Wondering about guys who like being pegged [Archive]

Gearbox

May 14, 2013, 4:17 PM

I think that its whatever mentally stimulates us, and not what physically stimulates us that sexuality is based on. If the pegee is thinking of a man while being pegged, then I'd say he has a sexual attraction to males which makes him either bi or gay. If thinking of a man turns him off, then he is just enjoying his prostrate being massaged.

A male can fuck a big masc hairy bloke up his male arse with his rock hard aroused cock and cum bucket loads all over him and still be heterosexual. That's IF he keeps it in his mind that he is fucking a female and at no time gets aroused due to the fact that it's a male. Same thing with homosexual males fucking their wives. I've heard many times how they had to think of men to stay hard.
IMO it's not WHAT you do, but WHERE your head is when you do it.:impleased

There is no such thing as 'gay sex' or 'straight sex'! It's ALL just sex, and the sexuality of the the participants has nothing to do with the genders involved.
I've had homosexual and heterosexual arousal during sex with the same man in the same sexual session. Not that I told him.LOL
It's basically the same thing as masturbation - a gay bloke and het bloke does exactly the same thing with their hands, but get aroused thinking of different genders. It's purely mental.
Well that's what I think.:tongue:

Young pussy and dope

May 14, 2013, 7:48 PM

A more interesting topic would be women who claim they "enjoy" or are "Satisfied" by "pegging" a "man". Only a woman that has been raped or has been fucked very hard up the ass or cunt a few times would claim that fucking a man with a strapon dildo is "Empowering" or "Satisfying". I've never bottomed for a man and I sure as hell am not going to bottom for a woman or for anyone. If other men want to do it that's fine but it's not something myself and most men-bisexual, gay, and heterosexual are interested in.

cherry88

May 14, 2013, 8:31 PM

i agree totally with gear box its whats in your mind that makes the difference....// but this raises an interesting question for me... im a girl and love being a girl and love sex as a girl but all my life ive frequently fantasized that -im- a man during sex... even when im by myself.

im not gay or bi, im not attracted to women at all, i also dont want to -be- a man either.... however ive always found it a turn on to imagine ive got a penis during sex.... i dont really imagine im a man... i imagine i am me, but with a penis. now what in the hell is -that- ?? i guess that probably makes me some variaton of 'normal' hahaha. also i never heard of strap ons or any of that stuff before basically this year. i just think its a turn on to have a penis soemtimes. (I mean guys you enjoy it right)

still in not gay or bi at all... (really im pretty sure about that) it just turns me on mentally and this was true long before i ever heard of pegging.

i realize its also a big turn on to be the dominant one. being in top as a girl is totally different from being on top as a 'guy'. its different mentally. i like it.

HappyHedonic

May 14, 2013, 8:48 PM

Only a woman that has been raped or has been fucked very hard up the ass or cunt a few times would claim that fucking a man with a strapon dildo is "Empowering" or "Satisfying". I've never bottomed for a man and I sure as hell am not going to bottom for a woman or for anyone. If other men want to do it that's fine but it's not something myself and most men-bisexual, gay, and heterosexual are interested in.

I disagree with your statement. My girlfriend enjoys pegging me and I enjoy being pegged, and neither of us were ever raped. She enjoys "being in charge" (empowered) and giving me extreme pleasure (which she finds satisfying). Given that you have no experience receiving anal sex you may be projecting an assumption that anal sex is the equivalent of a painful rape, which is not my experience or the experience of most anal enthusiasts that I know.

stonebow

May 14, 2013, 9:39 PM

Annika L

May 14, 2013, 9:44 PM

A more interesting topic would be women who claim they "enjoy" or are "Satisfied" by "pegging" a "man". Only a woman that has been raped or has been fucked very hard up the ass or cunt a few times would claim that fucking a man with a strapon dildo is "Empowering" or "Satisfying".

An even more interesting topic would be people who make laughably blanket generalizations in multiple incarnations after multiple bannings. Do they truly lack any kind of imagination, or are they just trying to be provocative for selfish reasons?

I sometimes wonder whether it's the young pussy or the dope who does most of your posts. In this case it's clear.

Annika L

May 14, 2013, 9:53 PM

To the point of the OP, it seems to me that a man wanting a woman to "peg" him (hate that word, but there it is) is no more homosexual than two women enjoying one another with a strap-on, feeldoe, double-dildo, etc. is heterosexual...or one man fucking another man anally is heterosexual.

