How bi are you?

[Visexual]

Degrees of bisexuality?

You know, there are lots of us who question our bisexalityand if we’re really bi, gay, or just horny.

I was just out in the hot tub thinking about my experiencesand thought of this way to help determine or feelings.

Think about how you’re different with men and women/



Flirting…, I love to flirt, always have. If I find a woman even remotely attractive I just have to flirt. But I’ve never flirted with a man and wouldn’t know how.




Kissing…, I love to kiss. I think kissing is the first step past flirting. And, when that peck on the cheek becomes a touching of lips…, well now! OK, I’ve only recently experienced kissing a man and, as nice as it is, still prefer kissing women.




Breasts…, I simply love breasts and nipples. Now I do prefer the breasts small but the longer the nipples the better! I only recently tongued and sucked a man’s breasts and nipples but, except for the hair, just about as nice as womens. Oh, and, more men are interested in playing with mine than women! J~




Oral sex…, When giving, I have to admit that as much as I enjoy cunnilingus, I love sucking cock more. When receiving, I think because I know from personal experience that men do it because they want to more than women, I prefer men to suck me.




Rimming…, I love rimming a woman and have only rimmed two men. I prefer women. I’ve only had one person rim me and that was a long time ago. It was a woman and I loved it.




Fucking…, I so prefer fucking women. There is just nothing in the world like a nice wet vagina to fuck. I enjoy fucking a man if he’s really getting off on it.


Cuddling…, OK,so far anyway, that’s something to do with a woman after we’ve fucked.

[Hypersexual11]

Well, Vi...as you know :) That fits me almost to a tee. I re-read your comments and can't see anywhere that I differ. Maybe I'm not as into nipples as you but I think mainly because the guys whose nipples I have played with were a little on the tough and tight side. Maybe if a male lover had less chest definition I would enjoy that more.

Overall, I don't think you are really "bisexual" as much as just a horny fucker who isn't hung up on who is there. Like me!!

[fredtyg]

I tend to measure bisexuality a bit more simply. I prefer to use percentages based on how interested I am in one sex vs. the other. For instance I'd say my sexual preference at 58 years old is probably 95% men and 5% women. That's not set in stone and if I wasn't married, and wasn't a viagra guy, I could easily go 50/50.

That is a bit simplistic, I'll admit, especially since I find very few men sexually attractive yet find most women sexually attractive in some way. Try and figure that one out!

[Gearbox]

Overall, I don't think you are really "bisexual" as much as just a horny fucker who isn't hung up on who is there. Like me!!
When you think of it, gender hangups is the reason why there are different sexualities, and bisexuality is the lack of those hangups.

Hetero's have a HUGE hangup about same gender, and homosexuals have a HUGE hangup about opposite gender, yet the negative aspect of both sexualities are kinda sidestepped as if it's NOT negative to be monosexual.
The common misunderstanding of bisexuality is that it's a NEGATIVE nonconformity into monosexuality which is defined by negativity in itself.:tongue:

So this:-
just a horny fucker who isn't hung up on who is there
......IS bisexuality.:bigrin: Or just common uninhibited sexuality itself.
And the emotional aspect of it has the same ring too.

[CuriousTexxxan]

I would say we're pretty similar on moat everything except maybe when it comes to rimming. The mental picture of me rimming another guy just doesn't turn me on in the least. I think it boils down to personal hygiene, or rather the lack of it in a lot of males. Rimming my wife is awesome and a regular part of our sex life any time I'm going down on her. But my wife, as with most women, are usually very clean. I mean my wife isn't as likely to be out working in the garage, or sweating her butt of sitting on top of a lawn mower.

Nipple play is okay, although I really don't get anything out of having my own nipples sucked on. Now on the contrary, a woman with large sexy nipples is very sexually stimulating to me. I love sucking on them and feeling them becoming stiff and erect in my mouth.

Kissing a woman is another big turn on for me and one of the quickest ways to get my cock hard. I don't want to say that I'm against mugging down with another male since I haven't actually done it. Perhaps it would ls be just as exciting, but as of this moment the thought doesn't cause any stirrings in my loins.

Oral is a different story though. Although I really enjoy going down on a woman, the excitement I derive from doing it comes more from watching the woman getting off. Performing oral on a man though it's different. I tend to get sexually excited simply from the act itself. Granted it's awesome the know that you are giving your partner pleasure, but my excitement comes simply from the feeling of his cock sliding past my lips.

Fucking is again difficult for me to compare since I have no experience with fucking another man. I have been topped once and did find that experience enjoyable. But considering I love anal sex with females, I would assume that I would equally enjoy anal sex with a man. Guess I'll have to wait and see on that one.

