Off the Sexual Grid...(For a while)

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Those who have experianced a life changing event, or a prolongued illness will understand what I am trying to convey here.....

As we age, our sex drives becomes less than it used to be; and for some people, this is a bad thing. I know it was for me at first, but until I can get this situation under control, it seems less and less important. (Yesss, I know for me this is sacrelious, but hey, life happens. Right now, I am off the sexual grid..until I can get the help I need to stop the health problem that I have. Having an illness realllly impeeds your sex life, and/or desire for any type of sexual venue. It becomes something you put on the back burner. So for the ones I have previously talked to, cybered with, or have written erotic works for, I apologize if I have been AWOL.

But ya gotta understand that if a person doesn't Feel passion, or feel sexy for either sex, then it just doesnt happen. I know you're all mature enough to understand this..:} Its not that I dont Want to, the mind is willing,the body laughs. I know I'm not the only person this has happened to, so some of you are nodding right now..lol
The libido could come back at any time, and I'd be back to my normal sensuous/mischievious self, but for now, it just aint happenin'. If I cant hit on some of my "Sweeties" on here, then ya know its Bad. It'll happen, just not right at this moment.
Hugs to those I know well, lecherous winks to those I dont..:}
Cat

[Mr. Suck]

What sort of illness do you have?

[OverNeath]

Best of luck Cat. I'm going to be on the sidelines for 6-8 weeks after May 2nd. Had surgery for Kidney Cancer in November, and now I have to get a hernia fixed that was caused by the first surgery. When it rains ,it pours. Keep us posted!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Well, not to be gross, Mr, I have 24/7 unpredictable hemoraging. It can come without warning when I least expect it. That's why I am being refered to the University of Washington for a possible Hysterectomy. I Hope! lol.
But you can see my dilemma? Cant plan for playtime because of the constant bleeding, and it doesnt do me any good to get all revved up. So this is where I am at the moment..:}
Cat

[ghost_of_bluebiyou]

Best wishes Cat

Love ya
Blue

[The Young Pretender]

I understand completely.

I don't feel desirable myself, and my sex drive has collapsed. And I'm only 23! One of these days, I should see a doctor, to tell you the truth.

[elian]

-nuzzles nuzzles nuzzles-

Love you Cat! :)

[DuckiesDarling]

Pets her favorite pussy, love ya girl. You just concentrate on gettin better (or strangling the docts til they MAKE you better) and we'll keep loving you cause you are just a fantastic person.