bi42guy1958
Oct 20, 2013, 6:52 AM
First let me say, Im not trying to ruffle any feathers here, I'm just trying to wrap my mind around which label works for me. And yes, I've already heard that, "why attach labels?"
I've always considered myself bisexual, starting at a young age, trying several times throughout my life to suppress the feelings I had, the longest period of time being about 3 years. I've come to the realization that I like sex with men as well as women, hell, I guess I just like sex! :yikes2: Anyway, I met a girl through another site that likes watching and participating with 2 men during sex. I told her how I felt about things when it come to being with a guy, and shes proceeds to tell me I would probably fall into the "hetroflexible" category.
In the 40 years or so of being "bisexual", I have never desired to have a relationship with a guy other than a sexual one. I don't care for the kissing and stuff that goes along with a traditional relationship. I guess, and have said this several times throughout my life, its all about whats between his waist and knees that I like. But with that said, I would prefer to have a friend that I could get together with whenever the urge hits us and works with our schedules. I have had that a couple of times in my experiences with men and it was always very pleasurable for everyone involved.
Now i do have to tell you about this one guy I have met recently, and been with a few times and had the best time with. He is mid 30's, black (I like), 7.5 inches (like), clean shaven below (like), always has been very respectful (like) , which is rare when it comes to racial differences here in the US. I've found that a lot of black guys like a white guy doing things to them as it makes them feel the superior race, but Im not into all that. I think its a mutual pleasure thing, no matter the race. Anyway, my desires with him have increased. Mainly all I care to do now is give a good BJ to a guy, taste and swallow a load of cum, and Im good! But recently Ive had fantasies of playing a girl part with him (I do cross dress), having him inside me, in the missionary position, rubbing his chest and arms, wrapping my arms around him while he is slowly sliding in and out of me, even maybe kissing him as he does this.
So Id like some input or feelings on this label thing, Im just a little confused, especially after meeting this guy and having these kind of feelings or desires now.:confused:
I've always considered myself bisexual, starting at a young age, trying several times throughout my life to suppress the feelings I had, the longest period of time being about 3 years. I've come to the realization that I like sex with men as well as women, hell, I guess I just like sex! :yikes2: Anyway, I met a girl through another site that likes watching and participating with 2 men during sex. I told her how I felt about things when it come to being with a guy, and shes proceeds to tell me I would probably fall into the "hetroflexible" category.
In the 40 years or so of being "bisexual", I have never desired to have a relationship with a guy other than a sexual one. I don't care for the kissing and stuff that goes along with a traditional relationship. I guess, and have said this several times throughout my life, its all about whats between his waist and knees that I like. But with that said, I would prefer to have a friend that I could get together with whenever the urge hits us and works with our schedules. I have had that a couple of times in my experiences with men and it was always very pleasurable for everyone involved.
Now i do have to tell you about this one guy I have met recently, and been with a few times and had the best time with. He is mid 30's, black (I like), 7.5 inches (like), clean shaven below (like), always has been very respectful (like) , which is rare when it comes to racial differences here in the US. I've found that a lot of black guys like a white guy doing things to them as it makes them feel the superior race, but Im not into all that. I think its a mutual pleasure thing, no matter the race. Anyway, my desires with him have increased. Mainly all I care to do now is give a good BJ to a guy, taste and swallow a load of cum, and Im good! But recently Ive had fantasies of playing a girl part with him (I do cross dress), having him inside me, in the missionary position, rubbing his chest and arms, wrapping my arms around him while he is slowly sliding in and out of me, even maybe kissing him as he does this.
So Id like some input or feelings on this label thing, Im just a little confused, especially after meeting this guy and having these kind of feelings or desires now.:confused: