Is Rimming becoming more common?

[shaver6]

I have had a lot of years of sexual activity, doing just about every type of sex act there is. However, its only been recently that I have notice a big interest in "rimming". In the past, it seemed like the practice was almost unknown, or at least no one every talked about it. But now I see rimming mentioned in a lot of personal ads. Is it becoming more common?

I have only been rimmed once, and it was a surprise. I had two different feelings...one of "Oh My God".....thats gross !! and the other was a rather excited, pleasurable feeling. I haven't rimmed anyone myself...but if I did, it would have to be someone I was REALLY turned-on by...plus that ass crack would have to be completely hairless....and extremely clean. :tongue:

Comments?

[DGoncz]

Is Rimming becoming more common?

Well, around here it is. In fact, around here it is becoming pretty damn popular! And at my other location, as well. (I enjoy the company of two beautiful, loving ladies at present)

The Dougster

[smokey]

I've always enjoyed doing it and having it done.

[bigregory]

Rimming is great.
So many girls do not want you to touch/finger them there let alone f them
But i have never known anyone to not like there ass licked.
There are health risks just as there are with any sex.So be sure to be clean just incase your partner gives you what i think is a great and truly loving treat.Im sure rimming in days gone bi was not as much fun but now we have running water.
I guess if you are comfortable doing it its not an issue.
Enjoy life :bibounce: :bipride:

[Azrael]

I couldn't really say for others. I swore for years I never would, until it was done to me really well. Cleanliness is critical though. Best right after a shower or bath.
I don't have to love someone but I gotta REALLY like them to want to.

[becksbolero]

i'm very orally inclined so i love performing it on either sex.

[deletetacount123]

Don't laugh at me.... but what is Rimming?!?! :-(

Sadly, if its what I think it is (anal sex??) I've never expereinced any of the fun sex stuff.... Im turning 27 on monday and I really hate my ex!!
The only sex act I know is intercourse thats it... and it wasn't that good either.
I feel like such a newbie when I read this post and some of the others *sighs*

Tasha

[shaver6]

Don't laugh at me.... but what is Rimming?!?! :-(

Sadly, if its what I think it is (anal sex??) I've never expereinced any of the fun sex stuff.... Im turning 27 on monday and I really hate my ex!!
The only sex act I know is intercourse thats it... and it wasn't that good either.
I feel like such a newbie when I read this post and some of the others *sighs*

Tasha

Hi Tasha,

Well....to get right to the point....Rimming is taking the tongue and licking the anus. :tongue: Usually its done when other oral activities in that area of the body are being done. The tongue is run up and down the ass crack, with the hole itself getting the most attention. As you can see, in my post...if I were to do it to someone else...they would have to be VERY clean and hairless. I will admit..having it done to you...is quite an experience..

[ski4fun]

I can remember the first time someone did this to me, thinking I could never do this to anyone, but I was pleasantly surprised at how good it made me feel. the more the guy lick my ass the better I felt also most enjoy it as much as having a bj. Yes you have to be clean. There is nothing like doing it to someone else and hearing them moan from the pleasure they are receiving. Don't beat until you tried it.

[innaminka]

When my hubby first did it. :eek: :eek: :eek: .
Ok, Anal is fine, but that????? :eek: :eek: :eek:

Funny - it felt good! After I was over the "EEEKS!"

Its now just another, tho not frequent, part of lovemaking with him. Certainly the only guy who's been there.

The activity seems to be a far more natural part of lovemaking with another woman, however.

the cleanliness/safety issues of course are always paramount.

[smokey]

I remember a few years ago I picked this guy up, or he picked me up, I can never remember :bigrin: Well I was sucking his cock and worked my way down to his balls and licked them then spread his cheeks and went down on his ass....and he promptly came all over the place....he had never had it done before and it sent him right over the top....talk about disappointed...he had a nice sized cock and I wanted to ride that thing :bigrin: :bigrin: . Oh well. Same thing happened to a woman once, she had never been rimmed and after she got over the shock, it drove her wild....fortunately she was multi-orgasmic :bigrin: .

