What was your first time receiving anal like?

[Wonderous Oblivion]

I am ready to try anal, but I am not sure what to expect. Any advice?

[mikeyd270]

Go for it. I was fucked in the ass for the first time about a month ago. Find somone patient and let them know you are a virgin. Use lots of lube. My guy bent me over the side of the bed. He rubbed his cock up and down my crack and then pushed his knob against my hole. He gave it time to relax before trying to penetrate me. That part was a little uncomfortable at first but did not hurt like I thought it would. Once he got it in he said he would be still and let me get use to it. Then I heard him say "I am going to fuck you" He started pumping pushing in a little deeper with each stroke. I loved the feel of his cock up my ass and am ready to try it again.

[scapegoat1987]

My first experience with anal took place over twenty years ago, and it was not a pleasant one. Unfortunately, I was not informed or ready for the experience. The guy was well endowed and not very patient, and I was too inexperienced and embarrassed to say stop. I just remember a whole lot of pain and then bleeding afterwards. I've since learned to relax into the experience and how to prepare, which makes the experience much better. I've been on the receiving end of some mind-blowing anal in my time, even though anal is not particularly my favorite sex act. I would suggest that you prepare yourself by douching and perhaps get relaxed with a dildo or butt plug, and that you find someone who is experienced and patient. Good look in your quest.

[Hypersexual11]

This topic gets covered now and then and I am always amazed at how many guys love anal. I mean, I get it. I love ass play. My wife has an assortment of strap on dildos. But like scapegoat said, it can be pretty horrible. I love it with my wife because she knows me, knows I need time to prepare, that she has to allow me to control the action. I've been fucked by 3 guys. The only one that was in the least bit pleasurable was a guy who would just lay there and let me do the work. Plus he had a nice skinny dick. The others were just too rough. All assholes don't work the same. Like with my wife, she needs no prep, little more than spit for lube and she is taking it all hard and fast. I guess with you it will depend on how you are built as to how you will enjoy it. For comfort sake though, follow Scapegoat's advise and clean out and loosen up. It will make for a cleaner, more pleasurable experience.

[olmizzou42]

If you haven't already, use your own fingers to get used to having something enter, rather than exit, your ass. In the shower with soap is a good way. Insert one soapy finger, relax your ass and move it around, then another, taking your time. Use a lubed dildo on yourself if you have one. A lubed up zucchini works well too. Then when you're finally with a guy, if he's any kind of considerate lover, he'll take his time, use plenty of lube and go slow. Once the head is past the sphincter you'll feel filled and fulfilled.

[lilcock4u]

I was 14 and the boy I was having sex with behind closed doors wanted to fuck me up the ass I did let him however it hurt,not only was it my first time but he had a big cock,since then I have come to enjoy anal but only if the guy im with has a small or at least thin cock it just feel nicer for me

[morrisofcourse]

After fantasizing and fingering myself during my teenage years, I finally decided to hookup with an older guy from online and received anal just today. I showered in the morning and fingered myself with soap to clean myself out a bit. Later in the afternoon, I drove to his place when his wife was at work. When I first got there, he was really into me blowing him and he'd told me beforehand that he might have difficulty getting and staying hard. So, I gave my first blowjob right there on my knees while he laid on the couch. Did I mention that his cock was 8 inches long and as thick around as one of those big metal Maglites?

With my nervousness and sensitive gag reflex, I could only slurp his head and jack him. I tried to follow exactly what I'd always seen in porn and he told me he didn't believe it was my first time. I lubed him up and told him to let me know when he was hard enough to penetrate me anally and after what seemed like an eternity of me blowing him, he was ready. I took off my pants and knelt down on his couch with my feet dangling off the edge and my head over the back of the couch. He stood in front of the couch, naked and explored my crack with his cock. His head found my hole and he tried to get in a few times but I was way too tight and not relaxed at all. After a while, he tried to force it and it hurt like hell, so I told him I'd just suck him off instead. He lamented that I'd actually gotten him excited about penetrating me and I knew I'd come all that way across town to get pounded. So, I blew him for a while to keep him hard and decided to try again.

I told him to let me finger myself a bit to open my hole up. I got back into position and quickly inserted one, two, then three fingers into my hole and it opened right up. Then he explored my crack once more and had a few false thrusts be fore he finally got the tip firmly notched into my hole. He began thrusting back and forth and inched it in more and more with each thrust. My hole got hungry at this point and I back onto him. After a few more thrusts his pelvis was hitting my crack: he was in balls deep. He then got faster and faster and the Astroglide kept everything going extremely smoothly. He pounded me VERY hard for what seemed like an eternity and I zen-ed out in ecstasy and fullness. I almost fell asleep. After a while, he grunted and I didn't feel him cum in me but his thrusts slowed and softened an he eventually pulled out clean. I got dressed and drove away with his load in me, mission accomplished. I didn't cum and I didn't get hard but it was deeply pleasurable, like a form of meditation or therapy: a deep massage for the rectum.

I'm sorry for the long post but I just had to relive this somewhere. I'll probably be going back weekly :)

[paulsuna]

My first time was from my horny oldest brother, late one night with 2 other brothers in the darkened bedroom. It initially scared me and it hurt like hell as he only used spit for a lube, yet it really exited me when I felt him climax in me. I let him do it another time, before he went into the service. Note: up to that time in secret I used some sort of dildo to stimulate myself. Still do, even after marriage and 2 children.

[Gaius]

I think that the best way to start is by exploring yourself. That way, you can check what makes you feel good. Go to the shower first, get yourself clean and use some lube. Be sure not to eat something too heavy beforehand. If done properly, it is very enjoyable. If you are okay with your own fingers you can go and try some dildo. Try a small one at first. I advise to really know your body before setting out to find someone to fuck with. That first time may be quite fantastic, or it can be not so good. Me, I had the luck to have my first time with a couple, who where two extremely gentle and sexy people. I know others that were not so lucky, and avoided it for a long time because of the bad experience. Try for yourself, see what you like about it, how you like it. Remember, it's all about having fun, you don't have to go all the way the first time, let your body the time to get used to anal play.

[NjbiGuy01]

I got my first anal at 16 or so...A dude I played with started working my ass with his tongue, fingers, eventually a toy (his mothers !), and then finally said "dude, I wanna fuck your ass-pussy..." It was amazing: He was gentle, and slowly worked his 7" into me a little at a time, then backed out. A little more, then backed out. Eventually he was balls deep and as he came I did too...I've tried it a few times over the years and at times it didn't work out as well. Mainly, I think it was because he built things up over a good 30 or 40 minutes till I was relaxed, ready, and I trusted him. I also realized I have to be on all fours to accept most men. On my back it can hurt with the wrong size shape or partner.

[delane]

As a woman, i have gotten both sides of the coin, so to say, regarding anal-play. Honestly, it is all in how you're treated and how you treat your body. If you're simply man-handled, NO, it won't be a very pleasant experience. If you're seduced--hehe--or just simply eased into the act of anal-play, it is totally different AND very enjoyable---a lot of the enjoyment, obviously, comes from your partner or playmate!!! You have to be treated right!!!
My first anal-play was via myself, during teenage years, experimenting. It was enjoyable, but i left it alone, for a while..... Later on, my (now ex) husband became a bit tooooo rough, especially when it came to demanding anal, so that was a huge turn-off. Once i was free from that 'atmosphere,' and joined my (current) husband, who has truly taken great strides to care for me and love me, sexually (as well as in other facets), i REALLY enjoy it! (My strongest orgasms have been with anal-penetration....fyi. ;) )
Hope this helps a lil...