Society is more driven towards a male's sexual desire...

[Ebonybifemme7]

This website is a reflection of that. Most of the threads on here are more focused on male pleasure.

People would say that women have more sexual freedom than men. I would beg to differ. If anything, women are way more sexually repressed than men are. I'm living proof of this. Cultural limitations, conservatism, reality of age, family obligations, have been the burden. There are plenty of women in my family who are very very sexually repressed, I would say most women over the age of 40 are the most sexually repressed. I know most women's sex drive falls off after a certain age. Got a lesbian friend in her early 60's who isnt sexually repressed by any means, but its hard for her to find someone who she can share her truest and most sexually feelings. Society is more driven by a male's desire. I dare anyone to challenge me on this! Most people would argue and say that women are more allowed to be out with certain sexual inclinations and feelings, and allowed to be more touchy. I would agree with this, however, society doesn't take women as seriously as men, and the existence of females are just seen as a joke. This is even truer in eastern cultures. Had a lesbian coworker tell me that in certain cultures in India, most men will walk ahead of there wives, while hold hands with their male best friend!!!!!! Not saying that there engaging in homosexuality, but male on male love is more praised than female on female love. Here in the in the United States, had a gay women that I used to be friends with tell me that here in the US, they cater more to gay men, (and same sex seeking men period). I believe it. Men might have to be more hidden about there same sex inclinations than women because of a man-ly driven society in general. But they are not as limited as women are. Women can be pregnant, we have periods, and were seen as more of a liability. And the average women isn't thinking about sleeping with another woman. What can a woman do for me? Nothing.

Basically in a nutshell: male sexuality will always rule over female sexuality. I do not care how many women you have using sex toys, dildos, strap ons on men, other women, etc. It will always rule and I beg anyone to challenge me on this!!!!!! There seems to be a lot of cool, down to earth men on here, but I would advise you to do more research, and don't listen to what the media tells you about bisexuality, and sexuality in general. They truth is that most women are straight, and although I believe most men are straight, you probably have more men with same sex inclinations and thoughts than women.

[ALAbiguy]

Interesting food for thought, thanks for posting.

[tenni]

1/ male on male love is more praised than female on female love.
Expand on this idea a bit more please.


2/ they cater more to gay men, (and same sex seeking men period).
Who is “they”?


3/ you probably have more men with same sex inclinations and thoughts than women.
Please discuss a bit more to prove this statement.

You might find more men publicly expressing their same sex inclinations and thoughts about physical interaction than women. Are women prevented from expressing same sex inclinations or do women have fewer same sex thoughts than men? What has prevented you from expressing your own same sex thoughts on this thread? Most of your words on the thread refers to men instead of women and same sex thoughts. Are men more inclined to express sexual desires in a visual physical manner and women more inclined to express emotional same sex desires than men?

[Meliss]

There is repression but much of it is self imposed. I have encouraged several women to have a female lover but they are not comfortable with it. The have less problem with fantasy of me having another woman than them. It may not be representative but is my experience.

[Ebonybifemme7]

There is repression but much of it is self imposed. I have encouraged several women to have a female lover but they are not comfortable with it. The have less problem with fantasy of me having another woman than them. It may not be representative but is my experience.

Its self imposed because women are taught from an early age to suppress there sexual desires through religion and mis-education. To be ashamed of whats in-between their legs. And religion teaches through the bible the being gay or having same sexually attractions and fantasies is a sin. I would say that women feel more obligated to be a loyal straight wife and mother rather than pursue a sexual desire or feeling. I've experienced this with a lot of women, who chose their husbands and boyfriends over me, cause it was more convenient. Who wants to be seen holding hands with another woman?

With women, we are different. Men can just go out here and meet people and take risk, especially when it comes to same sex encounters. They are much more risky, even though they are secretive. Most women are straight anyways, but most women dont have secretive encounters with other women, and either way, wont risk losing her life and spouse, they are much more loyal to men. I've had men on here who wanted to meet, but thats way too risky, especially when they are married.

[Ebonybifemme7]

1/ male on male love is more praised than female on female love.
Expand on this idea a bit more please.


2/ they cater more to gay men, (and same sex seeking men period).
Who is “they”?


3/ you probably have more men with same sex inclinations and thoughts than women.
Please discuss a bit more to prove this statement.

You might find more men publicly expressing their same sex inclinations and thoughts about physical interaction than women. Are women prevented from expressing same sex inclinations or do women have fewer same sex thoughts than men? What has prevented you from expressing your own same sex thoughts on this thread? Most of your words on the thread refers to men instead of women and same sex thoughts. Are men more inclined to express sexual desires in a visual physical manner and women more inclined to express emotional same sex desires than men?


By 'they' I'm talking about the LGBT community. I'll reply back to this post later on 2nite, getting some sleep after working 3rd shift and going to school.