I will say though that really hairy guys tend to be a turn-off. I just prefer men with either no body hair or at least well manscaped.

Overall I would have to say that my primary sexual interest is with women. But I do consist myself bisexual though instead of just horny though, as having sex with another man is more for the experience itself over just another avenue to get myself off.

[Gerk69]

I agree with most of what you said....although I love to fuck a girl and have fucked a guy but would rather be fucked by a guy. I'm not much on the nipple play but don't mind a guy playing with mine. Kissing and cuddling is reserved for the ladies only. And I equally like to suck cock and eat pussy.

[Visexual]

Thanks guys! Now I feel so normal! LOL! It is interesting that we seem to all prefer sucking cock to anything else.

And, about rimming, I so agree that women tend to keep themselves cleaner. Now, personally, I don't want to have sex with anyone unless I'm very clean myself.

I guess my biggest hangup now, that I might not have had when I was younger, is that I have to really like a person to want to make out with them. And that goes for male or female.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I love all of the above ExCept the rimming. I dont go there, and I'm not overly fond of having it done To me, altho I do allow One play partner to do it because it turns him on so much.
I personally am very very Bi-Select, meaning I'm just picky as hell about the ladies I play with. Last one was 2 weeks ago, with my first Bi-lover from my childhood, and I'm good with that for now..:} There has to be an erotic connection there for me to play with another lady, but when I do, I give her all of the passion and pleasures that I'd give a male lover..:} Its all good..;)
Picky Cat

[Gumby12]

Bisexual is the way you feel for the opposite sex. Maintaining a love for women. Something may have occurred in a mans life time that cause him to be like a forced experience. After a while you thought about it then you decided you liked it. So there.

[bottom's up]

how bi am i? seeings how i've had a dick in my mouth and ass, i would say i'm completely bi....doesn't mean i don't still love women though

[belleboy]

totally agree with bottom's up

[matutum]

you will kiss a woman but not a guy, get fucked and suck a cock, is kissing a guy ur last line of defense to not admitting your bi-ness/

[matutum]

I find very few men attractive, men it seems will hook up with another man regardless of attraction just so they can suck n fuck, I prefer an attraction,

[2bi2Bboring]

I guess bi-NESS should be measured on the Kinsey scale in my eyes. I mean if you want to gauge or measure something, put a number attached to it. Pardon my analytical mind, but that seems to me to be the easiest way to do it. I am a true 3 in the physical sense meaning I enjoy sex with both sexes equally. As far as attraction goes I'd say I am more of a 2, you gotta be hot for me to be like, "I really want to fuck HIM!". As far as what I will do during the act of sex with a man goes, I am a full 5. I have had relationships with men. Ya know, ones with kissing and feelings. I am a switch with men and enjoy topping as a rule but i will bottom if i am so inclined. I have done most everything there is to do. If I have had sex with someone I care about why would kissing be a problem.

I enjoy sex with women, I have enjoyed it most of my life. If had to be 100% honest, I lost my virginity to my best friend at age 13 when we sucked each other off and offered up the backsides to each other. My first girl didn't happen until a year later. In my own conditioned mind when someone would ask me for years I would answer the question of how old I was when I lost my virginity, as age 14. I wasn't being honest with them or myself at the time. I really had to examine my sexuality in minute detail over the years. I have had some very diverse and unique experiences in my life. I have had a few sexual experience I wouldn't wish on most anyone. I have had a LOT of very kinky sex by most people's standard. I am not trying to brag, sorry just being honest. I have sought out my sexual life and not sat on my hands and watched as others had all the fun. No regrets. But I am what most people who have actually ACTED on their true bi-sexuality are, flexible. I like my sex kinky and uninhibited, if I am going to have sex, I want it to be GOOD sex. GOOD SEX takes effort not just with your hips or your hand, with your head. Desire-inhibition+a supremely dirty mind+effort= GOOD sex! You only get out of it what you put into it.

I have a couple of advantages, I have a good relationship with my wife. She is also bi and we support each other and enjoy sharing lovers of both sexes. I realize most of you don't have this gift, and I say that because it is a gift. We love each other very much. We have played since we were first together. We can be 100% honest about our sexuality. She's a really sexual person, as I am, when I can distract her attention from her books. We have the best of both worlds, so why not. We both own our bi-ness and can be ourselves. I am sorry all of us don't have what I do. Everyone should have what I do. I know what I have and I never take it for granted. It gives me the freedom to be myself and a partner who is free to be herself.

