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Brian
Jun 24, 2006, 11:15 AM
By Jen Bowers

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/images/misc/miscstuff/author16.jpgIs there anyone out there who hasn’t fantasized about a threesome? Anyone at all? Didn’t think so. It’s the most popular sexual fantasy out there, and for good reason. Sex is great, and adding another person to the fun is like pouring hot sauce on your food. More flavor in every bite. As bisexuals, we experience sex with men and women, so what better way is there to revel in your bisexuality than in a roll in the hay with one of each?

When we dream about our ultimate sexual experience, we picture an ebb and flow, a give and take; an easy, graceful act with seamless transitions from one position to the next. All we have to do is gaze into the other person’s eyes, and we’ll know exactly what to do. Having sex is easy, right? Think again. If you think sexual maneuvering between two people can be complicated, adding a third person into the mix can be downright difficult. You’ve got some planning to do. Not only do you have to wonder who to include in your sex play, but now the question is How?

Many threesomes start out with a couple looking for a third person. In the straight world, it’s often two women and one man, as many het guys are uncomfortable with another erection in the room. Luckily, as bisexuals, we’ve got a whole world of choice just waiting for us. Will it be two guys and a gal? Will it be a homogeneous group? Who will be doing whom? Consider the guidelines outlined below and you’ll be well on your way to a pile of fun.

COMMUNICATE: It’s not the most exciting instruction ever, but it’s essential to having a sexual encounter that’s satisfying for everyone involved, and can prevent uncomfortable moments after fulfilling the passion. It doesn’t matter when you talk about these things, but be sure to cover all the bases. Talking about your desires, expectations and potential triggers is vital to making sure that no one’s feelings are hurt, that you have a safe and healthy time, and, above all, talking about it increases your chances of getting to do it again!

If you’re a couple searching for a third person, you have to be very aware of power dynamics. Couples are used to one another, and are aware of what pleases the other person. Bringing a third person into your bed can be intimidating for the newbie in the group.You’ve probably got all kinds of silent communication that the third person won’t be aware of, routines that you follow or body language that expresses arousal or discomfort and this can tip the power balance in your favor. Encounters between three single people can be less complicated, emotionally, but still require each participant to disclose vital information about themselves.

Things to discuss before you take off your clothes:


Exactly what will be involved? Who is comfortable doing what, and to whom? What are your turn ons and turn offs? Do you love giving head? Do you hate having your anus touched? Are you comfortable being spanked? Sex means lots of things to many different people, don’t make assumptions about what people consider to be sex acts, or about what they’re willing to do. Who will be penetrated, if anyone? Will there be toys? Will you be at someone’s home, or will you choose the more anonymous hotel room?

What kinds of safety measures will be taken? Will you have code words, similar to engaging in S/M play? Will friends know where you are?

Safe sex is important here. Remember that condoms need to be changed every time the partner changes. This goes for toys and penises. Will you use dental dams? Who’s bringing the lube? Even couples who are fluid-bonded (those who no longer use barrier methods of protection) need to use condoms, gloves or dams with a new partner. It’s best to be prepared for these things. Nothing is less sexy than having to run out to the drugstore in the middle of things.

GET GOING
Okay, all the talking is over, and the fun can begin. But now you’re sitting around looking at one another like dorks. What should you do to kick things off? The same thing you would do with any other partner: watch some porn, give each other massages, have a pillow fight, hang out in a hot tub, talk dirty to one another, whatever you want. Just pick something that you all agree is sexy.

Threesomes can involve some serious gymnastics, if you like, or they can be pretty meat and potatoes. With a variety of breasts, hips, butts, cocks and mouths it can be difficult to decide where to start. Here are some suggestions:

The Voyeur: One person refrains entirely from sexual activity and just watches. They might make comments or masturbate, but they don’t actually touch the other two people involved. This can be a great way to integrate a third person into your play without the emotional complications of physical contact. It’s also a good way to test yourself to see if you’re committed to a triad. The voyeur can also take a leadership role, telling the other two people what to do. Don’t think that the person who is watching is missing out on the fun. It’s like directing your own porno flick, only better.

Tag Team: One person can lay, sit, or stand and the other two participants can do whatever they like. It works nicely if you divide the receiving partner in half, with one person taking the chest, head and torso, and the third person taking the legs, feet and groin. This is a great way to start a threesome, and is particularly fun when everyone takes turns being satisfied by two people at once. Lick, suck, stroke, caress, or nibble on whatever shows up in your vicinity. Two mouths on one body can produce an awful lot of pleasure; this can make for some pretty mind blowing orgasms. What could be more enjoyable than having two people fulfill your every erotic wish, at once? Just lie back and relax…if you can!

Two People on Top: A guy, or girl with a strap-on lays face up with one person straddling their hips and the other person sits astride their face. The two people on top can face each other and kiss or fondle each other. Another possibility is that they both face the same way, which can allow for penetration with toys or fingers or anal play. The person on the bottom is going down on one person, and penetrating another. The top two players are both getting off at once. One small warning: The person who is giving head and fucking the second person may not provide the best oral sex ever. They may be a little distracted. Having a vibrator on hand can fix that problem.

Doggy Style: This is a favorite of many seasoned swingers. One person, A, lays on their back and a second person, B, crouches between their legs. Person B can go down on person A, while Person C can play with person B doggy style. Again, we’ve got the combination of oral sex and penetration, or finger fucking. As a bonus, doggy style is also the best position to hit someone’s g-spot. This is a great way for two girls and a guy to all get involved at the same time. It also works well for three girls and a strap-on. It’s also a possibility for three guys at once, if the middle person is into anal penetration. For any group of three, it’s a great way for the middle person to get spanked.

Doggy Style Variations: One Person lays down, and is straddled by another person who is facing forward. The person facing forward can provide oral sex or a hand job to another person standing in front of them. While this sounds complicated and technical, it’s pretty simple to execute. Another possibility is for one person to sit on the first person’s lap and to pleasure the third person who is standing in front of them. This works best if the person standing is a guy. A technical point: it’s easier to give head to a guy who is standing than it is to effectively eat pussy from this angle.

Oral Sex Triangle: This one is pretty self-explanatory. It’s like that team building game you can play where each person lays with their head on another person’s stomach and tries not to laugh. Except for the Triangle we’re talking about you lay face down in someone’s crotch, instead of face up. It’s like a sixty-nine, only for three people, not two.


If you’re looking for more inspiration, watch some good porn, peruse the Kama Sutra, or make a visit to your local sex store. Or you could just lay in a big naked heap and see what happens. If you foresee lots of threesomes in your future, you may want to invest in a sling or swing, or if you have a very private backyard, a hammock. Having someone suspended in mid-air gives easy access for two people to genitals and chests and mouths. It takes a lot of the acrobatics out of fitting three people on a bed or couch. Above all, use your imagination. If it feels good, repeat it! If you’re lucky, the combined erotic imagination of several people will create all kinds of new experiences for you.

Before you set off on a world of adventure, there’s just one last word about communication. Don’t forget to debrief afterwards. Having sex with more than one person at once can be an emotionally powerful experience. Be sure to check in with your playmates to make sure that everyone feels secure and happy afterward. You can do it in the shower right after, over email the next day or on the telephone. Let everyone know you appreciated their openness and are committed to their happiness. If someone has just fulfilled a lifelong erotic fantasy of yours, it’s only polite to say thank you.

(c) Copryight 2006 Jen Bowers

Jen Bowers is the Editrix and publisher of SMUT Magazine - Pretty Much What It Sounds Like. SMUT (http://www.showmethesmut.com/) is a polysexual compilation of erotica, photography, articles and columns designed to enervate, titillate and activate the sex positive community. Queer, straight, bi, trans, SMUT has it all. Jen Bowers has previously worked with Planned Parenthood and as a sex educator at fine queer friendly, women-focused sex stores.

Flounder1967
Jun 24, 2006, 11:47 AM
Wow that really helped. As bi-husband with a strsight wife this giver both of us some key info. the article is almost a self help in learning what to do and how to do anything. A very bid thank you to Jen for writing the aritcal and Drew for featuring here on this site.

:flag3:

Thank you

Michelle401966
Jun 24, 2006, 12:46 PM
I can say that it didn't work for me. When I was married I wanted to have a threesome with hubby and a girlfriend. Well more then once I tryed it with hubby. But it was always with another women. He was straight and jealous of me being with another man, and said no to the experience. So before the marriage was ended I put a stop to threesomes. It was ok to a point. But you can only give some much attention to a person at a time, which means someone has to be left out at some point. So for those that had a great time good for me. Wish I could say the same. Have a great day everyone.

arana
Jun 24, 2006, 2:57 PM
I can say that it didn't work for me. When I was married I wanted to have a threesome with hubby and a girlfriend. Well more then once I tryed it with hubby. But it was always with another women. He was straight and jealous of me being with another man, and said no to the experience. So before the marriage was ended I put a stop to threesomes. It was ok to a point. But you can only give some much attention to a person at a time, which means someone has to be left out at some point. So for those that had a great time good for me. Wish I could say the same. Have a great day everyone.
I'm so sorry your experiences weren't all that they could have been (((Michelle))) but I can see how easily things could end up like you described. With more than one partner you have to deal with the communication issues, jealousy of one or more parties involved, and you have to find just the right 3rd person who you can trust to be a part of your sexual relationship but not damage it with their own agendas.

Thank you for the article Jen, it was very informative.

DÆMØN
Jun 24, 2006, 5:51 PM
Been there, done that, can't get enough lmao! I just adores threesies... but gosh thems so rare for a "single" dude unless specifically invited. I'd love a few more MFM or FMF even MMM romps in my life too.

candor05
Jun 24, 2006, 7:52 PM
As a regular male who has experienced both mmf and mff sex, I can say absolutely that mmf is more enjoyable. I don't have impulses to play with guys one on one, but if a female is involved, I go crazy for the play!

I confirmed this recently, when I met a married couple at a Toronto conference.

We had lunch together on the first conference day, then had drinks afterward. We clicked so quickly that it wasn't long before both her husband and I were rubbing our hands up and down her open thighs and pussy under the table. She wore no panties, with sheer natural nylons and white garters. She was mature, striking at 48, and he was a well groomed and relatively fit 50. And wow, could she still ever get wet! By the time we left the lounge to go back to their hotel room, she had left a rather large wet sticky spot on the seat!

