Playing Pretend of for real?

[SweetnSpicy241]

Ok, So how many couples have encountered this situation?

Meet a guy who swears he's fully Bi. But, once in the bedroom, he totally focus on the lady and leaves the male on his own. Not caring about his desires or even if what she's looking forward is to see some M/M action.:yikes2: And afterwards he wants to return again.

If you have experienced anything like this, please share. We should share info like this with others that may be less experienced.

[rigamatorboy]

3.5 outta 5 guys do this, wife says now that they suck cock or get no pussy :tongue:

[dickhand]

3.5 out of 5 ??? I have encountered couples who insist on MM only meet the first time to assure this doesn't happen when the couple plays with a new guy .

[SweetnSpicy241]

3.5 out of 5 ??? I have encountered couples who insist on MM only meet the first time to assure this doesn't happen when the couple plays with a new guy .

I (the wife) personally think that a MM meeting cuts off much of the BS. If there is no attraction in between them two, I'm not interested in pursuing anything further. Specially when we have encounter so many shallow guys (and gals).

[Realist]

I had a similar incident years ago. I was dating a German girl, who was visiting the states. She was straight, but loved being around gay and bisexual men.

Through one of those rags that you used to get in porn shops, we met a bisexual fellow, who wanted to join us. I made sure he knew that she would only observe.

However, the first thing the guy wanted was for my GF to bare her breasts. While he was initiating some half-hearted play with me, he couldn't keep his eyes off her. It was obvious to her he was only doing his thing with me, to entice her.

I was happy when she told him to get out; that was not what she wanted.

It was enough to get her aroused, though, and after he left, we had a pretty good time!

Later, we met a nice older guy, who was mostly gay, and she got to see all she wanted!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

This happens all the time, Darlings..unfortunately. if a guy doesnt follow up on your requests, kick him to the curb...post haste...lol
Meet with a couple of guys, make your intentions Known right out of the gate. If he fucuses on the lady mainly, then you know he isnt sincere.
Good hunting, M'Loves..:}
Cat, been there, done that---didnt like the T-shirt..lol

[cornholejoe]

guy must suck me first if he wants to get at my girlfriend

[rdg248]

We encounter this all the time, all the guy wants is to do it with me. He'll let my husband suck him off, but they know that my husband sucks him first before they get to me.

[justafella]

I've never had a woman around when with a guy. My thought is that I would be a bit embarrassed the first time an be happy to concentrate on the man.

[void()]

Not experienced this directly. Have experienced it a lot on the web and
internet. There are many straight guys whom pose as bisexual merely to
lure women.

Suppose an argument could be suggested that bisexual guys could pose as
women to lure men. Am sure that some may well do that. I choose not to
follow suit.

[Hypersexual11]

This is minor problem for us. The wife doesn't feel secure allowing me to meet a guy to vet him first so we end up having to deal with it now and then. It's really not that big of a problem as the liars are always ok with me going down on them and I really don't care if they do me or not. Our mmf sex is 90% about her anyway and we haven't encountered anyone that wasn't comfortable with close contact, like DP. It just makes me feel pretty uncomfortable going down on a straight guy and we feel kinda used. But we have to play the cards dealt and make the best of it so we don't worry about it that much. I think the bigger problem is married guys cheating. That really pisses off the misses.

[edmann35]

lol good keep all the fakes out

[NjbiGuy01]

I have run into this before, and I get it. As a bi male, I've had lots of great experiences with couples. I can say, it's not unusual for a dude or a couple to question whether a guy is just there to suck a dick, so he can get a pussy....I'm fully bi, like to fuck, suck, get fucked, and resent when other dudes mess it up for the rest of us :)...... seriously.... I get it (how do you really judge whether a guy is truly bi or not), but it's sometimes a matter of trust....