Looking for good starter kit

[twosmokers]

Hey,

We're new here and haven't even filled out our profile yet. We are intrested into getting into the bisexual scene. Last weekend we had a little fun with a friend of mine but I (male) wasn't able to receive anal. She and I are looking to experience a Bi Male 3 some where I get anal.

We're looking for advice on a good starter kit? Or do you recomend a prostate massager to begin? She also wants to use a "Strap on" on me but I was wondering if there were any that will give her pleasure at the same time it will give me. It seems like the only strap ons that are like that are NINE INCHES!!!!!! Which is a little too much for me. Any advice?

[dickhand]

If you don't have anyone you know to play with , I would suggest www.adultfriendfinder.com (http://www.adultfriendfinder.com) . I found it useful here in Maine which is quite rural and redneck . You can chat with folks that interest you and lay out what everyone is looking for and is exceptable before the actual meeting . I have met with a very diverse bunch of folks , from a retired psychologist to a working lobsterman to a self employed office and home janitorial technition to a writer to a biker/truck driver . People I never would have met in my life and if I had would never have guessed they would be bi guys . As for toys , I have had good luck with www.adameve.com (http://www.adameve.com) . That is the site for Adam & Eve Adult catalog . Toys , video lubes and such . Have fun and good luck .

[McBice]

Twosmokers check out Feeldoe...both my ex gf and my current wife used them on me and both were able to cum while they were fucking me. They come in a variety of sizes and work well with or without a harness (because my wife gets so wet she wears bike shorts to help hold hers in place)...a good lube is also a necessity. I prefer the more expensive silicone based lubes myself as they tend to be a bit more slippery and last a little longer. I also like a 30/70 blend of baby oil gel/baby oil if condoms are not in use....I hope y'all find what you're looking for and have fun

[twosmokers]

Doesn't baby oil stain the sheets?

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Ok Darlings, herws the deal. This is where I bought a lot of my play Toys in the past(And still do) The Double ended strapon is Marvelous for beginners. You can skide a vibration cock ring down the shaft, and it'll give your lady a nice little vibe as she takes you, Plus, she has one end inside her as well. I recommend the Hallpw Vibing strapon. Its Great for giving an little extra added pleasure to you both. I personally have the Harness that allows you to pick and choose the size and type of dong that you wish to use/have used on you. (Or anyone else. :) This site is wonderful for those just starting out, and may I Strongly suggest investing in a good Desensitizer for first time use, and the purchase of a good non-oil based lube too. You can Never have enough lube..trust me. Yes, Olive oil is good too. Its Wonderful for the skin as well.
Good luck and have fun. If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line. :}
Cat

http://www.healthyandactive.com/strap-ons.html

www,SheVibe.com (A little pricey but good)

www.Extremerestraints.com

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Ok Darlings, heres the deal. This is where I bought a lot of my play Toys in the past(And still do) The Double ended strapon is Marvelous for beginners. You can slide a vibration cock ring down the shaft, and it'll give your lady a nice little vibe as she takes you, Plus, she has one end inside her as well. I recommend the Hallow Vibing strapon. Its Great for giving an little extra added pleasure to you both. I personally have the Harness that allows you to pick and choose the size and type of dong that you wish to use/have used on you. (Or anyone else. :) This site is wonderful for those just starting out, and may I Strongly suggest investing in a good Desensitizer for first time use, and the purchase of a good non-oil based lube too. You can Never have enough lube..trust me. Yes, Olive oil is good too. Its Wonderful for the skin as well.
Good luck and have fun. If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line. :}
Cat

http://www.healthyandactive.com/strap-ons.html

www,SheVibe.com (A little pricey but good)

www.Extremerestraints.com

[w.bicrswa]

When the wife and I started with anal play, we bought a Bend-over beginners kit. Dildos for the strap-on come in various sizes and the harness has a small vibe for her. She likes the vibe, and I have moved up to larger dildos as I got more comfortable.

[Hypersexual11]

You didn't mention why you were unable to receive anal but I'm assuming you were too tight. What works for me is a butt plug. They are thin at the tip and gradually get thicker, where most dildos are more blunt. It takes me about 5 minutes to get it all the way in but then anal is enjoyable from the beginning. Concerning what to buy, we have a feeldoe and a Doc Johnson vac-u-lock strap on. The feeldoe is nice because you can also use it to DP her. I'd suggest starting with the smaller one.

[qiangqiang]

The inability to receive anal sex is because you have not experienced that kind of happiness. Or because the anus is too tight to be inserted.


You can buy lubricating fluid first, try the smaller butt plug first, it will make you experience a different happiness


It is not recommended to buy dildos or vibrators at the beginning, it may make you intolerable.

[babyrmd]

Although there are kits (which I have sold for a toy supplier) with different sized butt plugs, the BEST training I got was from a man who topped me for the first time 35yrs ago. He had me lay on a mat on the floor,, spread my legs, took a little bit of water based lube, played with my hole and then inserted his fingers inme. First one, then 2 then 3, and felt good. After about 10 to 15 minutes of that, he told me to turn over on my belly. He then got behind me, pulled me by my hips to all fours and slowly and gently slid hi 8" cock in me. Before I knew it, I had all of him in me and he was fucking me. I found it very easy to take a cock, like i was made for it. I have taken up to 9x6. You would be surprised how easy it is. Maybe have your wife work your ass with her fingers also and train you to take coaks that she brings home for the 2 of you. Pegging and figging would be much more fun also.

[Neonaught]

I use the Colt Anal Trainer kit to prep my bottoms since I am blessed with a larger cock. I has three increasing sized butt plugs.

[KDaddy23]

I'd also recommend an assortment of butt plugs...