Upon entering their room and pouring drinks, she immediately lay back on the bed and spread her legs wide for us to see, while she played with herself; penetrating her blonde pussy with a nicely large black dildo. We sat and watched her, sipping our drinks as our dicks got ever harder. He started stroking me through my pants, while I told him how I love the sight of her juices coating the black plastic cock. He told me he wants to suck my cock with her while i licked her pussy. The logistics of this were not foreign to me...I'd done this before and love the position.

Soon enough, I was on my back, while she was doggy style over my face, sucking my cock. Her hubby joined her between my legs, and they went to town on my cock. The both of them sucking, or her on my balls while he took my deep was incredible while i licked and got my face soaked on her pussy. Now this is a position that should be mentioned in the above article!

Or, another favorite: We are 69, her on top sucking my cock while I lick her pussy from underneath, while he comes into her from behind. My tongue on her clit while he enters her fully and deeply. I don't know what it is, but I just love the sight of a pulsing, wet and hard cock slowly sliding in and out of a soaking pussy...the sound, the scent and the taste of both is such an incredible turn-on!

One couple I had a longterm committed relationship with (meaning also: no condoms) just loved the sharing of my cum. He delighted in licking her pussy immediately after I had filled her and pulled out, or deeply french kissing her while I came straight into her mouth, my cum hitting both their tongues.

The first time I tasted his cum was when he fucked her doggy style while she and me were down on each other doggy style.

Let me remind you that this was a mature, open woman who knew what she wanted and got extremely wet when she got it. I was underneath her, licking her gorgeous pussy and drinking her juices, while she took my aching cock deep in her throat. Her husband then layed his thick cock over my face, just at the opening of her pussy...I reached him with my tongue and licked the head of his cock. I put my tongue on her clit while he very slowly slid the entire length of his cock into her. He was buried to his balls inside her, which is when i slid my tongue into her pussy next to his cock...when he pulled out, my tongue felt the length of him.

I thought this was hot and rich and tasty, but was even more thrilled when he would pull his cock completely out of her, coated and shiny with her juices, and slide into my mouth. The taste of her on him drove me wild! Sucking him for a while, I'd then take him in my hand and guide him back inside her open pussy. We'd repeat the process for a while, until we all agreed we couldn't take it any more. Literally, he'd ask his wife if she wants us to keep fucking her, or if she wanted our cum...

When she said she was ready for us to fill her, he almost immediately shot a huge load of cum into her pussy, while my tongue was inside her next to his spasming cock. He was probably almost spent but still cumming when he pulled out of her pussy with a noisy slick sound and immediately put his soaked cock in my mouth to finish. My first taste of cum! but I wasn't finished. When he had finished, her filled to overflowing pussy was directly over my face, with his cum beginning to drip down...I wanted to 'stop' it, so I put my lips around her pussy. The taste was amazing, and the thickness and quantity of both their mixed juices turned me on so much I started cumming in her mouth with great, convulsive, total-body orgasmic satisfaction like I'd never felt before!

Luckily, he quickly made his way between my legs to share my cock and cum with her. Was absolutely the greatest, watching them share my huge load of thick white cum while i finished eating his from her open pussy.

Wonder if any others have experienced similar?

bigregory
Jun 25, 2006, 1:04 AM
Yes you must always say thank you or better yet send flowers.
Great thread,i can see the years of reserch you did has paid off.
:bibounce: :bipride: :flag4:

ambi53mm
Jun 25, 2006, 7:56 AM
Excelent Article!! and right on target with great insight and advice. I've enjoyed many threesomes since my 20's and had my first bi threesome three years ago next month. Couples seem to work best for us ( bi wife) if both are bi it just adds that little something to the experience called balance that we've come to enjoy. Being sandwiched between two is always served up best if you're in the middle :bigrin:

Ambi :)

NEJack
Jun 25, 2006, 4:02 PM
This is an outstanding article, and includes some positions I have not tried.
I would add dp and dvp to the list. Best position for both is for 1st M to lie on his back, legs over edge of bed, F mounts him and then lays on him, 2nd M then enters doggie style. If dp, take time first to work her opening wider and use lots of lube. If dvp, lube may be necessary. The top cock needs to be very stiff in both situations. In dvp the m's have to coordinate sliding in and out together. After 2 or 3 get togethers the m's can become quite skilled at this.

kickasstrinity2
Jun 25, 2006, 4:27 PM
Thank you for the article....it will help improve my threesome skills in the future.....thanks again ;)

CountryLover
Jun 25, 2006, 4:30 PM
My girlfriend and I have had several threesomes with her husband. We usually do the tagteam setup, it seems to work very well for us.

First we start with her because she's slower than me to orgasm. We trade off kissing, fondling and licking her to her first orgasm, then it's my turn ;) Her hubby is really turned on by my multiple orgasms and ability to squirt, so when I'm ready for a break, he's on the verge and she and I share him orally and give him his choice who he wants to cum with. Then he and I turn back to her and share her, or he goes to pick up the kids from the in-laws, and she and I play separately.

Communication is the key, and careful observance of limits. He's HER husband and I have absolutely NO claim on him beyond the playtime I was invited to by them both.

Now that I'm with my honey, at his request there are no more threesomes with my girlfriend's husband. However, we are looking for *just* the right man for a male companion for him - who will be invited to play with us both, if the chemistry is right.

Some of us are just hardwired monogamous...some of us are not. Knowing yourself, your own limits is a big step to knowing if you can enjoy threesomes/moresomes.

lilme
Jun 26, 2006, 3:07 PM
Being a part of a threesome is a great and fun thing to do. It seems that you know your partner real well, but when you are with the third person the real partner comes out. It is a lot of fun, everybody should do it.

ethernight
Jun 28, 2006, 5:29 PM
I highly recommend Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy by Lori Gammon and Bill Strong. It also has a lot of great information for bisexual women on how to seduce women. (Something we are notoriously bad at.)

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0965071669/

jazz5
Jun 29, 2006, 10:10 AM
As a regular male who has experienced both mmf and mff sex, I can say absolutely that mmf is more enjoyable. I don't have impulses to play with guys one on one, but if a female is involved, I go crazy for the play!

I confirmed this recently, when I met a married couple at a Toronto conference.

We had lunch together on the first conference day, then had drinks afterward. We clicked so quickly that it wasn't long before both her husband and I were rubbing our hands up and down her open thighs and pussy under the table. She wore no panties, with sheer natural nylons and white garters. She was mature, striking at 48, and he was a well groomed and relatively fit 50. And wow, could she still ever get wet! By the time we left the lounge to go back to their hotel room, she had left a rather large wet sticky spot on the seat!

Upon entering their room and pouring drinks, she immediately lay back on the bed and spread her legs wide for us to see, while she played with herself; penetrating her blonde pussy with a nicely large black dildo. We sat and watched her, sipping our drinks as our dicks got ever harder. He started stroking me through my pants, while I told him how I love the sight of her juices coating the black plastic cock. He told me he wants to suck my cock with her while i licked her pussy. The logistics of this were not foreign to me...I'd done this before and love the position.

Soon enough, I was on my back, while she was doggy style over my face, sucking my cock. Her hubby joined her between my legs, and they went to town on my cock. The both of them sucking, or her on my balls while he took my deep was incredible while i licked and got my face soaked on her pussy. Now this is a position that should be mentioned in the above article!

Or, another favorite: We are 69, her on top sucking my cock while I lick her pussy from underneath, while he comes into her from behind. My tongue on her clit while he enters her fully and deeply. I don't know what it is, but I just love the sight of a pulsing, wet and hard cock slowly sliding in and out of a soaking pussy...the sound, the scent and the taste of both is such an incredible turn-on!

One couple I had a longterm committed relationship with (meaning also: no condoms) just loved the sharing of my cum. He delighted in licking her pussy immediately after I had filled her and pulled out, or deeply french kissing her while I came straight into her mouth, my cum hitting both their tongues.

The first time I tasted his cum was when he fucked her doggy style while she and me were down on each other doggy style.

Let me remind you that this was a mature, open woman who knew what she wanted and got extremely wet when she got it. I was underneath her, licking her gorgeous pussy and drinking her juices, while she took my aching cock deep in her throat. Her husband then layed his thick cock over my face, just at the opening of her pussy...I reached him with my tongue and licked the head of his cock. I put my tongue on her clit while he very slowly slid the entire length of his cock into her. He was buried to his balls inside her, which is when i slid my tongue into her pussy next to his cock...when he pulled out, my tongue felt the length of him.

I thought this was hot and rich and tasty, but was even more thrilled when he would pull his cock completely out of her, coated and shiny with her juices, and slide into my mouth. The taste of her on him drove me wild! Sucking him for a while, I'd then take him in my hand and guide him back inside her open pussy. We'd repeat the process for a while, until we all agreed we couldn't take it any more. Literally, he'd ask his wife if she wants us to keep fucking her, or if she wanted our cum...

When she said she was ready for us to fill her, he almost immediately shot a huge load of cum into her pussy, while my tongue was inside her next to his spasming cock. He was probably almost spent but still cumming when he pulled out of her pussy with a noisy slick sound and immediately put his soaked cock in my mouth to finish. My first taste of cum! but I wasn't finished. When he had finished, her filled to overflowing pussy was directly over my face, with his cum beginning to drip down...I wanted to 'stop' it, so I put my lips around her pussy. The taste was amazing, and the thickness and quantity of both their mixed juices turned me on so much I started cumming in her mouth with great, convulsive, total-body orgasmic satisfaction like I'd never felt before!

Luckily, he quickly made his way between my legs to share my cock and cum with her. Was absolutely the greatest, watching them share my huge load of thick white cum while i finished eating his from her open pussy.

Wonder if any others have experienced similar?


I had a similar LTR (no condoms) relationship for over ten years. We (the guys) both were straight (until she got involved) and had no idea she wanted to see her spouse have sex with another male. She loved to share cum with both. He had a 10 incher and I loved 69ing with her as he fucked her. The taste and sights were great. The first time I had a cock and cum in my mouth was from this position. She told her husband to pull out and me to suck him then she wanted me to snowball her. It really was different.

Haven't had any bi-sex since then as I definately would want a no condoms arrangement like that one. LTR MMF relationships seem to be very few and far between. Never had a FFM, could be interesting!

DareMe
Jun 29, 2006, 8:45 PM
If only I could find myself an MF couple now...Need to practice!!! Any volunteers?

Great article.

