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cornholejoe
Jan 17, 2013, 12:43 PM
have anyone ever tried any bsm

darkeyes
Jan 17, 2013, 1:02 PM
have anyone ever tried any bsm
Yep.. had 17 lessons wiv them.. they didn't exactly teach me to drive.. but they did teach me properly:impleased... cost me an arm an a leg.. no it didn't.. I lie.. me dad paid!!!! Cost 'im a bomb!!!:impleased

http://www.bsm.co.uk (http://www.bsm.co.uk/offers)

they not cheap btw... just as well me dad paid.. tee hee

cornholejoe
Jan 17, 2013, 4:33 PM
maybe i should had bondage and dom

fredtyg
Jan 17, 2013, 5:11 PM
Yeah. You should have referred to it as BDSM.

I've never really considered that a fetish of mine but I have been willing to go along with a little of it just to satisfly who I was with. Two instances come to mind: One, I'm glad it never ended up happening...maybe. The second wasn't exactly a pleasant experience.

The first was a girlfriend I had in the early 80s. She was pretty aggressive in bed. One time after we were done we were talking and she mentioned she'd always wanted to handcuff a guy for sex but had never found any guy willing to go along with it. I told her I'd be more than happy to let her handcuff me.

She seemed really appreciative of that, as if she was finally going to carry out a long dreamed fantasy. I ended up being turned on by the thought of it, too. Mostly because I felt she'd really get off on it. It never happened, though, as her behavior later made me think it wasn't a good idea.

I was at her house one day. She had a vicious dog and let him in the house. The dog started snarling and barking at me. I got scared, and once you lose it with a dog, you've lost it. I wasn't making any noise, other than to tell her to please take the dog back outside. She noticed I was real nervous and seemed to enjoy that. She had the dog on a leash and started taunting me with it, bring it closer and closer to me saying "Does that scare you? Huh? Huh?".

She finally took the dog outside and that was a big part in me deciding I would never let her chain me up. With the pleasure she seemed to get by seeing me scared of her dog, who knows what she might have done if she had me handcuffed. I ended up dumping her not long after that. Shame, since the way I first imagined our bondage encounter seemed pretty hot.

The second was few years ago. I'd advertised in the Craigslist M2M ads as a submissive bottom. I hadn't meant submissive as meant in BDSM, so much. I just meant I preferred to let the other guy take charge and I was a bottom.

A guy responds and I end up at his apartment. As soon as I enter the door he starts his Dom routine, ordering out of my clothes and being real demanding. Then I realized he was thinking of the encounter as a BDSM type thing and I was his Sub. That was ok. Hey, I'm here to please!

He was wearing a jock strap and insisted I use my teeth to remove the jock strap. I couldn't suck on him until I did that. If I tried to use my hands he'd slap me. Not real hard, but a good slap.

That went on for a while with him being all stern and saying I didn't know what I was doing. He ended up putting my wrists in shackles for "punishment". I still couldn't get his jock strap off.

Finally, after God knows how long, the guy relents and takes his jock off for me. He lets me suck on his cock, but slaps me and keeps telling me I'm doing it wrong.

I was hoping he'd finally just let me suck on him long enough so he could dump his load in me but he insisted I wasn't doing it right. After about 45 minutes he told me I wasn't good enough, said it was over and I'd better just leave.

I put my clothes on and he dropped his Dom thing and we just chatted for a while without a problem. He got downright friendly, in fact. I finally left wondering why he wouldn't just let me finish him off after the BDSM stuff was over. Not gonna do that again, at least with him. Almost scary.

cornholejoe
Jan 17, 2013, 6:29 PM
i have done it a few times and just wonder if any one else had on here

darkeyes
Jan 18, 2013, 7:57 AM
maybe i should had bondage and dom
Knew wotya meant Joe.. forgive me me warped sense of humour... just cudnt resist...:kiss:

cornholejoe
Jan 18, 2013, 5:40 PM
all in fun dark eyes