More Gay - Sucking and Licking or Kissing?

[SuckerMC]

This question is for both the ladies and gents.

What do you consider to be more gay?

Sucking cock for the guys, licking pussy for the ladies or kissing and making out with the same sex?

I can almost see where this poll will go with the answers but I may be surprised.

[Long Duck Dong]

none..... I may be a freak of nature tho.... while I do see sex in terms of homosexual sex ( sex between two males or two females and using the term in a strict sense of sex between the two people of the same sex ) I do not see people in terms of defined by sexual activity because if I was to do that, only sex with a male and female could be termed bisexual sex ( strict terminology again ) and that would mean that a person that has sex with the same gender is having homosexual sex, two opposite sex people are having heterosexual sex... and a person having sex with a intersex or trans person is having trans / intersex sex lol ( the correct term is using the gender of the person that is trans or intersex )

when people label sex activities I tend to get a image in my head of people doing a check list to make sure that they do not say anything that can be deemed to * belong * to another sexuality identity.... a bit like the (mis) understanding that missionary position is a heterosexual sex position lol

imagine that... a check list and tags on each person with instructions..... Dick A goes into Vagina B with a 90 degree angle with 3 seperate but flowing penetrating thrusts, the male has to be on top, the female is to be laying flat or slightly inclined and must only look at the ceiling as to not encourage immoral behievour.....

[SuckerMC]

Well said. But not everyone thinks the same.

So far the poll is going the way I had thought. That if you were to ask a guy if he would kiss another guy that he would not kiss him but if you to ask if he would suck his cock he would say yes. There is some kind of stigma with it. I don't know if I would kiss another guy but I know I want to suck a cock. The poll as for the ladies I also saw the opposite where the woman would rather kiss another girl than lick her pussy.

I would like to see what your thoughts are if you vote or did vote.

[manhatten]

Never in any way, shape or form would I kiss a guy. That's how I felt about 1 year ago anyway. The update? Now I have a strong desire to not only french kiss a true TG, but want to do it with a lot of sloppy cum sharing between our mouths that came from some happy fellow lying there watching, with a webcam on us.

[chapear]

I don't really see any of it as being "more gay". To me, this kind of stuff gets brought up by either curious people or by people that haven't embraced their sexuality/sexual orientation.

[tenni]

I agree to a good degree with chapar to some extent.

What really puzzled me is that you left off the most apparent aspect for men is whether you think being an anal bottom is the most significant (most gay ) thing that you could do? It seems to me on a narrow perspective of homosexual versus heterosexual for a man to give up his arsehole he is behaving in the most homosexual way. Strangely enough I can see how kissing a man is seen as gay. I thought that way at one point but after I had integrated my self perception of being bisexual I saw kissing a man no different than kissing a woman. All kissing is good.

[steve10557]

I understand he premise of the question, that it is considered more 'gay' to share the intimacy of a kiss rather than to slobber over someone's genitals, but isn't this just so ludicrous. That really shows how a simple kiss carries so much meaning, you can do it to a person in the street, or to a lover. But does the question also mean that some people would rather ingest atoms of urine and faecal matter than be thought of as 'gay'? As a bisexual man, I would not contemplate having sex with anyone that didn't want to share a kiss, but that's probably enlightened behaviour, when I was young maybe I had that conventional reticence.


..and the cold Lip I kiss'd, How many Kisses might it take---and give! Omar Fitzgerald talking about his cup.

[SuckerMC]

Either one is not more "gay" than the other really. They are all nothing more than an act of sexuality. But not all see it that way.

[jem_is_bi]

I understand he premise of the question, that it is considered more 'gay' to share the intimacy of a kiss rather than to slobber over someone's genitals, but isn't this just so ludicrous. That really shows how a simple kiss carries so much meaning, you can do it to a person in the street, or to a lover. But does the question also mean that some people would rather ingest atoms of urine and faecal matter than be thought of as 'gay'? As a bisexual man, I would not contemplate having sex with anyone that didn't want to share a kiss, but that's probably enlightened behaviour, when I was young maybe I had that conventional reticence.


..and the cold Lip I kiss'd, How many Kisses might it take---and give! Omar Fitzgerald talking about his cup. I do not enjoy kissing males or females on the lips. I really love kissing them on their neck and receiving the same. I do not know why I like it that way, but I do. Those are the kisses carry meaning for me.

[Fzmr9t]

I think, if you're going to want a response for both sexes, the choices you gave were limiting because you could only choose a male type response, or a female type response. And, kissing should've been defined as on the lips, French kissing, on the neck/cheek, etc. I also agree, that anal sex should've been another of the possible choices.

i am surprised those that kissing is in the lead. I bet if the audience was broader, other countries where kissing is just a form of greeting, that the poll would lean in a different direction.