DM ;)

OralBradley
Jul 3, 2006, 6:00 AM
"I had a similar LTR (no condoms) relationship for over ten years. We (the guys) both were straight (until she got involved) and had no idea she wanted to see her spouse have sex with another male. She loved to share cum with both. He had a 10 incher and I loved 69ing with her as he fucked her. The taste and sights were great. The first time I had a cock and cum in my mouth was from this position. She told her husband to pull out and me to suck him then she wanted me to snowball her. It really was different."

Now there is my most enduring fantasy! We once actively looked for a gay or bisexual man to share our bed, but all we found were str8 guys who wanted to fuck her and ignore me.

Whenever we went to a swing party, I always headed for the group grope for a couple to join while she usually found some woman for herself.

Hardon-Bi69-Ohio
Jul 17, 2006, 7:26 AM
I would like to try a 3 some, some day my self. So far it has been just a 1 way. I know that I would love 3 some.

Hardon-Bi69-Ohio
Jul 17, 2006, 11:41 PM
I believe that a 3 some would be a very interesting thing to try out for a 1st. time & even for would like it & enjoy it as well after the 1st. time.

twodelta
Sep 2, 2006, 3:25 PM
This is a very interesting and thought provoking article. Cat and I have enjoyed several MMF relationships over the past few years and continue to do so. Its very liberating to both of us to be able to share each other. :three:

Doggie_Wood
Sep 14, 2006, 11:31 PM
Very informative - Thanks - BTW, 3 somes, 4somes and moresomes area gas. :tongue:

runwildtonight
Sep 22, 2006, 6:19 AM
Ive been close to having threesome a couple times, once with a straight woman and a gay guy, the gay guy ended up bailing cuz he didnt want to have sex with her although we practiced a bit a few times before he decided (this was while I still consdidered myslef straight) and another time was with 2 females, a girl I was seeing and her lesbian best friend, we started by having a few drinks and I kissed her she kissed her friend , I kissed her frined It progressed, she passed out, me and her frined were so hot at this point we kept going a little bit but called it quit because the girl I was seeing was now asleep and didnt want things to go sour the next day, very unfortunate, but Im sure one day it will happen

:flag3: :three:

trapp
Sep 22, 2006, 4:19 PM
undefinedundefinedundefined :) I would like to say that when we started our exploration into extra-marital sex.....it was awesome and scarey at the same time.....but thanks to our 1st time haveing a mmf 3some with a close male friend of ours...it turned out to be an experience that we had many times over....and since then my wifes bi-side came from within as well as my bi-curiosity.....so in closeing let me say this.....if you and your mate are thinking about 3 somes and or moresomes....make damn sure you both know what it is your delving into. :)

terry727
Oct 31, 2006, 7:28 AM
I would like to congratulate all who have send a reply to this thread, I have had a few 3spmes moresomes but this was when I was a lot younger and do miss them, I see from those here you are all in the staes, well I am in the uk and would so like to see if there are some couples or even 2 females who would invite me along to give them pleasure and give me some also. Terry

sylvstlo
Nov 8, 2006, 3:29 AM
undefinedlove it swwet
If only I could find myself an MF couple now...Need to practice!!! Any volunteers?

Great article.

DM ;)

bisubbie
Nov 27, 2006, 12:26 PM
Something I love is her on her back, my dick in her pussy while he has his cock up my ass. Wonderful position that feels soooo good!!!!

thinman521
Dec 24, 2006, 12:37 AM
By Jen Bowers

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/images/misc/miscstuff/author16.jpgIs there anyone out there who hasn’t fantasized about a threesome? Anyone at all? Didn’t think so. It’s the most popular sexual fantasy out there, and for good reason. Sex is great, and adding another person to the fun is like pouring hot sauce on your food. More flavor in every bite. As bisexuals, we experience sex with men and women, so what better way is there to revel in your bisexuality than in a roll in the hay with one of each?

When we dream about our ultimate sexual experience, we picture an ebb and flow, a give and take; an easy, graceful act with seamless transitions from one position to the next. All we have to do is gaze into the other person’s eyes, and we’ll know exactly what to do. Having sex is easy, right? Think again. If you think sexual maneuvering between two people can be complicated, adding a third person into the mix can be downright difficult. You’ve got some planning to do. Not only do you have to wonder who to include in your sex play, but now the question is How?

Many threesomes start out with a couple looking for a third person. In the straight world, it’s often two women and one man, as many het guys are uncomfortable with another erection in the room. Luckily, as bisexuals, we’ve got a whole world of choice just waiting for us. Will it be two guys and a gal? Will it be a homogeneous group? Who will be doing whom? Consider the guidelines outlined below and you’ll be well on your way to a pile of fun.

COMMUNICATE: It’s not the most exciting instruction ever, but it’s essential to having a sexual encounter that’s satisfying for everyone involved, and can prevent uncomfortable moments after fulfilling the passion. It doesn’t matter when you talk about these things, but be sure to cover all the bases. Talking about your desires, expectations and potential triggers is vital to making sure that no one’s feelings are hurt, that you have a safe and healthy time, and, above all, talking about it increases your chances of getting to do it again!

If you’re a couple searching for a third person, you have to be very aware of power dynamics. Couples are used to one another, and are aware of what pleases the other person. Bringing a third person into your bed can be intimidating for the newbie in the group.You’ve probably got all kinds of silent communication that the third person won’t be aware of, routines that you follow or body language that expresses arousal or discomfort and this can tip the power balance in your favor. Encounters between three single people can be less complicated, emotionally, but still require each participant to disclose vital information about themselves.

Things to discuss before you take off your clothes:


Exactly what will be involved? Who is comfortable doing what, and to whom? What are your turn ons and turn offs? Do you love giving head? Do you hate having your anus touched? Are you comfortable being spanked? Sex means lots of things to many different people, don’t make assumptions about what people consider to be sex acts, or about what they’re willing to do. Who will be penetrated, if anyone? Will there be toys? Will you be at someone’s home, or will you choose the more anonymous hotel room?

What kinds of safety measures will be taken? Will you have code words, similar to engaging in S/M play? Will friends know where you are?

Safe sex is important here. Remember that condoms need to be changed every time the partner changes. This goes for toys and penises. Will you use dental dams? Who’s bringing the lube? Even couples who are fluid-bonded (those who no longer use barrier methods of protection) need to use condoms, gloves or dams with a new partner. It’s best to be prepared for these things. Nothing is less sexy than having to run out to the drugstore in the middle of things.

GET GOING
Okay, all the talking is over, and the fun can begin. But now you’re sitting around looking at one another like dorks. What should you do to kick things off? The same thing you would do with any other partner: watch some porn, give each other massages, have a pillow fight, hang out in a hot tub, talk dirty to one another, whatever you want. Just pick something that you all agree is sexy.

Threesomes can involve some serious gymnastics, if you like, or they can be pretty meat and potatoes. With a variety of breasts, hips, butts, cocks and mouths it can be difficult to decide where to start. Here are some suggestions:

The Voyeur: One person refrains entirely from sexual activity and just watches. They might make comments or masturbate, but they don’t actually touch the other two people involved. This can be a great way to integrate a third person into your play without the emotional complications of physical contact. It’s also a good way to test yourself to see if you’re committed to a triad. The voyeur can also take a leadership role, telling the other two people what to do. Don’t think that the person who is watching is missing out on the fun. It’s like directing your own porno flick, only better.

Tag Team: One person can lay, sit, or stand and the other two participants can do whatever they like. It works nicely if you divide the receiving partner in half, with one person taking the chest, head and torso, and the third person taking the legs, feet and groin. This is a great way to start a threesome, and is particularly fun when everyone takes turns being satisfied by two people at once. Lick, suck, stroke, caress, or nibble on whatever shows up in your vicinity. Two mouths on one body can produce an awful lot of pleasure; this can make for some pretty mind blowing orgasms. What could be more enjoyable than having two people fulfill your every erotic wish, at once? Just lie back and relax…if you can!

Two People on Top: A guy, or girl with a strap-on lays face up with one person straddling their hips and the other person sits astride their face. The two people on top can face each other and kiss or fondle each other. Another possibility is that they both face the same way, which can allow for penetration with toys or fingers or anal play. The person on the bottom is going down on one person, and penetrating another. The top two players are both getting off at once. One small warning: The person who is giving head and fucking the second person may not provide the best oral sex ever. They may be a little distracted. Having a vibrator on hand can fix that problem.

Doggy Style: This is a favorite of many seasoned swingers. One person, A, lays on their back and a second person, B, crouches between their legs. Person B can go down on person A, while Person C can play with person B doggy style. Again, we’ve got the combination of oral sex and penetration, or finger fucking. As a bonus, doggy style is also the best position to hit someone’s g-spot. This is a great way for two girls and a guy to all get involved at the same time. It also works well for three girls and a strap-on. It’s also a possibility for three guys at once, if the middle person is into anal penetration. For any group of three, it’s a great way for the middle person to get spanked.

Doggy Style Variations: One Person lays down, and is straddled by another person who is facing forward. The person facing forward can provide oral sex or a hand job to another person standing in front of them. While this sounds complicated and technical, it’s pretty simple to execute. Another possibility is for one person to sit on the first person’s lap and to pleasure the third person who is standing in front of them. This works best if the person standing is a guy. A technical point: it’s easier to give head to a guy who is standing than it is to effectively eat pussy from this angle.

Oral Sex Triangle: This one is pretty self-explanatory. It’s like that team building game you can play where each person lays with their head on another person’s stomach and tries not to laugh. Except for the Triangle we’re talking about you lay face down in someone’s crotch, instead of face up. It’s like a sixty-nine, only for three people, not two.


If you’re looking for more inspiration, watch some good porn, peruse the Kama Sutra, or make a visit to your local sex store. Or you could just lay in a big naked heap and see what happens. If you foresee lots of threesomes in your future, you may want to invest in a sling or swing, or if you have a very private backyard, a hammock. Having someone suspended in mid-air gives easy access for two people to genitals and chests and mouths. It takes a lot of the acrobatics out of fitting three people on a bed or couch. Above all, use your imagination. If it feels good, repeat it! If you’re lucky, the combined erotic imagination of several people will create all kinds of new experiences for you.

Before you set off on a world of adventure, there’s just one last word about communication. Don’t forget to debrief afterwards. Having sex with more than one person at once can be an emotionally powerful experience. Be sure to check in with your playmates to make sure that everyone feels secure and happy afterward. You can do it in the shower right after, over email the next day or on the telephone. Let everyone know you appreciated their openness and are committed to their happiness. If someone has just fulfilled a lifelong erotic fantasy of yours, it’s only polite to say thank you.

