ready to have anal for first time

[cjiscurious]

looking for advice i am going to let a guy fuck me in the ass for the first time
any advice on how i can prepare and what does your first anal sex feel like?

[Haemoglobin]

personally for me anal sex was always different . sometimes it felt quite good and i had no pain at all , it was like as if hes doing it to my pussy . . but other times it was a real "burning" feeling , i thought im on fire . in a negative way i mean , but it for me really depends on two things - do i use a lot of gliding cremes (just for information , may use Id glide , works well ) . . and also it depends on how big the guys cock is . with small ones , i never have trouble .

[smokey]

A gay aquaintance suggested getting very drunk first. :bigrin:

Personally I am quite fond of either vasaline or preferably coconut oil. They have totally different feels to them with coconut oil being the better of the two. I don't like the ky and astrolubes and stuff like that. Also I am fond a a big cock with 7 inches about perfect, but I don't l like a real fat one. A small one is just too much of a tease. I want to feel it in me. Also alot depends on both how much anal foreplay you indulge in, alot of fingering and reaming helps alot and how the person fucks you. A rough ride doesn't work for me, nor does a real slow one....a nice and steady hump with a gentle increase of pace is perfect. Also make sure your ass is empty and clean. I love ass, not shit.

[Sparks]

First off relax. It's not as awful or painful as most folks think. There will be a little discomfort at first. But, If you're well lubed and relaxed you will really enjoy the experience.

[DiamondDog]

have the person that's fucking you, use a water or silicon based lube, and a latex condom.

DO NOT use an oil based lube (such as vasoline or coconut oil) as this will cause the latex condom to detioirate. Unless you really know this person and you're both 100% clean/tested you shouldn't bareback. Don't get drunk either.

the verdict is out on if you should douche or not: http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/drk/faq8.asp

[innaminka]

any advice on how i can prepare and what does your first anal sex feel like?



A few wines would definitely help........

how will it feel??? the truth?? It'll sorta hurt! :crosseye:

But its a nice hurt. Sort of filling. Creates lots of endorphins... :tongue: :tongue:

Just stop if there's a sudden stabby pain, tho. That's different to the nice filling hurt.