View Full Version : Being attracted to different skin color
zigzig
Apr 15, 2013, 1:15 PM
Hello,
I've been on this site for a while and would like to know your opinion. I love men & women. I use to be attracted to darker skinned men, and lighter skinned women, but now I like any color. One of my friends, who's bisexual are only attracted to white & asian males/ females.
Are you also attracted to different skin color people?
chicagom
Apr 15, 2013, 1:24 PM
If you have an open mind, it's all about what's between their ears.
darkeyes
Apr 15, 2013, 1:29 PM
Funny place ur ears must be Chica babes!!;)
jamieknyc
Apr 15, 2013, 1:32 PM
Having been with both white and black women, my experience was that apart from appearance, they are pretty much the same.
tenni
Apr 15, 2013, 1:34 PM
I think that I have been attracted to men and women perhaps regardless of their skin colour but certainly some physical features of people from different races increase my attraction to them or lack of interest.
A funny thing happened to me yesterday concerning ethnicity / race. I've know this guy for a couple of years professionally. I thought that he had a slightly different appearance but considered him a caucasian from Canada but a eastern European background based on his last name. I was doing a presentation with him yesterday and when I got home was googling some info on his work. I saw a photography of him. He looked quite different than how I perceive him in real time. I am fairly certain now that he is a Euroasian now. I never saw his asian background but now after that photo, I think he is. It doesn't change anything just hopefully shows me a bit indifferent to people's ethnic background.
chicagom
Apr 15, 2013, 1:41 PM
One of each is not a big enough sample Jamie...especially if one is your wife.
cornholejoe
Apr 15, 2013, 1:59 PM
like them all
VZR1800
Apr 15, 2013, 2:39 PM
On another site, two black guys have hit on me. So far I've just responded with maybe. Reason? Both have huge cocks, don't think I could handle either in either hole. ;-)
One is 8.5 X 6, the other 9 X 6. Geez, what do you do with a cock that big. Don't think my mouth will open that wide. Anal, NO WAY!
Skin color has nothing to do with it, their hardware scares me. ;-)
Swirl
Apr 15, 2013, 5:06 PM
It would seem that If race is an issue navigating these ever complex sexual waters must make one loopy. :yikes2:
darkeyes
Apr 15, 2013, 7:38 PM
Peeps r peeps r peeps r peeps... I wont say I have had a huge number of sexual encounters with girls or guys of different ethnicity.. but some.. enough 2 bring a smile 2 me face:bigrin:. Have also turned down a few more... not cos of their skin colour, simply cos I didn't fancy them much... no biggie... have done the same to me own ethnic group in far greater numbers... and peeps from me own and other ethnic groups have done the same 2 me.. presumably cos they didn't fancy me for reasons other than me peely wally Northern European complexion.. tho I've had a couple Glaswegian gals and on 1 occasion a cutey from Paisley tell me wer 2 gerroff cos I wos a stuck up Edinburgh cow:eek2:! Glasgow an' Paisley guys wer nev quite so discerning u will b glad 2 hear:tongue:!
jem_is_bi
Apr 16, 2013, 12:40 AM
9 x 6? no problem, all the way down. OH!! That feels so good.
VZR1800
Apr 16, 2013, 1:43 AM
9 x 6? no problem, all the way down. OH!! That feels so good.
I'm seriously considering trying. Been chatting with one of them for a few days now.
Swirl
Apr 16, 2013, 1:55 AM
Being from that bastion of liberalism where you are you should really just take it for the team :tongue:
Seriously, from where I sit, just trying seems very exciting. If it won't fit anywhere what've ye lost?
Damn well better come back here and tell us how it went (or didn't went) though.
VZR1800
Apr 16, 2013, 2:06 AM
[QUOTE=Swirl;248930]Being from that bastion of liberalism where you are you should really just take it for the team :tongue:
Seriously, from where I sit, just trying seems very exciting. If it won't fit anywhere what've ye lost?
Damn well better come back here and tell us how it went (or didn't went) though.[/QUOTE
Bastion of liberalism? Oklahoma? It's run by republicans in case you did not know. But I'll give you Tulsa. They are liberals up there.