(c) Copryight 2006 Jen Bowers

Jen Bowers is the Editrix and publisher of SMUT Magazine - Pretty Much What It Sounds Like. SMUT (http://www.showmethesmut.com/) is a polysexual compilation of erotica, photography, articles and columns designed to enervate, titillate and activate the sex positive community. Queer, straight, bi, trans, SMUT has it all. Jen Bowers has previously worked with Planned Parenthood and as a sex educator at fine queer friendly, women-focused sex stores.

Thanks this is sooo true . bob in golden TX

Urge1974
Dec 26, 2006, 8:09 PM
Jen...what a great article! I have had 3somes MMF & FFM and I find that being thr third is always easier that being a couple and inviting someone in. It was for me anyway. I have also found at this point that I really prefer one on one (perhaps with someone watching). My only comment here for anyone considering this (especially if you are a couple) is talk, talk, talk. Communication is soooo important in this situation. If you find that 3somes are your thing, have fun!

bi-in-wausau2
Dec 31, 2006, 1:29 AM
You left out another combination - ones with TG's. I've done 3somes MMF, FFM, and TGFM, and the TG one we did twice was the best. The MMF ones were ok, but since I didn't mess with the other guy, it was a bit limited. I can say that if all people don't engage each other, what happens is that if you are the majority, you feel a bit left out at times. So knowing this, I'd really say that all parties need to be open to some level of direct contact with all other people.
it really helps to hang out a bit and talk, and loosen everyone up. its also good if you talk about whats ok *before* you get naked - it avoids ackward moments.

bi-in-wausau2

To_by
Jan 2, 2007, 4:31 AM
Jen Bowers -- This is a terrific article! I really enjoyed the insights you've gained from what seems to be a depth of wisdom.

I love threesomes, especially bisexual threesomes. There's a kind of energy that races around within the loving congress of three people that is pure satiety when everyone is communicating and turned on. :bibounce: Problem is I think there are too few times when the elements necessary to a menage-a-trois can come together. I want more threesome energy in my life.

I've found a partner, a woman who would be very open to our together finding a man to ask to join with us in sexual play. Adding a male lover seems right. The question is: Where does a couple go to find men to seduce, who are bisexual and also good folks? We're thinking of doing a little candle-magic to that end.

wildgal70
Jan 2, 2007, 8:44 PM
Wow, good article. I was reading some of the comments and I agree about everyone getting to know each other well before the party starts. Everyone must know what's ok or not, and understand that (if a couple is involved) the 3rd party does not gain some sort of relationship with either of the couple after sex. This has happened with me. I had a friend once join me and my guy. All was fun and great, but afterwards she began to behave as if she had some sort of say so in our relationship. Not a good thing.
Something else I've experienced has been the breakup of a couple we've swapped with. The guy asked me for a date not long afterward. Not using my best judgment, I agreed. Well, sort of. The 3 of us went out (me, my guy and the other guy) and my guy got so drunk, he passed out, leaving me and the other guy "alone". Long story short, my female friend (the ex g/f) got pissed when I told her. I figured being honest was best. We had a tiff for a while but made up, and now all is well.
Threesomes are fun, but can present some tough situations. I think all possibilities should be thought about before doing it. I'm not into sleeping around, I think finding just one 3rd lover is better than just swinging left and right, but that's up to you.

findingpeace
Jan 3, 2007, 1:57 PM
Thank you for all the information. Wife and I had our first threesome recently and this article really helped us to prepare. With prep, it turned out way more awesome than either of us could have imagined. Thank you.

hotmale28
Jan 5, 2007, 11:26 PM
Hi all
Ive done several 3 ways in varying combinations mostly with bisexuals male and female.I love to watch to females make love in their very passinate way.I am a big strong man myself but can be very gentle and passionate.I believe in sensual foreplay with both females and males alike.I wil very tenderly caress my male lover as if he were a female.I like to start with sensual kissing and tonguing.Also i will plant soft sensual kisses and carress my man from head to toe.I will plant soft kisses on his neck as i softly fondle his penis and testicles.i




believe in sensually kissing and tonguing his penis until i lose contol and have to have him deep in my mouth.i love the feel of his warm cum as he shoots in my hungry mouth

fishfry29
Jan 26, 2007, 9:35 AM
We were swingers in the early 80s before condoms were necessary and being a cum freak, there were many times when I would penetrate my wife as she was giving head, she wanting to be serviced by 2 men, and lick her clean after her partner came inside her. A real treat for me was under the right circumstances, she would share her partners cum orally with me after giving a blow job. The other wife was in the room so this wouldent be a "real" MMF. Our first real MMf came when she invited a mutual friend. She broke the ice by kissing, hugging, then playing with him, and the first act was him mounting her as I watched and massaged them both, held her hand and kissed her face. When he came in her, I greedly cleaned her with my tongue , not stopping till she orgasmed as he rested. After resting and he ready again, she performed oral on him lieing on her back with him kneeling, and I penetrating her pussy with my penis, I was in a semi kneeling position and once in her, she closed her legs to trap me, this was a slow, long rythmantic intercourse, with me holding on to our partner for support, he is straight, but didnt seem to mind. I was able to watch her performing oral so closely and since I hadent cum yet, went into spasms, squeesing and holding him,,this set him off in my wife as she came too...a mutual 3 way cum, the best part was as she opened her mouth to show me his cum and offered it to me in a kiss as I was still squirting in her. Again, a long rest and a few drinks, when my wife and I mutually went down on him...tradeing his penis back and forth..this was the first time we had done this and she told me later how suprised and pleased she was. He came in my mouth and I happily swallowed. when we got home, she and I remminissed the evening and made love again before drifting into a exausted sleep. Our first experence was the best we ever had, probably because it was with a trusted friend of hers, and he was receptive to my bisexually. We no longer swing, as she has no interest in sex any longer, I meet men without her knowledge but I love the memories.

mikebridges
Mar 5, 2007, 8:10 AM
Good article. My wife and I had a long term relationship with a single neighbor. It began as straight threesomes, where he and I would take turns fucking her. Eventually, though, I discovered that I really liked sucking his dick, and swallowing his cum. When we were all three together, he'd always fuck her while I watched. Then I'd fuck her. Afterwards, she'd masturbate while I went down on him.

He and I often met alone for suck sessions as well. My wife approved, and his gf did too. We'd just meet in the dark out on our front porch usually, and I'd unzip him and throat his fat cock.

Eventually, he married and moved away. And that's the end of that. I haven't sucked a dick since.

ILovepussyandcock
Mar 6, 2007, 2:11 PM
As a regular male who has experienced both mmf and mff sex, I can say absolutely that mmf is more enjoyable. I don't have impulses to play with guys one on one, but if a female is involved, I go crazy for the play!

I confirmed this recently, when I met a married couple at a Toronto conference.

We had lunch together on the first conference day, then had drinks afterward. We clicked so quickly that it wasn't long before both her husband and I were rubbing our hands up and down her open thighs and pussy under the table. She wore no panties, with sheer natural nylons and white garters. She was mature, striking at 48, and he was a well groomed and relatively fit 50. And wow, could she still ever get wet! By the time we left the lounge to go back to their hotel room, she had left a rather large wet sticky spot on the seat!

Upon entering their room and pouring drinks, she immediately lay back on the bed and spread her legs wide for us to see, while she played with herself; penetrating her blonde pussy with a nicely large black dildo. We sat and watched her, sipping our drinks as our dicks got ever harder. He started stroking me through my pants, while I told him how I love the sight of her juices coating the black plastic cock. He told me he wants to suck my cock with her while i licked her pussy. The logistics of this were not foreign to me...I'd done this before and love the position.

Soon enough, I was on my back, while she was doggy style over my face, sucking my cock. Her hubby joined her between my legs, and they went to town on my cock. The both of them sucking, or her on my balls while he took my deep was incredible while i licked and got my face soaked on her pussy. Now this is a position that should be mentioned in the above article!

Or, another favorite: We are 69, her on top sucking my cock while I lick her pussy from underneath, while he comes into her from behind. My tongue on her clit while he enters her fully and deeply. I don't know what it is, but I just love the sight of a pulsing, wet and hard cock slowly sliding in and out of a soaking pussy...the sound, the scent and the taste of both is such an incredible turn-on!

One couple I had a longterm committed relationship with (meaning also: no condoms) just loved the sharing of my cum. He delighted in licking her pussy immediately after I had filled her and pulled out, or deeply french kissing her while I came straight into her mouth, my cum hitting both their tongues.

The first time I tasted his cum was when he fucked her doggy style while she and me were down on each other doggy style.

Let me remind you that this was a mature, open woman who knew what she wanted and got extremely wet when she got it. I was underneath her, licking her gorgeous pussy and drinking her juices, while she took my aching cock deep in her throat. Her husband then layed his thick cock over my face, just at the opening of her pussy...I reached him with my tongue and licked the head of his cock. I put my tongue on her clit while he very slowly slid the entire length of his cock into her. He was buried to his balls inside her, which is when i slid my tongue into her pussy next to his cock...when he pulled out, my tongue felt the length of him.

I thought this was hot and rich and tasty, but was even more thrilled when he would pull his cock completely out of her, coated and shiny with her juices, and slide into my mouth. The taste of her on him drove me wild! Sucking him for a while, I'd then take him in my hand and guide him back inside her open pussy. We'd repeat the process for a while, until we all agreed we couldn't take it any more. Literally, he'd ask his wife if she wants us to keep fucking her, or if she wanted our cum...

When she said she was ready for us to fill her, he almost immediately shot a huge load of cum into her pussy, while my tongue was inside her next to his spasming cock. He was probably almost spent but still cumming when he pulled out of her pussy with a noisy slick sound and immediately put his soaked cock in my mouth to finish. My first taste of cum! but I wasn't finished. When he had finished, her filled to overflowing pussy was directly over my face, with his cum beginning to drip down...I wanted to 'stop' it, so I put my lips around her pussy. The taste was amazing, and the thickness and quantity of both their mixed juices turned me on so much I started cumming in her mouth with great, convulsive, total-body orgasmic satisfaction like I'd never felt before!

Luckily, he quickly made his way between my legs to share my cock and cum with her. Was absolutely the greatest, watching them share my huge load of thick white cum while i finished eating his from her open pussy.

Wonder if any others have experienced similar?

