Bi encounter in high school,,then and now

[Lanny75]

I had several bi encounters with the same guy in high school but nothing since. I am in my thirties now and still think about trying again. My question is,,how many of you are in the same boat? Wonder what the chances are the other guy has the same thoughts?

[Basin_Bouy]

Yup, that's what happened to me, and I acted on it

[swingtimedj]

Even if you can't be with him again, if you want to experience it again I say go for it! I'm sure there's someone on this site willing to help you out... Good luck!

[12voltman59]

Well--I did stuff when I was young too----it stopped when I was in my 20s---and did nothing till one time in my late 30s--then again nothing till sometime in my 40s--I am glad I finally did it then---I only wished I had done more earlier.

I don't think its too late to start if you have such desires---it really is too bad that we feel we cannot act on such things---I wonder how many people went to their graves, aching to do something of that sort---but never took or got the chance to do so. I am sure the number is more than can be counted.

[fredtyg]

I don't think its too late to start if you have such desires---it really is too bad that we feel we cannot act on such things---I wonder how many people went to their graves, aching to do something of that sort---but never took or got the chance to do so. I am sure the number is more than can be counted.

Exactly. Thankfully I at least did more than the OP by the time I was his age. One of my greatest regrets is I didn't do more of it. Go for it, Lanny! You don't want to get into your 50s regretting all the opportunities you missed. There's no going back.

[Realist]

Lanny, I guarantee you there are others with desires like yours and want to find a same-gender experience, too!

All you have to do is make yourself available and look for signals.

About 4 1/2 years ago, I found what I was looking for, right here!

Good luck!

[jamieknyc]

A lot of guys do that. I did.

[cbj4162]

pretty much the same thing happened to me and ..... I am so so glad i tried it again!! ..... :)

[Lanny75]

Thanks guys,,,maybe somebody nearby will hit me up!

[dick_pumper]

I had fooled around with a friend in high school and liked it but when another guy made a pass at me I freaked out and didn't want anyone to think I was gay so I turned him down and never tried anything again. I have posted her about my marriage being a mess so I won't go into in detail except to say that as the sex was less and less I started thinking about back in high school and what if I tried sucking a cock again. So I ended up meeting a guy and sucked my first cock in 30 years. I loved it! He came in my mouth and I swallowed and loved it to. Why the hell did I wait so long? OMG! it is great. I still love women but I love sucking a guy off as well. Now back in the day we only did oral, but I have also discovered anal is really great as well, from a bottom perspective. I can't wait til I am naked and playing with this guy again. So I would say go for it.
I still see the guy that I played around with from high school, but I don't know if he remembers what we did or not and don't have the heart to bring it up for fear if he does and is ashamed then the friendship may be ruined or there is always that chance he might say yeah go on and suck it but I won't do you. I just don't have the balls to find out. The same could happen with the guy you fooled around with? I know a lot of guys have same sex contact in high school or even college and then never again.

[ALMOE]

I don't think he's still in high school.

[BareProf]

Well, I regret the opportunities to suck cock that I turned down. I think I was afraid of being labeled queer. No fear now. I'm definitely bi, longing to suck cock on a regular basis here in mid-Florida. That's why I joined this great site.

[bottom's up]

funny you should start this post now...the one guy i fooled around with in high school comes to town & we do a number on each other...it was fun & we both laughed our asses off...told him to come back anytime

[Lanny75]

I guess that what i have wondered the most,,,the guy i messed with in school lives about 8 miles from me and we are still friends. There has just been no mention of the school day fun by either of us since those days.

[bluesky55]

Get him really drunk and ask him then if he remembers when... If he freaks out just claim that he must have imagined you said that and you had forgotten all about it. Then say something like why would you even think of that? A mind is a fun thing to play with.

[TXLonestarTX69]

Similar situation for me...

