Guys, do you prefer older, younger or your own age?

[luvtocum]

I'm curious as to what you guys prefer as far as age goes. Perhaps its the way it is working out but my regular bi buds and I are within 2 to 3 years in age. The few encounters I have experienced as I travel are men that are close to my age. Honestly I like guys my own age as all of us are married but in our 50's. All of our wives are the same age. Maybe its a generational thing I don't know.

[ALAbiguy]

I tend to prefer guys within ten years of my own age either way. That's not set in stone though, behavior and temperament are the most important things to me, and it usually works out that the guys and ladies that most attract me tend to be in that age range.

[Gearbox]

I prefer older men and just can't get into (no pun intended) men under 30. I'm 45, and trying to find out WHY that is. I met up with a 24yo. He's tall, hairy, fit, ridiculously attractive and mature for his age, studying psychology, heavily into yoga etc and is a really nice bloke. He has my ideal body. BUT all the time I was with him, I was thinking "I'd rather fuck your dad!".:tongue:

[BareProf]

Years of watching porn led me to desire to suck a younger guy, say in 20's and legal. First two guys I blew were in that age range and each filled my mouth with their cum. Cum is a major part of my desires. I love it. Younger guys can shoot more. I missed opportunities when I was in my teens with other horny guys that age. We could all cum multiple times then. Sigh....

[fredtyg]

I'd say generally within ten years of my age, older or younger. I wouldn't mind at all someone quite a bit younger than me but I've become used to the idea that most guys that much younger don't want to be around someone my age (57).

Nine out of ten M4M Craigslist ads I see from younger guys specify they don't want want anyone over 35. Heck, even some older guys often say they want someone under 35. I suppose I'm just being realistic if nothing else.

[rusty1018]

Age is not, should not be an issue.

[nrthchrlt2]

I'd say generally within ten years of my age, older or younger.... [They] don't want to be around someone my age (57).

Nine out of ten M4M Craigslist ads I see from younger guys specify they don't want want anyone over 35. Heck, even some older guys often say they want someone under 35. I suppose I'm just being realistic if nothing else.

Most are interested in appendages only. They disregard the rest as immaterial. It is usually too late when they discover that it takes the entire package to make any interaction to be meaningful.

This disparity has become a cultural idiosyncrasy, sadly.

I am 65 and she is 59. Finding anyone who can meet with us is far and now to almost none. :-(

PS. With older age, at least we can get away with typos.

[sailorashore]

Just once, I would love to find a nice young man--late 20s to early 40s, say--who is athletic, sexy, and would be happy fucking a grateful old guy like me (67). But out here in the real world, to most young men (and ALL young women) I am sexually invisible. Literally, they can look right at me without making eye contact. When I'm looking at profiles on here and other sites, for example, any age below 50 is usually an indicator that I won't get much of a response if I reach out. I think this is pretty typical of all of us when we're young--we don't like the visual reminders that we ourselves will one day no longer be handsome hardbodies who can screw for hours and cum multiple times. All of the men I've been with (not very many) were over 50, and we've enjoyed our sex, but had to accept the limitations placed on us by age and gravity. Some have been bright, funny, and good lovers, and able to hold up their end of a conversation on a range of subjects, so there's a lot to be said for mature partners. Still, when I see the pretty boys and girls in the porno films, I sometimes cant help thinking, "Just once, before I die, I'd love to meet a nice young man..."

[dm330]

I prefer guys closer to my age, maybe up to 6 years older or 10 years younger. Twinks and older people don't do anything for me sexually. I can carry on a friendly conversation with them and it's all cool, but I do get disturbed when older guys get pissed when I turn them down for sexual activities. Not everyone does it, but for the ones who do, it's a real pain. Everyone has their preferences. For the ones who are respectful of that of others' preferences, kudos to you. Warm platonic friendships often abode with people of all age groups when there's a level of respect.

[Realist]

Personalities and mutual interests, rather than ages, have influenced me more than any other thing. My first lover, a guy, was 45 years my senior. The first woman I was with was 26 years older. Then, there was a string of lovers closer to my own age. In my 20s, once again, I was attracted to and became intimate with some older people.

That, apparently, is not now a trend...probably never was. I was so lucky to have known them, though.

Like those above, I realize that opportunities for same-gender relationships are becoming less easily attained. I will probably not ever lose the desire for male companionship, but I assume nature is taking it's course and my heyday is gone.

Hey, I have some wonderful memories and the knowledge that I've been very lucky.

[IndyBiFun]

Guys in their 20's or even 30's don't do a lot for me. As others have said, a guy 10-12 years range is typically what I prefer.

[chepe1944]

I am in my late 60's and I prefer men my age and younger men in their 30's. I love having them in my mouth and taking all their milk and swallowing it.

[abrim]

prefer younger myself!! like both men and women to be in good shape.

[hma87]

I prefer younger. I don't want someone much over 30.

