Any Ideas????

[hardrockhillbilly]

Due to my situation, I cant get away to a bar or a gathering place to meet guys, likeminded guys who are the type you wouldnt expect like myself. I have looked the internet over and over again and cant seem to find anywhere to look there either. I am not going to put in a credit card number to join a site thats for sure..., does anyone have anywhere they go to look for someone to well you know....somebody looking for the same thing Im looking for....any ideas would be great.....and appreciated...

[Gearbox]

Well there's here.:tongue:
Or lots of free hookup sites like Gaydar, Dudesnude, Manhunt, Squirt, Plenty Of Fish, Fabguys, Fuckbook etc.
Since your already here though, try searching the hot totty profiles in your area. I'm sure they're not ALL here to just twiddle their thumbs.;)

[Realist]

Hardrock, I met my GF here in 2008, while hoping to find a male lover! (I know, sometimes I really didn't know what I wanted!) Best relationship of my life!

I also met a great couple, with a gay husband and straight wife.......they're members here, too.

There's plenty of space to fill out a decent profile, here...write what you're looking for and see what happens.

A friend met a couple of great companions on Plenty of Fish. They were exactly what he was looking for. It's free, too.

[DiamondDog]

What is your situation and why can't you go out to bars or other places where bisexual and gay men go? I would go to places like that before looking online since IME the internet has been full of game players, crazy people, and people who will talk about how much they want to meet or date you but then in reality they don't want this at all. I am not from AL but I did a simple search online and I found all sort of gay/LGBT bars and places in your state even in your area. Get out and go to them. Also try going to social, discussion, or outreach groups for LGBT people in your state or area or get into volunteering at them or go to an LGBT pride event just to meet people. There's even a men's only campground in your state but unless you're into outdoor bath houses I wouldn't go there since I have no interest in casual sex, or maybe that is what you are looking for?

[welickit]

You decided to come here, why not promote this site to whom ever you make contact with or if you post an ad mention you are a member here? If enough people suggest this site it will grow and benefit everyone.

I can relate to you not wanting to enter credit card information, but I can tell you that the company Drew uses here is both safe and billing is very non telling on your statement if you need to hide that fact.

[hardrockhillbilly]

This is my getaway time coming here....my wife is very not into anything not ordinary. She is very plain. Anything like this just freaks her out. Her sister is a lesbian with a live in girlfriend, and her other sisters both have tried both ways. Talking to them about it made me finally break down and let them in my little bitty corner of the closet. My wife would die if she knew anything about my past in that little corner of the closet. As would so many other people I know. All my buddies are very homophobic and lets just say my fishing and hunting buddies wouldnt be my fishing and hunting buddies anymore. I've looked on here and there arent many very close to me...I do like the site, and would invite all my friends here if I could but theres no way...

[welickit]

You didn't mention being married in your original post. Why would you get married and not be open and honest with your wife? If you can tell her sisters they have probably told her or hinted strongly about it. If they haven't............why not get one of them to suggest to her that you might be bisexual and get the reply from the sister? If the other sisters are that open you might get a pleasant awakening. If you offer up excuses then you are stuck with what you have and who you are. Go for broke, life is a gamble anyway.

[hardrockhillbilly]

No way. She definantly wouldnt understand. She only deals with her sisters because they are her sisters. If I were to come out and tell her, may as well be signing this little marriage away. I dont want that. So Im not gonna concern her with it. Her sisters know how she is and wouldnt even think about speaking to her about it because they know as well how shed handle it....one of them things....

[welickit]

Sooner or later she is going to find out. You are posting on a site that sets not only cookies but LSO files that track you. You are to cheap to join a site to find what you want. You seem to want to invest nothing and get everything in return. Take my word, she will find out sooner or later. If you don't want to sign your little marriage away then live up to the vows you took.

[hardrockhillbilly]

Ok thanks for the tip....I thought I could find a couple of likeminded folks on here....its obvious that there are none...I didnt sign in or register to get a lecture on how to live my life.....

[DiamondDog]

Sooner or later she is going to find out. You are posting on a site that sets not only cookies but LSO files that track you. Privacy is an illusion. But it's been this way for decades, and it's still like this today.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Dont let a couple of people make up your mind For you. Not everyone is close minded. If you feel you have to go this route, then its Your path and n o one can tell you what to do with it. We can suggest, what yhou do with the info is up to you, Hon.
Also try FetLife.com. Go into a couple of the Bi groups and place an ad. Type in Bi in Alabama and see what all comes up. Say Exactly what you're seeking and go from there.
Good luck.
Cat

[welickit]

You asked the question so be prepared for a variety of answers. You may not like the reply and may not agree with it but you did ask. Accept what you will and reject all else.