I had a buddy and we started jacking off together. After a few months, one day, he asked me if he could suck me off. I was shocked and initially said no way. He kept begging and begging and I finally gave in just to shut him up. OH MY GOD!! It was the first blowjob I had ever gotten and boy was it great. He had no qualms about swallowing every drop of what was a very huge load.

This kept up for a while and on three separate occasions, I sucked on his cock. I was too chicken to take him over the edge, which I regret. He continued to suck me off and it got to the point where I was doing the begging. He eventually stopped because I was not returning the favor. I sure wish I had. He had a great cock too.

I've been looking for quite some time for another bi experience. Like many, I am married and it's difficult. Hopefully someday...

[fredtyg]

,,the guy i messed with in school lives about 8 miles from me and we are still friends.

It would be tough to figure a way to bring it up. Blusky might have a good idea.

Not long ago I got an e-mail from a friend of my brother's from high school. Turned out his younger brother and I used to suck each other off when we were in elementary school. I sent my brother's friend the contact info for my brother and asked how Tim, his younger brother, was doing. He said he was fine, told me where he lived and that he'd send him an e-mail for me to make sure it was ok for me to contact him.

Shortly after he sent me Tim's e-mail address. I was curious as hell whether Tim kept going with the cock sucking, as I did. I just couldn't find the courage to e-mail him, though, because I didn't know where to begin and how to bring it up.

I guess the good thing was that Tim didn't have any bad feelings. I worried that he might be frightened at contacting me and being reminded of our regular trysts.

[garywright69]

I had a similar experience with a friend of mine. We had sucked each other a couple of times. when I was in my 30's, my old high school buddy moved across the street and as couples us and our wives would get together for drinks. this one night Paul and I were a bit drunk and we were in my hot tub. We decided it would be a good idea to get naked and before too long we started to talk about how horny we were getting. One thing led to another and we ended up ducking each other - no swallowing though. Unfortunately he moved away and now I am looking again... I wish I was more open in Highschool, but it was scary in the 70's. Hopefully it will happen again soon!

[R. R. Wayne]

It would be tough to figure a way to bring it up. Blusky might have a good idea.

Not long ago I got an e-mail from a friend of my brother's from high school. Turned out his younger brother and I used to suck each other off when we were in elementary school. I sent my brother's friend the contact info for my brother and asked how Tim, his younger brother, was doing. He said he was fine, told me where he lived and that he'd send him an e-mail for me to make sure it was ok for me to contact him.

Shortly after he sent me Tim's e-mail address. I was curious as hell whether Tim kept going with the cock sucking, as I did. I just couldn't find the courage to e-mail him, though, because I didn't know where to begin and how to bring it up.

I guess the good thing was that Tim didn't have any bad feelings. I worried that he might be frightened at contacting me and being reminded of our regular trysts.
Find a way to talk with him. I would not miss an opportunity like this.

[NjbiGuy01]

Thats how i got into this...LOL. Bunch of guys in middle school playing. Since I dug women for the most part, it ended up evolving into MFM with bi male play. Still open to a MM friendship, but darned if I have been able to find someone for that....

[whispering]

My first experiences were before and right at puberty, playing with a friend. I moved away as we were both maturing, and couldn't wait to get back that summer to show him my pubic hair and sperm (he had already begun when I left). We went hiking near his house, and I stopped in a private place and began to undress, as we often had done. He freaked, called me a homo, and left. I was devastated, and afraid for many years to mention jacking off, much less sucking, to anyone! Such a loss! The beginnings were so natural, and my teen years would have been that much more fun!

[BareProf]

My first hand jobs were with guys. Learned how to jack off at 12 in boy scouts (Where else?) when an older guy showed how it was done. He left a pile of cum on the tent floor. The rest of us, younger, all had a hard on in our hands. My first blow job was from a guy. It was all wonderful and I wish I'd have done more. My wife, also bi, knows this and I retell it every time she jacks me or blows me. She tries to acomodate me by feeding me my cum. I truly want to blow a guy and feed her his cum as we fuck.

[NjbiGuy01]

Bareprof: Were you in the "webelos" lol.