YES, I have done exactly what you describe and absolutely loved every minute of it as did they. You're right the smell and taste of the combined cum juices is unbelievable and I for one can't wait to experience it again and again.

Uneedhands
Mar 6, 2007, 6:50 PM
Reading this is driving me crazy. Good article, and some of the responses too. I was part of a fluid exchanging mfm 3 some for almost a year! We all lived together and we did it almost every night. We did all the things Mentioned in this article, and alot more. I will never be the same after that as I have succesfully destroyed any remnant of "normality" lingering within me at that time. Good Riddence!! It's been a few years now since that happened, and it has never happened again, but thats my fault for not actively persueing it. So here I am. :banghead: :lokai: :drool:

Tommy2020
Mar 7, 2007, 11:05 AM
My current male friend and I are planning a 3-way for this Thursday (tomorrow) afternoon. He has a gay friend who is willing to be involved in it. It has been awhile since I have gotten into one of these. Probably just as much fun as it was back then.
Tommy2020

sheetmetalzippper
Mar 14, 2007, 8:33 PM
im up 4 a threesome with another couple,fantasy of being with another cock to suck turns me on. :three: :three:

wntedlongnwid
Mar 15, 2007, 11:39 PM
My first threesome was special . I was serviceing a house gave estimate for repairs and the wife apeared to be alone asked me if I would like to come to the bedroom for a tip. She was a looker in everyway nice large tits but not saging. slim waist, So off we went to the bedroom as I eat her and played with her tits her hubby came in behind me and played with my balls and said I had to pay for the pussy. I allways was courious about a man giving it to me in the ass anyway. But it hurt more than I expected. she liked watching it while I continued licking that pussy . after he finished she let me screw her and it was great. We met meny times after that and I got used to him and infact started to enjoy it. I loved making it with her. unfortunatly they had a job transfer and I lost my couple. Sure would like to find another ,I can't even find a man to do me. sal

Dakota nudist
Mar 20, 2007, 11:26 AM
:) undefined
Wife is bi,I'm str8. . we've had a 3 sum, fmf, and it was great.
She had her co-worker over,and it started with a long sensual hug. As the night wore on, and we got intox-- we got drunk. The friend took a bubble bath,wife and I got nude and we all stayed nude,til AM.
After her bath,when the 2 ladies started french kissing, playing with each others pussies,and suckin the tits, it was like a dream but it was reality. I let them play all they wanted, but I did get involved. Now, she's admittedly bi,and we're eager to find another lady who feels as she does. I think it's great,she's bi.. seeing her with another lady. ..nude ,or not. .it's ok with me.
That's just our experience,our feeling. You might read this,and say.. "OH,YEAH!" or "GROSS".
If you're a local bi female (in SE South Dakota),or even if you're a few hours driving. .and you said "OH, YEAH!" well then, let's talk.
I'm mrc57107@aol.com

FiveBiFive420
Mar 21, 2007, 6:27 PM
You Missed Doggy Style Variations#2: One Person lays down, and is straddled by another person who is facing backward
The third person has oral access to her (or him) when she or he leans back. IT'S SO COOL!!!!

By Jen Bowers

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/images/misc/miscstuff/author16.jpgIs there anyone out there who hasn’t fantasized about a threesome? Anyone at all? Didn’t think so. It’s the most popular sexual fantasy out there, and for good reason. Sex is great, and adding another person to the fun is like pouring hot sauce on your food. More flavor in every bite. As bisexuals, we experience sex with men and women, so what better way is there to revel in your bisexuality than in a roll in the hay with one of each?

When we dream about our ultimate sexual experience, we picture an ebb and flow, a give and take; an easy, graceful act with seamless transitions from one position to the next. All we have to do is gaze into the other person’s eyes, and we’ll know exactly what to do. Having sex is easy, right? Think again. If you think sexual maneuvering between two people can be complicated, adding a third person into the mix can be downright difficult. You’ve got some planning to do. Not only do you have to wonder who to include in your sex play, but now the question is How?

Many threesomes start out with a couple looking for a third person. In the straight world, it’s often two women and one man, as many het guys are uncomfortable with another erection in the room. Luckily, as bisexuals, we’ve got a whole world of choice just waiting for us. Will it be two guys and a gal? Will it be a homogeneous group? Who will be doing whom? Consider the guidelines outlined below and you’ll be well on your way to a pile of fun.

COMMUNICATE: It’s not the most exciting instruction ever, but it’s essential to having a sexual encounter that’s satisfying for everyone involved, and can prevent uncomfortable moments after fulfilling the passion. It doesn’t matter when you talk about these things, but be sure to cover all the bases. Talking about your desires, expectations and potential triggers is vital to making sure that no one’s feelings are hurt, that you have a safe and healthy time, and, above all, talking about it increases your chances of getting to do it again!

If you’re a couple searching for a third person, you have to be very aware of power dynamics. Couples are used to one another, and are aware of what pleases the other person. Bringing a third person into your bed can be intimidating for the newbie in the group.You’ve probably got all kinds of silent communication that the third person won’t be aware of, routines that you follow or body language that expresses arousal or discomfort and this can tip the power balance in your favor. Encounters between three single people can be less complicated, emotionally, but still require each participant to disclose vital information about themselves.

Things to discuss before you take off your clothes:


Exactly what will be involved? Who is comfortable doing what, and to whom? What are your turn ons and turn offs? Do you love giving head? Do you hate having your anus touched? Are you comfortable being spanked? Sex means lots of things to many different people, don’t make assumptions about what people consider to be sex acts, or about what they’re willing to do. Who will be penetrated, if anyone? Will there be toys? Will you be at someone’s home, or will you choose the more anonymous hotel room?

What kinds of safety measures will be taken? Will you have code words, similar to engaging in S/M play? Will friends know where you are?

Safe sex is important here. Remember that condoms need to be changed every time the partner changes. This goes for toys and penises. Will you use dental dams? Who’s bringing the lube? Even couples who are fluid-bonded (those who no longer use barrier methods of protection) need to use condoms, gloves or dams with a new partner. It’s best to be prepared for these things. Nothing is less sexy than having to run out to the drugstore in the middle of things.

GET GOING
Okay, all the talking is over, and the fun can begin. But now you’re sitting around looking at one another like dorks. What should you do to kick things off? The same thing you would do with any other partner: watch some porn, give each other massages, have a pillow fight, hang out in a hot tub, talk dirty to one another, whatever you want. Just pick something that you all agree is sexy.

Threesomes can involve some serious gymnastics, if you like, or they can be pretty meat and potatoes. With a variety of breasts, hips, butts, cocks and mouths it can be difficult to decide where to start. Here are some suggestions:

The Voyeur: One person refrains entirely from sexual activity and just watches. They might make comments or masturbate, but they don’t actually touch the other two people involved. This can be a great way to integrate a third person into your play without the emotional complications of physical contact. It’s also a good way to test yourself to see if you’re committed to a triad. The voyeur can also take a leadership role, telling the other two people what to do. Don’t think that the person who is watching is missing out on the fun. It’s like directing your own porno flick, only better.

Tag Team: One person can lay, sit, or stand and the other two participants can do whatever they like. It works nicely if you divide the receiving partner in half, with one person taking the chest, head and torso, and the third person taking the legs, feet and groin. This is a great way to start a threesome, and is particularly fun when everyone takes turns being satisfied by two people at once. Lick, suck, stroke, caress, or nibble on whatever shows up in your vicinity. Two mouths on one body can produce an awful lot of pleasure; this can make for some pretty mind blowing orgasms. What could be more enjoyable than having two people fulfill your every erotic wish, at once? Just lie back and relax…if you can!

Two People on Top: A guy, or girl with a strap-on lays face up with one person straddling their hips and the other person sits astride their face. The two people on top can face each other and kiss or fondle each other. Another possibility is that they both face the same way, which can allow for penetration with toys or fingers or anal play. The person on the bottom is going down on one person, and penetrating another. The top two players are both getting off at once. One small warning: The person who is giving head and fucking the second person may not provide the best oral sex ever. They may be a little distracted. Having a vibrator on hand can fix that problem.

Doggy Style: This is a favorite of many seasoned swingers. One person, A, lays on their back and a second person, B, crouches between their legs. Person B can go down on person A, while Person C can play with person B doggy style. Again, we’ve got the combination of oral sex and penetration, or finger fucking. As a bonus, doggy style is also the best position to hit someone’s g-spot. This is a great way for two girls and a guy to all get involved at the same time. It also works well for three girls and a strap-on. It’s also a possibility for three guys at once, if the middle person is into anal penetration. For any group of three, it’s a great way for the middle person to get spanked.

Doggy Style Variations: One Person lays down, and is straddled by another person who is facing forward. The person facing forward can provide oral sex or a hand job to another person standing in front of them. While this sounds complicated and technical, it’s pretty simple to execute. Another possibility is for one person to sit on the first person’s lap and to pleasure the third person who is standing in front of them. This works best if the person standing is a guy. A technical point: it’s easier to give head to a guy who is standing than it is to effectively eat pussy from this angle.

Oral Sex Triangle: This one is pretty self-explanatory. It’s like that team building game you can play where each person lays with their head on another person’s stomach and tries not to laugh. Except for the Triangle we’re talking about you lay face down in someone’s crotch, instead of face up. It’s like a sixty-nine, only for three people, not two.


If you’re looking for more inspiration, watch some good porn, peruse the Kama Sutra, or make a visit to your local sex store. Or you could just lay in a big naked heap and see what happens. If you foresee lots of threesomes in your future, you may want to invest in a sling or swing, or if you have a very private backyard, a hammock. Having someone suspended in mid-air gives easy access for two people to genitals and chests and mouths. It takes a lot of the acrobatics out of fitting three people on a bed or couch. Above all, use your imagination. If it feels good, repeat it! If you’re lucky, the combined erotic imagination of several people will create all kinds of new experiences for you.

Before you set off on a world of adventure, there’s just one last word about communication. Don’t forget to debrief afterwards. Having sex with more than one person at once can be an emotionally powerful experience. Be sure to check in with your playmates to make sure that everyone feels secure and happy afterward. You can do it in the shower right after, over email the next day or on the telephone. Let everyone know you appreciated their openness and are committed to their happiness. If someone has just fulfilled a lifelong erotic fantasy of yours, it’s only polite to say thank you.