[ScifiBiJen]

Well I was sucking his cock and worked my way down to his balls and licked them then spread his cheeks and went down on his ass....and he promptly came all over the place....he had never had it done before and it sent him right over the top....

Mmmmmmmmm that's a beatiful image in my mind rite now. hehehe Thanks!

:flag1:

[taz67156]

Rimming can be very fun with the right person at first I never thought about doing it until I decided what the hell and just went there plus working other areas at the same time the only thing I have never done that I know of now is a FFM or with a guy, but thats just not something I'm interested in though.

taz67156

[buckeyenuts]

I was first turned on to rimming by porn. Like many of you, I initially thought it would be nasty...which made it more interesting! I finally worked up the nerve to try it with my lover and she went wild. She returned the favor and I was hooked. Unfortunately, I give more than I have received when it comes to rimming.

[deletetacount123]

I don't know if I'll do that or let it happen to me... but if it were to happen, I'll rather it be when in the shower/bath so I know we're both CLEAN lol

[innaminka]

I don't know if I'll do that or let it happen to me... but if it were to happen, I'll rather it be when in the shower/bath so I know we're both CLEAN lol

Showers/spas are wonderful place to experiment with such activities.
Go for it - you may be pleasantly suprised. :female: :female:

[ophelia_in_red]

The man I lost my virginity to rimmed me the very first time we slept together. If he was going down on me, there always used to be a bit of "cunnilingual drift" down to my ass.. I think my boy was pretty special though; dunno how common it is in general. Just my :2cents:, obviously.

Incidentally, I used to absolutely love it! I miss it very much now. No one's ever done it for me since and it's not the kind of thing you can easily ask for, especially if you're a bit shy like me :tong:

[TinTin]

It first happened to me when my then Girlfriend moved her tongue down there and it felt great so I did it to her and have loved doing it ever since. Jump in the shower together and then into bed and I can do it for hours, lol, it really is a huge turn on.

[ChelleNYC78]

[QUOTE=shaver6]Is Rimming becoming more common?QUOTE]

YES! and thank goddess it is!

love,
cNYC78

[jamie63]

:tong:
my ex absolutely hated doing it for me, she maybe done it once a year if i was lucky - but she always wanted me to rim her whenever i was going down on her which was everyday - LOL!

I've found it to be a very enjoyable and pleasurable experience, and it used to drive me wild - it always got me harder for some reason!! And yes....i miss it!

Just go ahead and enjoy yourself, but make sure you're clean down there - lol!

jamie :bigrin:

[julie]

The man I lost my virginity to rimmed me the very first time we slept together. If he was going down on me, there always used to be a bit of "cunnilingual drift" down to my ass.. I think my boy was pretty special though; dunno how common it is in general. Just my :2cents:, obviously.

Incidentally, I used to absolutely love it! I miss it very much now. No one's ever done it for me since and it's not the kind of thing you can easily ask for, especially if you're a bit shy like me :tong:

Aww Ophelia...

you dont mention if you have done this for your partner... maybe if you havent you could very tentatively give it a go??... i doubt he will object and that may just be the nudge he needs to enter a whole new realm of lovemaking for you both?

go on, give it a try...i dare you ;)

smiles, good luck julie xx :female:

[ophelia_in_red]

Aww Ophelia...

you dont mention if you have done this for your partner... maybe if you havent you could very tentatively give it a go??... i doubt he will object and that may just be the nudge he needs to enter a whole new realm of lovemaking for you both?

I've performed it on girls - seems kind of a natural thing to do, while you're down there - but never on boys. My current boyfriend doesn't enjoy blowjobs very much so it's difficult for me to even get close to that area! :rolleyes:

[julie]

I've performed it on girls - seems kind of a natural thing to do, while you're down there - but never on boys. My current boyfriend doesn't enjoy blowjobs very much so it's difficult for me to even get close to that area! :rolleyes:

ha ha boys eh!

ahh well...sounds like its a girly treat then! xxx

[ilburbsbiguy]

I've enjoyed it for years as a part of oral sex - both on men and women. It can be fun by itself or as a prelude to anal sex.