[Ebonybifemme7]

I'm vlogging about this as soon as I get home from school tonight.

[centillini]

I would agree, yet there are more toys for ladies than guys, ladies get into club's for free on certain nights. Ladies get some discounts, and plenty of ad's for ladies fem products.

[Ebonybifemme7]

I would agree, yet there are more toys for ladies than guys, ladies get into club's for free on certain nights. Ladies get some discounts, and plenty of ad's for ladies fem products.

Okay, but a toy is not a real person. Its a piece of plastic. I'm talking real sexual freedom with another human being. Real sex, healthy good sex. Women get into to clubs free, but that's because society tries to make women think that they are for them, when society sees men as being more important than women.

[Ebonybifemme7]

Interesting food for thought, thanks for posting.

Your welcome.

[Hypersexual11]

IMO, It's all about the male orgasm. If a woman is lucky, she is with a man that isn't selfish about that and will provide her with plenty of pleasure. I imagine that the instinct for survival is a big player. It doesn't matter if a woman cums, or even enjoys sex, to keep the race moving. But if the men can't come, well, that's the end. Obviously it is a generalization that doesn't apply to every person, especially in a society such as this forum, where we are all kinda outside the box. Overall, I think ebonybifemm is right in her opinion of male sexuality. I don't agree with the comments about repression of women or their existence being seen as a joke. Obviously, there are societies where women are held in lower regard. Here though, in the US anyway, women have the ability to rise above that. Examples are everywhere.

For woman, the biggest fear that represses her sexuality is "slut". Society insists that women can't have a full, variant sex life. The thing is, that just isn't true. "Slut" only hurts if it is allowed too. I have had several friends who were women that openly admitted being sluts. In fact, very up front. None were a laughing stock, all were intelligent and very good at finding multiple partners and being able to openly enjoy sex. The only people looking down their noses were the repressed religious people. If there is concern for how the opinion of the religious is an issue, well, that's a different issue, but has nothing to do with sexual freedom. The sluts I knew, all were as successful as the average man, raising to positions in the company that required more than just fucking their way up.

[Gearbox]

Sex drive: How do men and women compare -
http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

On the whole, men are more interested in sex than women. The porn industry would have died at birth if it were not for the males.:tongue:

[Ebonybifemme7]

Sex drive: How do men and women compare -
http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

On the whole, men are more interested in sex than women. The porn industry would have died at birth if it were not for the males.:tongue:

Sooooo true!

[dafydd]

i dont agree that its easier for men in society to have homosexual intimacy.
media is a lot more tolerant of lesbian and lesbian relationships than gay (ok..u might counter and say thats because lesbians on tv are an object of the straight make gaze too, fair point...)
but look it at this way:
two same sex couples, (one male couple/one female couple) walk down the street holding hands.
who do u think is gonna get the most abuse? is it really easier for men?

also whats all this "most women..." and "most men..."? are you so psychically linked with everyone on this planet, 7billion people, to be able to make those massive absurd assumptions? or do u have an axe to grind, and just finding any assumed 'fact' to make your blade sharper.

god i catch myself doing that a lot...getting better tho these days. i stop and ask myself, "what are the FACTS...not my assumption of the facts, but the actual FACTS". there are exceptions to this rule e.g. see post on urine drinking.

i do agree with what you say, that this site is more male orgy orientated but im retreading old semen stained ground here.
thanks for posting with a female view...one of many im sure.
where do u want to go with your observations? i just mean...what do u see as a resolution to these problems? what can be done? or do we just have to accept it is what it is? i dunno.

daf

[elian]

Hmm, I grew up in a mostly single parent household raised by my mom and around women more than men. I am attracted to some women but I often think of them as sisters .. can you imagine having sex with your sister? It took me a long time before it dawned on me that women also have healthy sexual desire; part of that is because sex is such a taboo subject in Puritan America.

I do believe that there is still a double standard in our culture with respect to male and female sexuality. Men are encouraged to explore their sexuality (to put it politely) and women are expected to remain "virtuous".

In terms of same sex relations I do believe that women exploring same sex desire do seem to have a slightly easier time - given that it is many straight men's fantasies to see two ladies together sexually. Female nudity is more accepted in American media - tits and ass? Oh, okay .. but Gawd forbid that you show a peeenis on screen...oh no..

Nevermind that we have ALL seen these body parts before.. Maybe some day we will learn to be more mature about sexuality than 6th Graders. Of course, in order to do that we also have to have more than a 6th grade understanding of religion and other things as well.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sLghnd4YKms
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bh220l_gNMc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_yCcsxLlAI

[Ebonybifemme7]

Great replies! Thanks you guys.

[goldenfinger]

I take it that you are talking about women in the US and middle east.

[Ebonybifemme7]

I take it that you are talking about women in the US and middle east.

Yes. Very much so. It seems that in Europe and certain parts of latin America, they are more opened minded. Even Canada.