There is who you are attracted to (this determines sexuality) and then there is what you like to do with them...which is purely a matter of taste. Some men like to be penetrated...some women don't like to be penetrated...some women like to penetrate...I'm sure some men don't like to penetrate...it all is down to taste, not to sexuality. Fortunately, between nature and modern technology, we all have the means to enjoy whichever variations we find appealing.

sailorashore

May 14, 2013, 10:06 PM

I have to admit that the first time a girlfriend did me from behind with her strap-on (hadn't ever heard the word "pegging" yet) it was fun and exciting and enjoyable for both of us. She was curious about it, I was willing, we'd both had a couple drinks, and she was okay with taking her time and letting me get used to being stretched out back there. I was thrilled to be able to offer her a willing partner so she could be on the other end of the penetration transaction for a change, and she enjoyed slamming into me once she knew I was not in pain. But, of course, it made me even more determined to experience the real thing--hard, hot, throbbing manhood, with a real man attached!

aLABiM75 & StrF51

May 15, 2013, 4:51 AM

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You either like dick, or you don't like dick.

....plain and simple....

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sailorashore

May 15, 2013, 2:42 PM

I have to say, Annika, I agree with both your posts immediately above, especially the first, about "young dope."

fredtyg

May 15, 2013, 6:36 PM

I'm thinking a guy could enjoy anal penetration (being pegged) and still be hetero if only because I know such a guy...kinda. To make things a bit confusing, I did fool around with him on a handful of occasions as he enjoyed getting head, but I'm not sure I'd call him bisexual, at least at the time we were fooling around.

He was pretty much into women and told me he enjoyed his girlfriend sticking her finger up his butt when they were having sex. The two of them also bought some anal toys. I'm sure he's not the only guy that would be considered hetero but enjoys stuff up his ass.

However, I think he could very well become bisexual if given time and the right circumstances. He enjoyed me sucking his cock, but only allowed that when the girlfriend wasn't around. If time would have allowed, I think he could have gotten comfortable enough with m2m sex he might have even considered himself bisexual.

In other words, if things would have developed between us as I'd hoped, and we ended up naked in bed kissing and having sex, at that point I would consider him bisexual. As it was, I was more of a convenience for his need to get off when the gal wasn't available. But he was coming along...

What I don't understand is how a woman could enjoy pegging a guy. At least I don't see how there could be any physical pleasure for them.

fredtyg

May 15, 2013, 6:56 PM

Disagree. Some guys just want their dick sucked- any port in a storm, if you will- but have no real sexual interest in men. Certainly many of them may come to develop a sexual interest in men, but I'd consider them hetero, with the exception of guys who go cruising gay spots for blow jobs and then call themselves straight.

There is a fine line, though, and I think if things developed as I'd hoped with that guy I might have had the pleasure of seeing him cross the fine line to bisexuality. He was almost there, imo.

Gearbox

May 15, 2013, 7:21 PM

That guy is not heterosexual at all. Hetero/straight men don't have sex with men or get sucked off by a guy. Only closet queens who need the fantasy pipe dream of having sex with an actual hetero/straight guy who are uncomfortable with being gay as these men usually are gay and not bisexual at all even if they claim they are "bisexual" but are not actually bisexual at all since they are gay and cowardly pathetic closet queens.
What about those homosexuals who have sex with their husbands/wives for years, raise kids etc then come out as ALWAYS been gay? Are they closet heterosexuals/bisexuals in denial?

You never hear of a closet heterosexual.:tongue: A bloke can stick his cock in all manner of sex toy, fruit, vegetable pie .... just about anything with a hole in it, and his sexuality isn't questioned. Put it in another blokes mouth and BINGO he's super gay! Doesn't matter that a blokes mouth is 10000 x better than all the sex toys etc and that might be the reason he sticks his cock in it.:rolleyes:
I'd say it takes one Hell of an imagination to fuck a watermelon to climax. That imagination can be used to fuck a blokes mouth too IMO. And who hasn't pretended they are fucking someone other than the person they are fucking?:smoke:

Mr. Suck

May 15, 2013, 7:43 PM

I agree that men who some men want to claim are "straight" and who have sex with men but like to claim they are "Straight" are just bisexual or even gay men who are in denial of their sexuality and don't want to admit that they're something other than heterosexual. This applies even if they're just into getting oral sex as this is common among bi and gay men. The men who are bisexual who are in denial could just as easily have sex with a woman or find a steady female partner yet they're having sex with a man and are anything but heterosexual. Actually Gearbox I don't fantasize about anyone during sex since that's what masturbation is for and when my husband and I have sex we just focus totally on each other. We're not even that into watching porn since to us it's very silly, scripted, not real sex, and full of drug addicted twinks and Valley girls who are prostitutes.