[onesucker4u]

I LOVE Very young men's bodies. they are immature and flaky, but, gawd, a 24yo body , especially with no hair , just turns me on intensely. I found myself tongue-fucking a cute tiny ass, something I never had a desire to do, cept on a woman. and their cocks are so hard. Sorry, I will suck and ride any age cock, but a young, hard, almost feminine body I will do ANYTHING with.

[newporter4u]

I prefer someone around my own age, say 10 yrs plus or minus my own. I guess be mid-50s I might go as young as early 40s but that would be my limit.

[firstone]

I am 60 and have only been with guys in the mid 40's to my age range. I would like to get with someone mid 20's to 30's at least once, something about that age range that turns me on .

[bi4asplay]

I have normally been with guys near my age. For some reason in the last couple of years the ladies that I have been with tend to much younger. The two I am now seeing are half my age. How ever I would really enjoy finding a guy in his twenties that could cum in my mouth first then fuck me long time, then again and again.

[devil_squid]

In men, I prefer legal to 30. In women, I like legal to 50's. I have no interest in guys older than me, if tried it and don't like it. I like more mature women due to the fact, they kow what they want and are established in their life, but also enjoy the more firm bodies of younger women, just not the games they play.

[OverNeath]

Normally 10+/- within my age,although that is not set in stone. I'm more comfortable with guys coser to my age

[biwmtrucker44]

any legal age as long as they don t have a dicky do and have good hygiene habits oh and lets not for get a nice cut dick

[zigzig]

I like partners in my age group or older +10. I'm not attracted to too young people. Mostly people's maturity level attracts me.

[curious44]

I relate better to guys about my age.

[void()]

Seems I persue those a few years younger. By that I mean within five years.
Both my wife and boyfriend are two years younger than me. Although, old soul
that I am it feels more like twenty to fifty years younger. :)
Love 'em to pieces, too.

[4_oral_fun]

Men-I prfer from around 40 and up into their mid 60's. Women I prefer the same. I have had only two encounters, one my age and the other was mid 40's

[Lynn731]

I prefer guys my age.

[Realist]

Diverse differences in ages do sometimes work, but I think it's rare. Great relationships happen often, when you least expect it! I actually joined this site after divorcing and convinced I'd only be happy with a male lover.

Then, I met my GF right here in 2008 and we've been together, since. Even though there's a huge gap in our ages, it's been the best relationship, ever!

Who would have ever thought it?

[dick_pumper]

I like sex, so for me I am not as picky about age. I do like smooth bodies, especially no pubes. I appear to be 10 years younger then I am and am attracted to younger but then it would be harder to explain why I was hanging around with a 20 year old then it would a 30 year old. The oldest guy I have played with was 17 years older then me. He is a lot older then I ever thought I would be with but he likes my oral skills and I make him cum so we both get what we want. To me although I wouldn't mind a younger boy (prefer at least 21), I am more realistically looking for someone closer to me about 5 years one way or the other. I'm a hairier bear/cub kind of guy who is really attracted to twink/ smooth guys. But like I said, I will take most cummers. lol

[stonebow]

I think the youngest I've been with was maybe 20 years my junior....great sex but he had some issues. I do like older guys for their maturity and sophistication. Sadly though, the closer to my own age they get the less reliable their erections tend to be :(

[OralGiver]

I agree,as for me,i want someone around my age.......young guys all want so called studs,and I can't even find a young one who would let me suck him,they''ll be old someday

[okbiguy]

I'm 70 and started sucking cocks in 1968 when I was 26. Even back then I liked guys 45 and older and still do.

[rockclimber45]

As someone new to exploring this side of my sexuality, age isn't so much the issue as the feel I get from the other person. I haven't had any experiences yet, but if I do, would prefer to be with someone patient and relaxed, something Ive found to be more common among older men Ive spoken with than younger men.

[voodoo4]

with in a few years of my age or up to20yrs older

[Biboz49]

Mostly guys around my age, maybe even +/- 10 yrs

[Jim505]

Have sucked younger guys cock 25 to35 But prefer guys within about 5 to 6 years of my age witch is 70.I know younger guys are harder and can shoot big loads of cu.witch I love.Iam just more comforable aroung guys my own age

[moose725]

I prefer partners that are over 55. We seem to relate better to one another in appearance and attitude. I know younger men can get harder but its the mind that makes for good sex.

[centillini]

Age to me is not important as is the person and there character.

[Lanny75]

I am in my late thirties and mostly prefer to bottom. I have an attraction to older guys 40-55 who like to be in control.

[BiBobMontana]

Age is not, should not be an issue.

I agree. A willing paricipant of any legal age works for me.

[ErosUrge]

I'd have to say that any legal age works for me too....what's more important, is whether a man (or woman) has passion. Generally, I prefer men that are more experienced and that usually comes with more years and age...not necessarily interested in being in a teacher's role......yet, I have been with guys who were my age that had me wondering; it was as if they had never been with anyone before. Any time I'm with a man who is inept during playtime who happens to be older, I don't understand it....this is very rare, but it does happen.