[Lynn731]

It was with my best friend. I know he has the same thoughts. He lives 4 hrs away, but when ever we get together we have sex. We started when we were 15, met in boy scouts. We are in our mid 60's now. Last time he was here I sucked him off, it surprised him as we have always done anal. There was a reason for the change just that time. I love him as my best friend and lover as well.

[donttellnehismy]

For me it all started when I was 6 with showing undies... Then slowly built with other guys I met... I had a bf in hs and our gf's knew about us and were VERY supportive... I haven't been with a guy since my early 20's and I'm in my 40's now... Hoping to meet someone special here... Also if anyone wants to swap stories of their early experiences inbox me let's chat... :)

[man4girlgirl4man]

I sucked my best friend's dick about 100 times before my first day of high school. I couldn't wait that long!!!

[leredacteur]

First time by myself: around age 9. No semen but a walloping great orgasm that made my eyeballs spin. It was wonderful.

First time with a guy (guys, actually): somewhere between 11 and 12 in a circle jerk; a few months later, mutual oral with one of the other circlejerkers; several months after that, oral and mutual JO with some others from our circlejerkers group. It was wonderful.

First time with a girl: age 14. It was wonderful. She was petite, bespectacled, studious, almost painfully shy in social situations, but turned into a multi-orgasmic tigress the first time I got her small breasts bared. An old school friend told me, a few years ago, that she was married, had four kids (surprise, surprise !), was still living in the old neighborhood and was still painfully shy, socially. Heh, heh, heh -- if he only knew.

It's still all wonderful.

[guywholikesboth]

I had 2 guys in HIgh school one was a freshman I was junior he wouls suck me and I would suck him funny he never got hard or gave me a load but he took my load. The other was when I was a seinor with another classmate bo did he have a huge cock about 9 inches and thick we only did it once then he avoided me.

[pete7]

thats how it happened for me

[man4girlgirl4man]

I think about him a lot. Our thing lasted almost 6 years and ended when I left home for college. We were best friends before we added sex to the relationship and I think the sex overwhelmed the friendship. We fell in love very soon after our first sex encounter together. When the sex ended the love affair also ended and so did our friendship. And I would do everything exactly the same way if I could….

[NjbiGuy01]

I started this way in middle school actually. I never ran into anyone from the small group I played with back then. Not sure how I might handle it. I am more open minded now and no longer homophobic. I was pretty torn in my youth. I eventually got comfortable with the concept of being bi. While I like living a 'straight' existence with a wife and kids etc, I do consider myself bi and do sometimes play on the DL. Do I wish my wife played ? Sure, but you know I've met an increasing amount of men in the same boat and had fun on the DL.

I think the world's outlook has changed on gay or bisexual people, and that's allowed more people to feel comfortable doing this type of stuff.

[JackTexas94]

I had two guys in high school I had fun with. Those were the late 70s and so barebacking was not an issue. I still am in contact with one of them but despite many hints on my part he acts as if none of that ever happened. He never married so I'm not sure what's up with that.

[elian]

For some teens who are hopped up on hormones, apparently it really is just a phase, or they may be in denial.

[T.Edding]

I had a neighbor boy that I played with in grade school. An older neighbor girl liked to boss us around and make us do things to her. Another story. We messed around in high school some too. We met up when we were in our late 2o's in Atlanta. We had fun fooling around. He was a sexy guy and had a smooth shaved slim cock. It was exciting to see it and taste it again. And it was probably the last time I let a guy take me like he did that day. But without the older girl seemingly making us do things against our will, some of the excitement was missing. We are both married with kids now. We chat now and again about the old days. But we both agree, while our sex in Atlanta was hot, you can never go back to that care free time in the past.

[larry3815]

I had two sexual encounters in school it was awesome. I haven't seen them in years but had phn sex the other day with one of them and met him and had a great time...