Annika L

May 15, 2013, 11:40 PM

What I don't understand is how a woman could enjoy pegging a guy. At least I don't see how there could be any physical pleasure for them.

Depending on the harness/strap-on/feeldoe being used, there can be quite a *lot* of physical pleasure involved in penetrating someone.

cherry88

May 16, 2013, 12:11 AM

aw yeah i just found the 'ignore' feature suddenly everythign is nicer @

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 1:00 AM

A dildo is no substitute for a real penis...yaddayaddayadda.

Stop embarrassing yourself. Your attempts to provoke are laughable, and it just makes you look and sound like a silly person.

By the way, I didn't say a dildo was a viable substitute for a real penis. I said a woman can get quite a lot of physical pleasure from being the "top" with a harness/strap-on/feeldoe.

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 10:50 AM

A woman can't be a "top" you need to be male, have an actual penis and have to enjoy fucking in order to be an actual top.

LOL You should try taking your bigotry and empty preconceptions into the real world!

Being a top is 100% in the mind...as is everything else, for that matter.

Mr. Suck

May 16, 2013, 12:08 PM

People using strapon dildos sexually seems to be a very small percentage of people. Most bisexual women and men, heterosexuals, gay men, and even lesbian women-who are stereotyped as using them the most- are for the most part not into using strapon dildos during sex. If someone else wants to use a dildo during sex that's OK with me but it's not something my husband and I have an interest in doing and we find the use of dildos in porn to be silly but porn itself does not show real sex or real people unless you're into twinks and Valley girls who are prostitutes with drug problems.

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 12:59 PM

It's not bigotry it's the truth.

Ever the response of the bigot.

One wonders where you obtained your vast store of knowledge. Do you actually have a degree in psychology that you have such authoritative insight into every person's background and psyche? Do you have publications from studies you've done? Or are you so brilliant that this is all just common sense to you? Certainly your parents didn't teach you such rubbish?

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 2:15 PM

It is also true that many women who find using a strapon dildo on a woman or man to be "pleasurable" or "empowering" have been raped....

Yes, absolutely true...I would never claim otherwise. But it is not what you said before. Previously your statement was more to the tune that "women [not *some* women or even *most* women, but women generally] who are into fucking women and/or men with dildos have issues with rage, rape [etc.]" That is not truth, and is not something that a person who has done real research or understands anything about what science can ascertain would ever claim. I won't say you're lying about the Ph.D. ...but I have serious doubts.

I haven't quite got a lock yet, but I'm getting there. Is it bullying for a sense of false power that you engage in, because you lack self-esteem and real empowerment? Or do you just like to try to push people's buttons for you own personal amusement? Hmmm...if you have background in psychology, perhaps you could comment on whether these two dynamics are really one and the same?

tenni

May 16, 2013, 2:33 PM

post 8
“it seems to me that a man wanting a woman to "peg" him (hate that word, but there it is) is no more homosexual than two women enjoying one another with a strap-on, feeldoe, double-dildo, etc. is heterosexual...or one man fucking another man anally is heterosexual.”

Annika
Perhaps, I did not communicate clearly. I had made a statement about a man wanting a woman to peg him not two same sex people involved sexually. The man being pegged by a woman is a different dynamics than the other two situations that you gave. I agree that attraction is generally used to determine sexuality.