[mattsbutt]

My age down to about 30 for both men and women.

[anacsa]

for guys, as far as watching porn goes, i prefer seeing younger guys. when i fantasize, it's normally guys around my age. and while i don't care about people race in general, i'm only attracted to white dudes and well hung ones, circumsized, to be specific.

with girls i enjoy college to 50+ and i'm not as body/race specific

[Lynn731]

I prefer a guy near my age, that is married.

[The Jackal]

Age doesn't matter to me, so long as they are at least legal. :)

[Hank63]

I prefer guys around my age or below... 21-50. I'm 50 so it's all good as long as I am attracted to them... That has more to do with it than age...

[illcum4ualot]

has to be older :) like 10 + years

[jem_is_bi]

I am 65 yrs. old. I am both attracted to and prefer men over 50 and definitely over 40. My male friend (sex partner of many years) is over 60 yrs. old. Women? There is only one that is mid-40 that I care for very much. Otherwise, I do recognize and appreciate beauty, but, I am not sexually aroused.

[69luvr]

Age is not, should not be an issue.
agreed! I luv em all!

[mike1]

I would LOVE to meet someone about my age or older whom I was actually physically attracted to. I'm considered really nice-looking for my age, get a lot of stares from guys (and women) of different ages. Not particularly into much younger guys, but older guys who haven't gone to seed seem as rare as hen's teeth.

[mike1]

I think the youngest I've been with was maybe 20 years my junior....great sex but he had some issues. I do like older guys for their maturity and sophistication. Sadly though, the closer to my own age they get the less reliable their erections tend to be :(

I had that problem once. My urologist put me on Cialis and Vitamin E and WOW, what a difference.

[crazyone469]

I prefer people in the 46+ age group .... especially women. Is it just my imagination or do women get hotter with age? Men? We just get hornier with age ;) Guess I just haven't found the right people here in the Bay area to be happy with. Wish I could.

[a2smith09]

Most of my lovers of both sexes tend to be nearer my age +- 6 years or so. That's where most of the opportunity and my comfort zone lie. However I've had lovers both a good bit older and younger.

[twilde1952]

My guess is that I'd prefer someone closer to my age (plus or minus 10 years)but in truth anyone who is in reasonable shape and in good health would be nice, this Father & Son thing I find a little creepy so I'm not into younger males at all, for me some barriers should be respected.17694

[sunshinmeet]

I would LIKE to get it on with someone my age or younger, but I seem to have only been able to find older guys.

[chapear]

I prefer to keep things within 10+/- years. There are a few exceptions for more than 10 years older but not many. Really personality, character, and physicalaattractiveness to me are pretty important.

[Bishyguy1958]

Barely legal, but LEGAL! up to about 30, I guess.

[Tungtwat]

l started very young the man was in his 30'sto 40's i looked for that age group when I feel the urge to suck cock Now i'm passed that age I still look for them.

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

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In general I am attracted to older men & women.

Being 38 kind of puts me in the middle of the whole age thing, but even my wife is older then me by 24 years.
The preference would be to have a regular partner around my age, so as to more likely be into the same things, outside of sex.



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[crazyone469]

I prefer men up to 55...women to age 68. Women can cum even then and flood you with their gushes. But then I love swallowing all the cum men can give after they have swallowed all the cum I can give them.

[jim57]

I would want a guy around my age a few years plus or minus. I've chatted with much older and much younger and it just seemed like the connection was different

[Bishyguy1958]

Barely legal to late 20's, both male and female. Older than that, I leave it to the individual person. There's some HOT 50-somethings out there!

[FunE1]

Hmmnm.... Well, my FANTASY guys are early to mid 20's. My reality guys are usually within a few years of me (meaning mid- to late- 40's). While I've been lucky enough to play with some guys in their 20s, most of the guys ACTUALLY PLAYING are late 30s to late 50s.

[stephy_luvs_ygp]

young girls rule to me , older girls up , esp in that crotch area , LA LA LA LA

[RoyOH]

I prefer around my age but believe it or not you run into a lot of college-age guys here. This town has a lot of universities and colleges and these guys get online as soon as They get back to school for the fall. Some worry that they will do something with someone in their school that might recognize them so they go for older and people who live further away from campus. My problem is their way too nervous and inexperience and many try to back out or want to back out which is fine, but just a big waste of time. To avoid a hassle 30 and above seems fine.

[Visexual]

OK, who doesn't like young hardbodies, male or female?

But, for me, the potential for drama isn't worth the pleasure and there is always too much potential for drama with women and young guys.

And, honestly, I need friendship along with sex and someone my own age is more likely to become a friend. So, give me a man my age and even my own political and religious values as well as like hobbies and enjoyments out of bed.

[Jakentn]

I prefer older men but don't get me wrong I'll spend time with younger guys as well...

[cliffml]

usually around my own age