(c) Copryight 2006 Jen Bowers

Jen Bowers is the Editrix and publisher of SMUT Magazine - Pretty Much What It Sounds Like. SMUT (http://www.showmethesmut.com/) is a polysexual compilation of erotica, photography, articles and columns designed to enervate, titillate and activate the sex positive community. Queer, straight, bi, trans, SMUT has it all. Jen Bowers has previously worked with Planned Parenthood and as a sex educator at fine queer friendly, women-focused sex stores.

DCoke
Mar 24, 2007, 3:16 PM
This article was very informative, inspiring and a sexy read as well. I'm a total virgin so I'm probably a ways off from threesomes but I am curious. So wish me luck :tong:

icecock6
Apr 3, 2007, 11:17 AM
Whow, Thanks a million for shearing. Stuff like this is what makes this web fab. and go around the world. I have been fortunate enough to experiance some threesomes, and they never leave my memories as my best sex exp.
Some of those answers are like drawn from my wildest fantasies.

Love Ice. :flag1:

miller lite man
Apr 11, 2007, 7:45 PM
Wife and I have had a few 3 sums.First one was mfm,it wasn't good. Our next was fmf,incliding her lady friend from work. It was great! started with a few beers,and I remember thinkin. "I'd love to see her tits!".She then said she wanted a bubble bath.After a few more beers, the next thing we know, wife's helpin her get nude. After the bubble bath,wife and friend were french kissing,and suckin each other's tits,then played with each others pussies.I was involved, of course! It was TOTALLY hot, like a dream, but it was really happening.. it was great. After we got done playing,we went to bed staying nude til AM.
This weekend sounds to be very similar, but perhaps more sexual. Our bi friend is cumming down Friday PM.. staying til Monday AM. We plan to have beer,and have a lot of sexual fun.
Yep, we enjoy 3 sums, fmf. :)

mrc57107@aol.com

miller lite man
Apr 16, 2007, 1:11 PM
We had a 3 sum (FMF)last Friday nite (April 13th). . . it was great! It was her 2nd ,and the first of many with our new lady. She's 5 6,about 180... hair to the shoulders,and sexy hazel eyes. 36 C, one darn sexy lady !
We were already nude when we started playin passout. That included some passionate french kissing/and suckin each others boobs. Wife's gf pussy is shaved & pierced...which she was more than happy to let me inspect! :tongue:
Pretty soon,the game took second place to actual playing so we all went to the bedroom. Gf shaved the wife's pussy,and tried to fist her.Succeeding.
We all enjoyed some wild sex,and fisting. But, wife didn't get to eat her pussy..so that's gonna happen next time,and the next...and . .. .
We enjoy fmf, for sure. :bigrin:
mrc57107@aol.com

indenver_indenver
May 27, 2007, 8:12 AM
Wow! You lucky guy. My wife and I share the fantasy of doing just what you describe. Especially my licking her clit as our guest's big cock slides in and out of her pussy then my licking his cum from her. We have searched for years for the right guy but haven't found him yet. We do it with a dildo when we make love and she goes crazy.





As a regular male who has experienced both mmf and mff sex, I can say absolutely that mmf is more enjoyable. I don't have impulses to play with guys one on one, but if a female is involved, I go crazy for the play!

I confirmed this recently, when I met a married couple at a Toronto conference.

We had lunch together on the first conference day, then had drinks afterward. We clicked so quickly that it wasn't long before both her husband and I were rubbing our hands up and down her open thighs and pussy under the table. She wore no panties, with sheer natural nylons and white garters. She was mature, striking at 48, and he was a well groomed and relatively fit 50. And wow, could she still ever get wet! By the time we left the lounge to go back to their hotel room, she had left a rather large wet sticky spot on the seat!

Upon entering their room and pouring drinks, she immediately lay back on the bed and spread her legs wide for us to see, while she played with herself; penetrating her blonde pussy with a nicely large black dildo. We sat and watched her, sipping our drinks as our dicks got ever harder. He started stroking me through my pants, while I told him how I love the sight of her juices coating the black plastic cock. He told me he wants to suck my cock with her while i licked her pussy. The logistics of this were not foreign to me...I'd done this before and love the position.

Soon enough, I was on my back, while she was doggy style over my face, sucking my cock. Her hubby joined her between my legs, and they went to town on my cock. The both of them sucking, or her on my balls while he took my deep was incredible while i licked and got my face soaked on her pussy. Now this is a position that should be mentioned in the above article!

Or, another favorite: We are 69, her on top sucking my cock while I lick her pussy from underneath, while he comes into her from behind. My tongue on her clit while he enters her fully and deeply. I don't know what it is, but I just love the sight of a pulsing, wet and hard cock slowly sliding in and out of a soaking pussy...the sound, the scent and the taste of both is such an incredible turn-on!

One couple I had a longterm committed relationship with (meaning also: no condoms) just loved the sharing of my cum. He delighted in licking her pussy immediately after I had filled her and pulled out, or deeply french kissing her while I came straight into her mouth, my cum hitting both their tongues.

The first time I tasted his cum was when he fucked her doggy style while she and me were down on each other doggy style.

Let me remind you that this was a mature, open woman who knew what she wanted and got extremely wet when she got it. I was underneath her, licking her gorgeous pussy and drinking her juices, while she took my aching cock deep in her throat. Her husband then layed his thick cock over my face, just at the opening of her pussy...I reached him with my tongue and licked the head of his cock. I put my tongue on her clit while he very slowly slid the entire length of his cock into her. He was buried to his balls inside her, which is when i slid my tongue into her pussy next to his cock...when he pulled out, my tongue felt the length of him.

I thought this was hot and rich and tasty, but was even more thrilled when he would pull his cock completely out of her, coated and shiny with her juices, and slide into my mouth. The taste of her on him drove me wild! Sucking him for a while, I'd then take him in my hand and guide him back inside her open pussy. We'd repeat the process for a while, until we all agreed we couldn't take it any more. Literally, he'd ask his wife if she wants us to keep fucking her, or if she wanted our cum...

When she said she was ready for us to fill her, he almost immediately shot a huge load of cum into her pussy, while my tongue was inside her next to his spasming cock. He was probably almost spent but still cumming when he pulled out of her pussy with a noisy slick sound and immediately put his soaked cock in my mouth to finish. My first taste of cum! but I wasn't finished. When he had finished, her filled to overflowing pussy was directly over my face, with his cum beginning to drip down...I wanted to 'stop' it, so I put my lips around her pussy. The taste was amazing, and the thickness and quantity of both their mixed juices turned me on so much I started cumming in her mouth with great, convulsive, total-body orgasmic satisfaction like I'd never felt before!

Luckily, he quickly made his way between my legs to share my cock and cum with her. Was absolutely the greatest, watching them share my huge load of thick white cum while i finished eating his from her open pussy.

Wonder if any others have experienced similar?

biguymass
Jun 28, 2007, 3:44 PM
I have the same fantasy, amongst others.

Unfortunately my wife doesn't..... :(

kowboynmd
Sep 12, 2007, 11:17 AM
As a regular male who has experienced both mmf and mff sex, I can say absolutely that mmf is more enjoyable. I don't have impulses to play with guys one on one, but if a female is involved, I go crazy for the play!

I confirmed this recently, when I met a married couple at a Toronto conference.

We had lunch together on the first conference day, then had drinks afterward. We clicked so quickly that it wasn't long before both her husband and I were rubbing our hands up and down her open thighs and pussy under the table. She wore no panties, with sheer natural nylons and white garters. She was mature, striking at 48, and he was a well groomed and relatively fit 50. And wow, could she still ever get wet! By the time we left the lounge to go back to their hotel room, she had left a rather large wet sticky spot on the seat!

Upon entering their room and pouring drinks, she immediately lay back on the bed and spread her legs wide for us to see, while she played with herself; penetrating her blonde pussy with a nicely large black dildo. We sat and watched her, sipping our drinks as our dicks got ever harder. He started stroking me through my pants, while I told him how I love the sight of her juices coating the black plastic cock. He told me he wants to suck my cock with her while i licked her pussy. The logistics of this were not foreign to me...I'd done this before and love the position.

Soon enough, I was on my back, while she was doggy style over my face, sucking my cock. Her hubby joined her between my legs, and they went to town on my cock. The both of them sucking, or her on my balls while he took my deep was incredible while i licked and got my face soaked on her pussy. Now this is a position that should be mentioned in the above article!

Or, another favorite: We are 69, her on top sucking my cock while I lick her pussy from underneath, while he comes into her from behind. My tongue on her clit while he enters her fully and deeply. I don't know what it is, but I just love the sight of a pulsing, wet and hard cock slowly sliding in and out of a soaking pussy...the sound, the scent and the taste of both is such an incredible turn-on!

One couple I had a longterm committed relationship with (meaning also: no condoms) just loved the sharing of my cum. He delighted in licking her pussy immediately after I had filled her and pulled out, or deeply french kissing her while I came straight into her mouth, my cum hitting both their tongues.

The first time I tasted his cum was when he fucked her doggy style while she and me were down on each other doggy style.

Let me remind you that this was a mature, open woman who knew what she wanted and got extremely wet when she got it. I was underneath her, licking her gorgeous pussy and drinking her juices, while she took my aching cock deep in her throat. Her husband then layed his thick cock over my face, just at the opening of her pussy...I reached him with my tongue and licked the head of his cock. I put my tongue on her clit while he very slowly slid the entire length of his cock into her. He was buried to his balls inside her, which is when i slid my tongue into her pussy next to his cock...when he pulled out, my tongue felt the length of him.

I thought this was hot and rich and tasty, but was even more thrilled when he would pull his cock completely out of her, coated and shiny with her juices, and slide into my mouth. The taste of her on him drove me wild! Sucking him for a while, I'd then take him in my hand and guide him back inside her open pussy. We'd repeat the process for a while, until we all agreed we couldn't take it any more. Literally, he'd ask his wife if she wants us to keep fucking her, or if she wanted our cum...

When she said she was ready for us to fill her, he almost immediately shot a huge load of cum into her pussy, while my tongue was inside her next to his spasming cock. He was probably almost spent but still cumming when he pulled out of her pussy with a noisy slick sound and immediately put his soaked cock in my mouth to finish. My first taste of cum! but I wasn't finished. When he had finished, her filled to overflowing pussy was directly over my face, with his cum beginning to drip down...I wanted to 'stop' it, so I put my lips around her pussy. The taste was amazing, and the thickness and quantity of both their mixed juices turned me on so much I started cumming in her mouth with great, convulsive, total-body orgasmic satisfaction like I'd never felt before!

