Tell us about how you hooked up with an early sex partner after 10, 20or more years

[R. R. Wayne]

When I was about 13, I used to go up the hill to a neighbor's house. He was about 4 years older than me and more wordly, which was part of the attraction. One thing led to another and afer a few trips to his home, we had started to get undressed and play with each other's cock.

He asked if he could fuck me between my legs, not in the ass. And I said yes. After a while he left a huge loadof cum on the living room rug.

Fast forward 45 years and I found him by searching on the web. We emailed each other often and the subject matter turned to sex. I was surprised at how many guys I grew up with that he had given blow jobs, to. He lived in a city that I visited 3 or 4 times a year on business. The next time I was there we got together. It was full on 69 until we both came. It was pretty hot. He came to my hotel room the second and third nights of my trip and that was it. Never saw him again. But I realized there were a lot of boys my age I could have been having sex with in the neighborhood -- including a few like me who were Boy Scouts. Too bad I could not find any of them on line.

[Realist]

A high school friend, who used to share hand-jobs with me on camping trips, refused to talk to me about our camping and sexual exploits. He actually says it never happened and would discuss it no further! Hell, he's the one who insisted that we should go "camping" just to have privacy.

I won't bring up the subject again.....I guess he's in total denial.

I wonder how many people have had their first same-sex adventures in a Scout camp, or in the military?

[NjbiGuy01]

I had two experiences. One good, one bad. One was the woman I almost married before my wife. We started an affair on e-mail and phone, then eventually met for dinner and took it to her hotel, where she was staying for business. The sex was amazing. She shaved clean (she knew I loved that), we did all the things we loved: cream pie, snow ball, mutual rimming, and I left sore and happy. She laid in the bed moaning as I kissed her goodnight to go home. It hurt in a bittersweet way, since she told me how "she would be fine with me having a male lover, just not another woman", and understood entirely that I was bi. ( Her sister is gay, so I guess she's more understanding). She also confided that she had a fantasy of two men working her over, and me being one of them and being bi was an insence turn-on....man, missed that boat....my wife is nothing like that, although we're happy... :). The sex with my ex was always good....

The other disappointment was a woman I met when I was about 28 or 29. She was 55 at the time. A beautiful blonde, not getting sex from her husband. I had some great times with her....then I saw her over 20 years later in a local CVS...a rough looking 75 years old....blech. I'm thinking "woah, I fucked that ?!?!" weird to wrap my head around....we did not hook up.

[scootman]

It was about 40 yrs ago when I was around 20 and in the navy. I became friends with a local civilian in Maine where I was stationed. He was 20, small and a little effeminate. We used to drink and then wrestle. For some reason we would squeeze each others thigh near the crotch area while we wrestled. One night I reached over further and cupped his cock with my hand. He didn't resist and slid my hand into his pants and underwear. I squeezed his small cock and balls and then he did the same to me. We got naked and masturbated each other, then I got on top of him and we 69d for a few minutes. I got nervous about doing all this and we stopped. But we did play again a couple more times before I was discharged. The best was when we were both reading sex books and he leaned into me between my legs which were spread. He started rubbing my cock through my jeans and I rubbed his with my foot. Next thing we were naked in bed and he jacked me off real hard into his mouth. After him I didn't do anything until years later with a married friend of mine. His wife watched us suck each other. They moved away and I haven't done anything since, which is sad because I really miss playing with and sucking cock. I have looked for the first guy I mentioned online, but haven't been able to locate him :(

[ErosUrge]

When I was 10 years old, my mother worked at a child care center and would sometimes take me there since there was no one at home to care for me. So naturally, I made some friendships with some of the kids that were there. There was a boy my age whose mother also worked there and we became friends. He had the most intense blue eyes. This care center would close at I believe 10pm on weeknights and at midnight on weekends. It was on a military base. When it was time for bed, we all were supposed to go to sleep of course and if not, then to remain quiet. This boy who had become my friend there had his cot right next to mine. We asked for that since we'd become friends and were allowed to be next to each other. When the lights went out, he and I would fondle each other until our cocks were hard. Though that might seem like no big deal, when you're 10 years old, it's an awesome experience. We never got caught and it was always a thrill.

When I was 24 years old, I was working in a retail store selling music. These 2 guys walk in and I recognized one immediately. It happened to be the guy who was the boy I was friends with at the care center when we were kids. There was no way to mistake those eyes or his face which after all these years was very boyish looking (still is). I reminded him and he responded instantly saying that he thought he recognized my face as he was walking in. He introduced me to the friend he was with who was also handsome. My friend was in his Air Force uniform...we chatted briefly and he went on his way shopping and I went on working.

Later that afternoon, I was told there was a phone call for me. I went to the phone and when I said hello, a voice came back saying, "Hey fella, I'd really like to wrap my tongue and mouth around that cock of yours"....I was shocked but absolutely curious. So I asked, "Who is this?" ...he laughed and told me...and I was a bit nervous but at the same time wondering. He then said, "I am serious and would like to invite you over sometime soon" I said yes and took his phone number and gave him mine.

Just a few days later, we talked again and agreed to get together. I had a girlfriend at the time who was well aware I was bi and had no problem with it. She drove me over to their apartment to be with them. Yes, the guy he was with was his significant other. We spent the next 2 hours having sex. It was all oral but we loved it except as we reached orgasm and finished with handjobs....they both unloaded all over my belly and I did at the same time which was a major turn on. It was a very rewarding experience for all of us. When my girlfriend came to pick me up, she asked, "How was it?" smiling as I told her of my enjoyment. We got together several times after that.

To finish...to this day, he and I have remained friends and are still sexual with one another. I was just over his place a week ago enjoying him and the sex is always great.

[ExSailor]

She's my partner/wife. We met in the late 60s when we were in college and living in NYC and have been together on and off since.

[Realist]

Great story, Eros! Gave me a deep nostalgic feeling!

Unlike you, I've lost contact with most of my old male lovers and FWBs. Wish I'd been more diligent in keeping in touch with the really special ones.

Good for you, for agreeing to go see him!