[Asspussy302]

I never really thought about it. For me sex with a guy is just sex, its not about the gender. Being bi to me is just enjoying sex with members of both genders. I would never want a relationship with a man just sex

[scapegoat1987]

To me, a person is bisexual regardless of their sexual experiences or sexual practices. Bisexuality is about desire, and someone is bisexual whether or not they ever get the opportunity to have sex with a man or a woman. In fact, a person could die a virgin and still be bisexual. My favorite definition states that I consider myself to be bisexual because I recognize that there exists within me the possibility for attraction, sexually and/or romantically, with more than one sex, and/or gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same manner and not necessarily to the same degree. When it comes to defining or measuring one's bisexuality, I'd rather ere on the side of inclusion rather than limit a person from embracing their sexuality. No one of us here is more or less bisexual than anyone else. The fact that we're attracted to more than one sex makes us equally bisexual. This is not a pissing contest. Just my opinion. :suave:

[stonebow]

In interesting topic and one I've been thinking about a lot recently. Not to invalidate the OP's yardstick but for me the question can't be answered simply by "what do you like to do, and with whom?"

For me the question arose out of noticing the frequency and nature of my porn use and masturbatory fantasies. I find that I mainly think about male on male activity when masturbating. When I click on an online porn site and browse the vids, I'm usually seeking gay or MMF stuff. My lady is bi also and is well aware of my tastes. It was she who introduced me to the man who "deflowered" me. It has however, been a long time since we've had such adventures together and I miss the guy-on-guy action more than I can say.

I seldom jerk off thinking about women...save for recollections of those great fun-loving gals my lady and I have played with in the past. Only for that I might begin to wonder if I'm not actually gay and just not ready to accept it.

So the question of "how bi" I am is not as easily answered as I would like.

[Hendo]

Though I'm a virgin, I can say with sincerity that I am bisexual. My dick reacts to both males and females. Though, if I'm attracted to somebody, more often than not it's a woman. They just look more attractive. I can definitely kiss a girl, but though I can have sex with a guy, I can't say with confidence that I can kiss one. I guess when the opportunity arises, I will finally get the chance to see if it's for me. I'm interested in women's breasts, but as with kissing a guy, don't know if I could lick a guy's nipples. I can imagine oral with both to be fun, but I think going down on a guy would be more fun, there's more to suck and pleasure. As of right now, I'm disgusted by the idea of dimming either sex, but who's to say if I try I might actually like it. As for fucking, I'm almost exclusively if not 100% into girls. I'll only consider being bottom for a guy.

[DiamondDog]

It's pretty simple. I have sexual and romantic attractions to both men and women.

[plowman69]

but is that gay

[dafydd]

Wow really good question
im very bi. Thank god for you.

[HenryDaniel]

For my Bi Side I am interested in cock , sucking , kissing ,fondeling etc. I dont like to kiss or play with nipples , just the cock and balls.

[void()]

Wow really good question
im very bi. Thank god for you.

*smirks, nearly chokes on a snicker*

Right, agree with dafy. * ambles off in another direction with haste *

[BiCuriousVAN]

I am interested in cock - sucking and being sucked. I enjoy anal play and at least want to try being fucked and would like to fuck a guy's ass. The thought of rimming used to be a real turn-off, but lately have thought about it and might try it, if the guy is real clean. Nipples play is okay. I get turned on as much by the thought of cock, as I do pussy, but have no physical attraction to guys. Kissing etc is a total turnoff. I consider myself bi-curious (not too much experience yet), but am likely bi.

[centillini]

Normally would of said just sucking cock but after being with passble cd mast night I am all in

[sailorashore]

I think I am bi, therefore I am. Fact is, I have coupled with women all my life, until now. When I first started to have sex with men, I was just interested in exploring male sexuality--mostly through oral and anal intercourse. I am now having a 'relationship' of sorts with a gay man, and I find I enjoy all the things we do just as much as with any woman in my past--kissing, cuddling, hanging out together (so to speak), and of course, sucking and fucking. Will I be intimate with a woman again? Hell yes, if the opportunity presents itself, but at my age such opportunities are few and far between. My favorite fantasies still involve being with a male/female couple, so I guess I'm about as bi as you can be, if I ever get the chance.:rolleyes:

[tristancir]

Being bisexual is about intent and desire. It isn't about what acts you have done.

* Bisexuals are CAPABLE of sexual and emotional interaction with both sexes. (doesn't mean they really do)
* Bisexuals' attractions to same or opposite sex can fluctuate over time.
* Bisexuals dream of sexual situations with both men and women.
* Bisexuals can be monogamous.