[bbop22]

yeah, my best friend in high school would always come over or I would go to his place to spend the night and all that stuff. I forget how the topic came up but we both decided to give each other hand jobs and that happened all freshman year and the summer up until sophomore year. We both got girlfriends and seemed to outgrow each other. Really want to try some things with another bi guy. Really enjoyed it back then.

[cuttin2dachase]

My only homoerotic experience as a high school teen happened when I was 15. I was camping out with a 17 yr old neighborhood bud. Our camping spot was behind a partially constructed new home that was being built in our subdivision. We used the wood scraps to build a nice campfire. He had swiped a little bourbon from his dad along with several of his Playboy magazines. My contribution was smokes I had swiped from my Mom's carton of cigs. I had lost my virginity to a 21 yr old college girl not long before this. He had a smoking hot cheerleader girlfriend. As we ogled the centerfolds we talked about the hot girls at school and other things that pussy crazy teenage boys talk about while swigging the bourbon and smoking cigs. We got a bit giggly and tipsy and out of the blue, he asked me if I ever beat my meat. I told him yes, all the time. He suggested we take off our clothes and watch each other jack off to the centerfolds. I said OK. Next thing I knew we were both naked and stroking. Our eyes were on each others cocks rather than the naked centerfolds. It's funny that I wasn't really aroused by his body or cock, but by the naughtiness of what we were doing. I remember thinking it was weird to be doing it, but I did feel very naughty and was enjoying it. That was when he asked me if I made jizz from jacking off. I told him yes and he suggested that we jack each other off and fantasize that it was those centerfolds jacking us. I said OK and he immediately reached for my hard cock and asked me to lie back on my sleeping bag. He started slowly and went faster and faster and I came in less than a minute all over my belly. Then he laid back on his bag and I returned the favor. He came in less time than I had and spurted a huge load. It was kinda awkward after that. I'm not sure I'd have gone along with everything if I hadn't been a little drunk. We cleaned ourselves up with the tp we had brought. It was a hot summer night and I fell asleep on my bag. I awoke a couple of hours later to the feeling of his mouth licking and sucking my cock ! I feigned sleep but couldn't help moaning with pleasure as he did me. It seemed to trigger him to suck me harder and faster. I came again in a few minutes and he swallowed every drop. I rolled over still pretending to be asleep as he withdrew to his bag. The whole thing had gone from weird to weirder. I remember debating in my mind whether I should 'wake up' and return the favor, but decided against it. He never knew that I knew he'd blown me. No pun intended, but I blew the experience off as not a big deal because other boys I knew had talked and even bragged about playing around with buds. I quickly forgot about it. I was 32 when I had my 1st experience sucking a cock and it felt natural. Again it didn't seem like a big deal, but I knew from that moment that it was incredibly erotic to feel a man's cock in my mouth and that I wanted more. It was only just afterwards that I remembered my teenage experience. I wished I had returned the favor that night. With my naughty, adventurous nature, I'm sure I would have become an instant cocksucker that night too. When I think about the cock I could have been getting in my college years and bachelor years on top of the abundant pussy I was getting, I feel like I missed out on half the potential sex I could have had. I've been trying to make up for my cock deficit ever since !

[jem_is_bi]

I know nothing about being in high school now. Then, for me, was pre-1965. There was one guy that was known to be gay. He was not treated well at all. Surprise, Surprise, he never made any attempt to attend class reunions. So, I have no knowledge of what happened with his life after high school. I had a bad time with a couple of guys harassing me as homosexual in one class. But, I was never involved in any homosexual activity, (maybe they just had extra sensitive gaydar), so that died away as a problem for me. In another class guys were teasing one another about 69 activity. The teacher overheard them and totally exploded in an anti-gay rage that shocked everyone into silence. For a moment, I thought he would assault the students, but, he regained control of his temper. It seems from other comments, it is somewhat less nasty for same sex activity now rather than then.