Luckily, he quickly made his way between my legs to share my cock and cum with her. Was absolutely the greatest, watching them share my huge load of thick white cum while i finished eating his from her open pussy.

Wonder if any others have experienced similar?

not as good as that, but did enjoy a gorgeous woman while her husband watched and ended up cumming in both their mouths

balto38
Oct 10, 2007, 12:02 AM
Something I love is her on her back, my dick in her pussy while he has his cock up my ass. Wonderful position that feels soooo good!!!!
man, that sure is a fantasy of mine

Uneedhands
Jan 1, 2008, 1:38 PM
I want to do it every way. 2 women, 2 men, one of each, 2, 3 , 4 of each, either, or both. I have done the mfm thing in the extreme, I will always love it. 2 girls was the first 3-some fantasy starting when I was a pre- teen, kissing is about as far as i got with that... My most recent 3-some fantasy is all male; never done it.

Alaskaman
Jan 2, 2008, 7:31 PM
The threesomes (mfm) I have experienced with my wife and a lover who became a close friend are some of the sexual highlights of my life. It also enabled me to move more into my bisexuality. That is, in a situation other than some brief mutal pleasurings. These meetings were longer and more loving. At first he joined us for her physical pleasure and my voyeuristic enjoyment, plus the loving feeling I received seeing her in such intense passion. Gradually accidental "brushings" between we two males became quick caresses and then more to outward stroking and sucking. But supposed goal was to prepare each other for her. When we finally released ourselves one night to our need to please one another, what had formerly pleased my wife now alarmed her and she retreated from the threesomes.

Worst yet, she doesn't want to talk about it or my bisexuality.

But those were wonderful times.

OcalaCouple683
Jan 2, 2008, 9:30 PM
Great article!!! thank you for sharing!!

cumfyin
Feb 8, 2008, 10:29 PM
Hi Jen from Australia,
I thoroughly enjoyed your 3 somes article and you make some great points.
I have fantisised for a long time about being taken from the rear by another male while I suck another male or eat a female but the opportunities for that sort of combination are pretty hard to come by in my experience,:tongue: anyway, all the best to you,
cumfyin

marteaux
Apr 21, 2008, 6:58 AM
i've experienced both FMF & MMM threesomes ... the principle problem is not the sex. the sex is all good. the problem with the FMF ( from my perspective ) was jealousy. the '3rd' was my gf's roommate -- who was a skilled lover and that made my gf ( who was equally skilled but insecure ) very jealous ... she did not mind watching another girl please me, but when her roommate came hard, something change for her. she became very territorial. my MMM threesome was drama free. since i am a top in that arrangement and the other two were a vers and a bottom ...

mikebridges
Apr 23, 2008, 1:46 PM
Wonder if any others have experienced similar?

My wife and I had a long term relationship with a younger man - a neighbor. He was thicker than I am, and gave her harder orgasms. It started out as just straight sex -- taking turns fucking her, but soon it evolved into an intense bi-affair. I loved sucking his dick, and would pleasure him on demand anytime he wanted night or day. It was fun while it lasted. Eventually, he got married, and I only got to suck him off once a month or so.

Those were the days. :)

nwOregonbi
Mar 17, 2009, 3:12 AM
As a regular male who has experienced both mmf and mff sex, I can say absolutely that mmf is more enjoyable......... Wonder if any others have experienced similar?

WOW man - I need to hang out with you ! I've had some of both myself and tend to agree about the mmf being better. The best mff I've experienced was with two younger girls that knew each other, but I was just a sex toy for a weekend and NOT in a relationship with either. It seems to me in all the conversations I've had with others - mostly hets, that males are more often ok with the idea of seeing their girl get a good fucking from another guy, than females are ok with seeing their guy do another women. But as mentioned in the above article, het guys can be "uncomfortable" with another erection in the room.

I know you said you're not inclined to play with ONLY another guy - -but I'm sure there are more than a few women out there that wouldn't mind being the primary focus of our attention. Great stories - love the juicy details !ouo

And a big Thank You to Jen for a great article on this topic !

Lonewolf76
Mar 17, 2009, 6:53 PM
Wow! You lucky guy. My wife and I share the fantasy of doing just what you describe. Especially my licking her clit as our guest's big cock slides in and out of her pussy then my licking his cum from her. We have searched for years for the right guy but haven't found him yet. We do it with a dildo when we make love and she goes crazy.

Hey! I'm in Colorado Springs - what are your "Requirements??? :bigrin: LW

swartz_2007
Aug 22, 2009, 9:16 AM
You first have to know that my ex-wife, Shirley and I were marriedfor 25 years, most of which was during my 20 year Navy Career. We both had affairs and this fucking around caused us to split up several times over the years. On one of those separations, after retiring from the
Navy, that I had my first bi-sexual experience.
So at this point in time, my wife was not aware I was Bi-sexual. Occasionally, we watched porn movies during our sex, and some ofthese were bi-sexual group movies. Shirley liked the bi movies andreally got hot watching two guys sucking each other in group sex,
but I just couldn't get her interested in doing threesomes. When I would bring it up she would simply say that if she had sex with another guy or couple, she would choose the place and time, not me. She would sometimes spice up our fucking by talking about the sex she had with other guys. Hotter than hell, I’d pump her
pussywildly as she told me about their cocks and what they did to each other, but that was as far as bringing anyone else into our sex went. Until one night when we went out drinking with a co-worker of mine. Still a foxy red-head at 45, Shirley had nice firm tits, round hips and a tight ass. She was wearing my personal
favorite of her outfits, a sheerwhite western blouse and white western style slacks. She didn’t have a bra on, so her nipples pushed against the silkyfabric of the blouse,making them very noticeable. Her tight western slacks would creepup into her crotch so that her round ass cheeks were defined and her cunt lips created a beautiful set of "camel toes". She would wear this particular outfit for me because she knew I liked to watch other men staring at her ass and cunt lips. Scotty couldn't keep his eyes off her from the minute they met. And she was showing a similar interest in him. He was good looking, single and evidently well endowed! His cock and balls created a rather huge bulge in his tight jeans, and she stared at that bulgw as he walked from his house up to our car. This apparent interest created the idea of a threesome in my mind, so I decided to see just how far it would go. During the evening, I danced with my wife very little, letting them pretty much have free run of the dance floor and each other. They maintained a normal slow dance embrace for the first few slow dances, but after a few drinks, as the alcohol began to take effect, they loosened up. He began holding hercloser and tighter until finally he simply wrapped his arms around her waist, pulling her right up against his midsection. Shirley's arms were around his back and her face was nestled in his neck, as if they were
lovers. He began to caress her body more than would be expected when dancing with a friend’s wife. When hethought they were out of my view, his hands would move down to cup and squeeze her ass as he pulled her harder against his cock. She would lean into him, allowing these caresses, and I thought I even caught sight of a few short kisses. A threesome was becoming more and more realistic. Towards closing time, after they had worked each other over all night, I purposely made a trip to the bathroom just as they got up for the band’s last slow dance of the evening. As I left, Inoticed that he was dancing her towards a large post near our table. When I got back, they were out of sight, so
I went over to the post and saw that they were standing still, in the process of a deep, open mouthed kiss. His cock was pressed hard up against her pussy and their bodies were undulating in a slow fucking motion. My cock had been hard all the while I watched them dancing, but I damn near shot off in my pants as I watched them grinding
against each other. They moved apart when they saw me. Faking a little mild irritation, I said,“Let’s get the fuck out of here.” On the way back to Scotty's we all sat in the front, with Shirley in the middle. Fairly drunk, she slouched down in the seat with her ass near the edge. Her legs were spread wide with one knee
against me and the other one resting against Scotty. This position pulled her jeans up tighter, outlining her pussy even more. The dash lit up the seat and I could see Scotty looking down at her cunt. So I moved my right hand to slowly massage and caress the inside of her thigh, until
I worked my way up to her pussy, and began rubbing a finger up and down her slit. As I glanced over at Scotty, whose eyes were riveted on her lap, he looked up and we made eye contact. So I then droppedmy eyes down to her lap and nodded as I moved my hand away. He took the hint, moved his left hand over to cover her pussy, and
slowly began fingering her cunt lips. Shirley may have been drunk, but she was well aware of the switch. She put her hands against his hand and pulled it hard against her pussy as she moaned and moved her ass in rhythm to his caresses. Then she put her hands in our laps to caress our cocks. I leaned over and whispered, "How about it,
Hon? You, me and Scotty do a threesome?" She looked up at me and gasped out, "I thought I had been making that pretty fuckin' obvious all night long." So our first threesome was in motion. As we drove home,he was fingering her pussy, I was playing with her tits and she was groping our cocks. When we arrived, we went straight for the bedroom, and Scotty and Istripped her together. As we undid the snaps on her western shirt, weeach sucked a tit for a few seconds and then slid the blouse down her arms. Next we laid her down on the bed, and she lifted her ass so wecould slide her slacks off. Scotty licked his lips as I pulled her panties down slowly
exposing the red triangle of hair covering her mound. I dropped down and covered her moist pussy with my mouth, licking the and sucking her clit, pushing my tongue into her cunt and sucking her juices out. Then I pushed her knees up around her tits, exposing her ass and flicked my tongue up and down alternating from her cunt to her ass. She moaned softly when I licked across her asshole, very gently pushing and probing without penetrating.Shirley gasped, “Damn. Get those clothes off, I want some of that cock." We took our clothes off and she smiled approvingly when his rock hard cock sprang out of his shorts. Scotty was pretty hung,having over 8 inches and real thick. As we knelt on the bed on either side of her head she turned to
him and took his cock in her hands. Licking her lips, she stroked his cock and cupped his huge balls for a minute, looked up at me and winked as she took him into her mouth.
I was stroking my own cock and nearly shot off as I watched another man’s cock slowly disappear into my wife’s mouth. Her lips were pursed tightly around his cock as she sucked on the head. Then he moved around, positioning his body along hers into a 69 and covered her pussy with his mouth. Watching my wife and another
man eat each other was everything that I thought it would be. The dry-fucking on the dance floor and the action in the car must have had them well prepared because it didn’t take either one of them long to cum. She orgasmed first, holding him by the back of the head, hunching her pussy against his face, moaning over and over, "Yes,Yes, eat
me. Suck that pussy." Words she only used when she was inthe heat of cumming. Right after that his ass cheeks tightened and he gasped as he began to cum. She held him in her mouth, stroking his cock and swallowing as he shot spasms of his load in her throat. They rolled apart, and lay back, both of them panting and moaning. I had been
kneeling next to them, stroking my own hard cock as Iwatched the action. Shirley told me to sit back, so I turned around lengthwise on the bed with my legs spread and my back against thebackboard. Laying on her stomach between my legs, she took my cock in her hand, saying, "Now You." She licked the pre-cum off and thenlowered her head to let my cock slide over her lips and deep into her throat. As her mouth, tongue and lips serviced me, she reached under and slid a finger in my ass. Scotty’s dick as still hardso he moved around, lifted her ass and plunged his huge cock into her pussy doggy style. He was fucking her furiously, slamming into her cunt so hard that she could barely keep my dick in her mouth. When he pulled back, I could see his hard
cock glistening with their juices. She humped backwards against him while I was buried deep in her throat. Having my wife suck my dick while she was in the throes of passion from another man’s cock wildly pumping her wet pussywas all I could handle. My body stiffened as I gasped, "Now, Now."and began to shoot my load into her mouth. She stopped fucking him long enough to take my load. She fingered my ass and swalled my cumas I exploded, sucking and squeezing, trying to drain my balls. Then she rolled over on to her back to fuck Scotty. Pulling him back on top of her, she planted her feet against the mattress to give her more leverage. She bucked against him as they fucked forseveral more minutes until they both tightened their bodies inspasms of cumming. We rested for a few minutes, then Scotty decided he wanted more, so he slid down and they began to 69 again. This was hot action because since they had just recently fucked, as he was eating her out, he was sucking his own cum juice out of her pussy, and as she licked and
sucked his still wet cock, she was tasting her own pussy juice. I was lying by her head, stroking my hard cock while I watched her sucking on his cock and balls. All at once she took his cock out of her mouthand pointed it at me, just inches from my face, saying, "Here, you take him in your mouth and suck his cock. I want to see you
suck cock like those guys in those movies do." I looked at her questioninglyand she said, “You know your dick always gets hard when we watchmen sucking cock. So I’ve wondered what it would be like to watchyou sucking one.” Since she didn’t know about my bi side, I had to play it cool. Ihad wanted his cock in my mouth all the while I was watching her suckhim off, but had to resist temptation because I not only didn’tknow how Shirley would feel about it but also I didn’t know ifScotty was bisexual or not. He had stopped eating her out and was looking up as she was talking. We both looked down at him and he nodded saying, “Go ahead. Suck it.” I "hesitatingly"
loweredmy head, letting his cock slide across my lips and tongue into mymouth. As I began blowing him, I looked into her face and saw pure passion. I knew Shirley liked those bi-movies, but I didn't realize it would make her so hot to watch me suck cock. She held his cock at the base, and slowly stroked it as I began bobbing my head up and down, letting his thick cock slide back and forth in my mouth. I held the head barely in my mouth as I licked the underside, causing him to moan in pleasure. He went back to eating her out and she let go of his cock to hold him by the back of the head while she got off again while watching me suck and lick him. Then
she pulled her pussy away from his face, scooted up and sat with her back against the headboard. She could barely talk, but she rasped
out, “Oh, wow, this is so fucking hot. Scotty, will yousuck him, too? Will you guys 69 each other for me? I’m so fuckinghot. I gotta see you guys suck each other off.” Without anyhesitation he rolled over and took my cock into his mouth. We held each other by the ass sucking and stroking each other, while she fingered her cunt, saying
over and over, “Oh, yeah, suck thatcock, Honey. Suck it.” I came first, sending a load deep intoScotty’s throat and then he tightened up and exploded in mymouth. We all went into the kitchen, naked, to take a break and have a
beer.Scotty was leaned back in his chair with his legs outstretched. As wetalked about the great sex we had just had, he stroked his dick back into semi-hard state. Shirley got down on the floor in front of himand started sucking him again. We both watched for a bit and thenhe said, “Get up here and sit on this, I want some more of
thattight pussy.” She got up, turned her back to him, straddled hislegs and sat back, letting his cock slip into her juicy cunt. With her hands on his knees, she leaned forward and began lifting her ass, fucking his cock up and down, but he reached around and cupped her tits and pulled her back up against his chest. He told her
to“just kinda move your ass around in circles.” I knelt down infront of them to watch his cock and balls as her pussy moved around them. Her juices, mixed with his cum were literally running down his cock.I leaned in close to suck his balls and lick his cock. I ran my tongue around him and then up across her cunt, sucking and licking her clit while his cock was buried deep in her cunt. With his cock pumping in her pussy and my lips sucking her clit, she began to cum just as he shot off another load into her pussy. As he pulled his cock out of her, I let it slide into my mouth, licking and sucking the cum off. Shirley put her feet against the floor,
lifted her ass in the air and said, “You can clean me out, too. Suck my pussyhole, suck it dry.” So I spread her lips, and covered her pussycompletely with my mouth. I buried my tongue deep in her hole sucking and licking her pussy, draining the cum and juices still there. Our house was an hour’s drive away and on the way home we
talked about our threesome with Scotty, compared it to the sex we had withother lovers and how this was probably the hottest night of fucking we had ever had. Shirley even sucked on my cock as I drove.
Wefucked and sucked for about another hour after we got home until wefinally were exhausted and fell asleep. We got together with Scotty for several more nights of fun and now that she knew I was bi, she would let me bring guys home, watch us suck each other off and then join the action. We eventually got divorced, but continued to
fuck each other for quite some time, even after we both had remarried.