[johndotou]

Rimming is GREAT. I love to do it but more so love having it done to me.

Funny thing though thru the years and in most my sexual experiences I never asked ot have it done. Much to my shock almost every girl I've ever been with initiated it on there own, which makes it that much more enjoyable, I cant say enough about how enjoyable it is.

[winthropguy]

I certainly hope it's becoming more common - love being rimmed!

[leredacteur]

Awfully sorry to drench you all with icy water, but no previous posters have done justice to the health risks inherent in rimming. Herewith, a clipping from the Gay Men's Health Crisis website, explaining just some of the dangers of rimming . . .

"Eating ass also carries a risk of infection with amoebas and other nasty parasites. These can make you very sick and, like hepatitis, the illness may be more serious and harder to treat in people with HIV. And because there may be blood in the rectum or around the hole, there may be a risk of contracting HIV. This is a theoretical risk, since few studies have looked at rimming as a "sexual behavior." The few that have didn't find rimming to be a factor in HIV transmission, but most researchers agree it is a possibility."

Please, take it from someone who's been engaged with the one-eyed snake for more than 55 years: rimming is dangerous ! You perform this extremely pleasurable service bareback at your peril.

Again, my apologies for having to throw a wet blanket over the discussion.

[citystyleguy]

:eek: oh, yes everyone seems to be doing it! and not that long ago it wasn't even known by that many, and most perceptions were that it was a gay thing! oh, well times are a'changing!

as for me, the sensations that cause all the pleasure can be replicated by other means, so for me the thought is as disgusting as it can get, but then that is just me! :2cents:

[DiamondDog]

Awfully sorry to drench you all with icy water, but no previous posters have done justice to the health risks inherent in rimming. Herewith, a clipping from the Gay Men's Health Crisis website, explaining just some of the dangers of rimming . . .

"Eating ass also carries a risk of infection with amoebas and other nasty parasites. These can make you very sick and, like hepatitis, the illness may be more serious and harder to treat in people with HIV. And because there may be blood in the rectum or around the hole, there may be a risk of contracting HIV. This is a theoretical risk, since few studies have looked at rimming as a "sexual behavior." The few that have didn't find rimming to be a factor in HIV transmission, but most researchers agree it is a possibility."

Please, take it from someone who's been engaged with the one-eyed snake for more than 55 years: rimming is dangerous ! You perform this extremely pleasurable service bareback at your peril.

Again, my apologies for having to throw a wet blanket over the discussion.

I've heard conflicting info.
http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/drk/hivaids7.asp

Anyway, if you don't know the person, have just brushed/flossed your teeth, and the person isn't clean just use a dental dam.

[Driver 8]

In addition to the other health problems mentioned, going from the ass to the pussy can spread germs you don't want spread. Someone's already mentioned dental dams - they're little squares of latex you can use for oral activities, and better sex supply stores carry them. Some people also recommend Saran Wrap. Either way, you might consider a drop of lubricant underneath.

[wtp09]

hmmmmmmm, i love the rimmings i have had. there is no more spectacular feeling than a rimming. the best part is when the rimming includes penitration... the most wonderful feeling in my life was my mate gently licking my hole and then driving his/her tongue in my spincter. a rimming is what everyone should do to increase the eroticism in everyones life...

i remember the first rimming i got..... i could feel the guys wiskers on my buttcheeks and once he entered me, i almost came... my girl does it now.... i can not ask for better oral sex..... it is all about the feeling isn't it...

[Avocado]

I love it! And I don't bother "cleaning", in my opinion if that's how I felt I shouldn't do it. I feel the same about blow jobs. I rim my fiancee, never been rimmed myself though. It's funny how I've maybe become more bisexual since our relationship started. I'd rim a man if I was single again. I'd recieve from either sex if they were really into it and couldn't get freaked out too much, otherwise I'd be too embarassed.

[the sacred night]

I've never done it, but would really like to. I think we would have to take a shower together first, but I do want to do it to my fiancee. He did it to me once, for about 1 second... I think we're both a little too nervous about it to get really really into it yet.