[BigDog88]

My first bi experience was when I was 14. My folks had a lake cabin and I became friends with a family that also had a cabin just a few doors down. They had a son named Mike - We'd go fishing, swimming, etc. all the time. He asked if I'd spend the night with him sometime (he was 16 and his parents let him have the keys to their cabin) and I agreed. Small talk about jacking off and girls tits got us worked up one night and he asked if I would mind if he sucked me off. I agreed and down he went. It was incredible and I blew my load quickly. He swallowed it all. I returned the favor and enjoyed it immensely. We spent many evenings doing it, plus skinny dipping. One thing I enjoyed was smoking cigarettes while he sucked me. I never got 'hooked' and glad I didn't, but we both enjoyed it. (Just a side note.) He asked me to fuck him one night and I did. But my cock was too big and it hurt him too much - inexperience on my part I guess. It felt great while it lasted. I let him fuck me a few times and I always enjoyed it, as his cock was smaller than mind and it didn't hurt.

One of my girlfriend crushes asked me one time if "Mike" and I were gay buds. I told her no, that I wanted pussy too, but we did in fact enjoy playing around. She asked all kinds of questions so I just told her the truth. She convinced me to let her watch us one night. She got so fucking hot she joined us and it was an incredible MMF that I'll never forget. We had several sessions like that and we enjoyed ourselves every time.

Mike moved away to another city and his family sold their cabin. We lost track over the years, but I do wonder about him from time to time. I've had a few subsequent encounters since and all very enjoyable. I'd love to have more, but I'm very selective and not willing to get the wife and family pissed. They none have any idea on my past escapades - and don't need to know.

[BootyBuffet]

My best friend in high school was my first, senior week . . . shared a hotel room, had many drinks, and next thing I knew, he had his hard cock buried in me! It was great and we played together on and off all through college! I still get hot thinking about it!

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[borntosuckcock]

I started sucking older men’s cocks at around 8 or 9 and absolutely loved it. Never sucked any guys my age until the 9th grade. We both lived out in the country, not far from each other. I was always reluctant to play with guys my age in school, I was afraid they might tell everyone I was a cocksucker. One day we both got off at the first bus stop at the base of the hill. We had to hike up a trail to get home, it was shorter than walking along the road. As we walked, he said he needed to take a pee and pulled out his cock to pee, it was fat and long, but not hard. He noticed I was looking at it and asked if I like it. I said yes and he started to stroke it, it got so huge. I knew I wanted to suck it, but I was afraid he’d tell everyone I had sucked him off. He told me to show him my cock and I did, I got hard really fast and shot my load in front of him. He told me to jerk him off and I did for a while, then he wanted me to suck him. He said he knew I wanted his cock, something in me clicked and I dropped to my knees and started sucking his cock. I really liked the taste of his precum. He was a verbal And physical dominate guy and that just turned me on more. He came in my mouth and I tasted his cum before I swallowed. He said you really liked that didn’t you and I said yes. He never sucked my cock or even touched it, but I sucked his cock just about everyday on the way home, until we graduated from high school. He totally dominated me and I loved it. He liked to watch me lick up my cum after I finished sucking him off.

[KDaddy23]

I've been of a mind that, in my high school days, a lot of guys were getting around to discovering the joys of cock sucking - and provided they hadn't been cock suckers before high school. Hormones overflowing like Niagra Falls, dealing with bad cases of blue balls chasing girls who would tease more than they'd put out and it "made sense" to get with your bro and all of a sudden, dicks get sucked and maybe asses get fucked... but at least where I went to high school, there were a lot of new male cock suckers appearing on the scene and a lot of times - at least for me - all it took was to be with a high school bud and he says something like, "I'm horny!" and it'd be a safe bet that we were gonna be sucking each other off and it wouldn't be the last time.

[rukiddingme]

Mine was just before high school, best friend in neighborhood. We sucked each other sever times, nothing else. I went to public high school, he went to went a parochial school, both of us started dating girls and slowly drifted to different set of friends. But occasionally would see him around town. As i got older And bisexual desires increased, started wishing we could meet up again.