Boats
Aug 22, 2009, 10:22 AM
:)This was one hell of a story, I really enjoyed it because it is almost a mirror image of us, I am also a Ret. Navy Man that has went through the same ritual as you, only I didn't get to suck the dick that was buried in my wifes cunt and have always fantasized doing so. Maybe the next time if there is a next time.:)

mr swallow
Dec 17, 2010, 6:10 PM
This is an outstanding article, and includes some positions I have not tried.
I would add dp and dvp to the list. Best position for both is for 1st M to lie on his back, legs over edge of bed, F mounts him and then lays on him, 2nd M then enters doggie style. If dp, take time first to work her opening wider and use lots of lube. If dvp, lube may be necessary. The top cock needs to be very stiff in both situations. In dvp the m's have to coordinate sliding in and out together. After 2 or 3 get togethers the m's can become quite skilled at this.

Thats all well & good I perfer to have my head hanging off of the bed have husband hanging into my warm mouth so its easier to deepthroat him she can be blowing me Or licking my nuts the other men can be either entering her or I will roll onto my stomach and still deepthroat a cock or few and be able to take it up the ass. yummo

pheonix6
Feb 3, 2012, 9:07 PM
Great article....just like all the others I am reading....I fantasize about a threesome and think that it could be more comfy than a one on one......I like the idea of a triangle face first....yep...Peace....Pheonix6....:tongue:

dave_nz
Feb 26, 2012, 9:36 PM
heck, i am a bi male and cant find a couple with a bi male. love to suck a guy in front of his wife/ GF

hornyd0055
Mar 7, 2012, 1:32 PM
welcome to the club

Paddarick69
Jul 25, 2012, 12:55 AM
such a brilliant article

indenver_indenver
Aug 19, 2012, 4:52 PM
I just now discovered your post. Hope you're still around. My wife and I are still in fantasy stage. I've been ready for years. My ideal guy would be an active bi with me and have at least 7" for me to deep throat. He'd have to be clean, clean non-smoker, physically fit. I have an ad for Colorado bi sex on this site if you want to contact me.

bicuriousnow
Apr 12, 2013, 11:56 AM
I think I would like to watch a guy fucking a girl doggie style and the have him 69 me for the final blast of cum. sorta like being a stand in pussy

stonebow
Apr 13, 2013, 10:42 AM
Excellent article. My lady and I have had several threesomes (and more) and hope to have many yet. Presently exchanging texts and emails with an old lover of hers whom we encountered by chance at an event a few months ago. He called out of the blue a couple weeks ago and asked point blank if we'd be interested in playing. Well he's a hot, bi guy so it was pretty much a no-brainer.....I LOVE having a cock to play with as well as a pussy....and I love to see her enjoy a nice hard cock. The articles suggestion of a swing is something I'd never given much thought to but I'm starting to see some potential there....

oralmeister
Dec 21, 2013, 9:49 AM
Yes, my only bi experience so far, which I loved, was with a guy/girl couple that I had known for several years before we ended up in bed together. One of our favorite positions was me on bottom with her straddling my face as I gave her oral (I love to give full body oral to my partners) and he would fuck her doggy style. It really was a turn on to see his cock sliding in and out of her pussy. She mostly directed what we did and she generally wanted most of the cum for herself so for the most part he and I never really shot our loads into each others mouths but did that same thing of taking the cock as it was shooting into her pussy and finishing him off. She did have us suck each other and swallow a couple of times. She would always have us do 69 on each other to start off the session and while we'd be sucking each other she'd hold our balls and stroke our assholes. Man that really was a turn on. Also I've always enjoyed giving the ladies a full asshole licking as I know it really turns them on. On one occasion while he was in her and I was trying to get his balls in my mouth my tongue slipped over his asshole a bit. Wasn't planned but I didn't mind it much as we three would always take a long shower together before any sex. When this happened he got even harder and she felt it. We then planned a later session where when he knew he was about to cum I started to lick his asshole and he really shot a load into her. Great stuff for three people who really like each other and want to give each other pleasure. I've always loved the taste of pussy juice and could lick a clean pussy and a clean asshole for many hours. I enjoy it and the ladies love it. As for tasting and swallowing cum, it was ok though the cum isn't as tasty as pussy juice but the big issue was that my partners loved me doing that for them so that's whats really the important issue for me. I have yet to have another guy partner but when it happens, if he really wants me to swallow for him or lick his asshole then that's what he gets. The reality is, what guy doesn't enjoy knowing his partner, guy or girl, is going to swallow his cum. The turn on for me really is that when a lady of mine doesn't really like the cum taste but swallows FOR ME then that's whats really the turn on. Of the women that I've been in bed with I've done anal with most of them and I can't say as many really enjoyed it but it was a turn on to know that they did it for me. I'm looking on this site for a guy that is attracted to me and me to him and when I find the one, or a couple, half the pleasure be in the giving. Of course it goes without saying that a nice long shower should always preceed great sex. Mutual pleasure means just that. When I get it I'm going to give it too. I've never had the oportunity but would love to try a three way with two other guys.