. I am such a fan of threesomes so don't get me wrong...when they work they are amazing. I know I have had my share!

Belle in Boston

[jbrink]

Well protection was used. There are details I kinda fast forwarded though cuz I suck at story telling n I tried to make it breif as I could be without boring the hell out of y'all lol

[Fzmr9t]

It was a good story, and I think you're right about the reasons that you weren't really into it. If you try it again, maybe it'll feel better the next time. Thanks for your story

[lookn4fun64]

I feel until you really come to common ground with a partner protection is advisable. Especially since I have been searching this site over the last week looking for partners many of the men are married, exploring outside their relationships due to every reason you can imagine (nothing negative in that remark, life at home changed) protection is advisable. You don't want to return 'damaged goods' and spread something to the home partner.

[Realist]

I could have never done anything like that with a stranger. Without knowing someone well and developing trust, first, I wouldn't be able to get into it, period! My GF is open to us having a third, too, but she and I are much more selective and cautious. It's been about 5 years since I've been with anyone else, but her, and maybe we will never find anyone to join us, but neither of us are inclined to being with strangers.

I was happy to read that the OP did use protection, though.

[onewhocares]

Well protection was used. There are details I kinda fast forwarded though cuz I suck at story telling n I tried to make it breif as I could be without boring the hell out of y'all lol


Ok, glad to hear protection was in place. Next time, and yes, you should try again for many reasons, find a man whom you find an attraction for and with...it will make a difference in the outcome.

Belle in Boston

[RockyRacoon22]

I wish my wife had that kind of desire to participate in encounters of this kind. I think it would spice up our sex greatly.

[onesucker4u]

Exciting story! Thanks for sharing. When I had a steady we met a couple guys ,mostly wonderfull 3sums at my house, alot more planned and easygoing. The spontanious "viewingroom" scenario is a major turn on tho.

[centillini]

Don't give up!!!! As I stated earlier and thought of you. Last night wife and I was out and meet few people one guy that was little off you knkw what I mean. Well wife wasn't feeling well so took her home. She said I should go back out. On the way to bar the strange guy was leaving and had a flat. Long story short gave him a ride to bis apArtment. Nope we didn't do anything. But he shared his apartment with a passble cd. I didn't know until littlest after we was kissing. It was probably the hi test sex I have had in long time.

[elian]

Some people really don't mind. I would've been too nervous to really enjoy anything either..in public, with a stranger is not my ultimate fantasy. In private, with a small group of people I intimately know - possibly different story.. ..real life isn't porn - people being hard and soft is par for the course, if I really -love- the person then I recognize them as a human being - it isn't a disappointment..