Ideas for interaction with my Bi fiance.

[camomommy86]

Well here it goes. Me and my fiance had a long talk about his Bisexual side. And i have reassured him that i am ok with it. And that he does not have to hide it or change. We have set boundaries of he is only allowed to chat and send pics and what not with men. As well as he is not allowed to do so with any of our friends. He is kind of a quiet shy person when it comes to sex. So i am trying to find ways and ideas for me to be able to step into his bisexual side with him. Provided we have 2 children that are young 2 and 4. So it will not be a every day thing. but ideas for me to do for him and to bring up to him to try with me.

[tenni]

Well good for you if you have sat down and BOTH agreed that you are happy with him chatting and sending pics etc. with men. He is not to do this with any of your joint friends. Those are the rules/guidelines that you have both agreed to and are comfortable?

Remember that it is two ways. You both agree. What I have heard on this site is that things do change over time. Keep the communication open and on going. He or you may find your rules no longer working and may need to renegotiate the rules. It is probably good to go over them annually just to make sure that you are both comfortable and happy with these boundaries.

If he is shy he may be uncomfortable discussing what he would like to enjoy. Have you considered watching bi porn with him and pointing out what you like?...asking him what he likes in the video? Even if it only stays a fantasy, it may help you understand each other clearer.

Good luck in being happy together.

[SwtLstyBi]

Do you play with toys? Using a dildo on your man can be a great way to interact, whether its by hand or an actual strap-on.

[camomommy86]

We have both decided on the boundaries as of right now. But not to say that they may change down the road as either one of us may open up to other things that may be accepted. But for now it is a good Start. He has been a little more open with talking about his sexual feelings since he knows i am accepting to it. But he is not one to say things that he may want to try or would be willing to try. I am not sure how he feels on the penetrating part of it. As far as him liking to have it done. or if he is just more of giving head to other men or what not. That is why i am trying to think of things to bring up and suggest to him. That we may be able to try since for right now i do not want him to be physical with any one else. Not to say i wont change my mind down the road. But for now i would like to try and keep him satisfied between me and him other then the chatting text and pics. So any good ideas that i can bring up to him and suggest would be great.

[jdfreckle]

I suggest writing an erotic story together. It's safe, and it allows both of you to explore your fantasies gradually.

[badbear]

story telling is good. strap ons can be fun.? some light anal play to start is a good place. but learn about it first. but you could tell him to cleam up the mess he made down there. look wife no hands. thats always been good for me. I do wish you a happy sex life.