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tenni
Jan 5, 2013, 10:55 AM
In one of the other threads an article was posted and within the article there were several statements that I found curious.

"Some women believe that bisexual behaviour in men threatens the institution of marriage".

This is interesting from the perspective that it omits bisexual behaviour in women threatening the institution of marriage?

The article also stated that some men(hetero?) feel threatened by bisexual men because deep down they fear that they may be seduced by bisexual men. This suggests that deep down they want to have sex with other men but are afraid. These men fear that they won't be able to resist. They will be turned on and give in and do something that they will regret.

Bisexual men=bad seems to be the premise of both statements.

fredtyg
Jan 5, 2013, 11:01 AM
Probably true, at least to some extent.

It's been said that those guys that rant against homosexuality the most are often at least homo- curious themselves.

bisocialnudist
Jan 5, 2013, 11:23 AM
It may destroy the homophobic narrow minded marriage that some / most people believe a marriage should look like but I know a number of wonderful mixed orientation marriages and they are just as much an institution of marriage as any other. Bisexuals can make great husbands and wives . In many cases they are even better .

The problem is there are not enough of us showing off our fabulous marriages. Once people see with their own eyes their neighbors,friends and relatives with a happy marriage that includes bisexuals they will start to let go of these stereotypes. Irrational fears such as the whole we recruit straight guys is the rubish that comes from not knowing us on a personal level. They need to come over to our house for dinner , then they will know us.

Mark

darkeyes
Jan 5, 2013, 11:25 AM
Not in the least... it may threaten individual marriages for one reason or t'other just as heterosexual or homosexual behaviour does.. but not the institution itself...

Malarky
Jan 5, 2013, 4:38 PM
Several men have told me (while under the influence of liquid courage/alcohol) that they are afraid of liking what we could do together.

It is strange, but guys always act so differently when together in groups. But once you get them by themselves, it gets more emotional and sexual ^^

gen11
Jan 5, 2013, 5:26 PM
What threatens the institution of marriage is a crumbling culture that equates civil unions with marriage, an institution whose primary purpose is the conception, birthing, and raising of children to young adulthood.

void()
Jan 5, 2013, 8:38 PM
What threatens the institution of marriage is a crumbling culture that equates civil unions with marriage, an institution whose primary purpose is the conception, birthing, and raising of children to young adulthood.

Okay, before I leap I'll ask, which is for producing kids, civil unions
or marriage?

My wife and I were married via a civil service, thanks. We married in a
church out of tradition, her sister had been married there ,the judge
did not mention any deity. We had no desire to involve religion.

She's Pagani, I am atheist to spiritual satanist , an no not the
Christian idea of Satan either. Religion was not what we sought but
unity out of love. Same as married to us and valid as such where we
married.