What's it like to be in a relationship with a transgirl?

[Justayoungcollegeguy]

I'm 20. I think I may be attracted to girls. I've kind of known I was in some ways. When I was12 I thought I liked girls more and had a gf I was fond then I turned 13 and I had realized I was really turned on by gay porn and would often flirt with older men and eventually got a bf of my own. Through my teen years I was open about being gay and accepted it. However, I still looked at girls. I don't want to kiss a girl and I really really don't like the whole vagina thing. It turns me off like a lot. I like checking girls out I like big breasts wide hips and big butts on girls. I've never sex with a girl either. I've done things of a sexual nature with females like touching grinding I've let girls twerk or give me a lap dance before I've gone to strip club once and like a few other times certain female dancers turned me on. I recentlyhad this hot girl give me a blow job. Which we've been texting/sexting ever since. But I don't feel like it'll lasted ever to just be fuck buddies I don't even want to return the favor. That really makes have a puking sensation just the thought. I get more girls also than guys also that are interested in me. But there was this one girl that was really hot... But was transgender that I really liked. And the sex was great. I think the best I ever had. We were fwb for that whole year neither of us wanted a relationship though. And sometimes I kind of wonder what it's like to be in a relationship with one? I only have seriously dated guys. And that's all I've ever enjoyed its just how it happens. So I was just wondering what it was like if anyone has experience with dating a transwoman?

[Justayoungcollegeguy]

Anybody? Advice?

[NMCowboys]

Anybody? Advice?

Based on what you wrote about yourself it sounds as though you are gay. You wrote about how you're apparently majorly turned off by a woman's vagina, did not enjoy having sex with a woman and did not want to give a woman oral sex and how the thought of giving a woman oral sex makes you want to vomit. :2cents:

Neither my partner or I have had sex or dated a shemale, tgirl, or ladyboy. Neither of us are attracted to them and we prefer to have sex and a relationship with an actual woman or man instead.

[Justayoungcollegeguy]

I'm not sure if I'm gay. Because I liked the experience I had with the girl that I had oral sex with. I do find her sexually appealing but I still don't really want to have sex with her. And I enjoy sexting. I think she's got an amazing sexy body and she turns me on but sex the traditional way turns me off.

[NMCowboys]

I'm not sure if I'm gay. Because I liked the experience I had with the girl that I had oral sex with. I do find her sexually appealing but I still don't really want to have sex with her. And I enjoy sexting. I think she's got an amazing sexy body and she turns me on but sex the traditional way turns me off.

OK so why does a woman's vagina or the idea/fantasy of giving a woman oral sex "give you a puking sensation"? I have never felt that way about a woman's vagina or about giving oral sex to a woman, and men who are bisexual are not going to be turned off by sex in traditional ways with women, find their bodies gross, etc. But men who are gay do find women's bodies and their genitals to be a turn off.

My partner and I have gay men as friends who have had sex with women and they told us how it was a turn off to them, they were not sexually attracted to the women's genitals, and having sex with a woman just showed them how they are not sexually attracted to women at all.

[Justayoungcollegeguy]

I thought gay guys didn't like transwomen though...

Most of my friends are gay and they like masculine men. I kind of am the only one I know that might be gay and really don't really just like masculine guys.i actually don't even like masculine guys. I like those more in the middle or more feminine gender expressions. I do prefer the male body over the female. But I like both still. It just pussy has always weirded me out. It just looks very odd. Also, I have a bad history with women as far as abuse maybe that's why because when I was 12 I wasn't exactly grossed out by that in women. But I still liked guys at the time. But my whole sexual preference was different back then than it is now anyhow.

[Long Duck Dong]

honestly... drop the trans part and think of the person that you want to be with as a person.... because trans people are people first and they have the same desire to love, care for and be with a person as you do and I do not get the impression that you ask people what its like to be in a relationship with a cis gender person ( cis gender are non trans people )

I know what you are saying with the trans part tho, you are refering to a specific type of person with specific characteristics.....

so my advice is think of a trans person as a normal person and that would be your answer as to what a relationship would be like... and it can be the perfect relationship or a relationship from hell, it all depends on you and the other person....

[Basin_Bouy]

I dated a TransWoman (MTF Pre-OP), for around 6 months. We both enjoyed each others company, sexually and not. We went out to Movies and everywhere else in public. To be blunt, it was one of the most moving experiences sexually I ever had. She was the best of 2 worlds, but she came with both emotional and physical baggage, brought on my the hormones she was taking. It really opened my eyes to TG's. They are not the freaks, some make them out to be. Alas, one day, she just vanished.