Anal Play . . . . Tips?

[youngcurious224]

Hey,
This is my first post! im new to the whole Bi scene, ive had feelings for a few years i suppose, never actually been or done anything with a guy, had a few chats over MSN n the likes with a few but nothing proper. I find the feeling comes and goes really, sometimes when im really horny i just get the urge that i really want to suck cock and try things! ive been thinking a while about fingering my ass when im wanking? from reading a few posts here i see loads really enjoy it so im just seeing if theres any tips or better postions really?
Thanks!

[VZR1800]

Go to the Fleshlight site and order this dildo, it is perfect. About the same size as an average guy.
https://www.fleshlight.com/female-toys/dildos/tantus-acute-purple-haze/

Order the lube as the link below provides. One is ICE and the other HEAT. I usually order the 8 ounce bottles separately, as this kit only has two 4 ounce bottles. Use the Ice on your fingers to slowly start getting your anus to open up. Once loose, use the Heat on the dildo for penetration. Feels really good once you get it in there. There will be a point of low pain at the onset, you just have to keep working at it until the pain is gone.
https://www.fleshlight.com/lube-and-care/lubricants/fleshlube-fire-and-ice-pack/

Been doing this most of my adult life, and yes the low pain is always there at the onset. It is just something to overcome to enjoy the pleasure of a nice dildo sliding in and out. Lots of lubrication helps.

[youngcurious224]

thanks!! that link doesnt work fro the dildo though? is using a dildo alot better then? ive got a spare afternoon so was hoping put it to good use! ha

[VZR1800]

Link works for me, may be your browser not letting you open it. I use Google Chrome, Yahoo occasionally.

Try this then. It is the blue one in the middle of a pink and purple one.
https://www.fleshlight.com/female-toys/dildos/

I have all three, although the pink one is not shown in my photos.
blue = 6 long X 4 girth
purple is 7 long by 4.5 girth
pink is maybe too big, I've not used it yet. HAHA.

I use my fingers to get loose, use the blue to spread it open, then attack with the purple. A little of that, and I am ready to shoot a nice load, make a mess. ;-)

If you cannot get the links to work, just browse Fleshlight, go to female toys and open the dildo folder. Great website btw, I have quite a few toys from there. Going to order another in the near future. Things to do when separated from your wife. Hmmmmm.

[Chris_t_boston]

If you want to finger yourself the best position is to reach between your legs from the front (palm facing your balls) and insert that way. Use a "come here" finger curl fo your finger massages your prostate.