wifeandibi
Jul 8, 2006, 4:04 AM
Ok, so here it is . . . .its not really a problem, but a discussion we had last night. My wife and I are Bi, which, for the purposes of this discussion is irrelevant, however we are participants in the "swinger" lifestyle. So here is the issue:
I (the male half) have pronounced sexual interest in our next door neighbor, who is female and as a result, we have had sex. Thus far, only one on one, although my wife nor my neighbor is opposed to the others presences
Our OTHER neighbor, across the street, male and married would very much like to have sex with my wife, to which I am not opposed, however, it would be without his wifes knowledge, which as far as I'm concerned, is between him and his wife, and I don't really care.
The problem lies with the guy across the street. He will let my wife lay in his lap, he will feel her up, he'll kiss her and he'll stick his hand in her pants, but not go beyond the waistline, so here's the question:
He is not happy in his marriage, knows she is cheating on him, but will not go the distance with my wife given the chance. Now, my wife and I have an understanding and we are all good, but what do you think we should say to the guy across the street?
Obviously, he would very much love to fuck my wife, and he is more than welcome, in fact it has even been suggested that he can do so in the same room while I and our female neighbor do the same, but it is not required.
To make things clear, my wife is willing to fuck him, but really doesn't care if he doesn't, so honestly, it is just a "would be fun thing" for her but whatever if he doesn't.
I suppose what I am asking here is, not so much if he should fuck my wife, but if he should just loosen up, open his eyes and take control of his life.
I guess the sex stuff was just for visuals and the "girl next door" is damn sure a hell of a lot of fun, so some slight braggin' goin' on there.
Let me know what you think . . . .
EJ
I (the male half) have pronounced sexual interest in our next door neighbor, who is female and as a result, we have had sex. Thus far, only one on one, although my wife nor my neighbor is opposed to the others presences
Our OTHER neighbor, across the street, male and married would very much like to have sex with my wife, to which I am not opposed, however, it would be without his wifes knowledge, which as far as I'm concerned, is between him and his wife, and I don't really care.
The problem lies with the guy across the street. He will let my wife lay in his lap, he will feel her up, he'll kiss her and he'll stick his hand in her pants, but not go beyond the waistline, so here's the question:
He is not happy in his marriage, knows she is cheating on him, but will not go the distance with my wife given the chance. Now, my wife and I have an understanding and we are all good, but what do you think we should say to the guy across the street?
Obviously, he would very much love to fuck my wife, and he is more than welcome, in fact it has even been suggested that he can do so in the same room while I and our female neighbor do the same, but it is not required.
To make things clear, my wife is willing to fuck him, but really doesn't care if he doesn't, so honestly, it is just a "would be fun thing" for her but whatever if he doesn't.
I suppose what I am asking here is, not so much if he should fuck my wife, but if he should just loosen up, open his eyes and take control of his life.
I guess the sex stuff was just for visuals and the "girl next door" is damn sure a hell of a lot of fun, so some slight braggin' goin' on there.
Let me know what you think . . . .
EJ