Why do some bi and gay men have vagina envy?

[NMCowboys]

Does anyone here know why some bi and gay men have vagina envy? Some gay men and bi men will call their anus terms like a "man pussy", "man cunt", etc. or claim things like "My ass is tighter than ANY pussy you've ever had!"

An anus either male or female, and a vagina feel completely different and it would be a major turn off to most bi and gay men to hear some guy call his anus a pussy. Plus it's rather puzzling that if gay men are not turned on sexually by women at all why do some describe their anus as though it's a female sex organ or call themselves feminine terms?

[Hypersexual11]

Why would a person that lives in a black and white world, who has all the answers, who judges anyone that doesn't fit into his neat tidy little box, come into a colorful place, full of life and friendly people? Seems a lot odder to me than calling an anus about to accept a cock, a man pussy. Who the fuck cares what he calls it or what he does with it?

[NMCowboys]

Why would a person that lives in a black and white world, who has all the answers, who judges anyone that doesn't fit into his neat tidy little box, come into a colorful place, full of life and friendly people? Seems a lot odder to me than calling an anus about to accept a cock, a man pussy. Who the fuck cares what he calls it or what he does with it?

What's your point? I know you're flaming/harassing, and you think you're describing me; but you're not.

[jem_is_bi]

What is vagina envy? I like dicks way more than vaginas. But, there are some women that I really like VERY MUCH!!!

[idabiho]

Why would a person that lives in a black and white world, who has all the answers, who judges anyone that doesn't fit into his neat tidy little box, come into a colorful place, full of life and friendly people? Seems a lot odder to me than calling an anus about to accept a cock, a man pussy. Who the fuck cares what he calls it or what he does with it?

Well said Hyper. I think lots of us us are wondering the same thing and you have expressed it well. I keep looking for some type of positive input and I have yet to find it. It is always derogatory, condescending or extremely judgmental if nothing else.

[NMCowboys]

Well said Hyper. I think lots of us us are wondering the same thing and you have expressed it well. I keep looking for some type of positive input and I have yet to find it. It is always derogatory, condescending or extremely judgmental if nothing else.
I have been positive before, either way both you and hyper who are into trolling don't even know me.

[tenni]

I don't really understand the "mangina" man pussy" statements but then I don't want to get fucked up the butt either…lol It is like the phrase "breed me"…nope if it is your arsehole and a guy comes inside you..you are never going to get pregnant. I think that the term "breed me" was /is a more commonly gay term but I don't know about this mangina? Is it used more by biguys or gay guys?…lol Referring to his arsehole as a hole is more appropriate imo.

As Hypersexual states though, who really cares. If you don't like a guy calling his arsehole a mangina, don't fuck him…plain and simple. That'll teach him…lol Suffer dude…no dickie for you. ;)

[elian]

It is a stereotype to say that in a male/male relationship one person has to be the top/masculine and the other has to be bottom/feminine but for some people part of the erotic desire really does have to do with the interplay between submissive and dominant behavior. Some men have the perception of always having to be in control, always having to be competitive, never being able to show affection - so for them part of the appeal of being intimate with another man might be to just "surrender" to another man and be an object of desire ..

Is that every relationship? Of course not.

There are tons of variations of what people like and don't like in emotional and sexual play/relationships - it's not any of my business what goes on between two (or more) people - the only thing I will say is like most things in life anything taken to extremes has the potential to be abusive.

hehe - actually nothing turns me on quicker than a man who is strong but also respectful, kind and loving..

[jem_is_bi]

It is a stereotype to say that in a male/male relationship one person has to be the top/masculine and the other has to be bottom/feminine but for some people part of the erotic desire really does have to do with the interplay between submissive and dominant behavior. Some men have the perception of always having to be in control, always having to be competitive, never being able to show affection - so for them part of the appeal of being intimate with another man might be to just "surrender" to another man and be an object of desire ..

Is that every relationship? Of course not.

There are tons of variations of what people like and don't like in emotional and sexual play/relationships - it's not any of my business what goes on between two (or more) people - the only thing I will say is like most things in life anything taken to extremes has the potential to be abusive.

hehe - actually nothing turns me on quicker than a man who is strong but also respectful, kind and loving.. Sure, that is a relationship even if it does not work for you.

[void()]

hehe - actually nothing turns me on quicker than a man who is strong but also respectful, kind and loving..

*reads, just hugs & holds for a bit, moves on slowly*

[elian]

*reads, just hugs & holds for a bit, moves on slowly*

Well, that is one reason I found our relationship worthwhile even though we couldn't always be close geographically..

I will be the first one to admit I love to admire the human form but what is between a person's legs isn't usually the first thing I reach for and it generally isn't the first thing that turns me on.

[playinmyholes]

I think I see where NMCowboys was going (I'm not defending him, mind you). While I don't think of my asshole as a "man pussy", I do quite often fantasize about being female, and spreading my legs for men...well, more often for shemales, actually. It seems to me, that "mangina", or "man pussy" is a selected way of tapping into one's feminine side. I.e, I've heard guys that claim to be (mostly) straight personally use the reference. BTW, if this lands me on ignore lists...boo hoo!!!

[elian]

Yes, I used to be quite jealous of the way that women could easily attract men, and there are still times when I want a husband to love me the way any man would love his wife. Do you know how difficult it is to admit in public that I have those feelings? I do want to be strong, courageous, loving and supportive of my friends, family and partner - but I simply cannot be that way ALL the time without some sort of downtime or outlet for release..