Who is okay with same gender kissing for yourself and/or your mate & why or why not?

[wifekinky4husband]

I already know a majority of people's opinions that they are more likely to be okay with 2 females kissing and not 2 males. I get that. I do not care about the masses. I would like to know personally from each person who posts - do you do it, does your mate, how you feel about you and your mate doing or not doing it, and is it a desire if you are not doing it?

[chicagom]

I am the biggest fan of kissing.....but doesn't even come to mind with guys.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I have no problem with it at all. I'm a kisser by nature and I adore seeing others kissing and enjoying themselves..:}
Cat

[NakedInSeattle]

We are way into kissing regardless of gender. For us it's a no-brainer - see no reason whatsoever to not enjoy everyone separately and together. We only slightly understand those that don't, however. We even ran across couples in the "lifestyle" that didn't kiss anyone but their SO - "too intimate." Oral, anal, etc. is not "intimate?" We respond to that with a great big WTF?

[4_oral_fun]

I have kissed a guy during one encounter, wasn't crazy about it. I don't understand how I can enjoy oral but get a little freaked by kissing. I just don't enjoy it with a guy. The one couple I was with was the same way, he would enjoy everything but kissing. To each his own I reckon, if you like it, fine. If you don't, fine.

[seeknay]

I like kissing, I like oral sex. For some reason I don't care for anal.

[Realist]

I have been in LTRs with guys who never kissed and others that did. I like kissing, myself, but am flexible enough to go with the flow. The longest MM relationship for me, was with a guy who did not kiss. We were pretty much the definition of FWBs... never romantic....but very close, nonetheless.

I've never been with a female lover who did not want to kiss.

My Gf has always kissed her female lovers...apparently, it's not a question with her. Maybe women are more prone to kissing than men are.

In regards to how I feel about my GF's actions, when she's with anyone else; she's a free agent. She does as she feels she wants to. I do not dictate any rules for her, nor does she for me.

[silberwolf1960]

Have always kissed either sex. It is very sensual and a hell of a turn on..

[M4RealUb2]

I like kissing. Never kissed a man or had a relationship with one.

[wifekinky4husband]

We are way into kissing regardless of gender. For us it's a no-brainer - see no reason whatsoever to not enjoy everyone separately and together. We only slightly understand those that don't, however. We even ran across couples in the "lifestyle" that didn't kiss anyone but their SO - "too intimate." Oral, anal, etc. is not "intimate?" We respond to that with a great big WTF?

I get the intimacy thing. I consider kissing very intimate. When it comes to kissing someone other than my husband, it has to do with cum, pussy, breast sucking, multiple tongues, something other than oh there is a mouth let's kiss. I can never kiss someone unless there had been a lot of sex taking place, then swapping fluids is no biggy. I know that is not sexy sounding but that is how my brain processes it.

Ah but even more private or intimate to us is analingus. I reserve one thing for my husband and he does as well for me - performing oral anal.

Now my husband will never kiss a guy, not ever going to happen. I am glad about that, even though we are fine with so much, it is in no way whatsoever appealing to either of us, as a matter of a fact it is a bit of a turn off.

[Bisexual Explorer]

Kissing is just so sexy. I love kissing men and women; watching two or more people kissing each other turns me on as well. If someone isn't into kissing, no problem. There are so many other interesting things one can do.
Bisexual Explorer

[firebird19]

Don't matter,If it happens , it happens !

[NjbiGuy01]

I'm on the fence. There have been a few men I met that emotionally attracted me to the point I would kiss, but few. I had one scene where a woman and I sucked off her husband, and she wanted me to catch the cum and then kiss her, then she snowballed with him, then she wanted me to share some come with him because "it makes her hot" and we did it. I didn't really feel it emotionally, but got a kick out of how hot it made her....One dude said to me "wait, you'll suck my dick but you think kissing is gay ?".....yeah, kinda... :(

[jamieknyc]

There seems to be a silly taboo about kissing another man. Some guys will do anal sex with another man but won't kiss him. I personally liked kissing every time I have done it with a man, but a lot of men won't do it.

[tenni]

For myself personally, kissing is essential in most cases regardless of the gender. Like others have written, there is an intimacy factor but it is really something a bit different than psychological intimacy..it is a physical intimacy. I look at it as communicating to each other with our lips. Lips give and receive physical sensous messages. We react to how someone is using their lips on our mouth and body...or at least I do.

If a guy is not a good kisser, that can be a factor for me to pull back. I don't recall ever being with a woman who was a bad kisser. I was surprised that there are men who are too aggressive with their pressure in kissing.

Sensuality is what I enjoy. If a guy has not kissed another guy I may play with him but if he has and doesn't like kissing a man, I may just not go forward and let it end. Kissing a man is no more emotional for me than kissing a woman. It is really all about being sensual more than intimacy. Kissing is about making love rather than getting sexual release.

I am not sure but I recall when I would not kiss a man and I think that guys who won't kiss another man are dealing with their own homophobia in some ways. They are not completely into making love...they may be into cock admiration but not really interacting with the other man.

Unlike wife, kissing is an early starter in making love...and on going part of making love. Does she have a lot of other sexual play with a man before she will kiss him? Probably not. Why should it be different with same gender kissing?

[CUMM2LBV]

Kissing isn't really my thing. That said, if I was with a guy and he initiated the kiss I would not wreck the moment and would kiss him back. This has happened, not frequently. No biggie.

[IndyBiFun]

MMMMMM! KIssssing! It does the body good!


A BIG yes to same gender, or opposite, kissing.

[Basin_Bouy]

I love kissing Men or Women

[The Doctor]

Same here. I'm always a bit taken aback when a male partner tells me he doesn't kiss other guys but is up for other forms of contact. It's also quite natural for me to exchange a friendly kiss with gay or bi male friends in the same way I would with women who are friends.


I love kissing Men or Women

[bijohnmpls]

kissing adds passion.. I love to kiss men and woman.. oddly enough, I found most men are not good kissers.. but I still like to kiss even a bad kisser.

[Gearbox]

I love kissing m&f. I've noticed how many men are crap at it too. So bad that it turns me off. Never met a female bad kisser though!

[murano2641]

I'm just coming to grips with my bi side and originally thought there is no way I would kiss another guy but then started thinking about what I want to do, oral / rimming / touching, kissing shouldn't be such a big deal. I've convinced myself that given the opportunity I would gladly kiss another man...I love kissing women, why wouldn't I love kissing another man?

[elian]

Well historically I haven't bee a big fan of open mouth kissing to strart with, even with a girl (I have bad breath) - a few of the men I have been with worked hard to try to change that - at first I didn't always like the stubble but once I actually started enjoying myself it was a lot of fun.

To be honest I still very much like mouthing a lot of things but not necessarily open mouth kissing. Surprised at how umm.. "oral" I am - always seem to be using my mouth for /something/..