Take it for the team. LOL I probably will, it's entirely up to him if he wants to or not. I am awaiting a response from my last pm.
biblkman
Apr 16, 2013, 6:16 AM
To the original poster....all that color doesn't matter when it comes to attraction bullshit aside....I do like and am attracted to all race's and colors, but I am mostly attracted to dark skin black men, chubby white guys, dark chocolate skin black women, Asian women and milky white skin red headed white women.
As I said I am attracted to all race's and colors but the above stated are who I am mostly attracted to, I'm half Latino and not realy into Latinos, not racist or anything just not all that attracted to them.
So u see we can have a preference without being closed minded or racist.
P.S.I know my ID is biblkman...comming up I was told when identifying your race...you are what your father is, I love my Latino side friends & family, just not all that attracted to Latinos...fo those who want to analyze and pic apart my post...Lmfao!
zigzig
Apr 16, 2013, 6:47 AM
Thanks for responses!
I'm Caucasian, and the first one in my family, who married a colored man. I can say not easy to break the tradition.
I've met straight people, who can't ever imagine of being with another race partner.
Swirl
Apr 16, 2013, 8:34 AM
Bastion of liberalism? Oklahoma? It's run by republicans in case you did not know. But I'll give you Tulsa. They are liberals up there.
Well yes hehe. I'm aware that Okla happens to be the reddist state in the entire country (I feel for you). Your snark meter might be a tad out of adjustment :rolleyes:
VZR1800
Apr 16, 2013, 9:59 AM
Well yes hehe. I'm aware that Okla happens to be the reddist state in the entire country (I feel for you). Your snark meter might be a tad out of adjustment :rolleyes:
I used to live in California btw. And label me glad I no longer do. Oklahoma is so much better than that bastion of liberalism. How are Nancy Pelosivich, Barbara Boxer b--ch and Dianna Frankenstein doing these says?
Black guy with the 9 X 6 is responding to my pms, That's a start.
Realist
Apr 16, 2013, 10:26 AM
Although, I am mostly attracted to others, because of their mutual interests and compatibility, I do have superficial attractions for certain ethnic people. The first boy my age, who I was intimate with, was an Oriental/white mix. I've had two black female lovers; one was serious. A Korean girl was a remarkable lover. Most of my lovers have been Caucasian, though. I've only known one black fellow, with whom I felt a desire to be intimate, but we were separated in the Military and I never knew if we might have been intimate, or not.
So, like some have stated above........for me, it's the personality and mutual interests, more than anything, that causes me to have a desire for an intimate relationship.
darkeyes
Apr 16, 2013, 12:02 PM
Don't forget the deeply closeted queen Jerry Brown! He can claim all he wants that he is LOL "straight" but it's been one of the wost kept secrets since the 70s that he's gay, deeply closeted, and his current "wife" and Linda Ronstadt are not hetero either and are or just were with him for appearance's sake.
Wooo ther wudda been no stopping me dad if he thot Linda wos bi.... dread 2 think wot he wudda suggested 2 me mum!
U r fulla poop Cowboy...
Gearbox
Apr 16, 2013, 4:50 PM
I like naturally sexy people in any colour.
mariersa
Apr 20, 2013, 11:49 AM
ZigZig at least you didn't ZigZag and married whom you chose!:love87:
zigzig
Apr 21, 2013, 6:53 AM
Thanks! Most of the people I've met, don't want to marry a partner with a different skin color, because they say that the culture is too different. :eek2:
olmizzou42
Apr 21, 2013, 10:47 AM
I was raised Southern Baptist (i recovered from that, fortunately) in a small mid-western town so white was the color for me. Have been married to a blue-eyed blond for 46 years. But, now I find that the women who catch my eye are darker skinned, with dark eyes and hair. Have had a number of lovers over the years and the two hottest women were both darker. Amongst the men I've been with are one Asian and one Latino, neither of whom were any hotter than any white guy. I do fantasize about a well built black guy with a big cock stetching my asshole. But, truly, I believe it's the person and the situation, not the color.