bi curious virgin with a question

[mlp6375]

This may have been asked elsewhere but I could not find it.

I have had urges for a few years and have experimented with fingers and small stuff. But as I go forward with my adventure I have a question or two.

Should I try a dildo or vibrator first before I try the real thing to help with the initial stretch. And how is the best way to over come a bad gag reflex for oral.

[Kinkster24]

I would deff get the real thing but I do admit I have had some incredible experiences with my dildo. And with the gag thing just take it slow and eventually you'll learn to swallow the whole thing! Sooo just buy a normal sized dildo and start with that because my first time hurt like a mother