That special moment....

[IndyBiFun]

When did you have that light bulb moment or realization that you were turned on by the same sex?

Mine was at Ball State University. I remember it clearly. I was walking across a very busy cross walk intersection and I felt someone grab my ass. When I turned around I saw a guy smiling at me. At THAT moment I thought, "that was cool. I liked that a guy grabbed me ass."

Althought it took me a while to act on that and actually pursue that moment I remember it clearly.

My bisexuality was in me but it took something to spark it and I am soooo glad it did.

What about you?

[DiamondDog]

I was very young, and not even close to puberty.

Nothing illegal/forced, or non-consensual happened.

[MyTimeNow]

I can't say I had a "moment", though my curiosities have been like a heart monitor line over the years (sometimes way up, sometimes a little down). The first time I thought about it though, was when I was young and this kid wanted to play doctor (after playing football, so the contrast still amazes me) - and by playing doctor, wanted me to touch his cock. I chickened out unfortunately, but since then, the curiosity started and stayed through the years.

[Realist]

Really never had "that special moment".

As long as I can remember I felt physically attracted to both genders.

[Yoyome100]

Good you had that epiphany, IndyBiFun:bigrin:

[Diablo598]

I really cannot put my finger on it but I the first time I remember being attracted to another guy was when I was out with a good friend of mine and he wanted to give me a blowjob. I blew it off and since then thought about that offer and even masturbated thinking about him sucking my cock. A few months after this happened I went to a adult book store and watched a movie with another guy and sucked his cock and he sucked mine. I know I have always enjoyed bisexual movies and movies where Shemales take men in the ass. It was not until a couple of years ago that I admitted to myself I felt an attraction to men. Although I have sucked cock I have never gone all the way with another man. I have had a couple of chances but have never felt comfortable at the time so I have not gone all the way yet.

[Waylon]

My first attraction as an adult male was when a man stopped by to say hi when I was sitting on a picnic bench at a nearby lake. It was a hot afternoon, I was enjoying a beverage and he had an open shirt displaying a nice chest with fairly developed pecs. His hair was long and shaggy and we started talking. Wifey was away that weekend and I had been to the video store and when talk turned to are you alone etc, I asked if he wanted to come back to my place and watch some vids. He was eager and I could tell this was not going to be just sitting on the couch with a bud and jerking off to porn. Soon after we got back to my place, we stripped to the waist and he knelt in front of me to open my jeans. After he blew me for a while, I asked him to stand so I could take him in my mouth and he was happy to oblige. Then he went back down and finished me off, appreciative of my cumming in his mouth as he swallowed hungrily. That was when I knew I was going to enjoy many more men giving and getting oral for many, many times.

[Gearbox]

I was 'at it' as a kid with same age m&f. It was just the natural way to be. But at 12 it was put on hold due to a different verssion of 'natural' about.

[darkeyes]

There was never a moment... throughout my childhood I always did gravitate towards me own gender like most.. in part cos that's the way things were.. but always did have boy friends as opposed to bf's (but had a few of them too early on) but as I grew into adolescence took more interest in boys and their bits and sex, but at same time grew interested in girls and their bits..and sex... I never gravitated away from girls at all... my view of them changed... rudely..as it did with boys... it was just evolution of how I was... think I always knew what I was but didn't know what to call it.. as I grew into womanhood my attitudes and needs for both genders continued to evolve..and so I am where I am today.. and I expect one way or t'other it always shall..as seems to happening now and with which I am less than comfy.. no, it is not to do with my sexuality.. not the way u may think at least.. but I'll deal with it as must we all as we grow and change..

[innaminka]

Like darkeyes, I evolved over a number of years.
I was always aware there was something missing? during my 20's (when I was an extremely rampant hetero) but there was no obvious answer.
I was not at that stage attracted overtly by females physically (that came later.......:love1: )
If I had a "Damascus" moment, it was during my first real f/f encounter - which was completely unplanned - it just happened!!
The kiss, the touch of her breast and running my hands down her back and bottom, even though she was clothed.
It was just SO RIGHT! It wasn't the sex - we really didn't have it. But just that first initial kiss and touch.
Yeah. That, on reflection as i write was the "light bulb" moment.

[darkeyes]

Can I say Inna it wasnt a light bulb moment exactly.. me first experiences of sex with both genders came relatively quickly within a short space of time. I was 14, and the first..a boy..my bf.. wasnt great. His first effort was pathetic actually and I was so turned on.. I was less than chuffed... All I got for me trouble was soggy knickers and legs.. we did it properly not long after but it didn't set the heather on fire either.. hurt like hell and the pain handn't subsided and it was over... but for the short time he was in me there was something that told me that this might not be bad with a little practice.. and it was in time.. not with him tho.. he got bums rush for being duff... shallow..I know.. but I was only a kid for Gods sake..

.. not long after.. just a few weeks later I did it with a girl for the first time... I had dreamed of it and had wanted it for ages and when it came... it was enough to say to me.. "mmmm I do bloody well like this". I found in time the same with boys but never had quite the same cept with 1 and I married him... tho me taste for me own gender made sure that would never last adore him as I did and do....

[ErosUrge]

Really never had "that special moment".

As long as I can remember I felt physically attracted to both genders.

Exactly the same for me with the exception being that my attractions for males was purely physical whereas with women it was everything....

[NakedInSeattle]

With the first cock in my mouth!