Great topic.

[Isitfun]

Not sure what this says about me but hear I go.
I’m married and 52. Love my wife. Romantic with her. Lots of kissing and cuddling.
Truth be told. With men. Much more physical. Love a dick pounding and cuming in me. Sucking too.

[cbj4162]

I love everything about hot mutual oral between masculine guys! ............. kissing maybe, other stuff maybe.

[Marriedbimale]

It's unfortunate, but it seems that "bisexuality" is not considered by many to be a legitimate "orientation", especially where males are concerned. I notice that many in the gay community think that we're just selfish, and want it all. And others think that that we all are just promiscuous sex fiends who cannot remain faithful to our current partner. And most straight men (and many women) think that girl/girl sex is hot, while male/male sex is wrong.

[txsmale55]

I'm a married male 55, I enjoyed m2m sex in my early days. Mostly jacking off and lots of sucking and cum swallowing. It's been years since I've touched another guys cock, but I long for it again. I would love to suck (69) most likely protected. And of course I really want to feel a guy slide his stiff cock in & out of my ass. So I sill love pussy but a cock turns me on also.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

On a scale from 1 to 10...about a 3 now days. I have one female Intersexed lover/playmate that I play with, and for now, I'm content with that. Even tho right now my sex drive in Park, I still do see her about three times a month. :} Its all good. ;)
Cat

[lookn4fun64]

I would have to say I am very gay. I enjoy sucking dick, exploring anal play, kissing and cuddling. Men can be just as comforting as noted for many women. Problem: finding a man who is open and comfortable enough to perform this. However, I would love at this stage in my life to explore the other sex further.

[void()]

On a scale from 1 to 10...about a 3 now days. I have one female Intersexed lover/playmate that I play with, and for now, I'm content with that. Even tho right now my sex drive in Park, I still do see her about three times a month. :} Its all good. ;)
Cat

*looks at momma cat with a green face, pouts, storms off to go drag a warm body into submission*

[Fzmr9t]

For me, I label myself here as BI, but internally, in my own mind, I'm just a horndog. I love women, the sight of 'em, the touch (how they feel next to me, or in my hands), the scents (both theirs perfumed bodies, if it isn't OVERDONE, and their natural animal scent). I love kissing EVERY PART of them, top to bottom, and I especially love how it feels to be inside them. For men, I don't get turned on by seeing some "good looking" guy either in a picture, or on the street walking by. But I do love having intimate relations with them, kissing, hugging, touching, oral and anal sex. I'm not so much into rimming guys, I just have to be "in the mood" for that to occur. And I'm also not much into nipple play with guys. Not into playing with theirs, or DEFINITELY NOT with them playing with mine (it tickles, and really is a mood breaker).
As for having a "relationship" with either sex, well, I've been married for over 30 years with the same woman, and I've had one relationship with a guy that lasted for a few months. I have to say, that it's best for me, when I feel a bond or connection between us (for either sex partner).
my masturbatory preference turns to the less conventional type (mature as opposed to 20 or 30 something "hard bodies", trannys as opposed to The usual MM, FF or MF and amateur as opposed to the scripted).

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOL Why a green face, Void-honey? She'd have no prob in sharing. She has the best of both worlds, Darlin. Altho she hasnt played with men very much since her daughter was born. Birth to an Intersexed woman was Verry difficult for her. I think the both of us would put a smile back on that pretty furry face of yours. :love87:
(And Real is over there jumping up and down, whimpering, and going; 'Pick me too! Pick me too!!") lmao
Grinning Cat

[void()]

LOL Why a green face, Void-honey? She'd have no prob in sharing. She has the best of both worlds, Darlin. Altho she hasnt played with men very much since her daughter was born. Birth to an Intersexed woman was Verry difficult for her. I think the both of us would put a smile back on that pretty furry face of yours. :love87:
(And Real is over there jumping up and down, whimpering, and going; 'Pick me too! Pick me too!!") lmao
Grinning Cat

Green faced because it has been, oh, roughly two to three years now. Rosy and her sisters are
growing tired of me, or me of them. *sighs* All for self love, but at the same time, starting to
feel narcissistic. And I am anything but that. *sobs* Just need another warm, willing body, a
bit of privacy and hopefully the warm body is someone I know well enough.

Imagine you two could for sure put a smile back. ;) I prolly wouldn't be much of a long term
dancer though. Shoot, take a few steps and be needing new Sunday bests for sure. Take
another few steps, you might want to go fetch an umbrella, galoshes.