I have read several men identifying as bisexual on the site state that they like their female partner to penetrate them by pegging. I wonder if this satiates their sexual needs as well as the usual opposite gender sexual intercourse? I get the impression that it/pegging satiates their need (which seems to put anal penetration as the key sexual interest not being sexually with a man as well as a woman sexually and/or romantically emotional?) . Some bisexual men may not want penetration. Having sex with a female partner will do little for these bisexual men to meet their same sex needs. Their needs seem different from the man saying that he is bisexual but his wife penetrating him is enough. He doesn’t need actual sexual contact with a man. Is a man being sexually satisfied by a woman penetrating him bisexual or heterosexual?(if he has no need /desire to be with a man sexually and or emotionally)

cherry88

May 16, 2013, 2:34 PM

annika if he had a degree in -anything- he wouldnt always use the exact same, (very very short) words......... he seems capable of about 3 sentences and they are always the same. ( women have been raped, all men do this or that) he probably looked those up on a website called ' how to troll' dont confuse him hes obviously not very smart.

cherry88

May 16, 2013, 3:03 PM

post 8I have read several men identifying as bisexual state that they like their female partner to penetrate them. I wonder if this satiates their needs? I get the impression that it either satiates their need (which seems to put anal penetration as the key sexual interest)...

honestly from reading the threads about strap on stuff here it seems that even bi or gay peopel who like it often just like it cause of how it feels as a stand alone thing with the individual person they are with.... or even because they like the way it turns their partner on... not necessarily cause they are imagingin they are with a guy at the time...

in other words im saying maybbe even gay or bi people, just like it cause they like it and it really doesnt matter which sex is doing it. and if they at other times want guys for other reasons or use it to imagine they are actually with a guy they yeah they are probly bi.... if they dont then maybe they just like that kind of sex.

id be interested to know, -are- the people who enjoy it actually pretending they are with a guy at the time? is that the point for them, or are they just enjoying it for what it is with the person they are with whether they are bi or gay or straight?

tenni

May 16, 2013, 3:12 PM

honestly from reading the threads about strap on stuff here it seems that even bi or gay peopel who like it often just like it cause of how it feels as a stand alone thing with the individual person they are with.... or even because they like the way it turns their partner on... not necessarily cause they are imagingin they are with a guy at the time...

in other words im saying maybbe even gay or bi people, just like it cause they like it and it really doesnt matter which sex is doing it. and if they at other times want guys for other reasons or use it to imagine they are actually with a guy they yeah they are probly bi.... if they dont then maybe they just like that kind of sex.

id be interested to know, -are- the people who enjoy it actually pretending they are with a guy at the time? is that the point for them, or are they just enjoying it for what it is with the person they are with whether they are bi or gay or straight?

Hi Cherry
I think that your first paragraph about gay and bisexual people is a separate issue other than yes of course, a man being penetrated usually enjoys it if they are asking a female partner to peg them. Whether the female enjoys it or is happy to give pleasure to the man is irrelevant to my question. I seem to be failing to identify the issue here..lol

This is about the man being pegged and whether he is heterosexual. I suspect that there are men who see themselves as heterosexual who enjoy a finger up their butt. That may grow to pegging. They may never see themselves as gay or bisexual. Yet, we have male posters on this site stating that they like their female partner pegging them. They don't need another man as that works for them. Yet, they say that they are bisexual and fine with the female pegging them..no man needed?

Your last paragraph is interesting but I would guess if a man is being pegged by a woman and thinking of a man penetrating him that he is definitely NOT in the category that I am referring to.

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 3:14 PM

You're the only bully here. Taking out your rage, agression, ....

Yes, I am forever doing that. I have viciously attacked every man who has suggested such things. My rage and aggression are there in every post for all to see. I'm such a bad person. Shocking I've not yet been banned in 7 years (as opposed to you, who has been banned, what? has it been 7 times yet just in one year?).

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 3:22 PM

I had made a statement about a man wanting a woman to peg him not two same sex people involved sexually. The man being pegged by a woman is a different dynamics than the other two situations that you gave. I agree that attraction is generally used to determine sexuality.

I have read several men identifying as bisexual on the site state that they like their female partner to penetrate them by pegging. I wonder if this satiates their sexual needs as well as the usual opposite gender sexual intercourse? I get the impression that it/pegging satiates their need (which seems to put anal penetration as the key sexual interest not being sexually with a man as well as a woman sexually and/or romantically emotional?) . Some bisexual men may not want penetration. Having sex with a female partner will do little for these bisexual men to meet their same sex needs. Their needs seem different from the man saying that he is bisexual but his wife penetrating him is enough. He doesn’t need actual sexual contact with a man. Is a man being sexually satisfied by a woman penetrating him bisexual or heterosexual?(if he has no need /desire to be with a man sexually and or emotionally)

I guess I feel it's still all down to taste, though. If a man enjoys being penetrated, then he does. If in addition, he is attracted to men, then he probably enjoys being penetrated by men; if he is attracted to women (exclusively or in addition to men), then he probably enjoys being penetrated by women.

