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UpForItPayne
Jun 12, 2013, 4:33 PM
I love sleeping with women but lately I have been wondering what it would be like to be fucked.

andyinboxers
Jun 12, 2013, 4:36 PM
Never to late

UpForItPayne
Jun 12, 2013, 4:39 PM
I just wonder what it would feel like

Tim56Mn
Jun 12, 2013, 4:58 PM
Rember use LUB then it will slide in

CurEUs_Male
Jun 12, 2013, 7:02 PM
I hope it's not too late at 30, I'm 50 and still looking forward to the feeling...

elian
Jun 12, 2013, 7:40 PM
I would say that you have plenty of time:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aU2N5YPLLYo

Basin_Bouy
Jun 12, 2013, 7:50 PM
Nope, not too late. I was 40 when I was first topped or sucked my first cock

12voltman59
Jun 12, 2013, 7:54 PM
As long as you are alive, ambulatory and in reasonably good health--its never too late to start something----just of course---do "play safe" and as someone mentioned use of lubrication---a rule to keep in mind----"there is no such a thing as too much lube when doing anal sex!"

Good luck finding a good person to lead you into it---someone with experience---but takes the time to work you up for it, is patient and caring in doing it.

When you do find such a person----I hope that you enjoy it--I know that I sure have and am so glad that even if I do or don't do it all that much going into the future---at least I have done it and experienced it.

I think that if all the proper precautions are undertaken----and you find a good and caring top partner----it is surely something worth doing. I think its too bad that most men won't ever experience it in their lives since it is so good.

Why should women have all of that sort of fun??? :confused:

stonebow
Jun 12, 2013, 8:00 PM
Like they said...never too late. I lost my anal virginity when I turned 47....best birthday gift EVER! By that time I'd already sucked enough cock to know I loved that. I'd also experimented lots with phallic substitutes....dildos, vibes,...fruit & veg, whatever!...lol

ErosUrge
Jun 13, 2013, 2:29 AM
[QUOTE=stonebow;252400]Like they said...never too late. I lost my anal virginity when I turned 47....best birthday gift EVER! By that time I'd already sucked enough cock to know I loved that. I'd also experimented lots with phallic substitutes....dildos, vibes,...fruit & veg, whatever!...lol[/QUOTE

To answer your question: No, I don't think it's too late and here's my long explanation as to why......

Though my first experiences were in my late teens/early twenties, all of them were negative except for one. And the one time enjoying it wasn't enough to interest me to keep it going or try again. After 16 years of not being penetrated and avoiding it, my curiosity kicked in again from seeing it in straight porn. During this time, it was showing up more and more in straight porn and I wondered how it was that so many women were beginning to do it. Sure, there was/is more money if the woman will do anal scenes, but I really wanted to know if women did enjoy it and if so, why?

Long story short, I began to ask various people. I asked men and I asked women what was it they enjoyed about it. It was during this time I learned about the role of the prostate with men and of course it made sense to me. I also learned how it was possible to enjoy it in a consistent manner. It was a slow process to really get the hang of it and lots of practice by myself with various butt plugs and dildos which gradually increased in size, etc..until finally, I connected with certain guys. The experiences have been great. The orgasms are incredibly intense....

I only wish that I had learned how to enjoy receiving anal many years ago. At least I'm getting the best of it now.

One last point...everyone is different in how often they choose to indulge in it. For me, it's occasional. I often say when discussing this topic that it's like enjoying a rich food; chocolate is a good example. When you're having it-you're savoring every bite...for me, receiving anal is like that...I savor the moments it's happening and when I reach the orgasm that is triggered from getting fucked, I'm consumed by the intense sensations that spread throughout my body from that place....it's enough to keep me satiated until another time. I know that some guys indulge regularly and some every time they have sex. Once in a while is good for me....actually VERY GOOD for me.

12voltman59
Jun 13, 2013, 9:20 AM
One last point...everyone is different in how often they choose to indulge in it. For me, it's occasional. I often say when discussing this topic that it's like enjoying a rich food; chocolate is a good example. When you're having it-you're savoring every bite...for me, receiving anal is like that...I savor the moments it's happening and when I reach the orgasm that is triggered from getting fucked, I'm consumed by the intense sensations that spread throughout my body from that place....it's enough to keep me satiated until another time. I know that some guys indulge regularly and some every time they have sex. Once in a while is good for me....actually VERY GOOD for me.

I don't do it all that often and with but a few select persons---so its a rare treat--maybe its better that way because once you tend to get something all the time that is good--we almost come to take it for granted.

I can say---that when I do engage in anal sex----I REALLY, REALLY do like it---and do my best to enjoy every second of it-----I wish that it didn't have to end---but alas---like all GREAT things---no matter how long it lasts---its over way too quickly.

Then--from one time to the next--it can be months or maybe a year or so till I have anal again---so I certainly do appreciate it when I "get it."

_Joe_
Jun 13, 2013, 10:54 AM
It's never too late in the end, until the end.

iluvsatinpanties2
Jun 14, 2013, 3:57 PM
At 30 it better not be too late. I am 47 and still waiting for my first time experiencing a cock inside my ass.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jun 14, 2013, 5:01 PM
ditto. Its never too late, Darlin. Just play clean and play Safe at all times and all costs. :} Start out slow and easy with a slim dong with Lots of good lube, and test out the waters, so to speak, then build up slowly until you find the right man (Or woman with a strapon) to have fun with..:}
Good Luck.
Cat.

Wanting2
Jun 14, 2013, 6:20 PM
52would enjoy the opertunity to experience it.

Errin
Jun 15, 2013, 10:09 AM
If done right, Your climax will be Very Intense!!. I started using my finger, just using a little lube on my finger and massaging it, much like you would a woman's pussy. Then work your finger in a little bit more. You can feel your asshole relaxing, and opening up. I then worked my way up to using bigger toys, and lots of lube. Now I love having a nice big cock inside me, and like I say, The Climax is Awesome!!! Take your time! go slow!, or you won't like it, unless you're into pain!

sailorashore
Sep 4, 2013, 11:41 AM
Never too late. The first time for me was at age 31--and it was by no means the last. I am now 67, and can hardly get enough--and love it when I do. You just need good lube and a patient, considerate partner. He needs to be gentle at first, slipping just the head of his cock past your sphincter, and willing to wait a bit to give you time to relax around him. Then some slow back and forth, just a little further in with each stroke, and maybe pull out for some more lube, till he's all the way home. It takes some getting used to, but it won't be long before you have all of him in you up the hilt. Take a few deep breaths and relax. Then give him the green flag, and you're off to the races! Soon you will realize what it is about being fucked that women enjoy so much, above and beyond the clitoral stimulation. Your partner's urgency, the thrusting inside you, the sounds of his passion---omg, there's just nothing better! Enjoy.

ALAbiguy
Sep 5, 2013, 7:20 AM
Hell no! It's not too late. I was 50 when I got fucked for the first time and it was fantastic. Now if I could just find one or two steady friends with benefits.....
That's hard to do in this conservative backwater.