MrLix
Sep 8, 2012, 10:34 AM
I have been a member of this site since 2008 and this is my first posting. So hello everyone!
I am very lucky to have the following dilemma. I recently told my relatively new girlfriend that I was bi. I was a bit worried doing so because in my neck of the woods (a small town outside of Seattle) I think people are more biphobic than they are homophobic, which is a lot! However she took it well. I am very grateful to have such an understanding and open minded girl friend.
Later on we were having a discussion of what it means to me to be bi, and that led to talking about my bi fantasies. One of which is to have a MMF threesome, with me and her 69ing one another, me on the bottom, and the third doggying her from behind. That was I can lick her and suck him.
To my surprise she actually got turned on by this. So we decided to take it one step further and put an ad on CL. Needless to say we were slammed with replies, most of them younger horny bis who wanted quick sex. She is concerned about disease, and wants some chemistry, so I have been meeting men who replied to the ad for coffee, then introducing them to her if that goes well. We are also asking for recent STD test results. We also don’t want to be part of cheating, so are not interested in men doing it behind their wives’/GFs’ backs.
Problem is its been over a month and no sex! I have talked to several men so far, and met a couple of them. She was not attracted to the first but was attracted to the second. Problem is their kids knew each other (go figure!) and that gave the guy the willies.
Have any of you gone through a similar process like this? Can you help me out?
I am very lucky to have the following dilemma. I recently told my relatively new girlfriend that I was bi. I was a bit worried doing so because in my neck of the woods (a small town outside of Seattle) I think people are more biphobic than they are homophobic, which is a lot! However she took it well. I am very grateful to have such an understanding and open minded girl friend.
Later on we were having a discussion of what it means to me to be bi, and that led to talking about my bi fantasies. One of which is to have a MMF threesome, with me and her 69ing one another, me on the bottom, and the third doggying her from behind. That was I can lick her and suck him.
To my surprise she actually got turned on by this. So we decided to take it one step further and put an ad on CL. Needless to say we were slammed with replies, most of them younger horny bis who wanted quick sex. She is concerned about disease, and wants some chemistry, so I have been meeting men who replied to the ad for coffee, then introducing them to her if that goes well. We are also asking for recent STD test results. We also don’t want to be part of cheating, so are not interested in men doing it behind their wives’/GFs’ backs.
Problem is its been over a month and no sex! I have talked to several men so far, and met a couple of them. She was not attracted to the first but was attracted to the second. Problem is their kids knew each other (go figure!) and that gave the guy the willies.
Have any of you gone through a similar process like this? Can you help me out?