Certainly some men who are bisexual and with a woman (whether or not they've figured out their bisexuality) may use penetration by a female partner as a way to explore his feelings or stoke his fantasies about being with men. But unlike some people in this forum, I get the difference between "some" and "all". I would hesitate even to say that most men who like being penetrated by a woman are using it to fantasize about men. But again, I'm sure some (maybe even "many") do.

tenni

May 16, 2013, 3:31 PM

"If in addition, he is attracted to men, then he probably enjoys being penetrated by men; if he is attracted to women (exclusively or in addition to men), then he probably enjoys being penetrated by women."

Thanks Annika
Yet, some men say they are bisexual but not need to be with a man if the woman is penetrating them. This is group that I am curious about their sexuality. Pegging seems to be enough for them. Why? Maybe, I don't get it because I am a bisexual man who does not want to be penetrated by anyone...lol

McBice

May 16, 2013, 3:38 PM

Tenni, I do understand your point as for the last 4 years I almost fall into that category. My wife's voracious appetite for using her feeldoe on me does satisfy my need for anal penetration as well as her need to occasionally step out of her normally sexually submissive being. But because I have very willingly had sex with men, I do identify myself as bi and have for many years. The kinda strange twist is, she was pegging me ( ya know, now that I typed it, don't think I care too much for that term either...for some reason makes me think of a cheap Errol Flynn pirate movie) for about a year and a half thinking I was straight. She didn't ask, I didn't tell until she did ask. I don't think she was that naïve about it, more she was just happy to have found someone that would let her indulge herself in her particular turn on and left it at that. Also, while her fucking me is very satisfying and I consider her to be the best that I ever had fuck me, man or woman, I do still have the desire to have sex with a man should the right circumstances ever arise. Never say never ya know

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 4:13 PM

Yet, some men say they are bisexual but not need to be with a man if the woman is penetrating them. This is group that I am curious about their sexuality. Pegging seems to be enough for them. Why? Maybe, I don't get it because I am a bisexual man who does not want to be penetrated by anyone...lol

This is what I meant (in part) by some bisexual men using this to explore or stoke their fantasies. I didn't mean that to imply only "bi-curious" men...although I see how it could have come off that way. I relate it to myself this way: I am in a monogamous relationship with my (female) partner, but I am bisexual. When we use these kinds of devices, sometimes I am fantasizing about a man; sometimes I am just grooving on being with her and enjoy this sensation associated with her. It definitely takes the edge off my desire to be with a man, though it definitely doesn't eliminate it...she feels similarly, and we both play both roles (*sigh* and no, neither of us has ever been raped or been painfully penetrated before...it's just one more manifestation of loving exchange between two humans). But I wouldn't consider myself bisexual if I didn't also have that desire to be with an actual man...if I just enjoyed these toys with my partner and had no desire for anything else, I'd say I was a lesbian who enjoyed using these toys.

So again, attraction and taste. If all the man wants is penetrative sex with his woman, and he really has no desire to be with a man, I'd say he's a heterosexual male who enjoys being penetrated. If he *wants* sex with men (whether or not being penetrated by a female partner is enough to satisfy him), then I would say he's bisexual.

Annika L

May 16, 2013, 4:48 PM

You're a really bad liar and very transparent.

Yes, it's one of my more endearing qualities, no?

tenni

May 16, 2013, 4:55 PM

McBice

May 16, 2013, 5:36 PM

"Also, while her fucking me is very satisfying and I consider her to be the best that I ever had fuck me, man or woman, I do still have the desire to have sex with a man should the right circumstances ever arise. Never say never ya know"

Thanks McBice :)

After I read your post, I wondered if the pegging either refocuses some bisexual men's desire/need. Many of us post about the ebb and flow fluidity aspect of our bisexuality. Naturally to various levels our need for sex with one gender can seem to go away. Might the pegging make the need desire to be with a man be similar to the unexplained ebb and flow attraction situations? I note that you seem to have been sexually with men before you began pegging. You seem to have a fairly good idea about your bisexuality before starting pegging? The fact that you thought that maybe you were straight while being pegged and now acknowledge that pegging is not quite enough is interesting. Pegging may impact the natural ebb and flow of sexual attractions for some?

