dseven
Jan 10, 2013, 8:26 AM
Hi everybody! I hope everybody is okay and happy n.n
So, today is my birthday, I'm turning 22 and my girlfriend and I wanted to engage in some birthday sex.
The problem is that since our first anniversary, which was incidently 5 days ago, I've been having some problems.
I feel like my libido has been significantly lowered, even though I want to have sex with my girlfriend and I get erections like before when I'm with her (which is practically all the time), when I'm about to penetrate her, I lose my erection, the funny thing is that a few minutes later I get it again. Since this was kinda sudden and acompanied with some other physical symptoms, I went to the doctor. She (the doctor) made me do a blood test and a chest x-ray, and I checked out fine. She said that what I'm experiencing are physical manifestations of a stressful situation.
I want to say that my girlfriend was very supportive through all this and she keeps saying that even though she would miss sex between us (which is incredible), she loves me and she knows that our relationship is far beyond just sex, so she'll wait for me as long as it takes.
The problem is that the first thing that goes through my head when something like this happens, is that I'm turning gay, I know it's an irrational thought since I'm still very turned on by her and I still love her with all my heart (and plus my libido towards guys has also been lowered) , but I can't shake the feeling and it's not helping.
I know it will probably in time resolve by itself but patience is not one of my virtues so I'm in need of your experience.
Thanks, and hugs.
Alex/Dseven.
So, today is my birthday, I'm turning 22 and my girlfriend and I wanted to engage in some birthday sex.
The problem is that since our first anniversary, which was incidently 5 days ago, I've been having some problems.
I feel like my libido has been significantly lowered, even though I want to have sex with my girlfriend and I get erections like before when I'm with her (which is practically all the time), when I'm about to penetrate her, I lose my erection, the funny thing is that a few minutes later I get it again. Since this was kinda sudden and acompanied with some other physical symptoms, I went to the doctor. She (the doctor) made me do a blood test and a chest x-ray, and I checked out fine. She said that what I'm experiencing are physical manifestations of a stressful situation.
I want to say that my girlfriend was very supportive through all this and she keeps saying that even though she would miss sex between us (which is incredible), she loves me and she knows that our relationship is far beyond just sex, so she'll wait for me as long as it takes.
The problem is that the first thing that goes through my head when something like this happens, is that I'm turning gay, I know it's an irrational thought since I'm still very turned on by her and I still love her with all my heart (and plus my libido towards guys has also been lowered) , but I can't shake the feeling and it's not helping.
I know it will probably in time resolve by itself but patience is not one of my virtues so I'm in need of your experience.
Thanks, and hugs.
Alex/Dseven.