Sorry I didn't really express that correctly. What I meant was that I committed The Great Sin of this forum...I didn't come out to my wife until we were 2 years into our now almost 5 year relationship. She didn't ask...I didn't tell until she did ask ( funny story about that concerning bad timing and being half a planet apart with bad plane tickets )...so what I meant is she thought I was straight when she was fucking me. I haven't even remotely thought of myself as straight since probably about 1988 or 89. While I understand that for some people there is a definite ebb and flow in their bisexual desire, I myself haven't experienced that in my own desires.

tenni

May 16, 2013, 5:58 PM

McBice
Well, does that blow my thesis?..lol :confused:

You did write that pegging reduced your desire to be with a man? Now, are you stating the pegging had no impact on your desire/need to be with a man sexually? Or that acknowledging your attraction has remained constant to both genders..maybe not "need" to be with a man?

cherry88

May 16, 2013, 7:05 PM

Whether the female enjoys it or is happy to give pleasure to the man is irrelevant to my question.

This is about the man being pegged and whether he is heterosexual.

i know that...... that was clear. the only reason i brought that up is it seems ive seen that more frequently cited as a reason people enjoy this stuff (that it turns on their partner or that they like doing it with a specific woman/women or that they enjoy switching roles with a woman etc) than that it reminds them of being with a man or that is a good subsitutute long term or wahtever for being with a man... thats all. i understand you are talking about a specific sub set of guys though.

....we have male posters on this site stating that they like their female partner pegging them. They don't need another man as that works for them. Yet, they say that they are bisexual and fine with the female pegging them..no man needed?

maybe it works a little like masturbating. maybe its close enough to the 'real thing' for people who are really bi that it scratches enough of the itch than they can go longer without actual sex with guys. just like masturbating takes the edge off the need to have sex with anyone.

its not a substitiute for the 'real thing' but its good enough to make you want the other thing a little less....... also it has its own things about it that are enjoyable even as a different act than regular sex. maybe thats why its 'enough' for some guys it jsut takes the edge off just enough to get by, just like masturbating its not exactly the 'real thing' but close enough to get by for awhile.

Your last paragraph is interesting but I would guess if a man is being pegged by a woman and thinking of a man penetrating him that he is definitely NOT in the category that I am referring to.

welll.. right. i guess you are wondering if just liking strap ons is enough to make someone bi or if they are just a straight perseon that likes strap ons...... im sure it totally depends on the person and also im sure theres a huge range of experience there too.

McBice

May 16, 2013, 7:27 PM

Lol sorry...I don't think that blows your thesis though. Actually the way I see my situation is my wife wanting to and actually fucking me is a huge bonus...really, really good icing on a really, really good cake. While what she does, does satisfy one desire or need (anal penetration), I still have another desire for sex with a man (I love feeling a cock get hard in my mouth)....and another desire for regular sex with my wife...and then there's that desire for sex with that couple I used to know...so yeah I guess my desire has stayed pretty constant for years and is pretty equally divided between genders.

My view for myself is I don't see my wife fucking me as a replacement for a man fucking me. I like apples and oranges...well and bananas too. I suppose I get a different sense of satisfaction out of 1 from the other even though both are satisfying. I think I just realized something though. The sexual energy my wife exudes when she's fucking me is massive and feeling that energy is a big part of why I love having her fucking me. That energy is very different from what I got out of the men who have fucked me...not better or worse just different. My ex girlfriend also fucked me regularly and she had the same drive and energy about fucking me as my wife does. Kinda odd considering they are 2 radically different personalities...hmmm I'll have to think about that some more

McBice

May 16, 2013, 7:33 PM

Sorry Tenni, I guess I did drift a bit from your original question.

Cherokee_Mountaincat

May 17, 2013, 10:33 PM

"Only a woman that has been raped or has been fucked very hard up the ass or cunt a few times would claim that fucking a man with a strapon dildo is "Empowering" or "Satisfying"

LOl Boy are you way off base. As a long time "Pegger" I happen to know for a fact that it Is empowering to a woman to fuck a man in the ass, and several of us Love it-- so do the men that we peg. And its not Just because we have been raped, or fucked too hard, its a role reversal and a personal mind-set that leads us to it. It Can be very satisfying to take a man's tight little ass, and many women Can cum for taking a man thusly. Its not all cut and dry, there's many reasons Why a woman loves pegging men; and it doesnt necessarily have to be an over dominance reason, or pay back for something that might have happened to her. For some of us, its just fun to pleasure a partner, and ourselves. So unless you've been there, done that, and got the bag of chips, you cant generalize us, or lump us into a nice little catagory..lol :tong:
Cat

bi4asplay

Jun 21, 2014, 10:10 AM

I disagree with your statement. My girlfriend enjoys pegging me and I enjoy being pegged, and neither of us were ever raped. She enjoys "being in charge" (empowered) and giving me extreme pleasure (which she finds satisfying). Given that you have no experience receiving anal sex you may be projecting an assumption that anal sex is the equivalent of a painful rape, which is not my experience or the experience of most anal enthusiasts that I know.

I am totally agreement with Happy here. My late wife got me started liking it. She had never been raped In fact had never been with anyone but me. We discovered I liked anal stimulation while he was giving me head. She built a dildo( you could not go out and buy one then) she loved using it one me. I loved her using it. An ex GF would get off many times when she pegged me. She has gotten so hot
do me that she has squirted.

bi4asplay

Jun 21, 2014, 10:12 AM

Ja&Ve

Jun 21, 2014, 11:41 AM

If a man enjoys a woman pegging him but feels content without having any need/ desire for sexual intimate contact with another man, is he bisexual?

or

Is he just a heterosexual guy who likes his prostrate stimulated by women? :tongue::impleased:confused:

Is penetration all that there is to make a bi guy? or Is there more to making a man bisexual?

yes, he is still bisexual. My husband still finds men sexually attractive, but his sensation desires are sated by my pegging him. That doesn't eliminate his desire or willingness to have sex with a man any more that me being fucked by him eliminates my willingness to still be fucked by other men. But we're exclusive with one another and are very satisfied with our sex lives, especially since disclosure. The laughable gap comes from ME thinking he is missing out. Whereas he is only thinking about what he has gained.

twosmokers

Jun 21, 2014, 11:51 AM

There is no really rhyme or reason to pegging. My ex girlfriend would peg me and liked doing it. Role reversal was a part of our love play. It was all in good fun. Gay straight man or woman...if you like somthing up the poop shoot then enjoy.

NYCTom

Jun 21, 2014, 12:04 PM

Iknow I just love it. Makes me feel like a slut!

bicuriousingeorgia

Jun 21, 2014, 1:24 PM

my x wife enjoyed pegging me fairly regularly and I enjoyed it also. she initiated this after I told her about early experiences. she would dress me as girl first. this was over 15 years ago, and i still dress sometimes. she and I wondered what it would be like to do a male. she wanted to watch and I was willing, but we did not know how to find someone...

elian

Jun 21, 2014, 11:05 PM

tenni, I think there is no simple answer - I know some straight guys who love sticking things in themselves for prostate stimulation - I can't imagine that they would want to do it with another guy but they absolutely love it when their girlfriend or wife is involved.

I suggested a strap on to a couple one time - I think he would have tried it but she wasn't interested..and I know at least at one time he liked guys and wanted to be with both sexes regardless.

I think it depends on the relationship dynamics, like Annika says, most of sex is in the mind - so if what you want is to be submissive and your wife is dominate enough then it may well satisfy that need. If you want an actual male, and some do - then a wife with a strap on might not be enough.

pantyluvr55

Jun 22, 2014, 10:27 AM

I would love to be pegged with a willing female partner that is into it.:bowdown:

elian

Jun 23, 2014, 6:07 AM

If I suspend value judgements for a few minutes, I find it is very interesting, and a little exciting that there is a such a spectrum of emotions, needs and desires in people..I guess sexual play is a part of play as well..and so much better than the kind where you have to pretend to hate each other until the point where it starts to beocme real..

Cherokee_Mountaincat

Jun 26, 2014, 8:35 PM

"If a man enjoys a woman pegging him but feels content without having any need/ desire for sexual intimate contact with another man, is he bisexual?or Is he just a heterosexual guy who likes his prostrate stimulated by women? :tongue::impleased:confused:
Is penetration all that there is to make a bi guy? or Is there more to making a man bisexual?"

Darlin, not All men who love being pegged are Bi. The ones I interact with have no Bi desires what so ever, but Do love the sensation of a good vibing jell dong sliding against/on that Prostate gland. With some men, the harder they are "Taken" the better it feels, but it still doesnt mean they have a desire to be with a man. Many men Love the idea of being dominated by a strong woman with a strapon, too. Its all a point of like and desire, Hon. :}
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